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I didn't tell my boyfriend that it hurt when he fingered me!

Q.   My boyfriend just recently fingered me, and it hurt. I have never had sex or anything before that was the first time, i didnt want to tell him it hurt me because it might have lowered his confidence and made him feel bad. Is it normal to hurt the ...

A.   14 July 2011: Thankyou :)... (read in full...)

What do I do about my feelings for my ex?

Q.   I can't help but have feelings for my ex....he's so cute an nice...and were friends and all but i want to be more...what do i do..i don't want to ruin are friendship but i really do still love him...with all my heart...what do i do? plz help...

A.   12 July 2011: I have been through simalar things. It does hurt i no, but i agree with the last comment keep yourself busy and evantually you will realise you have forgot about him. Love your self and believe that their are other people out their. Good luck! ... (read in full...)

Sex hurts...

Q.   I need some help, Recently me and my boyfriend have been trying to have sex. Btw we are being safe as i am on the pill and he uses condoms. however, we never manage to have sex as it really hurts me but we really want to do it, we have kept trying ...

A.   12 July 2011: I have the same problem it hurts me and i dont no why! :(... (read in full...)

Should I let my boyfriend finger me?

Q.   My boyfriend wants to finger me should i let him? Im not realy sure what i want i do want him too, but i no there can be concequences. He is the same age as me. ...

A.   11 July 2011: Thankyou ... (read in full...)

Looks or personality?

Q.   Hello, would you say looks is more important than personality? I have had this boy who has been asking me out for the last week or so, i didnt no what to say because to me he is not very good looking at all, and looks realy matters to me! But his ...

A.   1 July 2011: Thankyou everyone ... (read in full...)

Looks or personality?

Q.   Hello, would you say looks is more important than personality? I have had this boy who has been asking me out for the last week or so, i didnt no what to say because to me he is not very good looking at all, and looks realy matters to me! But his ...

A.   30 June 2011: Thankyou :)... (read in full...)

Am I right in being mad at him? What should I do?

Q.   Hello, i just asked a recent question on this topic but its got worse, so this guy who has fancied me and my freind for ages, he sent both of us they same sweet texts and called us babe and put loads of kisses at the end of each text he always told ...

A.   25 June 2011: Thankyou, i have calmed down alot now, but like i said i will never trust him again and never talk to him the same and we will never be no where near as close as we were! ... (read in full...)

Am I right in being mad at him? What should I do?

Q.   Hello, i just asked a recent question on this topic but its got worse, so this guy who has fancied me and my freind for ages, he sent both of us they same sweet texts and called us babe and put loads of kisses at the end of each text he always told ...

A.   23 June 2011: Thankyou, and no i dont want to forgive him, i might talk to him and be civil with him in the future but i dont think i will ever be the same with him, i thought he was different and a bit more mature Thannks anyway... (read in full...)

I know I should wait to have sex, but I think I'm ready.....is this the right choice?

Q.   im 14 and like other teen girls i think about sex A LOT and i think im ready to have sex with my boyfriend but im scared of the pain or what could happen if we (Im) not carefull......you might think "oh all he wants is sex" not really i told him i ...

A.   20 June 2011: I was in the same position at your age, i was with my boyfreind for 8 months when he asked me to have sex with him, i didn't know what to say i, i did want to but i knew it was wrong. My friend talked me out of it, in the end i decided it would be ... (read in full...)

Why is he spreading rumours about me and harassing me again? What should I do?

Q.   Hello, Please help me! i have a bit of a problem theres a long story to go with it, i'll explain some of the details, but really my ex who has been harrassing me after we split up is now spreading rumours around but when i confront him he says he ...

A.   15 June 2011: Thankyouu... (read in full...)

Is he just messing about?

Q.   Hi so i have a slight problem, i dont no what too think, this boy who i will call P has been flirting with me for about 3 months we have 3 lessons a week together and we sit next to eachother in all of them one the teacher put us together and the ...

A.   27 May 2011: Thankyouu :)... (read in full...)

Why act jealous if she just wants to be friends?

Q.   this girl i liked said that she didnt like me.....i am kind of getting over her....but i still have a feeling for her and its hard to get over it but im trying. Things were getting very awkward between us when she found out that i liked her....she ...

