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... Send *eaches83 a private message | | | *eaches83's profile:Im 24 and married. I have one little boy that is 5 and a stepson that is 6.
Im currently in my second year at uni doing a degree in pschology. Hard but keeps my mind going.
Im from the uk which as everyone knows is cold and wet lol.
Hmmm what makes me tick.
I think the main thing would be anyone who thinks they are better than anyone else and tries to belittle others to make them selves look better.
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How is a 17 year old suppose to endure all this? Please read.
Q. i don't know what's wrong with me...somedays i feel happy and carefree as if nothing can ever go wrong and then other days i feel sad and lonely like there's somthing missing in my life...something important and i just don't know what it is. then ...
A. 6 December 2007: I think you need to sit with your dad and explain to him how he makes you feel.
Im assuming you havnt had any sort of help with the abuse. Try some councelling.
Talking about things can help a lot.... (read in full...)
How do I give him head so good he will want to come back more and more?
Q. hey, im planning to give this guy head. any tips on how to do it perfectly. (please be clear when explaining) thanx...
A. 6 December 2007: Ok firstly can i mention that you have posted this in the 13-15 so im guessing you are under 16 and that it is illigal.
However if the case is that you are old enought send me a message and i will give you tips.
:)
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My penis is 5.5. Is this wierd?
Q. Hi, I am 17 years old, a virgin, and I am unsure about what to think of my penis size etc. It's 5.5inches long, and 5.5inches in girth... Is this weird/normal and what would girls think about this? Also, I have tried on a regular condom before, ...
A. 6 December 2007: Its not weird at all. some people are just like that. Try using a larger condom and as for not been able to preform, well that is all in the mind. Dont think about it too much. Just let things go with the flow.... (read in full...)
How can I lose my man boobs?
Q. dear cupid i am a 16 year old boy and i have the following concern which i need major help in: i have man boobs and i tried losing them but have been unsuccessful, through this proccess i seem to have also seen that one of them is upper than th...
A. 6 December 2007: Best thing to do ia tone them up. Concentrate on exercise that is for the upper torso.
bench presses an sit ups are good to do. also try doing some weight lifting while on your back. bring your arms straight up in front of you and then down to ... (read in full...)
How do I get a new boyfriend?
Q. Hi ya! people I'm kinda broke right now..my boyfriend just left me because I did not went cruise around with him at night...the reason for that he just want to take control of me what I mean is..he want us to have a time alone so that he ca...
A. 6 December 2007: you sound as if you are better off without him.
Spend some time alone and search of the guy that you want to commit yourself to.... (read in full...)
Back together with an old love, but when he doesn't call it bugs me. What can I do?
Q. hey all! im in love with my best friend and my first love (the same person haha) weve been a part of each others lives since sophomore year of high school. when i went away for college i broke up with him, but i still loved him. anyways after ab...
A. 6 December 2007: As you said yourself he is a busy guy and he does call you just really not when you want him to.
I think you shoud just give him time etc adn if things are ment to be they will be. ... (read in full...)
11, My ex boyfriend told everyone, including my new boyfriend that I'm a bad kisser. Help!
Q. my ex boyfriend told everyone including my current boyfriend that im a bad kisser. and now my current boyfriend wants to test to see if i am good! ive only been going out with him for a week! im afraid if he is going to think i AM a bad kisser... so ...
A. 6 December 2007: Ok if there is a possibility that you are a bad kisser alwyas remember let the man/boy lead. Dont opn your mouth too much and no dribbling lol.
Im sure you should do just fine, although maybe a little young.... (read in full...)
My ex is so demanding that I go snowbiking with him on Saturday if not as a couple at least as friends. But can I trust him?
Q. I texted my ex last night that I don't want to be with him (we were thinking of dating again). He texted me back saying he loves me but respects my decision. Then, he called me so many times and left a message saying goodnight baby and how he loves ...
