Any other birth control methods aside from condoms?
Q. I've been seeing my fella for a wee while now and I'm considering different types of birth control to go on. Just now we always use condoms, but he really doesn't like them and I think they do interupt our sex life but alway have to use them as I'm ...
A. 1 May 2007: With all-do-respect to the poster of the previous answer... do not do what she suggested. Coitus Interuptus, or "pulling out," has no contraceptive benefit. A man has pre-ejaculate that contains sperm. These sperm can find their way into your ... (read in full...)
Why isn't my bf getting an erection when we roll around on the bed?
Q. hi im confused. me an my 16 year old bf were rolling around on the bed kissing lol. and shouldnt he get an erection when we do this? i dont think he does, i can feel a very tiny lump but it must just be his willy not erected. his willy cant be th...
A. 30 April 2007: There is something that you should know about erections. This is probably too much information, but its the only way I know how to explain it... He actually may in fact be quite endowed down south... I am on the large side, and when i get an ... (read in full...)
Can asexuals have successful romantic relationships with sexuals?
Q. Can asexuals have successful romantic relationships with sexuals? Hi, I’m a 25 year old guy, still a virgin, and asexual. I was just wondering can asexuals have successful romantic relationships with sexuals? If they can, can you give some exampl...
A. 29 April 2007: I dont think I understand. Maybe its an England thing... but asexual to me means you can reproduce by yourself...... (read in full...)
Is it true that if you are on the pill for a long time...you won't have kids, once you stop taking them?
Q. Is it true that if you are on birth contol pills for many years you cant have kids once you stop taking them? I have been on the pill on and off for about 2 years. If I go a lot longer will I still be able to have kids when I want to? ...
A. 28 April 2007: I am a biology major at the University of Nebraska. I understand how birth control works... allow me to explain.
The birth control pill is simply synthetic, or man-made, hormones. To be exact: Progesterone and Estrogen. This inhibits, or block... (read in full...)
I am a strong christian and I really want to wait till I'm married to have sex.
Q. hey I am a strong christian and I really want to wait till I'm married to have sex. has anybody else done this? alot of people think that i am wasting my teenage life by living to this rule. im not have doubts about it, i really want to but id like ...
A. 27 April 2007: I planned on doing the same thing. Its really hard to find a virgin... just to forewarn you.... (read in full...)
How do I get my wife 'off' by going down on her? Any tips?
Q. i would like for some help on how to get my wife off by going down on her i cant get her off that way...
A. 26 April 2007: Okay... I'm young... but trust me...
Make it sensual as you go down there. Run your lip along her panty line. Then, ever so gently, give her a little playful bite right on the spot where her pelvic bone shows through her skin at the front. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to still have feelings for your ex?
Q. i have recently got with a boy and i dont know if i'm over my ex.. i scared i'm on the rebound and will just hurt my boyfriend if i stay with him is it normal to still have feelings for your ex? ...
A. 26 April 2007: Usually, its a good idea to stay out of a relationship for a while after you break up. I would say yes, it is possible to still have feelings. Just try not to hurt the innocent. :) good luck... (read in full...)
When do u have to have smear tests?
Q. When do u have to have smear tests? Is it after the first time you have sex, because i really don't want one i just wondered?...
A. 25 April 2007: They are important even if you arent sexually active. Its a test to make sure you don't get cervical cancer. I'm not a girl, so I cant relate... but I here its awkward, and you just have to get through it.... (read in full...)
I'm very shy and have problems talking to girls! Any advice?
Q. I'm very shy. i have dificulty talking to girls i have dificulty meeting new people i have dificulty starting a conversation i'm afraid everybody will think i'm weired. to get a better idea of me, look at my other posts. thnx....
A. 25 April 2007: Hey buddy, don't worry. You're still young, and you're going through a common stage :) Its not bad to be shy... some girls really like it... but if you want that to change, just go for it. Try talkin to new people, once you do it a few times... ... (read in full...)
Lymph nodes in my neck are swollen! Thought it was mono but was wondering...could this be an std or anything ?
Q. my lymph nodes in my neck are swollen i'm having bad headaches and feeling like i'm going to throw up and really tierd the doctors thought it was mono but that came back negative i'm scared b.c i have to go back to the doctor in two hours so t...
A. 24 April 2007: Thought I would reply just to tell you not to feel dumb lol. Mine are also swollen at times :).... (read in full...)
I'm 13..is it okay to perform oral on my bf?
