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... Send *eaches83 a private message | | | *eaches83's profile:Im 24 and married. I have one little boy that is 5 and a stepson that is 6.
Im currently in my second year at uni doing a degree in pschology. Hard but keeps my mind going.
Im from the uk which as everyone knows is cold and wet lol.
Hmmm what makes me tick.
I think the main thing would be anyone who thinks they are better than anyone else and tries to belittle others to make them selves look better.
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I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward!
Q. I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward! We have been really good friends for 5 years and I have felt something for him over the past two years but never thought much about it or told anyone that is until my best friend got off w...
A. 8 April 2008: Well thats good to hear. Hope it all works out for you both :)... (read in full...)
I love my wife, but I like the idea of her with another guy. Anyone else have this fantasy?
Q. Hi Are there any other guys out there who would like to see thier wife have sex with another guy. i dream about it and when we have sex talk to my wife about her doinging it with other. i have showed a friend nude pic of her. i love my wife ...
A. 1 April 2008: Hiya my husband has the same thoughts but knows taht he could never let it happen.
For this to happen you must look at the pros and cons all the way
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Why is it I only like guys when they don't show me interest and have moved onto someone else?
Q. hey my problem is i dont like guys who hit on me instead i like guys who dont care for me or who dont ask me out..earlier a guy lets call him jack was crazy about me but i rejected him and he moved on but since he started seeing this girl lets call ...
A. 1 April 2008: Nothing is wrong with you it sounds as if when someone is genuine about you and showing you interest you feel as if you dont need it but as soon as that stops you crave for it. Its another form of attention seeking. People want what they cant have ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 27 March 2008: Hiya
Ive been reading some of the comments that other people have put on here. I myself put one on quiet earlier.
You can see how people differ in their opinions and beliefs.
Abortion is a huge subject and you will get all sorts of opinions but ... (read in full...)
Shall I just carry on my life or get in touch?
Q. Hi there, I'm really lost and seriously do not know what should i do? I'm in a relationship with a girl. Both of us were deeply in love. Even though we do not really know each other very well before start of this relationship, but we knew d...
A. 14 March 2008: I think the best thing is to carry on with your life, by contacting her and maybe getting a respose its quiet possible that the old you will come back and the feelings will really still be there. She has moved on and got herself a new man, maybe yu ... (read in full...)
I really like both of the girls, but I don't want to have to go through anyone cheating on me again!
Q. Ok, my gf and i were doing really well until i caught her with another guy. I broke up with her and i got another gf. Then today, my old gf comes to me and begs me to come back to her, and that she was really sorry. I really like both of the ...
A. 14 March 2008: Cheating is something that most of the world does, i wouldnt go back to your ex it be quiet honest, she found a fault in the relationship between you and decided to look somewhere else, this may happen again.
Your new girlfriend doesnt deserve to b... (read in full...)
I feel as though I am virgin again, having a new partner. Any advice? Anyone ever felt this way before?
Q. I've only have had one sex partner and we're not togather anymore. I'm in a relationship now and it's becoming sexual but i'm nervous to have sex with him. He says it's always the first time with someone new. I feel like i'm starting out as a virgin ...
A. 14 March 2008: It is sort of been like a virgin again, wondering if you will amount to what they want etc. Best thing for you to do is relax and go with the flow. Dont plan to do it, maybe have a meal and then a bath or something. Dont be ashamed of your body, try ... (read in full...)
Manipulative behaviour
Q. Help! I really need some advice and very quickly. I have a situation which I just don't know how to deal with. I am a woman who has a really close relationship with a gay man, - we are best friends, and he and his partner and I are really close. ...
A. 13 March 2008: She sounds a bit of a control freak to be honest. It does sound liek she is trying to manipulate you and get between you and your friends.
I would suggest maybe taking her on teh side and telling her exactly how she makes you feel and that you dont... (read in full...)
I don't know if he likes me or not because he can't say hi to me online.
Q. I was out with my family and another family there was this guy I met. He asked me to give him my msn so I did. We talk online but sometimes he hardly says hi. He asked me out 5 or 6 times I was really busy and had a lot of things I had to take care ...
A. 13 March 2008: Sounds a bit like he may be playing games, now the question is why?
It may be a case of he is into you but just doesnt know how to tell you and maybe waiting for you to make make the move.
Maybe tell him straight how you feel and then leave th... (read in full...)
Does she really like me, or should I get over her?
Q. Hi all, I'm in a really awkward situation at the moment. I've known this girl for 4 years. We were close friends for 3 of them, but I've been getting attracted to her more and more over the past year. I'm a virgin, and she's already had sex wi...
A. 13 March 2008: Its a difficult one really. I could givethe advise that you wouldnt know until you try. However depending on how strong your friendship is it could ruin it and it could go completely the oppisite way.