A. 6 December 2007: Walk away from him sweetie. He has gained power since been in this relationship with you by intimadating you to do what he wants and when you dont want to he makes you feel bad.
Really notthe sort of relationship you need. I think that you wil ... (read in full...)
I want to leave him but I haven't got the heart to upset him
Q. We have been togeather 28 years. He's been different the past 2 years. Says there is no other woman,But he stopped sex, every thing i say is wrong. If i try to talk to him he calls it an argument. Still wants to controll my every thought and ...
A. 29 November 2007: I feel for you really after 28 years this must be heart breaking.
A relationship consistes of both of you been happy but if one is happy and the other isnt then it is going to drive you both apart.
You ned to voice your opinions to him ... (read in full...)
Shall I pay my own way or not?
Q. I have started dating this guy and we have been dating for about a month and I havent ever really dated before. i was wondering if i should let him pay everytime we go out or should i offer to pay or how that works!?... ...
A. 29 November 2007: Back in the days it was a case of the man pays for everything but now times ave changed and yes females can sometimes pay for it all or go splits.
Always offer to pay and if he declines then fair enough at least you have offered.
Peaches... (read in full...)
Is he still stuck on me?
Q. Okay, I haven't spoken to my ex in 3 weeks, and he just texted me saying that I don't have to text him back but that he wishes me well. I broke up with him, and after we broke up he kept calling and texting and emailing me even though I told him not ...
A. 29 November 2007: Yes just walk away.
You didt go into detail of what type of abuse you got so i cnt suggest the points that you need to address with him to give yourself and him that fianl closer.
If you do not contact him he will get the message and you ... (read in full...)
He won't see me unless my parents agree. What should I do?
Q. I'm 15 and i fell in love with a 21 year old. He loves me for me and doesn't want sex. I want so badly to be with him. I've tried talking to my mom about the situation, but she said no about it being okay to see each other. We can wait until I'm 18 ...
A. 29 November 2007: Im sorry hunny but you cant.
He is doing the right thing and i salute him for that, not many men would.
Its the ulitmate test for your relationship. If you are ent to be together when you reach 18 you will.
Only other way is to surprise your ... (read in full...)
Was she a real friend?
Q. there is this chick that i use to be friends with, we are not friends now as she lies to make her self look good, and she use to make me feel like 2 cm tall, as she would tell every one my sercrets, and she was a slut!! to say the least we are not ...
A. 29 November 2007: Yes you did.
There is no one in the world that should make you feel like that.
That is one of my most hated things.
I detest people taht belittle others to make themselves look good.
To me she is not worth the thought of this letter.
I... (read in full...)
Was I treated unreasonably?
Q. One night my fiance asked if I wanted to go with him to a bar that him and his friends were going to that night. It was a family night so some of his friends were his friend's younger sisters that he is better friends with and they are like 13 and ...
A. 29 November 2007: Yes too damn right.
What was he doing in bars with such you ones anyway???
The first thing he did wrong was to invite you then uninvite you.
The second is when you said you was going to go out and go to a bar and he told you that you should ... (read in full...)
Is he willing to be honest about his sexuality?
Q. What to do when the one you love doesn't love you in "that way". I am in that situation now and it sucks. The guy in question is my best friend and we've crossed the lines to be more the friends at times, so there have been mixed signals. I believe ...
A. 29 November 2007: As they say honesty is the best policy.
It sounds as if you are very close. Yes i would address the matter but back off if he chooses that he doesnt want to talk about it.
Let him know that you have this inkling and if he chooses to talk then he... (read in full...)
Is it normal to try to do something wrong?
Q. Ok lets start with this i'm 18 I love my boyfriend but its so hard not to I mean everthings like perfect in every way. Is that wierd? Its like everything I do is right! Whats up with that? I know usually the questions are about them messing up and ...
A. 29 November 2007: Everyone wants the perfect relationship and to me thats boring and i see you think the same.
It sounds as if your fella can see no wrong in you and maybe this is because he doesnt want ANYTHING to come between you that may result in him losing y... (read in full...)