Q. Ok Im 13 Years Old.and My Boyfriend Has Had Oral Sex Before Twice.he Asked If I Would Perform It On Him,and I Said I Dont Know.i Wanted 2 Know Is It Okay For Me To Perform Oral Sex On My Boyfriend?...
A. 23 April 2007: The first thing that comes to my mind is that he has done that before. This means he has a chance of being infected with an STI. Make him get tested.
It is not a good idea to become sexually active at your age. It will be hard to find a decent... (read in full...)
I'm a pregnant 17 year old and my BF wants to keep the baby, but I'm just not sure!
Q. I'm 17 years old and found out i am pregnant 4 days ago, i have been with my partner for 5 months and are very happy, he wants me to keep the baby but i am not to sure, my family is telling me to get rid of it. How will i realise what I actually...
A. 20 April 2007: Did you ever realize that it is also HIS baby? You made the choice to have sex. Pregnancy is the result. It is not right to face the consequences. Plus, you are talking about a human here. Killing a baby simply because you do not want it is... ... (read in full...)
I love her and I crave her but my penis won't co-operate! Help!
Q. Problem starts out a few nights ago, when my girlfriend and I are about to make love again. We made love the night before, and earlier that day. We've had a pretty strong love life before this, and I think it's odd that it just came out of nowhere, ...
A. 19 April 2007: Think about how bad you want her all day. Imagine how great it feels all day too. Then you should be nice and hard.... (read in full...)
I like short skirts and low tops on other girls..but I don't like my gf, dressing this way! Why am I this way?
Q. I know this is going to sound wierd but i have got my first girlfriend, i dnt like her wearing low tops or short skirts or nothing like that bt that doesnt make sense to me cuz i like seeing girls wearing those kind of things as in cuz they look ...
A. 18 April 2007: You are territorial. Its normal. She doesnt need to advertise now that she is taken.... (read in full...)
She regrets cheating after denying it, and says it mean nothing, is that just a cop out, and what should I do !?
Q. I just found out tonight that my girlfriend cheated on me a month ago. I'm 21 and we've been going out for almost 2 years. We were living together for 9 months until February when she moved abroad to do her dream job. We were still really close and ...
A. 18 April 2007: You are better off. Let her go cheat on someone else. You dont need that.
God Bless, and there is someone out there that will actually love you... love doesnt cheat... (read in full...)
My boyfriends is touching me more than I want him to, What should I do ?
Q. Hi!Well I have a really bad problem.well my boyfriend is really sweet and everything and I do luv him but the other day we were snogging like we always do and he tried 2 go a little further and I didn't want 2 go further he tried undressing me and ...
A. 18 April 2007: Tell him it bothers you. your decision to not allow sexual contact at your age is such a precious decision. Keep it up :)... (read in full...)
Am I fat? I have bigger measurements than my friends and its bothers me!
Q. Am I fat? I'm 5'7''. 14 years old and.. Bust-33 Waist-27 1/2 Hips- 39 Thigh- 31 My friends, who look worse than me, have much smaller measurements, and it's getting me down. Please let me know, and be honest! x...
A. 18 April 2007: No. you are not fat. dont even ever let someone tell you that you are. Everyone is unique and beautiful, just as the good Lord intended. Know that you are incredible, and that there is someone out there for you, regardless of your shape and size ... (read in full...)
Guys, do lads feel the heartbreak we do and what is the perfect girl?
Q. This is to all lads, men any age of male. What is the perfect girl? What really matters? Do lads feel the heartbreak we do? How can you tell a lad likes you? Thankyou...
A. 17 April 2007: Perfect is an abstract term. It changes from person to person. Just be yourself, dont EVER change for someone. You are perfect the way that you are.
What really matters is that you dont try to change the way you are to suit someone.
Next, y... (read in full...)
How do I make this sharp pain go away when having sex whilst on top ?
Q. When me and my boyfriend are having sex he encourages me to do cowgirl, or girl on top, I try performing this but around my hip I have a sharp pain that makes me want stop. He feels bad and blames himself for pushing me, but I know that it's me. ...
A. 16 April 2007: That my friend is your cervix. Dont go down so far, encourage him not to thrust so hard.... (read in full...)
Guys, do you find it really unattractive when girls have a gap between the front teeth?
Q. Hi, I'm a teenager with a gap between my teeth. I was wondering if guys find it really unattractive when girls have a gap between the front teeth. Does it make even pretty girls look ugly in a guy's opinion??...
A. 16 April 2007: Everybody is attracted to different features. Dont worry.... (read in full...)
Im 14, but around the time of the month I get very broody!! Why is this ?