Maybe make a game of it, this may sound st... (read in full...)
Is there any physical harm in giving or receiving a golden shower?
Q. My husband and I have a great relationship. We have been married 24 years and our only child is on his own now. We have always been open to "suggestions" as long as it doesn't hurt the other or both physically. We always agreed to try what the ...
A. 13 March 2008: Basically no. If it is the same as it is in the uk (urinating on each other) then there arnt really any harm that can be done.
Maybe best place to try it first would be in the shower though.
Good luck and have fun .
Peaches... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 13 March 2008: Well it all depends on far gone you are really. If you are under the 3 month mark it is generally a pill that they give you which starts you off and then another which aborts the baby, a bit like having a really heavy period. Check out this... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and alone. What should I do?
Q. hi, i'm 20 and i've been sleeping with my ex boyfriend, who i love, hoping he would want to go out with me again. i've only just found out i'm pregnant, and told him but he says he doesn't want me or the baby and not to contact him. i unfortunatly...
A. 13 March 2008: I can understand exactly what yo are going through hunny.
I was 19 when i fell preganant with my son, although his father was ther for the first 2 months. We had moved out to a place that was away from my friends and family and knew no one, late... (read in full...)
My husband really wants a baby of our own but I can't have one, what are our other options?
Q. Hello loves, I really am hoping someone can give me a few options here, im 27 years old, and my husband and I have been married for 4 years, 3 years ago we tried for a baby but failed. We've kept trying and no success, I've had 6 miscarriages. Im so ...
A. 13 March 2008: If the case is that you and your husband both want a baby that is your own then maybe you should think about the medication issue.
Many women in the uk have the same problem and have taken this route and have given birth to healthy babies and stay... (read in full...)
I'm 15 with no boyfriend, but I want to have sex...what should I do?
Q. Hey there im 15 ive not had a proper boyfriend (and still don't) but i really want to have sex ino i obviously can't but im so down about it :( help me pleaseeee x...
A. 13 March 2008: Wanting sex can be a tricky buissness, not only are you not old enough due to the law been at the age limit of 16 but also of the fact that is it a case of you want it that bad you are willing to go and get it from anyone and any how?
You need to a... (read in full...)
How can I help my girlfriend handle depression and the past when she won't talk to me about it??
Q. hello, im here out of concern, i have a really loving and awsome gf. we have great communication skills and it is really easy for us to talk and be together...but for the past month i feel that she has receeded into a form of depression..due to ...
A. 13 March 2008: As many people will tell you im sure, all you can do it give her time. Try to not let it show that it bothers you as hard as that may seem.
Make the time that you spend with her happy and stress free and let her know how much you love her and appr... (read in full...)
I've felt intense waves of pleasure...did I have an orgasm?
Q. I'm 17 years old and female and my girlfriend is currently living interstate. Recently I've been experimenting with masturbation whilst text messaging her, but up until a few days ago I felt barely any pleasure. However the last few times after a ...
A. 12 March 2008: Putting it bluntly YES!!!... (read in full...)
He likes us both!
Q. I finally plucked up the courage to tell the boy I liked the way I felt about him and he told me he felt the same way about me and has done for a while. The problem is, he didn't think I liked him in that way so he's met somebody else from another ...
A. 11 March 2008: Best thing you could do is 1)dont pressure him into anything
2)dont make out that he would be better off with you
3) be paitent and act normal around him
4) and the biggest one dont wait forever, ie dont let him string both of you on.... (read in full...)
Should we try for the third time for the sake of our child??
Q. Ok. We have all been there. So I would like to here from those how have made it through. A break-up with my partner for 2 years; there was hardly any good times. And if it was good it was just because if he amount of passion between us. Now we...
A. 11 March 2008: Honestly no. If it comes to the point where he shows that he hasnt changed your child is at an age now where it can understand things more around him/her. To see you maybe argueing etc wouldnt be right for the child.
Also you stated "should we get ... (read in full...)
We broke up, I want her back but she won't give me a straight answer!
Q. Dear Relationship Advisor, I've got a big problem and was wondering if you could help. But its kind of a long story so bear with me. A few years ago I met a really nice and fun girl. I was immediately attracted to her because of her ...
A. 11 March 2008: You are hanging onto a hope that may not happen. Lay your cards straight on the table and give her one more try.
If she declines then move on. You are missing out on so much in life well still pining after this girl.
Its time to start thinking... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward!
Q. I have fallen in love with this guy but it's awkward! We have been really good friends for 5 years and I have felt something for him over the past two years but never thought much about it or told anyone that is until my best friend got off w...
