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I'm an entirely boring person (I've gotten the "exciting" and *ahem* rather questionable part of my life over with). I'm married, I have a baby boy, and I am a homemaker/student...
I come from a particularly screwed up family and I like to think that maybe I've risen above it.
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I can release milk...help!
Q. I am pretty embarrassed about this so that is why I am writing anonyumously. I am 22 and for the last three years, up to two months ago, I'd been living with my bf but now we have split up and he has moved out. He hasn't left me pregnant or given me ...
A. 8 February 2006: If it's like regular breastmilk, the leaking will continue as long as the body feels a need to produce it - as long as it thinks a baby is feeding, in other words, as long as you make it come out. Your expressing your milk only further ... (read in full...)
For six years I've been having a sexual relationship with my aunt!
Q. Dear agony aunt, I am a 25 year old guy and a few years ago I noticed my aunt (48) was flirting with me quite a lot. I have been attracted to her for some time but have controlled it. Anyway we would be alone and she would casually touch me or gi...
A. 25 July 2005: Oh, my dear. Let's look at this in a different perspective. Even if incest was perfectly OK (which - it isn't, dear lord!) consider what life issues you're putting yourself under. You're "seeing" a woman 23 years your senior, 3-4 times a week, ... (read in full...)
No sex for 18 months, but my wife says it's not me. Please help.
Q. I am a married man, with what I think is a wonderful woman. We have our problems just like all couples do, but we work them out and get along for the most part. We have been married for 6yrs now, and have two boys. Since our first son my wife's s...
A. 16 May 2005: It's probably not you. A lot of women's sex drives decline, even quite severely, after the birth of a child - though they tend to be more on the temporary side. Hormones and the like. I would suggest that she go to a physician and see if they can ... (read in full...)
When his dad found out he licked chocolate off my body, he stopped my b/f seeing me!
Q. I have a boyfriend who I recently let lick chocolate sauce off my body! His father found out through my boyfriend's friend. His father has stopped him seeing me or even talking to me! I really love him. What shall I do? Help me!! ...
A. 13 May 2005: Well, that all depends on your age and circumstance. If he's 18+ and lives on his own, I say the dad needs to get a life and to just live your own how you want. If ya'll 18+ but he lives with his parents, tell his dad that ya'll will be adults a... (read in full...)
Has my long-distance guy in Germany found someone else?
Q. Hi, I've been with my bf for about 2 months. It's long distance; he lives in Germany and I'm in London. On Sunday he emailed me and said it wasn't working out and it was hurting him being with me because of the distance. I was wondering why he has ...
A. 13 May 2005: It's possible that he may have found someone else, because it's certainly easy to carry on a relationship with someone closer to home. It may just be that the distance issue didn't hit home until he realized it's hard to progress to higher ... (read in full...)
She initiated our relationship & doesn't want to end it, but we never go out!
Q. I started going out with a lady from work. She started everything when she asked me out. I did have an interest but she initiated things. It started out slow because I did not want to move too fast and the relationship end up failing and us still ...
A. 13 May 2005: If you know where she lives, why not go for a surprise visit? Don't be stalker-creepy, bring her some flowers or something, and (in person) tell her you really care for her and would like be together with her more. Let her know that it's ok to be ... (read in full...)
I feel older than my years already...
Q. My husband is 13 years older than me and I guess he kind of makes me feel old too. I am 21 but I already feel old and out of style. When we go into clubs all the other girls look me up and down like I am not wearing the right clothes or something. I ...
A. 13 May 2005: The only way to feel stylish for every age group lies not in what you wear, but how you act. Be at peace with yourself, have fun, and don't be afraid to talk to people. Unless the function calls for formal gowns, wear whatever is comfortable for ... (read in full...)
How can I convince mum and dad to loosen up and let me date?
Q. My mom and dad are good parents but for some reason they won't let me date. I'm 14 and in high school but my mom doesn't trust anybody! A boy can't even call me without getting cussed out by my mom. It's sooo embarrassing. I'm mature for my age and ...
A. 13 May 2005: Keep your parents up to date. One reason why they may see you as a little girl is because they've never seen anything else - kids can tend to shut their parents out of their lives after puberty, and when their child mysteriously pops up as an ... (read in full...)
An extra guest on our family vacation is causing difficulties for us. Should I just cancel?
