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Am I being unreasonable in this situation?

Q.   Hi everyone, need some opinions on wether I am being unreasonable in this situation or not. Ok so I live at home with my mum step dad and younger sister, I go to my dads who lives at the other side of town once to twice a week. There is my dad step ...

A.   11 June 2012: Thankyou I'm just sick of being tret like something on the bottom of his shoe ... (read in full...)

Am I being unreasonable in this situation?

Q.   Hi everyone, need some opinions on wether I am being unreasonable in this situation or not. Ok so I live at home with my mum step dad and younger sister, I go to my dads who lives at the other side of town once to twice a week. There is my dad step ...

A.   10 June 2012: Thankyou i will also update this question, I slept at my friends house yesterday, and my boyfriend came to meet me on my way home, anyway to get his own back on me for going out with my friends, he decided to make arrangements to go out with his ... (read in full...)

Am I being unreasonable in this situation?

Q.   Hi everyone, need some opinions on wether I am being unreasonable in this situation or not. Ok so I live at home with my mum step dad and younger sister, I go to my dads who lives at the other side of town once to twice a week. There is my dad step ...

A.   9 June 2012: Thankyou ... (read in full...)

Why would his parents have asked me to go to this BBQ after all this drama?

Q.   Hello everyone, I have a very complicated and probobly long question, so here goes me and my boyfriend of 8 months were family friends before we got together. His dad is bestfriends with my uncle and grew up together from being tiny, so I knew ...

A.   8 June 2012: Well there was only one big mistake that i remember at the start of the relationship, which i do believe the 'excuse' I acctually believe he's telling the truth and the mistake he made he absolutley hated the girl, and sometimes I don't really think ... (read in full...)

How often do you have sex with your partner?

Q.   how often do you have sex with your partner? looking for answers from people who are in: 1) Long distance relationships (hardly see eachother) 2) close proximity (see eachother most days or w/e's) 3 and live in relationships (living tog...

A.   7 June 2012: We don't live together we still live with our parents be and aide were both in college, see eachother most days and it varies, it all really depends on when we get to be alone ... (read in full...)

Why would his parents have asked me to go to this BBQ after all this drama?

Q.   Hello everyone, I have a very complicated and probobly long question, so here goes me and my boyfriend of 8 months were family friends before we got together. His dad is bestfriends with my uncle and grew up together from being tiny, so I knew ...

A.   7 June 2012: Thankyou, and I'm acctually not sure if i trust him there has been other 'mistakes' he has made in the past, and he has had excuses for them too. I do believe that nothing happend and what he is telling me did happen that night is the truth, that ... (read in full...)

Why would his parents have asked me to go to this BBQ after all this drama?

Q.   Hello everyone, I have a very complicated and probobly long question, so here goes me and my boyfriend of 8 months were family friends before we got together. His dad is bestfriends with my uncle and grew up together from being tiny, so I knew ...

A.   6 June 2012: So what do I do? Forgive him and forget? Because I'm really not sure this has been on my mid for a while and it won't go away, if he would have said a straight and simple no it Probobly wouldn't have bothered me. But i don't know, if i should ... (read in full...)

Why would his parents have asked me to go to this BBQ after all this drama?

Q.   Hello everyone, I have a very complicated and probobly long question, so here goes me and my boyfriend of 8 months were family friends before we got together. His dad is bestfriends with my uncle and grew up together from being tiny, so I knew ...

A.   6 June 2012: Thankyou I know I did think that, my step mum also said that, but he was going to tell me because he rang me and told me we needed to talk and thats when i looked on his Facebook, and saw these messages, but he should have said no straight away.... (read in full...)

Why would his parents have asked me to go to this BBQ after all this drama?

Q.   Hello everyone, I have a very complicated and probobly long question, so here goes me and my boyfriend of 8 months were family friends before we got together. His dad is bestfriends with my uncle and grew up together from being tiny, so I knew ...

A.   5 June 2012: Oh and this public scene happened before she sent him some messages saying when we going to talk? And also of we're going to be history, in a few years why am I being dragged into it? I've done nothing wrong, and nothing to desere it.... (read in full...)

Why would his parents have asked me to go to this BBQ after all this drama?

Q.   Hello everyone, I have a very complicated and probobly long question, so here goes me and my boyfriend of 8 months were family friends before we got together. His dad is bestfriends with my uncle and grew up together from being tiny, so I knew ...

A.   5 June 2012: Yes I agree he should have said that to her but he didn't and I asked him why he didn't, he just said he doesn't know when they can tell and then she asked if she had a chance and he said " dunno" and i asked him why he did not just say sorry no its ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend will be away for 2 weeks and I don't think I can cope with it

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend of over 2 years is away to Europe for the next 2 weeks due to work commitments. We are extremely close, and best friends as well as a couple. This means that we see each other literally all the time and enjoy each other's constant...

