New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244980 questions, 1084370 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
*ebeccaa agony aunt

*ebeccaa

United Kingdom  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *ebeccaa to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *ebeccaa a private message

*ebeccaa's Ratings
Excellent65%
Average16%
Poor19%
*ebeccaa's profile:

I usually answer questions if i think i no i can help or if ive been through the same sort of thing.

Live in England

Relationship status:single :)

< Prev12345Next > [5 pages, 163 answers]

My boyfriend's mother has seen all our dirty texts and now I cant face her!

Q.   Hey this is really embarassing but i have no one to turn upto for help.! Last night, me and my boyfriend were texting each other, rather talking dirty, when suddenly his mom and dadcaught him texting. His mother already hates me unlike ...

A.   17 October 2011: Hello, i dont realy have any advice, but something simular happend to me, i sent a few naughty texts too my boyfriend (whos is no longer my boyfriend) and they were very dirty, anyway my mum found them on my phone and threatned to go round to his ... (read in full...)

Is getting turned on by his expressions normal?

Q.   Heloo :) Just a short question, i was on web cam with a boy ive been dating for a while didnt like him at first but he had grown on me. When i was on web cam i got turned on just because he was raising his eyes at me and licking his lips. Is that ...

A.   13 October 2011: Thankyou :)... (read in full...)

My ex always tries to befriend my new boyfriends!

Q.   My ex is so annoying he doesnt like it when i go out with somone else even tho the relationship has been over for nearly 2 years now. Whenever i get a new boyfriend he acts as if he is their best mate and never likes me to talk to them or be near ...

A.   7 October 2011: Thankyou... (read in full...)

I didn't want to get serious because my heart was still broken, should I still go out with him?

Q.   I am quite confused. I will start from the begining. I was happily in love with my boyfriend (now my ex boyfriend, who a few weeks ago just under a month ago to be precised. I knew something was wrong because he was not texting me as much he didnt ...

A.   3 October 2011: Thankyou... (read in full...)

Is it wrong of them? Neither of them seem to think they have done anything wrong

Q.   Okaay where to start.. Well i have been seeing this guy for a few days even though im all that into him i think hes okay but i thought id give him a chance. I will call this boy 'C' then there is one my best friends who i will call 'E' She (E) is s...

A.   30 September 2011: 'C' has just moved to where we live, although i have known him from being little but have not seen him for a few years. He was begging me to go out with him for a long time but i have just had a rough relationship and i didnt think it was fair on ... (read in full...)

Why does she flirt so much?

Q.   Why does one of my best friends flirt with loads of boys? There is one boy who she goes out with, but she says she doesnt like him, his friend likes me but whenever he isnt around she flirts with him. The other day we had been round at a friends ...

A.   27 September 2011: Thankyou. She deffinitly knows she is flirting, she didnt like it when i only walked her half of the way home even though i was late home, and claimed she had an asthma attack and had to ring her dad to come get her however when i left her, her ... (read in full...)

I told him it wasn't working out and now he's all psycho

Q.   Hi, this might drag on but ill try not to ramble! So i have just split up with somone because he didnt want a relationship he now has a new girlfriend and im finding it hard to get over it. Anyway just after we broke up a new boy came to our scho...

A.   20 September 2011: Thankyou ... (read in full...)

Two weeks and he has a new girlfriend??

Q.   My ex boyfriend who borke up with me just under two weeks ago now has a new girlfriend, i was upset enough about him breaking up with me as it is just getting over it, and now im depressed again. How do i deal with it :(...

A.   19 September 2011: Thankyou that realy helped ... (read in full...)

My friend acts like my shadow

Q.   Ok so i have a friend, she is amazing and i love her too bits but she seems to want to do everthing i do, she wants me to wear the same things as i do when we go shopping she wants me to buy everything she does if we're meeting up she wont even walk ...

A.   18 September 2011: Thankyou ... (read in full...)

Two weeks and he has a new girlfriend??

Q.   My ex boyfriend who borke up with me just under two weeks ago now has a new girlfriend, i was upset enough about him breaking up with me as it is just getting over it, and now im depressed again. How do i deal with it :(...

