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... Send *eaches83 a private message | | | *eaches83's profile:Im 24 and married. I have one little boy that is 5 and a stepson that is 6.
Im currently in my second year at uni doing a degree in pschology. Hard but keeps my mind going.
Im from the uk which as everyone knows is cold and wet lol.
Hmmm what makes me tick.
I think the main thing would be anyone who thinks they are better than anyone else and tries to belittle others to make them selves look better.
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I like this guy, but am I just a booty call to him?
Q. How do I know if this guy is into me? I have been seeing/dating this guy since August. We have been intimate sexually with each other. For him to contact me, I have to text him. If I dont text him, he doesnt contact me nor call me. If I send hi...
A. 5 November 2007: Ask him straight out where you stand. It does sound that yes you are simply a booty call to him but i cant actualy say that. By asking him you will know once and for all.
Peaches... (read in full...)
Do you think he will go back to his wife?
Q. when i was 19 i met my soul mate, he was 10 years older and had been married before with 2 children. we had a connection but after 6 months we broke up and he went back to his wife.(his wife had a affair which why they split), over the next 14 years ...
A. 5 November 2007: You never know till you try. Give it a go. But make sure he is completely seperated from hi swife first
Peaches... (read in full...)
The small things are killing me and I'm worried what the big things would do to me!
Q. This seems like such an inconsequential thing to ask as compared to some other questions here but its been bothering me for a while. We haven't been together for a long time, only about 5-6 months, but I think she's the greatest thing in the world, ...
A. 5 November 2007: i think you need to speak to someone proffesional. Doe sthis come from maybe something in your childhood where you were always told that you did wrong??
By speaking to someone that deals with this sort of thing you will be able to address the issu... (read in full...)
Does a woman get a choice of whether she can have a Caesarean or not?
Q. if a person is pregnant do they ever get a choice of whether they have a caesarean section or not? my cousin is 6 months pregnant and shes scared of going through the birth. All answers would be appreciated, thank you...
A. 5 November 2007: A C section as it is known in the uk is usually something that only happens if there are serious problems with the birth or certain health reasons.
Reasure your cousin that a natural birth is not as bad as it is portrayed on tv etc.
There a... (read in full...)
My husband lies.....
Q. I have only been married for 7 months. I have been with my husband for 6 years but these past few weeks have been hell. Here is my story. I saw a charge in our checking account for over 300.00 and I did not know where it came from. I called him he s...
A. 5 November 2007: Your concern is understandable. You say that your build up your trust and then he shatters it. Have you been to councelling beofre with him??
May be this is the right step to take.
Relationships do have their ups and downs and sometimes there ar... (read in full...)
Quick orgasm - less pleasure for a man?
Q. If a man orgasms quickly does he enjoy it the same as if he lasted longer?...
A. 5 November 2007: Hell yeah the idea of sex to guy is simply coming. Ok so some prefer it if they can last longer because it is looked upon as been macho. Either way if he comes whether it be after three hours or three mins he is still satisfied. Peaches... (read in full...)
It seems to be a very one sided relationship and I don't know what to do.
Q. I need some advice on how to deal with my girl friend. I'm 22 and she is my first love. I'll try to paint a full picture for you by telling you a bit about her personality. A lot of the time she can be self centered, rude, spoiled, and ego...
A. 5 November 2007: Your right in the description she is a spoiled stuck up brat basically. Ok that may have been a little harsh, but from what you have said i can not understand why you are still there. Love is a feeling that consoles between two people that woul... (read in full...)
Surely it's ok to talk to other guys, if I'm not being flirty.
Q. Is it ok to chat with other guys over the internet (like nexopia or myspace) when you have a boyfriend? If you aren't being flirty or anything and they are people you know from school or something? Do you have to tell your boyfriend what you are ...
A. 5 November 2007: If there is no other desire other than just to chat then it should be ok. But do inform your boyfriend of this dont keep it a secret otherwise it then looks like you have something to hide and that is not good at all. Your boyfriend must u... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom I want to live with my dad instead?
Q. Right now I live with my mom and step dad. I would like to go live with my dad who lives 2 hours away from my current house. The problem is i don't know how to tell my mom I want to move in with my dad... I know I really want to move in with my dad ...
A. 5 November 2007: Think around the issuse of why you wish to go live with you dad. See if these can be resolved.
If not and still want to live woth your dad then you ned to know nd find out if this is allowed.
Ask your dad his opinion on the situation adn then ask... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a fetish, what should I do?
Q. Hi there I'm 21 and so is my boyfriend of nearly 3 years, and a few days ago he sprung it on me that he has a fetish for rubber. He could see myshocked expession i think and quickly changed the subject, ive been thinking and i don't really have...