A.   12 May 2011: To me it sounds like she likes you in that way, but doesnt want to admit it, playing hard to get. I would just not act like you like her that much and dont give her too much attention or she will just string you along. It sounds like she wants your... (read in full...)

My best friend's little brother has a crush on me, what should I do?

Q.   Hii, I just slept at my frieds house because my mum went away for the weekend. Just before i went homemy friend told me her younger brother has a crush on me. Just before she told me she was in the kitchen making me and her a sandwich i was o...

A.   10 May 2011: Thankyou... (read in full...)

What's emotional cheating?

Q.   What's emotional cheating?...

A.   9 May 2011: Thankyou... (read in full...)

What's emotional cheating?

Q.   What's emotional cheating?...

A.   6 May 2011: Thank you ... (read in full...)

Can't tell if he likes me or he's just messing around. Should I push it?

Q.   Hello, so i kind of like this boy at school, but i didnt used to, i only like him now because of how nice i realised he is, but he can be quite complicated. He always texts me we talk about everything! I won't admit to anyone that i like him only to ...

A.   5 May 2011: thankyouu ... (read in full...)

Still love my ex, but not sure whether to believe that he's falling for me again?

Q.   Me and my ex split up around 10 months ago as i found out he cheaated on me. I really loved him, so obviously i was heart broken. The problem is, i still love him even though i shouldnt i cant throw the feelings away. We recently started talking ...

A.   30 April 2011: Hi, well to be quite honest you should forget about him and move on as hard as it is, dont talk to him, delete him off facebook that is if you have facebook. But if you dont then thats up to you but honestley it will help it'll take a bit but it w... (read in full...)

Why did he tell everyone that he broke up with me when it was me who ended things?

Q.   Hii, So bacicly ive just been out with a boy, he kept asking me one day at school. Recently in the easter holidays i saw him we went out me him my bestfriend and her boyfrined the first day he was fine but all others he messed me around had me and m...

A.   29 April 2011: He is 16, and the rumor was that he kissed this girl who i used to be close to the day after we broke up their was also another one that he kissed this other girl while we were together, but she came to me and told me that it wasn't ture.... (read in full...)

After I moved thousands of miles to be with him he cheated on me with my co-worker!

Q.   I don't know where to turn. Six years ago I met a man online, after talking for over a year online, I went to visit him and fell in love. I packed my things and moved from Pennsylvania to Alaska for him. I gave up everything adn our life together ...

A.   27 April 2011: I am so sorry! Move back, he'll soon realise what he did was a mistake and regret it, you are clearly so much better than the woman he cheated with, you gave up everything for him, and he goes and throws it right back in your face! Find somone bett... (read in full...)

Ladies can you tell me why you hate porn or why you think other women hate it?

Q.   Why do women hate porn so much? I agree that when it becomes an addiction, their is a problem. However why, when a guy watches porn only occasionally, and has sex at least once every 2 days? I mean, it's not an addiction but only to spend time. ...

A.   16 April 2011: I agree with previous comments. She feels like she should be the only woman in yourlife that you actually want to pay attention to in that way. It might make her feel insecure when you do this. I agree with her in most ways i wouldnt like it if my ... (read in full...)

Should I remove this girl from my friend list on facebook? She broke my heart...

Q.   Right now I am hesitating about kicking a girl whom I love on Facebook. This is not internet dating. She is a really good friend of mine and during the past two years both of us experienced a lot of things but now everything has turn bad. At t...

A.   15 April 2011: Yes maybe you should delete her off of your friedns list. When i broke up with my ex i deleted him off of my friends on facebook and it helped me forget about him because i wouldnt be seeing him on my home page everyday. Good Luck :)... (read in full...)

We're doing all the work. Should we break up with our boyfriends?

Q.   Hello so i have this new boyfriend i really want to make the new relationship work but i feel like im making all the effort. My best friend is with one of his friends so for the school holidays we have been spending time with them the first da...

A.   15 April 2011: Thankyou everyone :) ... (read in full...)

My ex is now willing to get with me, but I think it's too late

Q.   I'll try explain the situation as much as I can within this. I've had an Ex but we broke up before christmas, but we had tried many times to get back together and failed. But now we're more liking and he is a lot more willing to get with me. But...

