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My ex keeps texting me after I told him not to. What should I do?

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Question - (16 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

Why did my ex text me last night asking if I stayed at home crying too? I broke up with him about 3 months ago because he was emotionally abusvie. The last time he texted me was a week ago when I said it was over and asked him not to contact me-he replied with asking me why. He loves me unconditionally and that he can't bring himself to forget me. I haven't responded since a week ago when I told him to stop contacting me. I miss him and still love him, but he just didn't treat me right and we don't have the same religious beliefs. Anyway, do I text him back? Ironically, I was at home last night crying about him too, but I haven't told him. Why did he text me that? Is he just feeling sorry for himself or is he trying to get back with me? Why is he doing this?

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A male reader, pandueddy Namibia +, writes (17 December 2007):

pandueddy agony auntit is pity on you, many guyz try to pretend as they have learned from their mistakes but honestly this not true, try to see him discuss the matter with him if you still feel him but remember always the final decision is in your hand. good Lucky!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007):

you can start by changing your phone number

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2007):

peaches83 agony auntIt sounds as if he had a hold over you. That he was the dominant one and now you are not together then he has lost that power. By asking if you was at home crying he is in a way testing you. If you were to say yes then he will know that in a way he still controls you .

My advice would be to tell that no you wasnt and that you wish for him to leave you alone.

No one should put up woth been in an abusive relationship and congradulations for having the strength to get out.

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