How do I work through my jealousy and confusion?
Q. Me and my long distance girlfriend recently went on a break. I am 20 and she is almost 19. She has been very confused for many different reasons. first off...it seems to make her way upset to see other couples doing the things we do the rare ...
A. 29 November 2007: It sounds as if you are trying to take on your problems and hers.
Firstly you both need to sit down and have a serious heart to heart because with out each knowing what the other desires you cannot make it work.
Supporting each other is a big t... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband who I cheated with?
Q. I'm married and very regrettably cheated on my husband 5 years ago. After a few months I told him what I did but not who with. (it was with a guy friend but my husband didnt really know him but knew I was catching up with him now and then) My hus...
A. 29 November 2007: hi
Ok firstly it was 5 years ago. If your husband wanted to know who it was with he would have asked about it then. Unless he asks there is no need to tell. As you have said you have come throught htis and are very much in love, dont try to hang ... (read in full...)
He was treated like crap by past girlfriends.
Q. My boyfriend of about 3 months and I are really close. We're so in love and we already know we're going to be together forever. We used to kiss a lot. Now we make out a lot. We have both agreed to not have sex until we are married. When we're ...
A. 12 November 2007: Where you want to touch him is completely down to you. By touching him on the legs it may get him aroused and if you plan on waiting till you are married that may not be a good idea.
His past girlfiends may have damaged his confidence but you can ... (read in full...)
She's too scared to see me and find a solution.
Q. my girl friend and me haven't been together for 5 months and suddenly she was having nightmares that i was raping her. it has been 2 days since she told me she was having nightmares. the nightmare has been going on for 3 weeks. shes scared to go to ...
A. 12 November 2007: Wow that is pretty dramatic. Personal question have you slept together?? If ya can can you get her to send me a private message i think i could help.
Peaches... (read in full...)
When I ended it once, he flipped out.
Q. okay i ended up breaking up with my bf, we had been dating on and off for about 3 months. I finally realized after giving him like 5 chances that i need to be out with my friends and dating different people. so i ended it with him. he said whatever, ...
A. 12 November 2007: Fuck off is a word that is used so often it is unreal.
It mean ok yeah fine what ever i dont really care get out of my face!
His problem is the fact that it was you that ended it it makes him look weak.
Dont worry hunny just move on and have... (read in full...)
I don't want to be alone.
Q. ok i have this problem... basically i think i am a pretty easy person to get on with, or thats what ppl tell me, and i never have awkward silences and people always say im fun... however im always really worried about meeting up with people on m...
A. 12 November 2007: The more you think about this the worse it will become.
Hard as it may seem the only thing really for you to do is to face your fears.
Meet with someone and just let the conversation flow.
Yes there will be moments of silence but simple thing... (read in full...)
How to tell if a guy likes you.
Q. Ok,so i asked a question the other day andit kinda help, thank you the the aunt that answered by the way. Now i would like to ask how can you tell when a guy likes you.? we are very good friends aswell so that might make it more difficul...
A. 12 November 2007: There are many ways in which a guy can show you he likes you and you will not even pick up the hint.
Ok a longing look in his eyes when he looks at you and also the glances that they can give but quickly turn away when they notice that you have... (read in full...)
Would a man in love chase her and not let her get away.
Q. Hi there, just wondered if you could offer some friendly advice? I am in love with a man who is recently out of a 15 year relationship. I'm not sure who left who as he is sensitive about it, understandably. He and his ex wife has split their ...
A. 12 November 2007: 15 years to be with someone is a long time and as bad as this may sound to you he will still love her even if its only a little.
I understand him saying he needs time and i aslo understand the way that you are feeling.
In my eyes its a case of yo... (read in full...)
My four and a half year old just won't listen!
Q. Hello all I'm sure this is a very general question, but i need some advice. My daughter is now four and a half, and just doesn't listen to anything i say. She only listens when i shout, or threaten to give her a hiding. I have to ask her 10 times...