A. 11 March 2008: Tell him, if he decided taht he doesnt want any relations with you and decideds to also break the friendship off then to be honest it wasnt a true friendship.
Honesty and trust are major issues in any relationship.
You may be surprised at the out ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my sister in law, not sure on the signals she has been sending...
Q. I need some input from people out there. Here is my situation. I am married man, happy with all aspects of my marriage expect my wife and I have relations about once a year. Over the last year or so, I have been talking online to a friend who is ...
A. 11 March 2008: Honestly! dont go there not only would you ruin your relationship with your wife but most probabaly the relationship between the sisters.
If you want to be with this woman you need to work out the reasons why. As far as i can see the only reas... (read in full...)
I need an opinion from straight women who watch porn.
Q. I need an opinion from straight women who watch porn. What type of porn do you watch - intercourse, lesbian, blowjobs etc. I also need an opinion from gay women who watch porn. What type of porn do you watch - intercourse, lesbian, blowjobs etc...
A. 11 March 2008: Generally it contains everything. That way you can rule anything out that doesnt turn you on and narrow it down to the few that do.... (read in full...)
I have a foot fetish, is it weird?
Q. is it wierd that i like to climax on a girl's feet and toes and then suck her toes then finally climaxing after i done that? i have a foot fetish and i like eating my own climax as well off her body....
A. 11 March 2008: Its not weird many people have strange fetishes. ... (read in full...)
Is he with me only for sex, if he has an erection every time he sees or touches me?
Q. My boyfriend gets an erection each time he sees or touches me, is that a good sign? or does it mean he is with me just for sex. i need much response from the male sex....
A. 11 March 2008: Ok i may not be male but i could give a response.
My husband is the same i only have to give him a peck on the cheek and he has an erection. Yes he is highly sexed, but i assure you that he is not with me just for the sex.
I think you should f... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to stop looking at porn? Should I take erotic pictures of myself?
Q. I married my husband a little over a year ago. We now have a baby together. While I was pregnant, I discovered for the first time that he had been looking at porn online, with repeated views of one particular girl. We had been living together for ...
A. 8 March 2008: Hiya hunny
There is nothing wrong with a man looking at porn however for him to be checking out the same girl is a little worrying.
It doesnt generally mean that he wants to have sexual relations with this girl, he may just like the ways she loo... (read in full...)
I'm 8 months pregnant and 16 yrs old, but I want to have a singing career, any advice?
Q. I have a problem, i wonder if any of you can help. Im 16 years old almost 17 and (foolishly!) im 8 months pregnant. However ive just noticed that i have a real talent for singing and i would love to pursue this career. i dont want to be tied d...
A. 1 February 2008: Having a baby is something that will change your life. I disagree with Baby duck saying that you should give it up for adoption. Yes there are many people out there that would love to have children but cant, however this is your child and you must ... (read in full...)
My gf did something real stupid-she shoplifted and landed herself in jail! What should I do?
Q. I have been in a great relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years now. She seemed to be so wonderfully different from every girl I have ever dated. She's beautiful, sweet, and, above all, a good person at heart. Tonight something happen...
A. 22 December 2007: You need to address the problem and find out why she did it. Was it through peer pressure from her friends that are use to doing this sort of thing. Peer pressure is something that is hard to get away from. Right now she will need you more that ever ... (read in full...)
She hangs out with bad people! Should I just forget about her?
Q. I've got a crush on this girl hu I've been talking to on msn for two years now simply cause am too shy to ever speak to her in person. her best mate used to be going out with my mate they broke and then started an on and off relationship I always t...
A. 22 December 2007: By telling her that she is doing something wrong has got her back up. 99% of kids and young adults today are chavs adn vandals and that is something you either get use to or walk away. Think to yourself on whether you want this girl enough.
My advi... (read in full...)
Cant get over him....he doesn't even know how much I want him
Q. hi, i have a crush on this guy that i have known since i was 8. We were in the same school for 10 years until it finished. Now im working and hes finishing off in college. We would say hi/bye when we saw each other. The thing is that now im 18, and ...
A. 22 December 2007: Because you have known him so long you should know him well and be able to talk to him quiet easy. Tell him exactly how you feel.
That way you are putting it all on the line and once and for all will know where you stand. You may find that he is i... (read in full...)
My ex keeps texting me after I told him not to. What should I do?
Q. Why did my ex text me last night asking if I stayed at home crying too? I broke up with him about 3 months ago because he was emotionally abusvie. The last time he texted me was a week ago when I said it was over and asked him not to contact me-he ...
A. 16 December 2007: It sounds as if he had a hold over you. That he was the dominant one and now you are not together then he has lost that power. By asking if you was at home crying he is in a way testing you. If you were to say yes then he will know that in a way he ... (read in full...)