A.   18 September 2011: Thankyou ... (read in full...)

I love him and want him back, but he seems so happy.

Q.   My ex boyfriend broke my heart and im still hurtinf so much from it, hes the only person i want no one could ever replace him, but he seems to so happy at the minute he keeps putting status's on facebook about how happy he is and how well his life ...

A.   14 September 2011: Thankyouu... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend is falling out of love with me

Q.   Im feeling rather worried :( Im afraid my boyfriend may be having second thoughts about me, but doesnt want to admit it or hurt me. He was the one who came to me and made the effort to ask me out, he was so sweet at first, he always used to put ...

A.   13 September 2011: Thankyou i need all the advice i can get x... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend is falling out of love with me

Q.   Im feeling rather worried :( Im afraid my boyfriend may be having second thoughts about me, but doesnt want to admit it or hurt me. He was the one who came to me and made the effort to ask me out, he was so sweet at first, he always used to put ...

A.   10 September 2011: Thankyou, yes thease last few days without him have been horrible :(... (read in full...)

How do I get over this? I hate saying I'm single and he's not mine anymore

Q.   I just split up with my boyfriend a few days ago and im finding it realy hard :( He said he feels like he wants to be alone for a while but maybe we can give it another shot when he feels better because he does realy like me. I have had two panic ...

A.   10 September 2011: Thankyouu ... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend is falling out of love with me

Q.   Im feeling rather worried :( Im afraid my boyfriend may be having second thoughts about me, but doesnt want to admit it or hurt me. He was the one who came to me and made the effort to ask me out, he was so sweet at first, he always used to put ...

A.   9 September 2011: They were right :(... (read in full...)

Is it normally to feel physically sick after a break up?

Q.   Is it normal to feel ill, after being hurt in your relationship i nearly split up with my boyfriend tonight, and i started shaking feeling sick, going cold it felt like i had the flu. I had a cup of tea at the side of me and could hardly pick it up ...

A.   7 September 2011: I did have an anxitey attack i think i reserched the symptoms and i had half of them x... (read in full...)

Is it normally to feel physically sick after a break up?

Q.   Is it normal to feel ill, after being hurt in your relationship i nearly split up with my boyfriend tonight, and i started shaking feeling sick, going cold it felt like i had the flu. I had a cup of tea at the side of me and could hardly pick it up ...

A.   7 September 2011: Thankyou everyone, i feel alot better today i still feel like i dont want to eat anything i havnt ate alot all day or had anything to drink i still cant drink tea because i end up gipping, even tho he told me that we can give it another go, i ... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend is falling out of love with me

Q.   Im feeling rather worried :( Im afraid my boyfriend may be having second thoughts about me, but doesnt want to admit it or hurt me. He was the one who came to me and made the effort to ask me out, he was so sweet at first, he always used to put ...

A.   7 September 2011: Ok i sent him a message asking him and he said he isnt sure about a few things and i asked what, and he said hes not sure if were working. :(... (read in full...)

Why did I bleed after being fingered for the first time?

Q.   Hello So, I am a virgin but was fingered for the first time, and it hurt a lot whilst it happened, in fact it was really, really painful(Yes, I know, I should have said something). However, the strange thing is, two days after this, I started b...

A.   6 September 2011: Hi, the exact same thing happend to me, it was probobly your hymen, it hurt for me too alot. Im not quite sure why it was two days after maybe because he tore all of it ? Dont worry tho i was fingered again after and i bled more Best of l... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend is falling out of love with me

Q.   Im feeling rather worried :( Im afraid my boyfriend may be having second thoughts about me, but doesnt want to admit it or hurt me. He was the one who came to me and made the effort to ask me out, he was so sweet at first, he always used to put ...

A.   6 September 2011: Thankyou x... (read in full...)

Is he not interested when I'm with my friends? And, when the time comes, how do I know for sure he doesn't have an STD?

Q.   Okaay im a little bit confused might be a bit of a long question. I have a boyfriend who is slightly older than me. We met strangley and randomly, he goes to my school as me (we're both in 6th form but he is in the year above and im starting this ...