A. 7 November 2007: To be honest its a hard one i know.
I find that raising my voice sometimes just doesnt work.
I found that sometimes when he is bad i take away one of his toys. Then when good i return it.
It did get to the point where he had non in his ... (read in full...)
How do I know he is being serious?
Q. I am really crazy about this guy, but when he asked me out I thought the relationship was going to be better but then after he just got to busy and we can barley talk and we havent been together for to long and he says he wants me to move there for ...
A. 7 November 2007: I think you should sit down and work out the pros and cons of this.
Moving away to be with a guy is a big deal and you have to be 100% sure and happy.
Take things slow and work on your relationship first.
Peaches... (read in full...)
Do I choose a new life and a new baby or my fiances stepson?
Q. Hi, I have been with my fiance for a year and a half and he has a daughter aged 10 and a stepson aged 11 from his previous marriage. Both are difficult children behaviour wise and both bully my son and swear and call me names whilst at my house. I...
A. 7 November 2007: If you are willing to marry this guy no matter how hard it may seem then you will have to accept his son.
Children are smart and know how to play one off against the other.
They will see it that you are taking their dad away from them and you... (read in full...)
My four and a half year old just won't listen!
Q. Hello all I'm sure this is a very general question, but i need some advice. My daughter is now four and a half, and just doesn't listen to anything i say. She only listens when i shout, or threaten to give her a hiding. I have to ask her 10 times...
A. 7 November 2007: Hiya
I sympathise for you so much my 4 year old son is exactly the same.
Although i did get him tested for add etc.
Strange as it may sound and you will probably think im crazy on this.
I read somewhere about a child that had the same ... (read in full...)
Sensei is giving me signals that he might like me!
Q. So I got this Sensei who seems (at least) to me to be treating me better than other students, even better than the ones who are newer or been there longer than me. He'll tease me, give me little nicknames, pick on me...occasionally we'll talk about ...
A. 7 November 2007: Whether you make him feel awkward or not is not the issue.
Its something that needs to be set straight.
If he does like you then i could understand why he hasnt made a move, its the student teacher relationship. Ok so you are not at school but t... (read in full...)
I'm tired of being the other women.
Q. This guy and I were together for a long time, now he is dating another girl and he tells me that he still loves me, always hangs out with me and is always the first one to call or text me. He gets mad when I talk to other guys and still treats me ...
A. 7 November 2007: By him been with another woman while seeing you shows that he has no respect for female in any degree.
Its a no win situation.
Even if he did commit to you, by knowing that he has seen several women at once you would constantly be wo... (read in full...)
What to do if he never accepts responsibility.
Q. What should you do if you have a boyfriend who nevers accepts responsibility for his wrong doing or manipulates situations to make me feel i've done something wrong when i haven't. For example he was hiding his phone and i knew there was somthi...
A. 7 November 2007: You are right you would be better off with out him but obvisioly no one can tell you that you have to leave him that is something you need to decide.
Think of the reasons why you stay with him and if that doesnt amount to much and you thik you... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting?
Q. Hi, Lately my boyfriend of 3 yrs has been acting up he always yells at me and tells me that I stress him. In the 3 yrs he managed to impregnate 2 girls but I forgave him and we moved on but I can't handle his abusiveness. Am I overreacting?...
A. 7 November 2007: No not at all.
In the time you have been together he has got two people preganant and then treats you like crap.
To be quiet honest sfter the first girl got preg i would have been out of the door but fair enough you gave it another try, resulti... (read in full...)
How to get him out of my head
Q. When i met my wife 23 years ago,she was dating a man who i knew and detested,she made it clear to me she had never slept with him,if she had i wouldn't have gone out with her.After a wonderful 23 years with her, i saw this man and asked her about ...
A. 7 November 2007: Try looking at it from a different angle. You have been with her for the past 23 years not him. That is surly better than a fumble she had.
