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writes:Hi thereI'm 21 and so is my boyfriend of nearly 3 years, and a few days ago he sprung it on me that he has a fetish for rubber.He could see myshocked expession i think and quickly changed the subject, ive been thinking and i don't really have any vices like that.what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): its only the same thing if you get turned on by blokes that ride bikes or men that wear rigger boots its all just fantasy. if that what gets him going whats the harm. if you really dont like the idea then try to explain things to him im not saying that you should go the full hog and dress up as cat woman totally in rubber but maybe a dress that you like or boots or a skirt that you could ware once in a while to suit the mood maybe that would be a starting place but if your totally against it tell him the truth and dont try and make him feel guilty about telling you. he told you because he trusts you and for no other reason maybe you will find a fantasy of your own that the two of you could share one day so dont shoot him down for having his now. you never know it might suprise you the way that it makes you feel and he might go off the idea and you may want it to continue. ever thought of that. good luck
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (5 November 2007):
 You have been together for three years and have come to the point in your relationship where you are comfortable in saying what you want and desire. You will have something in your mind that maybe you would like to try out.Many men like different things and to me rubber is pretty mild.Check out http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/or http://www.annsummers.com/They could give you some dressing up ideas.Enjoy ;)Peaches
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): Vice? Hon, it is not a "vice". It is no different than somebody who gets turned on by a gal in a mini-skirt or a kilt. He is not a "perv". Lighten up. You probably have a few "fantasies" of your own.
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