Where do guys like to be rubbed when they're given a handjob?
Q. when ur tossing a guy off, does he like to be rub from bottom of penis to the top (so upwards) or from the top to the bottom (so downwards towards his pelvis)? ...
A. 16 December 2007: It all depends on the guy really. You would have to ask which he prefers.
If you are close then this will be easy to ask.
Good luck
Peaches... (read in full...)
I like someone who's working on my house. Do guys like it when the woman makes the first move?
Q. This is a question for the men on the site. I like someones who's doing work on my house at the moment. Do men like it when woman make the first move...or ask for your number? He's back on tuesday and i want to do something about i...
A. 16 December 2007: Yeah its an equal world and there can be shy guys out there!!
If you want something go for it and dont tip toe around it, come out with it straight and be confident.
good luck :) peaches... (read in full...)
Can virgins pass on STD's?
Q. Okay so I'm going to ask the same question that I asked last time about 3-4 weeks ago becuase I really don't think I gave enough detail and no one really gave me an answer I was looking for. So, my question was can a virgin pass on STD's? Becaus...
A. 16 December 2007:
http://www.intheknowzone.com/stds/facts.htm
copy and paste this it tells you the stds and how they can be transmitted etc hope this helps
:) Peaches... (read in full...)
I've spoilt my baby by picking her up all the time!
Q. i have spoilt my 5 month old by picking her up all the time since she was born cause she was a sick baby now i have trouble with her wanting to be picked up all the time she absolutely scrams the house down with tears and all. how can i get her to ...
A. 8 December 2007: As harsh as it may sound you need to leave her to the screaming when she does it. Ok see if she is ok etc but do not pick her up. It may take a while and it may hurt you to do this but it is the only way.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I don't know if my teacher is being too nice...
Q. Hey, im sorry guys if these seems stupid but i really need some help. There is this trainee teacher at school and everyone says he likes me far too much. He asks everyone where i am if he cant see me and he always comes to sit with us at lunch to ...
A. 8 December 2007: Ok firstly report him to an adult. He is not been proffesional at all and you obviouly do not lik ethe "attention" he is giving you.... (read in full...)
How do I know for sure if I love him?
Q. I am even more confused now then when i first posted a question like this. Ok, heres a brief introduction to my stituation. I really like this 17 year old who also really likes me. We talk all the time on msn and i see him 5 days a week which is...
A. 8 December 2007: Its a hard one.
He says he loves his girfriend however is willing to kis you and not regret it. You cannot say whether it is love or not really.
Yes you will get over him if you choose to walk away. Although it will take time.
Think to yo... (read in full...)
How do I find out if her needs are genuine?
Q. I am 59 years old, married for 28 years till wife died 7 years ago since then have had 2 serious relationships neither of which lasted. When on a business trip a couple of weeks ago I meet a lady aged 41, this was in the Philippines. We chatted on ...
A. 8 December 2007: You hear so many stories regarding things like this. You have answered the question for yourself though.
You do not have enough money to lend her.
I would be as worried about it as you too.
Im sure she will understand and if she do... (read in full...)
Some problems, please help!
Q. Right, well here I have a number of questions rolled into one. Last year (just before the end) I moved school. My Mum and Dad worked very hard to get me into set 1 of English. The teacher kept me behind at the end of last lesson and told me that I ...
A. 8 December 2007: Ok you need to address why they may be moving you down? If it is a case of you arenot doing good in these lessons then you need yo buck your ideas up and sort it out. Study more etc.
To me this girl has got in the way of your studying. You are thin... (read in full...)
What do you want, or look for in a relationship?
Q. For all you girls and guys out there what do you want or look for in a relationship?...
A. 6 December 2007: Hmmm. Well my relationship is great so i have found everything i need. My husband knows me and is my best friend. I wantsed soem one that supports me but still lets me be independant. Understands me and is easy to talk to.
Shares some of the ... (read in full...)
What do you want, or look for in a relationship?
Q. For all you girls and guys out there what do you want or look for in a relationship?...
A. 6 December 2007: Hmmm. Well my relationship is great so i have found everything i need. My husband knows me and is my best friend. I wantsed soem one that supports me but still lets me be independant. Understands me and is easy to talk to.
Shares some of the ... (read in full...)
How is a 17 year old suppose to endure all this? Please read.
Q. i don't know what's wrong with me...somedays i feel happy and carefree as if nothing can ever go wrong and then other days i feel sad and lonely like there's somthing missing in my life...something important and i just don't know what it is. then ...
A. 6 December 2007: I think you need to sit with your dad and explain to him how he makes you feel.
Im assuming you havnt had any sort of help with the abuse. Try some councelling.
Talking about things can help a lot.... (read in full...)
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