She has commited her life to you by staying with you this long.
Ok so she may have lied and done it to s... (read in full...)
We've talked about having no strings attached sex, but I chickened out. Now he wants to continue to see me without mention of sex, can there be more to this?
Q. I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt know my ex so it was nice to talk...
A. 6 November 2007: Its pretty obvious really.
The first time he came round you sat and talked and had a laugh.
If he only wanted you for sex he wouldnt have got in touch again.
By telling him you want to take thing slow you have laid it bare and he knows whe... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my time of the month to change?
Q. Dear cupid is it normal to miss a month of period?? because i miss mine last month and now it came on the first week of this month..is normal?...
A. 6 November 2007: Yes its very normal, many things can slow a period down. Stress and worry or maybe a diet can.
The main thing is that you still came on.
If you continue to worry maybe speak to a dr.
Peaches... (read in full...)
I like him, he likes me, we cannot date and now my best friend likes him too..
Q. OK. SO i like this guy and i told him and he likes me back, but we're not dating cause neither of us r allowed to get into a relationship by our families. we like eahc other and my best friend likes him 2 now. she told me she likes him 2 days after ...
A. 6 November 2007: What are the reasons why your parents will not allow you to date.
I understand that you both have feelings for each other and it would be mean to stand in your friends way. However if your guy realy likes you then he will wait and not go with thi... (read in full...)
I like him but don't know what to beleive
Q. Well, theres this guy. I like him ALOT. I can't say that I love him, because I'm too young yadda yadda, but it feels like it. I was SO sure he liked me back. Examples: At a dance, he asked me to dance 3 or 4 times. The next day at a party, he asked...
A. 6 November 2007: By the effecion he has shown you, i would say that yes there is a great chance that he does like you.
By your friend confronting him on the spot on whether he likes you can be embarresing and really nothing to do with her.
Did you get your fri... (read in full...)
Are things getting too serious? He cried because he thought I fancied my best-gay-friend!!
Q. I'm fifteen and in a steady relationship, and I'm scared things are getting too serious for me. He cried on me the other day because he thought I liked my gay friend. Pathetic since he's gay! Anyway I do like another guy.. and I got really close to ...
A. 6 November 2007: You state that you love your current boyfriend however to ultimatly love him you wouldnt be as "friendly" with another guy.
Breking up with him could break his heart but it will only hurt for a while.
I know it sounds harsh, but you are only... (read in full...)
Did I lose my virginity? Did he? What happened here??
Q. im worried!did it happen? me and my bf was fooling last night. im a v and wanna stay one till im married and my bf knows that. but last nite he did put he's thing in me but not in my vagina but the other one. i really dont know what exactly happened ...
A. 6 November 2007: Ok to start with your boyfriend isnt a virgin because you stated that he had sex before.
To stop you been a virgin you would have to have viginal penetration.
The blood may have been that with the force he maybe tore his foreskin or something li... (read in full...)
He had sex with his close friend... but now she's a lesbian and they're both cool about it - should I be?
Q. hi everyone, my boyfriend told me that he had sex with a close friend of his when they were really drunk it was about 3 1/2 years ago. Now they stayed good friends and today she is a lesbian. they are cool about it as they got on with their lives ...
A. 6 November 2007: You should be glad that he was honest and didnt hide the fact he had once upon a time slept with her.
The fact that they are good friends and she has accepted you into this circle of friends is also a sign that things wil be ok.
I wouldnt be ... (read in full...)
I like this guy, but am I just a booty call to him?
Q. How do I know if this guy is into me? I have been seeing/dating this guy since August. We have been intimate sexually with each other. For him to contact me, I have to text him. If I dont text him, he doesnt contact me nor call me. If I send hi...
A. 5 November 2007: Ask him straight out where you stand. It does sound that yes you are simply a booty call to him but i cant actualy say that. By asking him you will know once and for all.
Peaches... (read in full...)
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