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No sex for 18 months, but my wife says it's not me. Please help.

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Question - (15 May 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2005)
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I am a married man, with what I think is a wonderful woman. We have our problems just like all couples do, but we work them out and get along for the most part.

We have been married for 6yrs now, and have two boys. Since our first son my wife's sex drive has fallen to zero, I think after that she only started having sex again to have our second son! We have not made love in about 1 1/2 yr. now. She says she still wants to and finds herself sexual, but every time the moment turns intmate, she pulls away. She says it's not me and nothing is going on, but I'm at a loss. I find my wife very sexy and want her and I to get back the love making we had. Please help, is it me or does my wife have a problem?....I'm LOST!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2005):

Talk to her ask why and whats the matter. She might even think you dont want to do it with her. Or you could try to spice things up and get a few sexy toys in or by her some sexy undes

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A reader, Rainee United States +, writes (16 May 2005):

Rainee agony auntIt's probably not you. A lot of women's sex drives decline, even quite severely, after the birth of a child - though they tend to be more on the temporary side. Hormones and the like. I would suggest that she go to a physician and see if they can help, because 1 and half years is more than long enough to put up with that situation.

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