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*ebeccaa
writes:Hello so i have a boyfriend hasnt been that long since we started going out just over a month, but we have so many arguments. We must have one even if its only small every day or most days. We have only had one big one, but he begged and begged me not to leave him and i told no more arguments because they are stressing me out. He promised no more arguments but since then we have probobly had at least 5 small ones. I dont want to leave him but i hate all the arguments. Please help its getting me down. :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2011): Are you arguing for attention, to get his focus onto you?
Its a sign of things to come, maybe you should both agree to differ and move on...perhaps your just not ready for relationships yet.
Your in the honeymoon period and you should both be loved up and happy..looking forward to spending time together, not fighting
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reader, AuntieAnn +, writes (8 November 2011):
 Hi Rebeccaa..
One month into the relationship and you are always arguing loads, that is a shame. This should be the honeymoon phase of the relationship when everything is fabulous!!
Please break it off as friendly as you can and you will find someone else when you are ready for a new relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2011): You've been together just over a month and you're already arguing everyday?
I honestly don't think it's worth a relationship if you're always arguing, it's only going to get worse.
It wouldn't be best to carry on the relationship..it's pointless at this stage to be honest
What causes the arguments?
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (8 November 2011):
Rebeccaa is verified as being by the original poster of the question Just silly things sometimes its me that causes the argument sometimes its him sometimes its my fault and sometimes its his
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (8 November 2011):
 at 16-17 and dating a month... if you are fighting that much I would say it's not really worth the effort to make it work....
what are you guys fighting about?
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