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writes: Okay, I haven't spoken to my ex in 3 weeks, and he just texted me saying that I don't have to text him back but that he wishes me well. I broke up with him, and after we broke up he kept calling and texting and emailing me even though I told him not to. I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive. Well, I was fed up with him contacting me so I got really mad at him and texted him that I hated him and that I would never forgive him for what he put me through. I obviously didn't mean those things, I just said them out of anger. But I didn't apologize because I was afraid that if I contacted him he would think we had a chance. Anyway, I don't want him to think he is the bigger person by wishing me well and that I'm not, so do I text him back say I also wish him well and that I'm sorry for what I said? Right after I broke up with him I said I'd pray for him and that I wished him well. But, then I got so fed up with him that I truly spoke my mind. Do I just ignore his text and get on with my life? Is that what he is doing? Because I told him never to contact me again 3 weeks ago and he still is. So, is he moving on or is he still stuck on me? Sorry it's such a long question, I just need some advice asap!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): If hes emotionally abusive to you then don't text him at all and move on with your life because if hes saying this then he has. leave it in the past and leave it on that number. don't do it.
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 Yes just walk away.
You didt go into detail of what type of abuse you got so i cnt suggest the points that you need to address with him to give yourself and him that fianl closer.
If you do not contact him he will get the message and you can both move on with your lives
Love is a strong thing and yes it is hard to get over so even though you are nolonger with him just think what he may be going through tbeacuse you broke up with him.
I understand that it is also hard for you and you sounded like you needed to get out of it.
You will both have happiness someday
Peaches
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