A. 5 November 2007: You have been together for three years and have come to the point in your relationship where you are comfortable in saying what you want and desire. You will have something in your mind that maybe you would like to try out. Many men like differe... (read in full...)
How does one flirt?
Q. I need help on flirting! My friends seem to be able to flirt with anyone but i just dont know how! Lads get so turned on by my friends,is there anything i can do to make them get turned on by me?...
A. 5 November 2007: There are many ways to do this. First would to be how old you are.
Contact me with your age and we will see if we can work something out :)
Peaches... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to this older guy?
Q. Heya.For about a year now ive been seeing this guy and we get on really well and both really like each other. The only problem is he's 28 and im only 16. The age dosen't matter to me that much its just a few of my friends know and are really teasing ...
A. 5 November 2007: You sound realy unsue of whether you want to take this next step.
Losing your virginity is a big step for any person adn you have to address the reasons why you have doubts?
Is it because its your first time and yo are unsure of what to do?
I... (read in full...)
We kissed and more and I feel guilty.
Q. I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email f...
A. 5 November 2007: He has a pregant girlfriend that is 7 months gone. I understand that you feel these feelings come flooding back but you have to think realisticly.
1) His girlfriend will be in the stage of her pregancy whre she id hormonal and groutchy, she will... (read in full...)
How can I make these stretch marks disappear?
Q. I am 16 and i am a virgin but for the past year i have had stretch marks on my inner and outer thigh how can i make these go and why are they there....
A. 5 November 2007: Have you recently put on weight or lost weight??
This could be one of the reasons.
There are many moisturisers that you could use, some specialy designed for stretch marks. Although they will not dissapear completely these will lighten them so ... (read in full...)
Should I go see him, or wait for him to come see me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We took a break about 2 months ago and recently started over. We had been doing good until now. I haven't seen him in about a month. We both work a lot but that never was a problem before. I ...
A. 5 November 2007: Jump in a car and get there. It will show that you are willing to put effort in the relationhp an not just sitting at home waiting.
Peaches... (read in full...)
Need help with ex gf!!!(another one)
Q. Alright, I'm in quite a pickly right now. It's the same old I want my ex girlfriend back story. This one is complicated and long so I'll do my best to keep it in detail and as short as possible. So yeah, my ex-gf and I dated for 2 years and 3 mont...
A. 5 November 2007: Ok first things first. Ask yourself why do you want her back?
Is it because of the way she makes you feel?
Or is it because you dont like to see her with anyone else.
The distance between you is gonna be a problem because you say that that is... (read in full...)
Is she trying to hurt me because she hurts?
Q. Do you think that if you were dating someone 5 years and you broke up with them and you claimed that you really loved the other person you were with very much.....do you think that it's really truly possible to; Meet someone on a cell phone throu...
A. 5 November 2007: I think in a way yes, she obvisiouly wants you to see that she has moved on but by sending you pics like that it is saying that she in a small amount still has feelings for you and is just checking by doing this and seeing your reaction.
If yo... (read in full...)
I'm worried that what we had will disappear
Q. Hello. To cut to the chase, I was dating my girlfriend for almost a year. Since our first date, I could tell that we had something. I don't think we rushed in to it, yet we were talking about marriage and kids after a month. We clicked. She was nice ...
A. 5 November 2007: Its a hard one.
By the way that she is constantly contacting you and "changing her mind" i think it comes across to me that she likes to be in control. She is keeping you hanging at her beck and call. She hasnt respected your wishes to be left alo... (read in full...)
How to delay your period? Starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true?
Q. Hi, im on the pill (21 day pack) and am going on holiday soon. I heard you can stop your period for that month by starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true? and after that 2nd pack do you then leave it off for a week and get your ...
A. 5 November 2007: Hiya hunny,
Yes you can do that however i wouldnt to be honest. I would go for the injection. Not only do you have to take it only every three months but your periods will stop all together. Heaven.
Hiope this helps
Peaches... (read in full...)
I hinted that I like him (although I already have a bf), and he rejected me. How can I forget him?
Q. i fell in love with a guy called W..he is handsome..cute as well as caring..but i already have a boyfriend..i met W at my working place..to me it is a wonderful crush..we when out eating..shopping..walking as close as a pair of couple..but when i ...
A. 5 November 2007: It sounds as if you no longer wish to be with the man that you are with. Is this the reason you were rejectde because you were commited to someone else? I suggest that you move on from the relationship you are in and start afresh. Live your life and... (read in full...)
I love my 27 year old teacher.
Q. I'm in love with my teacher. He's 27, 13 years older than I, and please don't say anything like, "It's not love, just a crush, an infatuation, forget about him." I've already tried, but no matter how hard I try, I can't forget him. He's like a dr...