A.   2 September 2011: Thankyou... (read in full...)

Why will he not kiss me? The whole classroom is bugging him to kiss me

Q.   okay so, my boyfrined and I have know each other for like 3 monthes and we've been going out for like 2 weeks but there's just one little problem: he won't kiss me! Well it's not totally his fault like the whole classroom knows and they all bug us a...

A.   29 August 2011: Lol i have been in that suituation before, when your young and at school, people act like that and want to see you kiss, its totally normal, as you get older you will notice it eventually fades away. As for you wanting to kiss him, maybe he does... (read in full...)

Met him while on vacation -- should I try to contact him?

Q.   So I just got back from a vacation and I don't know what my next move should be. I'm going to try and keep this short but this is all the relevant information. I met this guy the second day I was there (I was there for a week). He was really n...

A.   29 August 2011: Hi i think you should deffinitley try and contact, if you have him on facebook maybe send him a message, saying hi, you could ask him how his journey back home was. If he doesnt seen intterested then you should leave it and find somone else in time, ... (read in full...)

Made my boyfriend cum by lying on top of him?

Q.   I made my boyfriend cum, and he said it was because i was on top of him, (we were just kissing) and i didnt think a boy could cum from just being on top of him. Or is there something else to it? ...

A.   29 August 2011: Thankyou ... (read in full...)

Which is considered more attractive - quiet or cocky? I can be both

Q.   I'm a bit stuck. I don't want anyone to answer 'just be yourself', because it isn't that simple. I'm only 18 and still haven't really discovered myself. Sometimes I can be bubbly and confident [if perhaps a little annoying], and other times, deadly ...

A.   4 August 2011: Hi, every girl is different and likes different kind of boys, Some might like cocky bad boys, some like realy sweet smart quiet ones, and other girls (like me) like somwhere inbetween, not too quiet and shy but not too cocky, personally i don't like ... (read in full...)

Parents found the naughty texts I sent to my boyfriend. Help!

Q.   I've just asked a recent question about this same problem but things are seeming to get a little out of hand. So... i recently sent some naughty texts to my boyfriend, my mum checked my phone because she said she knew something was going on, she ...

A.   3 August 2011: Thankyou, my mum did say she was going to go round to his house but she didnt pheew ... (read in full...)

Parents found the naughty texts I sent to my boyfriend. Help!

Q.   I've just asked a recent question about this same problem but things are seeming to get a little out of hand. So... i recently sent some naughty texts to my boyfriend, my mum checked my phone because she said she knew something was going on, she ...

A.   3 August 2011: Thankyou ... (read in full...)

My parents saw some naughty texts exchanged with my boyfriend!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend sent a couple of naughty texts to eachother. My parents some how saw them, they're worried about me. I dont no what theyre worried about theyre not mad just worried and i dont no why. They keep asking me what im going to do about ...

A.   3 August 2011: Ok and thankyou, yes my uncle is here to guard me to make sure i dont go anywhere, im not allowed out the house, so im bored all day. x... (read in full...)

My parents saw some naughty texts exchanged with my boyfriend!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend sent a couple of naughty texts to eachother. My parents some how saw them, they're worried about me. I dont no what theyre worried about theyre not mad just worried and i dont no why. They keep asking me what im going to do about ...

A.   3 August 2011: Thankyou, i do understand where they are coming from. The boy was my boyfriend, and my friends say that they would be mad if it was then, but i told them i cant be bothered with arguing so i just let them get on with it. I hope my uncle is not going ... (read in full...)

My parents saw some naughty texts exchanged with my boyfriend!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend sent a couple of naughty texts to eachother. My parents some how saw them, they're worried about me. I dont no what theyre worried about theyre not mad just worried and i dont no why. They keep asking me what im going to do about ...

A.   3 August 2011: Thankyou, and they paid for my phone but i pay for the credit. x... (read in full...)

My parents saw some naughty texts exchanged with my boyfriend!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend sent a couple of naughty texts to eachother. My parents some how saw them, they're worried about me. I dont no what theyre worried about theyre not mad just worried and i dont no why. They keep asking me what im going to do about ...