A.   5 June 2012: I know how you feel, me and my boyfriend are like that we see eachother every single day, and if I don't see him for like 2 days we miss eachother like crazy, but he's going on holiday in september for 11 days and I honestly don't know what I'm ... (read in full...)

Why does he keep saying he'll ring me but he doesn't?

Q.   Okay so quick question, at the moment I am really poorly and havnt moved from bed for two days my mums really worried about me and is looking after me. I have slept for two days and wake up every now and then, when I do I message my boyfriend on ...

A.   2 June 2012: Weve been seeing eachother for 8 months, I usually see him every day if not I see him the day after. Hes not very good with words but i think that's because I'm his first propper relationship. Normally of I ask him a simple question he can't answer ... (read in full...)

Why does my family have a problem with me dating a family friend?

Q.   Hello this is going to be quote long so bare with me, my uncle grew up with his vest friend from being a todler they are still bestfriends now. So obviously my mum knows him and his mum and dad and visa versa. At my uncles wedding his best friend ...

A.   7 April 2012: Thankyou for your help,my mum did say she has nothing against him, at that she likes him, but before she said that, she said she was going to have a word with his parents. So bacicbasicly she contradicted what she said, i really dont understand her ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend suddenly working late. Is he cheating?

Q.   Hello, im slightly worried dont know if im paranoid but, but my gut feeling is telling me my boyfriend is cheating on me, and your gut instinct is always right, right? My boyfriend works at a m.o.t place not far from where i live. He normally...

A.   2 April 2012: yes he has broke my trust before he asked my best friend over face book to have sex with him, i saw the messages but he says it was just because he was jealous about my ex, and wanted to see what i would do.... (read in full...)

Boyfriend suddenly working late. Is he cheating?

Q.   Hello, im slightly worried dont know if im paranoid but, but my gut feeling is telling me my boyfriend is cheating on me, and your gut instinct is always right, right? My boyfriend works at a m.o.t place not far from where i live. He normally...

A.   2 April 2012: He just rang me and said hes finishing now, but its too late for me to see him now, and hes working again tomorrow. Its only supposed to be a saturday job, and his boss wasnt even ringing him to come in on saturdays now all of a sudden hes going ... (read in full...)

I've a new boyfriend but still suffering panic attacks!

Q.   hello, i dont know whats wrong with me! A good few months ago i had a boyfriend i really liked after he broke up with me i had a small panic attack i'd never had one before but now i have a new one and ive been with him for nearly six months w...

A.   2 April 2012: Thankyou ... (read in full...)

B/f left me on a dark street by myself and he knows how terrified I am of this kind of situation!

Q.   Just a quick question! What would you do if your boyriend left you in the dark on the street by your self? Ill give you a bit more detail, i', having doubts if my boyfriend acctually does love me, he says he does so much and i acctually started to ...

A.   10 February 2012: I wouldn't say anywhere outside in the dark is safe, as you don't know who is about, you dont know who could have been round the corner. I was left just round the corner from the post office which is where a few years ago a young girl like me, was ... (read in full...)

He flirts secretly with other women on Facebook. What should I do?

Q.   my boyfriend is pretty much perfect. he always makes time for me. he trusts me. we never argue. he always tells me he loves me, and how he wants to one day get married and have a family. he always tells me he never speaks to other girls anymore, ...

A.   26 January 2012: Pretty much the same thing happend to me a few months back (and i'm still with him now), he begged and begged me to go out with him, i eventually did, then suspected something suspicious between him and my 'best friend' i went onto her facebook and ... (read in full...)

Do you have ideas what my options are here or are we best off apart?

Q.   Hi i need advice! So i have been going out with this boy for 3 months, we have loads of arguments over stupid little things. So we've just had another arguement ill explain what happend in a second, but i cant keep having all these arguments with h...

A.   4 January 2012: Thankyou... (read in full...)

Do you have ideas what my options are here or are we best off apart?

Q.   Hi i need advice! So i have been going out with this boy for 3 months, we have loads of arguments over stupid little things. So we've just had another arguement ill explain what happend in a second, but i cant keep having all these arguments with h...

A.   4 January 2012: Thanks but when I said i can't he can't I ment we can't gave one rule for me and a totally different rule for him thats niot right is it? Im not even allowed to talk to some boys, he even changed my msn password so I couldn't talk to the boys ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriends jealousy going overboard? Or is it ok?

Q.   Okay so me and my boyfriend were at my house in my room just listening to music. and than His friend comes over and jumps on my bed next to me. i just rolled my eyes and said what do i own this great honor to? he gave me a smirk and said you can be ...