A.   8 April 2011: I agree. You should deffinitly leave your ex alone, you should both move on because if you don't your both going to get into a deeper mess with eachother trus thats not nice and extreemely hard to get rid of them even after years of being split up i ... (read in full...)

Her best friend is a boy. Am I wrong because I feel jealous?

Q.   hey guys, i go out with a girl that has lots of boys as friends and has a boy best friend, is it normal for me to get really jealous and sometimes upset because it seems like she likes him ? ...

A.   7 April 2011: Theres nothing to worry about alot of my friends are boys. Girls usually like boys as friends because they like a boys opinions on things, i wouldnt let it worry you. Unless there is anything suspicious but to me it doesnt sound like there is. G... (read in full...)

My ex interferes with my new relationships

Q.   Hello, I have a bit of a problem and dont no how to get rid of it. I have this new boyfriend not been together for long. But my ex who i split up with a year ago is so interfering. I split up with him because he cheated so many times and just put...

A.   7 April 2011: Thankyou :)... (read in full...)

My ex interferes with my new relationships

Q.   Hello, I have a bit of a problem and dont no how to get rid of it. I have this new boyfriend not been together for long. But my ex who i split up with a year ago is so interfering. I split up with him because he cheated so many times and just put...

A.   7 April 2011: Thankyou. :) No i havnt dated any of his friends infact i try to date people he doesnt know because he just interfears. The new boyfriend isnt exactly his friend they talk but ive never realy noticed them be close, and this new boyfriend kept ask... (read in full...)

He has a girlfriend and won't dump her for me

Q.   i dont know how to word this so long story short.... the guy i like likes me to, he says he loves me bt he has a nother gf but wont dump her........ What do i do...

A.   23 March 2011: Move on he'll soon come running, and if he doesnt hes not even worth thinking about. Hes a player for doing what he is doing you can only have one person not two he obviously thinks that rule doesnt apply for him. Good luck... (read in full...)

Why does my Mom turn a blind eye to all the nastiness at home? It's getting worse.

Q.   Hi, ive asked a question on this topic before but i dont feel i covered everything. My parents split up when i was 7 my mum and i lived on our own for two years then when i was 9 she met somone else who moved in with us. They argued when he firs...

A.   23 March 2011: Thankyou. There isnt any violence, and when my sister is agressive she never is punished. ... (read in full...)

What have I done wrong?

Q.   Hi, So i am a 16 year old girl in my last year of school, it is extreemly rare for me to fall for boys thease days and get hurt because i am to focused on my grades at the moment, only a 4 boys have upset me in the last 3 years including the one ...

A.   18 March 2011: Thankyouu. :)... (read in full...)

Whenever I see people from school they laugh at me!

Q.   How do I deal with this? It's been five years since school but sometimes I see some people from school who hated me and whenever I see them they laugh at me. I live in a small town and i'm finding this hard to deal with. It's affecting my sel...

A.   17 March 2011: Hi im still at school.. my last year. I have been bullied when i was younger now ive learnt to stick up for myseld, but people do still say things about me. Even tho i have a lot of friends. You probobly had the same problem as i do. Seriously tho ... (read in full...)

Looking for holiday romance!

Q.   Hi, this is not realy such an important question, but ive been single for abit and going on holiday soon, im hoping for a bit of a holiday romance which will be great. Anyone have any tips? Thankyou....

A.   13 March 2011: Thankyouu! To be honest ive had fair share of holiday romances... (read in full...)

Please tell me why some women and or girls, are willing to put up with such "crap" from men!

Q.   Ladies(and girls), I need your help! Please tell me why some women and or girls, are willing to put up with such "crap" from men! They lie to you, cheat on you, won't allow you to have a life of your own, and if they do? They act like wounded lit...

A.   11 March 2011: Because they fall in love with them and get stuck in the relationship, also sometimes because they think they are not going to find anyone else. :)... (read in full...)

Who is she leading on?

Q.   Recently my girlfriend and I moved in together but things haven't been so great. The reason being that I love herewith all my heart, and she assures me that she wants to be with me as well. Although she does have feelings for a close friend of hers, ...