A.   3 August 2011: Thankyou for the advice i appreciate it :) ... (read in full...)

My parents saw some naughty texts exchanged with my boyfriend!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend sent a couple of naughty texts to eachother. My parents some how saw them, they're worried about me. I dont no what theyre worried about theyre not mad just worried and i dont no why. They keep asking me what im going to do about ...

A.   3 August 2011: Thankyou for the advice everyone. I changed my pin code on my phone and because i changed it my mum took my phone away from me? ... (read in full...)

My parents saw some naughty texts exchanged with my boyfriend!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend sent a couple of naughty texts to eachother. My parents some how saw them, they're worried about me. I dont no what theyre worried about theyre not mad just worried and i dont no why. They keep asking me what im going to do about ...

A.   2 August 2011: My parents just said how they are just worried incase i do something i regret or i get hurt. My mum said she had an idea something was going on so she checked my phone and then told my dad ... (read in full...)

My parents saw some naughty texts exchanged with my boyfriend!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend sent a couple of naughty texts to eachother. My parents some how saw them, they're worried about me. I dont no what theyre worried about theyre not mad just worried and i dont no why. They keep asking me what im going to do about ...

A.   2 August 2011: My dad said they were only talking to me about it because they dont want me to do anything i regret, or get upset about anything... (read in full...)

My parents saw some naughty texts exchanged with my boyfriend!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend sent a couple of naughty texts to eachother. My parents some how saw them, they're worried about me. I dont no what theyre worried about theyre not mad just worried and i dont no why. They keep asking me what im going to do about ...

A.   2 August 2011: Thankyou x... (read in full...)

Why is my boyfriends friend treating me this way? how do I deal with it?

Q.   So i have a boyfriend who i havn't been with for long. The other week i met one of his friends who i will call 'M' he seemed realy nice at first. Then i went on holiday for a week with my family and one of my friends. When we came back my boyfrien...

A.   1 August 2011: Thankyou everyone :) My boyfriend believes me and says he does not want anything more to do with him so thats a good thing x... (read in full...)

Clingy boyfriend is suffocating the life out of me!!

Q.   My boyfriend is getting on my nerves so much! He wants to see me every single day! I no thats nice, and its nice to feel wanted but i want my own space. Ive only been going out with him for a month, and now its the six week holidays and its the ...

A.   30 July 2011: Thankyou ... (read in full...)

My sister and I have the worst relationship imaginable!

Q.   My sister and I have the worst relationship imaginable. We argue constantly and I'm not saying it's always her fault but she does bring on the majority of our fights. Ever since we were kids she's been a total control freak, everyone says I'...

A.   30 July 2011: I dont realy have any advice, but thats kind of how it is in my house. My sister is an annoying little pest, and will do anything to irritate me! She always wants me to do everything for her but never ever is nice to me in return! If your sister is ... (read in full...)

Is it normal that I bleed a little?

Q.   Hi, i have a little question. Im a virgin but have been finered about twice by my boyfriend. After he fingered me today, i went to the toilet and noticed blood on my knickers. Is that normal? I am due my period in a few days however i dont think its ...

A.   29 July 2011: Thankyou ... (read in full...)

He is spreading untrue rumors about me!

Q.   Hi, im having a bit of a problem with an ex of mine. Recently i just started dating a boy been dating for about 2 weeks, but one of my ex's when who i was in a relationship for a year is trying to cause problems! So my ex who i will call 's' has ...

A.   14 July 2011: Thankyou this realy helped... (read in full...)

I didn't tell my boyfriend that it hurt when he fingered me!

Q.   My boyfriend just recently fingered me, and it hurt. I have never had sex or anything before that was the first time, i didnt want to tell him it hurt me because it might have lowered his confidence and made him feel bad. Is it normal to hurt the ...

A.   14 July 2011: Thankyou :)... (read in full...)

*ebeccaa's friends

These are mutual friends, so *ebeccaa has added them and they have added *ebeccaa!

Danyman123 agony auntDanyman123
DeadEyeDick agony auntDeadEyeDick
lakers_lover09 agony auntlakers_lover09
nicoleray143 agony auntnicoleray143
Rebeccaa agony auntRebeccaa
sexy.sexing.girl agony auntsexy.sexing.girl
The Realist agony auntThe Realist

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.09375!