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He was using escorts during the first part of our relationship

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Question - (25 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I've been dating a guy for just over a year. I know I should'nt have done it but he left his laptop on and I had a look. It transpires that he was sleeping with escorts in the first few months of our relationships and even up to six months into it he was emailing woman on facebook and a dating website.

Yes I am hurt and angry but I just dont understand why he would need to use them when he was getting sex 3 or 4 times a week with me? I have confronted him but he claims he was just looking out of interest and wanted to know what they charged out of curiosity.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011):

Hi, this speaks volumes of him. It also means that he put you at risk bec he was having sex with you and with these sex workers. And to top it off he lied about it! This has set the scene for things to come. Now that you know what he is up to, what are u going to do. Are u certain he has stopped having sex with these other women.

LoveGirl

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A male reader, eddie85 United States +, writes (26 March 2011):

eddie85 agony auntI think you need to seriously take stock of your boyfriend's character at this juncture. If he was putting your health at risk by sleeping with escorts -- while being with you, then I'd certainly think that you need to reconsider whether this guy is the one you want to be in your life.

Either way, I think you need to have a one on one with your boyfriend and see what his thought process was and why he would jeopardize your health and emotional status by seeing someone on the side. I think his reaction will tell you a lot about him.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011):

Oh no :(... sorry to hear this. Hopefully, he was just curious and only that but at the beginning of a relationship if thats what he did, he may just be looking for sex and thats it. How has he changed? Has he shown committment? If not, Id end things so he can can do whatever and you wont get caught in the middle in such an innocent manner. Take care.

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A male reader, sebaslookingforward Argentina +, writes (26 March 2011):

He just wanted sex with more than just you, You are not special to him. I am sorry, but move on, break up, look forwared, there are better loving guys

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