A.   10 March 2011: This isn't acceptable, you can't love two people at the same time its not fair not on you or the other guy, you should tell her you don't appreciate her telling another guy she likes him when she is with you. Im not realy sure who she is lead... (read in full...)

My ex is making sexual comments against me

Q.   Hello, i hope you can help. two years ago i started dating this boy who kept nagging me (i didnt like him and he was annoying at first) after a while i gave in and gave him a chance as a reslut of this i dumbly fell for him. it was a long year rel...

A.   10 March 2011: Thankyou everyone else who has helped... (read in full...)

My step-dad is emotionally abusive to my mother, half sister, and myself. How can I help my mum leave this man?

Q.   Hi, I need advise desperately! This question isn't really about me it’s about my mum. My parents split up when I was 7, and when I was 9 my mum found someone else. He wasn't really the perfect step-dad for me. I didn’t really like him much, never ...

A.   10 March 2011: Thankyou for your help ... (read in full...)

I cant sleep with my boyfriend's snoring!

Q.   Hey readers, I don't know what to do - whenever I spend the night with my bf, his snoring and loud breathing keeps me awake so I can't get to sleep til, like, 5am! I don't know what to do about it. We've been together 6 months, and he knows he ...

A.   9 March 2011: Hi, maybe you could get him to the doctors so they can give him snoring tablets.. or you could sleep in a different room if it is really affecting you, you do need some sleep! Good luck, :)... (read in full...)

I am so beautiful. Are my friends all just jealous of me?

Q.   I am so beautiful. I have a really nice body and i have double D's. Flirting comes naturally to me. I can honestly say that a lot of people like me and just want to be me. I'm really popular and i have a lot of experience. All my close friends are ...

A.   9 March 2011: I have double D's and im a model, i dont flaunt it either. I no my friends arn't jealous of me i love my fireinds and im pretty sure they love me too... (read in full...)

I am so beautiful. Are my friends all just jealous of me?

Q.   I am so beautiful. I have a really nice body and i have double D's. Flirting comes naturally to me. I can honestly say that a lot of people like me and just want to be me. I'm really popular and i have a lot of experience. All my close friends are ...

A.   9 March 2011: I have double D's and im a model but i dont think people are jelous of me i love my friends and im pretty sure they love me.... (read in full...)

My ex is making sexual comments against me

Q.   Hello, i hope you can help. two years ago i started dating this boy who kept nagging me (i didnt like him and he was annoying at first) after a while i gave in and gave him a chance as a reslut of this i dumbly fell for him. it was a long year rel...

A.   9 March 2011: Thankyou! I appreciate your help. I hope your right!... (read in full...)

Why would he give permission to sleep with another man if he loved me?

Q.   I feel totally stuck in a rut situation. My relationship broke down recently, we were together 7 yrs on and off with him going between 2 homes mine and his mums, he is 42 and his mum 72. We parted at xmas and have recently starting getting along ...

A.   9 March 2011: I am much younger than you so you might think i dont understand, i feel sorry for you. Sounds like something simular to what my mum and step-dad are going through he through, he treats me my mum and sister like complete dirt, my mum keeps saying w... (read in full...)

Is it midterms or is she just avoiding me?

Q.   Me and this chick seemed to hit it off really well. Hung out a good few times, 4days in a row actually. However now she has big exams coming up so we can't really meet up.. and it's always me that initiates texts. I'm kinda wondering if the midterms ...

A.   9 March 2011: She is probobly too busy to even think about anything else but study maybe thats why she is not texting you back, i could be wrong. Just text her the occasional hey how are you? Or hope your doing well studying something like that. Dont over... (read in full...)

My ex is making sexual comments against me

Q.   Hello, i hope you can help. two years ago i started dating this boy who kept nagging me (i didnt like him and he was annoying at first) after a while i gave in and gave him a chance as a reslut of this i dumbly fell for him. it was a long year rel...

A.   9 March 2011: Thankyou verry much! ... (read in full...)

My ex is making sexual comments against me

Q.   Hello, i hope you can help. two years ago i started dating this boy who kept nagging me (i didnt like him and he was annoying at first) after a while i gave in and gave him a chance as a reslut of this i dumbly fell for him. it was a long year rel...

A.   9 March 2011: Thankyou! I thought that but didnt know if i was right. Thankss... (read in full...)

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