A.   3 January 2012: This 'friend' of his is not a friend at all. He is trying to wing him up, and see how far he can push him! There are guys like that out there, and trust me dont get involved. Stay with your boyfriend he cares about you he's better than his so called ... (read in full...)

What should I do? I love her but she has a boyfriend!

Q.   Dear Cupids, There's this girl that I'm CRAZY FOR. She says that I'm her "favorite guy" and that she'd "rather hang out with me than any of her other guy friends." We talk every day and I've been building up the courage to ask her out, when I ...

A.   2 January 2012: Hey, You may not want to hear this, but you should let her decide what she wants to do, step back and just be there for her (not too much tho) This guy shes dating sounds awful! However its her decison to be made. Maybe she is coming to you becau... (read in full...)

Another girl calls my b/f babe and he doesn't do anything about it

Q.   Hello, well this isn't going to be long, but theres this girl who always calls my boyfriend babe, through messages, and it annoys me, i asked him why dont you do something about it, and he said theres no point. I dont do that tho only person i call ...

A.   30 December 2011: There not exactly great friends, shes just a girl from his old school who he said he spoke to about 3 times ... (read in full...)

Troubled relationship with mom...

Q.   My mother is constantly having a go at me and I honestly don't know what to do. I feel like I can not cope any more. I am on the brink of breaking, I have my A levels coming up which are a constant battle to keep up with, i'm trying to fit in and ...

A.   30 December 2011: Your not the only one at all, me and my mum fight all the time, if im fair my mum can be quite lazy and unfair sometimes, she always uses my bedroom as a place to put things if theres nowehre else to put them, and leaves them their untill she can be ... (read in full...)

Another girl calls my b/f babe and he doesn't do anything about it

Q.   Hello, well this isn't going to be long, but theres this girl who always calls my boyfriend babe, through messages, and it annoys me, i asked him why dont you do something about it, and he said theres no point. I dont do that tho only person i call ...

A.   28 December 2011: Thankyou, and i asked him why he doesnt think its unacceptable and his exact words were "because it doesnt bother me i know they dont mean anything by it, its just a word" but does that then mean he doesnt mean anything when he says it to me?... (read in full...)

Another girl calls my b/f babe and he doesn't do anything about it

Q.   Hello, well this isn't going to be long, but theres this girl who always calls my boyfriend babe, through messages, and it annoys me, i asked him why dont you do something about it, and he said theres no point. I dont do that tho only person i call ...

A.   28 December 2011: Thankyou, he doesnt call her anything back... (read in full...)

How many kisses x x x x is the right number of x x x x in an online message to someone I'm interested in?

Q.   Hello just a quick question, how many x's do you think are suitable to put at the end of a text/ facebook message to the opposite sex? Without giving the wrong impression, or should i just put none at all. Sometimes my boyfriend gets jealous when i ...

A.   25 December 2011: Thankyou for replies everyone! and merry christmas :)... (read in full...)

Should I trust him or leave him?

Q.   Hello, i need some advice fast. Where to start. A boy who's family and my family are very close to moved away a few years ago i saw the boy when i was 7 and so was he, then recently they moved back to our town he moved to our school i was the...

A.   23 December 2011: I also forgot to add that I went that the day I found these other messages to this girl I went Christmas shopping with him and I was looking at his phone because I was getting the same one for christmas and then I clicked on Facebook, and je was ... (read in full...)

My b/f is too jealous and I'm afraid it might get out of hand!

Q.   Okay this was my weekend! I went to my boyfriends house with his friends and when his one friend (Josh) saw me he ran up to me and hugged me and said i look sexy. my boyfriend got really really mad and pushed him off me i felt like he went a bit to...

A.   19 December 2011: You are not alone! My boyfriend is exactly the same, if one of his friends did that he would most likley do the same. I think your boyfriend did react a little extreme however Josh is pushing it to far, and he seems like he might be doing it to push ... (read in full...)

Help needed getting over my ex-girlfriend

Q.   Hey everyone, I've just been through a tough break up and I can't seem to get over this girl, I loved her so much has anyone got any ideas on how to get over her??...

A.   3 December 2011: First of all im sorry about your break up i know its hard. In my opinion the best way to get over somone is to keep your self busy, keep in touch with friends, treat yourself to something new, and also cut all contacts from her if possible if you ... (read in full...)

I gave him a taste of his own medicine and we've ended it but it still bothers me!

Q.   Hello, i need a little advice. Urrm where to start, so quite a few months back a new boy moved to my school, i had known him from being a baby, his family knew mine they are friends. So a few days before he moved i spoke to his mum on facebook and ...

A.   2 December 2011: Thankyou! and yes that is exactly why he did it to make him realise how i felt but before i did that he did admit he was in the wrong, and he said it was a silly mistake. He also gave me his facebook password ... (read in full...)