A. 5 November 2007: Its hard to say to be quiet honest. Yes most people will say its just a crush. There has been many cases where a student and a teacher have got together and yes not all ha ended up bad. I cant encourage you to go a head and make a move simply becu... (read in full...)
It's easy for everyone to say just get rid of him.
Q. Hey. My boyfriend and I were going out for 7 months and he finished me. We'd split up twice before but this time it was different. Everyone said he'd cheated on me. He admitted it to his friends but denied it to me. The friday before we split up...
A. 3 November 2007: You have answered it yourself, you have said you want to get out of this relationship.
He has no rights to make you feel like this and sounds very immature where as you sound quiet mature.
You may have feelings for him and if so these may blur you... (read in full...)
Is he homosexual or am I being paranoid?
Q. Hi i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and i love him so much we do have a great time together, however until i met him at age 18 (he is 18 also) he had never taken part in any physical activity including masturbation as he had a very ...
A. 3 November 2007: Hiya hunny. Obvisioly you are stressed and worried.
Take into account he has had a sheltered childhood and all this is new to him. Teens usually experiment in the wuietness of their rooms with out anyone ever knowing and they either get over it or f... (read in full...)
I'm confused. Hoe do I sort out whose friend is whose?
Q. well my boyfriend has this friend and the three of us always go out together.well his friends ex girlfriend who i am friends with as well came out yesterday and my boyfriend told her that he is convinced that me and his best friend like each ...
A. 3 November 2007: You need to make a desision on who your feelings lie with and either go with one or the other. Be honest with your current boyfriend lying doesnt get you anywhere.
There is also a supposid rule of you never go with a firends or an ex's friend. Just... (read in full...)
He cums too quickly
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and this is his first real relationship. At first there were no problems, but now he orgasms very quickly. Is it me? What can i do to put it right?...
A. 3 November 2007: In a way take it as a complement.
Many men have the same problem. Premaure ejeculation is one of the most common male problems.
Try with less forepaly and see if that works.
Also try with just foreplay. Say if yu were to give him an hand job jus... (read in full...)
Scared of the consequences of getting more sexually involved...
Q. Hello, I'm a 21 yr old female currently in a relationship. This is my first boyfriend actually. I do want him and care for him a lot, i feel i've grown a lot thanks to him in many ways. I feel more confident about my looks and my way with people ...
A. 3 November 2007: You have answered the question for yur self hunny. You said you dont feel ready just yet.
He's beginning to talk about sex, however, i don't think i'm ready
People all over the world especially women get called names for sleeping with a guy. Eve... (read in full...)
What other things can we do when she's on her period?
Q. Hiya could any of you suggest ways for me and m wife to have a really intimate night without sex? Its just last night she went to bed abit early as she wasn't feeling very happy. She hadn't had the best day and she as on her period so thats added on ...
A. 3 November 2007: Some people choose to have sex even at that time of month although it is completely down to what you both feel comfterble with.
There are many things that you could do at this dreary time although most may not be as satisfying as sex.
Have you thou... (read in full...)
How do I change myself??
Q. I don't like myself. I have low self-esteem, very little confidence so whenever I want to ask a women out, i flinch and walk off. I really hate myself, I wish I was someone else. Obviously I can't so how do I change myself?...
A. 3 November 2007: In what ways do you want to change your self?
Is it your image the way you think or the way you think ppl see and think about you?
Well your image is easy, change your style of clothing, haircut etc.
They way you think about omething. Are you the ... (read in full...)
Why cant he just be a calm normal person??
Q. Maybe a few people can help me out there... So my boyfriend and I have been together for um about 2 1/2 years on and off. We're complete opposites in a lot of ways, I was the young dumb party girl and he's more of the quiet-video game and car type...
A. 3 November 2007: How much do you know about your boyfriends childhood and past?
Usually a guy that is acting in this manner has had either a difficult childhood where 1) he was brought up to see that women are to be trwat like crap or 2) a man has the power to beli... (read in full...)
Can I find out if I'm pregant this month or will I have to wait??
Q. I am trying to become pregnant and i no i'm ovulating because i have clear ovulation fluid coming out and my husband finally gave in yesterday and came inside me. Is there any chances of knowing if i'm pregnant this month or will i have to wait??...
A. 3 November 2007: You could find out by doing home tests however a dr would usually tell you to wait until you are due your next period and then see if it comes. If you do not have your period then take the test either with a dr or a home one.
Most people do not s... (read in full...)
Am I just being selfish and wanting more than I should?
Q. My husband and I dated for a year, was engaged for a year, have been married for half a year, and have a 9 month old son. We're 20 years old. I feel like I've made a mistake getting married. I love my son but I don't know anymore about my ...
