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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and this is his first real relationship. At first there were no problems, but now he orgasms very quickly. Is it me? What can i do to put it right?
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (3 November 2007):
Some very good information here from Peaches, she speaks a lot of sense in her answer.
In coming quickly he is obviously very turned on by you and very turned on by whatever you do when you are both intimate. What is this if it isn't the ultimate compliment that he feels he has no way of hiding.
I will add one thing to what Peaches has said though and that is take your time. One of the easiest ways to get a guy to cum quickly is to be intense and erotic. If it is a scenario where you are both ripping each others chothes off with your teeth in a state of despiration, that kind of intensity will get most guys comming in seconds rather than minutes.
If everything is slow and gentle where the arousal is very gradual there is a much better chance of him holding out longer. Also do not be afraid to stop. To actually just lie there still without moving a thing for 20 or 30 seconds can take the guy away from the edge a little. It is a commomn practice in tantric sex and can be very enjoyable for all concerned.
With a bit of practice you will no doubt enjoy taking him right up to the edge a number of times in a session and I can quite assure you that he will certainly have nothing to complain about there too.
Hope this can help out a bit - keep trying and keep having fun.
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (3 November 2007):
 In a way take it as a complement.
Many men have the same problem. Premaure ejeculation is one of the most common male problems.
Try with less forepaly and see if that works.
Also try with just foreplay. Say if yu were to give him an hand job just as he is about to come, grip the end of his penis, not hard but in a firm manner, release and build him up again.
Let him cum and then have sex. They say that once they have already come it takes longe to come a second time.
Have fun.
Peaches
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