Q. Hi there, I am 14 years old, and my boyfriend of over a year now is 17. (we havnt had sex.) I love my boy alot and i have alot of trust for him i truely believe hes my soul mate. The question thats on my mind, its kind of been bothering me...Som...
A. 16 April 2007: Hi, being a biology major, I understand what you are going through on a molecular and instinctual basis.
You are going through what is similar to an estruous cycle. Although estruous refers to nonhuman mammals, you are experiencing the same thi... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be wanted and desired ? Married 14 yrs tomorrow and I want him to be crazy over me!!
Q. Hi all, I really need your help.Is it wrong to have the need to be wanted by someone ? I like attention, but from only someone who loves me. I feel the need to be wanted and desired all the time. Is there sometehing wrong with me ??? I am marr...
A. 16 April 2007: It sounds like to me that you guys have fallen into routine. Do something to bust out of the routine... completely surprise your hubby... show him how great it feels to be thought of and desired..... he'll come around :)... (read in full...)
My bf found old sex pics of my ex on my hard drive! Now he doesn't trust me..any advice?
Q. my boyfriend (of 9 months)recently found old sex videos and pictures on my hard drive my ex-boyfriend and I took back in 2004. I meant to delete them, but never did. Now he says he can't trust me and I think he wants to break up with me. Am I ...
A. 16 April 2007: Tell me this. How would you feel if the person you love had pictures and videos of him and some other girl and him having sex?
If I found something like this, I would end it immediatly.... (read in full...)
I need step by step advice on how to make out with someone. What do you do?
Q. ok ive never made out with someone before and i really like this guy but he has experience. i dont want to tell him ive never made out before so i need step by step advice on how to make out with someone. what do you do? how? when?...
A. 15 April 2007: Just do what feels natural to you. He wont know the difference, and if he is able to tell that you are inexperienced, then he will probably be really happy about it.... (read in full...)
Shes got way more experience than me and its making me obsess about her with other guys!
Q. Hey I just got my first girlfriend im inexperienced compared to her she is a virgin tho, but i keep thinking of her with the other guys why is that? Other girls that i speak to there past doesnt bother me even if they've done worse then mine? is it ...
A. 13 April 2007: Hey man... its natural.
So she kissed someone before you did... think of how much more intimate you are with her than the others. Actually, the others shouldnt matter. Tell me this, if you could have done stuff with girls would you have? M... (read in full...)
Im 12, but I think im gay, I like girls but not to date, am I normal ?
Q. I'm 12 and my problem is that I think I'm gay but i also like girls... When all the other boys at my school talk about girls, I'm not interested. I am also attracted to other boys. Is what I'm feeling normal? Is there any way I can change? I know ...
A. 13 April 2007: I would say its normal to notice if other men are attractive. Not being interested in a girl at your age seems a little abnormal, but dont worry.
As for the homosexual part... I wouldnt worry. I have a firm belief that people are not born gay... (read in full...)
She regrets cheating after denying it, and says it mean nothing, is that just a cop out, and what should I do !?
Q. I just found out tonight that my girlfriend cheated on me a month ago. I'm 21 and we've been going out for almost 2 years. We were living together for 9 months until February when she moved abroad to do her dream job. We were still really close and ...
A. 13 April 2007: You are a kind man. I envy you because of it... however in this case you are being weak. Take it from me, buddy. You deserve better. I've been there, been cheated on... it was hard, but I knew I had to move on... and now I am with someone who ... (read in full...)
Am I being sensitive over this remark he made to me, I feel as though hes referring to my class?
Q. i was in the car with my b/f and truck was by us delivering this beer and i did not know the name..i said it to him that i never heard of it. He looked at me and laughed at little--it didnt look like in a mean way or anything..almost like i was ...
A. 13 April 2007: I can almost promise you he wasnt commenting on your class. Males just expect everyone to know different types of beer thats all. He was just explaining why you might not have ever heard about it... usually people dont drink the expensive shit lol ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend i'm still friends with my ex?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and things are going well. I also am still friends with my ex and hear from him probably once a fortnight or so and we occasionally meet up to go to a gig. My question is that my boyfriend ...
A. 12 April 2007: Honestly, he probably wouldnt mind, unless you had sexual relations with this ex. Thats a whole different story.... (read in full...)
She had a light period when she had unprotected sex! Could she still get pregnant?
Q. Ok, so someone i know just had sex with this guy, and they didnt use protection, BUT she had been on her period for 3 days, and it was light, is there a chance she could be pregnant?...
