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writes:My boyfriend of about 3 months and I are really close. We're so in love and we already know we're going to be together forever. We used to kiss a lot. Now we make out a lot. We have both agreed to not have sex until we are married. When we're making out, he rubs his hands all over my body. Down my legs, around my back, my sides and my stomach, and he rubs my breasts through my bra. All of our clothes are still on, my shirt is just pulled up. Usually I run my fingers through his hair and rub the back of his neck and all over his back, his chest, and his shoulders. Sometimes I feel like he's doing all the work though. Should I start rubbing his legs, too or just keep it the way it is?*He's had about 2-3 girlfriends before me and they all just treated him like crap. This is the longest relationship he's had and his family is in love with me. But this is my first relationship so I'm pretty inexperienced. Any advice will be much appreciated!! Thanks!
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 Where you want to touch him is completely down to you. By touching him on the legs it may get him aroused and if you plan on waiting till you are married that may not be a good idea.
His past girlfiends may have damaged his confidence but you can build it up. You has said you know you are going to be together for ever so by telling him how you feel and how he makes you feel will brig this back up and he will trust you and know that you are no like the rest.
Good luck
Peaches
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): this is difficult for me to answer cos im not celibate... but seeing as you intend to marry him and not have sex until you marry... this will be the only guy you are ever with in your entire life... so you two should feel free to experiment
rub his legs if you like... and see if he likes it
or ask him what he would like you to do
if you are that close you can talk about these kinds of things
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