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Does losing your virginity make you bleed??

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Question - (3 November 2007) 9 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I am 17 and i am close to losing my virginity. I just have one question though. The first time someone has sex (females) do they bleed? and does it hurt?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Its true you do bleed havving sex, but usually only your first time, and its only a little bit. Also, it does hurt, but only for a couple of minutes-and don't be so tense or it could hurt more once you do it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007):

it does hurt a little I did tear up a little but I mean its not horrible... I bled a little.. but I stopped about an hour after and it wasn't a lot of blood...

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A male reader, amiamuppett United Kingdom +, writes (6 November 2007):

im not going to lie to you, it does hurt and yes some girls bleed some girls dont, if you tell him to be slow it will be fine chick, MAKE SURE YOU WHERE PERTECTION.

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A female reader, Misha_is_lost United Kingdom +, writes (3 November 2007):

Yes, in most cases loosing virginity leads to bleeding, not too much blood though. You may experience a little discomfort, but it wont last for long. You may need to wait a day or two to have sex again just to make sure the wound is healed completely. Hope this helps

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A female reader, superdopah United Kingdom +, writes (3 November 2007):

i wouldnt use the word hurt but it is quite uncomfortable, and some people bleed some dont! i found that it was more sore for a couple of days after the act then during

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A female reader, lovehate United Kingdom +, writes (3 November 2007):

lovehate agony auntYes you do bleed and yes it does hurt, depending on the female the amount of pain is different. A few people i know said they found it hard to walk the next day.

It's messy and uncomfortable first time.

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A female reader, confussed????? United Kingdom +, writes (3 November 2007):

When i lost mine i didnt...but some of my friends did. so i guess it depends on the person.

And aslong as your relaxed and comfortable with the situation it shouldnt hurt.

Hope this helps

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007):

Yes you will bleed but it does not hurt, if it feels like the right moment then you can take it that step further, but if you are being pushed into it then you do not have to go through with it. Im not saying dont do it, im just saying wait untill the time is right for you and not when its convenient for him.

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom + , writes (3 November 2007):

peaches83 agony auntIt can hurt sometimes and yes you can bleed although not alot just light spotting.

Due to it been your first time i am presuming your partner also know its you rfirst time to, take things slowly and go at your pace.

Your first time is suppose to be something your remember forever so enjoy, try to stay relaxed and enjoy the moment.

All the best

Peaches

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