Q. My husband invited our single female friend and her child to join us on our "family" vacation with my sister and her family. I cannot tell her they can't go without hurting her feelings. My sister is upset because they are going on our "family" ...
A. 13 May 2005: First off, you should scold your husband for inviting them in the first place. He meant well, but as it was a family vacation, it should have been a family decision on if they could go or not. Gently tell your friend that you care for them... (read in full...)
I've fallen hard for my online boyfriend, but he has one odd and annoying habit...
Q. I have been chatting to this guy on the net for 9 months now. I have fallen so hard for him and he has told me that he feels the same way. We get along so well most of the time, but he has this habit of going offline when we have an argument and ...
A. 13 May 2005: I've been in this situation myself. I "dated" a man I met online for 4 years. Things were wonderful most of the time, but we had our share of fights, a lot stemming from misunderstanding from typing, like tone of voice and things (this is why ... (read in full...)
Hate the thought of breaking his heart, and he really likes me... but I don't fancy him!
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for a few weeks and he is really romantic and does lots of gestures and he is getting obsessed with me. I don't like this and want to finish it but he is way too nice to tell him! I can't tell him to his face...
A. 13 May 2005: It might be that he could just be very insecure with himself, and is doing everything possible to make you happy so you don't run off - all the while not knowing that he's just making you claustrophobic. He needs to know then that he should just ... (read in full...)
Does my guy really have no time to spend with me, or is he telling me something else?
Q. He say's he needs a break. I have been seeing a wonderful man, who says he loves me, and I know I love him. It seems now he wants a break, he says he has a lot going on in his life right now,(work, kids and family)and does not feel he can give me ...
A. 13 May 2005: Your statements pose a problem. You say he's got work, kids, and family that are keeping him busy. But then you also ask "how he is willing to just stop the one good thing going on in his life?"... Does he have a terrible job? Are his kids ... (read in full...)
I kicked him out after he cheated. Now I wonder if he'll ever reform his ways...
Q. My live in boyfriend cheated on me last year by getting a happy ending massage. I found a credit card receipt for the massage parlor hanging out of his wallet. (Obviously, he's not that witty when it comes to covering his tracks). It was deva...
A. 13 May 2005: Look at it from an outsider's point of view. 1) He cheated on you. And not only that, he paid to do it! He didn't even try to cover his tracks which means he is a dolt (who wants that anyways?) or that he either consciously or subconsc... (read in full...)
My new partner doesn't like my adult kids & it's driving us apart!
Q. I was married for 21 years. He was a horrible man, violent, abusive. When we divorced I met a lovely man. He was everything my ex wasn't. I have three children 22yrs 20yrs 19yrs of age. They are great, no trouble whatsoever. My partner don't li...
A. 12 May 2005: Well, actually, it can be quite hard to provide an answer for something that technically had no question asked. I assume you love your kids and would never want to be out of their lives, and vice versa (you never would have wrote if you didn... (read in full...)
My best mate treats his wife terribly... but I've loved her for 12 years.
Q. I have been in love with my best mate's wife since I met her 12 years ago. 3 years ago she started going out with him. He treated her like a queen at first, but now he's just nasty to her and ignores her. I'm so jealous. I couldn't believe it when ...
A. 12 May 2005: Here's a question: Who matters more to you, your friend who treats the woman you love terribly, or her, your self-described girl of your dreams? I dare say it's her, and if you truly love her, why not tell her your feelings? True, you woul... (read in full...)
Neither of us can agree on the "do we get married?" issue and it's tearing up our relationship...
Q. I have been with my partner for seven years. He won't propose. I am older then him by three years and I am the oldest in the group of friend we socialise with, whom of which most are getting married or engaged. Me and my partner have discussed i...
A. 12 May 2005: Oh, honestly! You've been together a very long time, have discussed it many times, and he still doesn't want to get married. You /do/ want to get married. You don't want it to ruin the relationship, but it's already in ruins, don't you see?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't swallow. Can I talk her around to seeing it my way?
Q. hiya, I was just wondering. I have been going out with my gilfriend for 3 years and I really want her to swallow my cum. Are there any ways in whichI can get her to do this? Thanx...
A. 12 May 2005: If your gf isn't into doing oral, always take into consideration: 1) Be clean! Take a shower and rinse properly (and tell her that you did/do so). Nothing kills the mood like thinking "eww, did he just go to the bathroom...?" 2) Reciprocat... (read in full...)
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