I gave him a taste of his own medicine and we've ended it but it still bothers me!

Q.   Hello, i need a little advice. Urrm where to start, so quite a few months back a new boy moved to my school, i had known him from being a baby, his family knew mine they are friends. So a few days before he moved i spoke to his mum on facebook and ...

A.   1 December 2011: I also didnt make clear that my feelings grew well before i found these messgaes ... (read in full...)

I gave him a taste of his own medicine and we've ended it but it still bothers me!

Q.   Hello, i need a little advice. Urrm where to start, so quite a few months back a new boy moved to my school, i had known him from being a baby, his family knew mine they are friends. So a few days before he moved i spoke to his mum on facebook and ...

A.   1 December 2011: Thankyou x... (read in full...)

I gave him a taste of his own medicine and we've ended it but it still bothers me!

Q.   Hello, i need a little advice. Urrm where to start, so quite a few months back a new boy moved to my school, i had known him from being a baby, his family knew mine they are friends. So a few days before he moved i spoke to his mum on facebook and ...

A.   1 December 2011: I'm sorry If I made it in ear but I did take him back but it's still bothering me... (read in full...)

Is it normal to be depressed when I can't see my boyfriend and friends?

Q.   I always feel sad when im not with my boyfriend and want to be with him all the time, ive just hurt my foot and been on crutches for the last week (im off them now) but i couldnt get around as much or get go anywhere without my friends, so i didnt ...

A.   29 November 2011: Thanks and he was busy alot visiting realatives etc... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has pictures of his EX still saved on his phone?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and im really into him, i thought he was really into me but untill he was showing me his pictures on his phone and 5 pictures of his EX popped up and he hid his phone but "before i could see them".. He ...

A.   20 November 2011: Like previous comments say, talk to him, my ex still has pictures of me and others ex's on his facebook, there is no reason to delete them unless they had a bad break up then you would most likely delete them, if they are not sexy photos then i ... (read in full...)

An ex has approached me. Should I let my Bf sort this out?

Q.   Okay so here is my problem.. i have a boyfriend of a month and nearly 2 weeks, but one of my ex's has started saying things to me. He is an ex from about two years ago. He was saying things like, "i used to get lost in your eyes" and "i cant stop ...

A.   12 November 2011: Thankyou, i made out to my ex that i didnt realise what he was doing because i thought it might have been awkward if i did since it has been so long since we split up. Even though if he does continue to say things like that to me i will tell him im ... (read in full...)

Too many arguments make me want to walk away!

Q.   Hello so i have a boyfriend hasnt been that long since we started going out just over a month, but we have so many arguments. We must have one even if its only small every day or most days. We have only had one big one, but he begged and begged me ...

A.   8 November 2011: Just silly things sometimes its me that causes the argument sometimes its him sometimes its my fault and sometimes its his... (read in full...)

Can you get sick from giving blowjobs?

Q.   Hello, so im going to go sraight to the point, i gave my boyfriend a blow job, he asked first and i said no but he kept asking and i gave in i didnt do it for long at all he deffinitley didnt ejaculate because i told him i didnt want him too in my ...

A.   6 November 2011: Thankyou i didnt realy want to i just did it to satisfy him, but it turns out he is sick too to it is probobly just a stomch bug ... (read in full...)

Even though I love my new boyfriend to bits is it possible I still love my ex?

Q.   Hello, just a short question. Even tho i have another boyfriend after my ex i think i still love him. I love my new boyfriend, but we have had some arguments. My ex hasnt spoke to me much since the break up he siad he still wanted to be friends, and ...

A.   25 October 2011: Thankyou ... (read in full...)

Are they just flirting? Or am I blind?

Q.   Hello urm where to start.. I was going out with a boy who had just moved to where i live i have known from being a little girl as our family knew eachother, I will call this boy 'C'. Now about a month ago 'C' said he realy liked me and wanted to go ...

A.   21 October 2011: Thankyou... (read in full...)

B/f flirting with friend and now we've had a falling out

Q.   I need advice. So i just posted a question about the same topic but the problem has grown and got worse. So a knew boy came to live near me, i have known him form being tiny, our familys know eachother and they knew eachother as kids. His mum was ...

A.   19 October 2011: Thankyou... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's mother has seen all our dirty texts and now I cant face her!

Q.   Hey this is really embarassing but i have no one to turn upto for help.! Last night, me and my boyfriend were texting each other, rather talking dirty, when suddenly his mom and dadcaught him texting. His mother already hates me unlike ...

A.   17 October 2011: Hello, i dont realy have any advice, but something simular happend to me, i sent a few naughty texts too my boyfriend (whos is no longer my boyfriend) and they were very dirty, anyway my mum found them on my phone and threatned to go round to his ... (read in full...)

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