A. 12 April 2007: If she had a period. She isnt pregnant... (read in full...)
I am a small B-cup so what I want to know is do some guys prefer small breasts?
Q. Dear cupid, sorry i know this is a boring question. now i dont compare myself to my friends or anyone else for that matter as i would rather be just me. It seems though, that when we're out almost all the guys go for them as almost all of them are ...
A. 12 April 2007: I wont lie, breasts do matter. However, if you are a b-cup, dont worry... as long as they are present... guys arent gonna care.... (read in full...)
Do you think we should have sex now or not?
Q. well heres my question: i am 14 and am madly in love with my bf of 7 months we have recently been talkin bout having sex for the first time. we are both virgins but he is 16. do you think we should have sex. we have talked about it for a few week...
A. 12 April 2007: No. This is hard for you to hear... but... your relationship will not last.
Any respectful man in the future will not want to date a girl that had sex at 14.
Wait for someone you will marry.... (read in full...)
Can boys get turned on without getting an erection?
Q. heya :) me and my bf are both 16. and we are eachothers first bf/gf. the other day he came round my house and we were snogging and then we got on the bed and were snogging and i was on top of him. my mates say that usually teenage boys get er...
A. 12 April 2007: I think he was probably just respecting you... and not thinking about having sex with you at the time... (read in full...)
My bf said he hated 'head'...what does he mean exactly?
Q. i asked my boyfriend what are his turn offs and he said that he 'hated head'. Ive got an idea what this means but im not totally sure. Can you tell me what he means?...
A. 12 April 2007: I cant imagine a guy saying that he doesnt like head. Head is a blowjob... aka you sucking and licking his penis. But maybe he doesnt like it for psychological reasons.... (read in full...)
Bf wants to do some strange things. Not sure I approve. Any advice?
Q. I have a very physical relationship with my boyfriend which I love. He is highly sexed and masturbates usually a couple of times a day as well. I don't mind this, as sometimes I do it for him. Recently, however, he's asked me if he can ejaculate all ...
A. 12 April 2007: Just be honest with him. If you dont like it, tell him. I'm sure he would appreciate your honesty.... (read in full...)
I'm scared he was grossed out when he fingered me.
Q. Hi I got fingered for the first time by my BF a few days ago and it was really unexpected, just out of the blue and stuff so I didn't have a chance for a proper shave and now I'm really worried that he was grossed out because I hadn't shaved i cant ...
A. 12 April 2007: Dont worry about him being grossed out. Hair isnt gross unless its ridiculous, like 3 inch long hair that covers everything.... (read in full...)
Does sex harm your baby ? And do men get stretchmarks ?
Q. i have actually got 2 questions:: does it damage ababy if you have sex while you are pregnant?? because i am pregnant but my bf wants us t still have sex and.. do men get strechmarks?? might seem silly i jus wondering ...
A. 11 April 2007: I'm not sure about the first question.
Yes, men do get stretch marks. I myself got them on my upper chest and groin area from lifting weights my senior year of high school for football. Anytime your skin is stretched too far you get a stretch ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to catch any kind of STI/STD by giving a man a blowjob?
Q. Is it possible to catch any kind of STI/STD by giving a man a blowjob?...
A. 10 April 2007: Yes. Just as easy as intercourse. Both your vaginal wall and the lining of your mouth are incredibly absorbant. They do have un-lubricated condoms.... (read in full...)
bf is very controlling in our relationship. Am I wasting my time?
Q. I'm with my boyfriend a year and it's been a little rough. We're a lot better now. I'm 19, and I just got an awesome job. Pays a lot. I moved in with my bf months ago, we're paying $800 for the basement of his mother's house. He doesn't have a job ...
A. 10 April 2007: Hey, this guy sounds like a deadbeat to me. Just being real.
About the guy friends thing. I see why he is nervous, he is afraid of losing you. Why not bring him along?... (read in full...)
Partner totally told me out of the blue that he was leaving me. He is acting weirdly though. What do I do?
Q. Help! My partner of nearly four years woke up a few days ago and totally out of the blue told me he was leaving me and moving out. We have always had a good relationship, though with its fair share of hard times (his mother passed away 2 years ago ...
A. 10 April 2007: I can tell that you are a kind person by the way you speak of him. You have every right to be at your wits end. Being a Christian I realize that God has a plan. You will be happy. My advice: Talk to him. Find out whats bothering him. If that ... (read in full...)
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