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anonymous
writes:What does it mean when your boyfriend never seems to want sex? I only see him once a week - usually determined by him. Its been 3 full weeks since we've had sex. I actually saw him 3 times in a row which is very rare and not once did he try, or really kiss me or hug me or anything. Just a couple of pecks on the lips. He invited me in to his place Saturday night but sat a few feet away from me while we watched tv. Its starting to make me doubt the relationship. Is he loosing interest? Or does he just have a low sex drive? Its making me feel rejected. Not important to him. While its not so much the sex, its the intimacy, the closeness. He doesn't even seem to want to cuddle/hug or just sleep together. I have a feeling he's busy next weekend which means i wont see him and no chance for sex either which will make it close to 4 weeks before we'd have the chance again.
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reader, Problem.helper  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 talk to him aout it :)
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (23 May 2010):
 Why do you only seem him once a week and only when he wants to?
Isn't that at the core of the problem? It doesn't sound he is exactly dying to see you. Why not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): maybe he's ill, maybe he is stressed about sex or something else ?. it doesnt necessarily mean he has lost interest in you. you should talk to him about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): I know how that feels my bf is the same I really love him and works things out but it seem I'm the only one putting affort into the relationship. Try and talk to him and tell him how you feel and why is he acting like that maybe he's with another girl that's why u goatta know what's going on that way u know how to see ur future with out him. Good luck
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reader, YouWish +, writes (23 May 2010):
 Well, has he started a new job or something in his life that's tiring him out?
Next time you see him, jump his bones! Some guys get into a rut where they're so focused on work and whatever he's into that his "romance" meter gets off. Some guys are just like that - no ability to multitask.
Now, if you initiate and he rebuffs you, that could be cause for concern. Then you may want to gently lay it on the line what you want. (intimacy and closeness). If he still doesn't get it, you may need to find someone who will.
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