A. 3 November 2007: I dont feel you are been selfish and i understand the situation you are in.
Every mother wants what is best for her child.
Yes you are both young and have been dating for a while before you got married, it sounds like you have just lost that spa... (read in full...)
Does losing your virginity make you bleed??
Q. I am 17 and i am close to losing my virginity. I just have one question though. The first time someone has sex (females) do they bleed? and does it hurt?...
A. 3 November 2007: It can hurt sometimes and yes you can bleed although not alot just light spotting.
Due to it been your first time i am presuming your partner also know its you rfirst time to, take things slowly and go at your pace.
Your first time is suppose ... (read in full...)
Does he fancy my best friend, does he fancy me - or both of us?
Q. i am 11 years old and this boy used to fancy me untill i said i didnt fancy him and now he fancies my best friend-but the thing is-he still comes to me and my best friend and annoys us.sometimes he even follows us around.in most classes,i sit next ...
A. 3 November 2007: It sounds as if he is fancying the both of you.
Does your friend fancy him also??
If so then this could be a problem. You need to think what is best for you. Friendship that could last forever or a romance that at such a young age could change w... (read in full...)
He wants to take things slow.
Q. I have finally met a great guy, he is friends with my 2 best girlfriends and I think he might be someone I can have a serious relationship with. He is just getting over a broken heart and wants to take things slow which I can completly understand. I ...
A. 3 November 2007: This is a weird one, do they know something about him maybe that you dont?
Try questioning your friends about why they reacted like this.
If been with him makes you happy and you are willing to take things at a pace i say go for it.
Good luck... (read in full...)
She's off her rocker saying I've changed.
Q. Is it just me or is this ridiculous? Alright so I made out with this girl one day in August (and I didn't know her before this, I met her while I was drunk and she was sober), and now she's in one of my classes. Well anyways, I'm in gr.12, she's in...
A. 2 November 2007: She sounds like an immature child to be honest.
Forget about her and let her be the way she is, she is the one that will end up been resented and called name.
Peaches... (read in full...)
What do you think, so I can get some closure.
Q. I had been in a relationship with a friend for a month and today we broke up. For a while I could sense something wasnt right, and today I asked him if he still wanted to be in the relationship (because i did). At first he started saying that he ...
A. 2 November 2007: I think he did it in a nice way to be honset. By telling you the way he did he though he was doing the right thing for you however with out realising he was doing it for himself.
He thinks its not fair on you that he lives so far away and doesnt g... (read in full...)
Do I forget about him or do I chill out?
Q. Hey, I met this guy at a gig and he was one of the most amazing people i've ever met. I lost him that night because there were so many people. But a couple of days later he found me on myspace and added me. We were messaging each other every da...
A. 2 November 2007: I think you should chill out to be honest. You have already said you are not too worried.
Dont feel that becase he hasnt got in contact with you it means he has lost interest, maybe he has been busy and just hasnt found the time.
Now of course y... (read in full...)
Does this man still love me or what?
Q. there is this man in my life.we met 5years ago,but later on broke up after going out for 2years coz he had fell out of love. keeping in mind that i had already aborted his kid.we remained friends and since then the friendship has become more ser...
A. 2 November 2007: I think he is just getting the best of both worlds really.
He has got his claws into you and you have allowed him to. If he wanted to be with you he would be with you and not the girl he is with.
Walk away and start afresh with someone that is ... (read in full...)
How can I save more money before I go to Australia?
Q. Hi, i'm hoping someone might be able to help me. I'm 18 years old, and i am taking a gap year next year before getting a job. I finish college june 2007 and i am going to australia for 6 months january 2008. At the moment, my aim is to save up ...
A. 2 November 2007: I am pressuming you live with your parents because out of the £250 you earn each month you would have to pay for living costs if you didnt.
How about trying to strike up a deal with your parents, maybe asking them to give you cash for certain jobs... (read in full...)
What should I do to avoid hurting anyone?
Q. my sister has been going out with a boy she met through her weekend job and they are both students.he is from a different caste to ours and my family have found out and she has been given 6months to get married to him as they dont want her ...
A. 2 November 2007: You sound as if you deeply care for both, however this really isnt your problem. I understand that you are concerned.
If your sister truly wants to be with this man then she will decide what is best for her.
I think it is unfair that your family i... (read in full...)
I feel like I am just going through the motions and can't cope with the strain anymore.
Q. Hi - I think I'm just going through the motions of being with my partner. We don't live together and split up earlier this year before getting back together about 7 weeks ago. I was the one that ended the relationship - things hadn't been good sin...
A. 2 November 2007: I think you have answered this for yourself really. You no longer feel the love or have the feeling that you once had for him therefore you should try and stay friends with him if not for yourselves but also for your children, it sounds like you ... (read in full...)
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