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writes: Why did my ex text me last night asking if I stayed at home crying too? I broke up with him about 3 months ago because he was emotionally abusvie. The last time he texted me was a week ago when I said it was over and asked him not to contact me-he replied with asking me why. He loves me unconditionally and that he can't bring himself to forget me. I haven't responded since a week ago when I told him to stop contacting me. I miss him and still love him, but he just didn't treat me right and we don't have the same religious beliefs. Anyway, do I text him back? Ironically, I was at home last night crying about him too, but I haven't told him. Why did he text me that? Is he just feeling sorry for himself or is he trying to get back with me? Why is he doing this?
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reader, pandueddy  +, writes (17 December 2007):
 it is pity on you, many guyz try to pretend as they have learned from their mistakes but honestly this not true, try to see him discuss the matter with him if you still feel him but remember always the final decision is in your hand. good Lucky!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): you can start by changing your phone number
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reader, baby duck  + ♥, writes (16 December 2007):
 I remember your previous post. You said he was emotionally abusive. Therefore, his brain does not function fairly ... it's in manipulative mode and it's stuck.
Don't over analyze this. Change your number. Be very selective about whom gets your new number.
Take it from one who knows ... if you don't fix yourself, you will be held in bondage in these kinds of relationships forever. You are a magnet. You have to change. Manipulative people and co-dependent people attract each other. Healthy people are not attracted to, nor do they attract, manipulative and co-dependent people.
Really. Put co-dependent traits in your browser and start learning about yourself, and how you do have the power to change. You see yourself as loving and giving and you may be, but if you got trapped in a relationship like that, you crossed the line into 'doormat'.
Please, please, please ... I don't want you to be my age before you figure this out. Fix yourself.
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reader, peaches83  + ♥, writes (16 December 2007):
 It sounds as if he had a hold over you. That he was the dominant one and now you are not together then he has lost that power. By asking if you was at home crying he is in a way testing you. If you were to say yes then he will know that in a way he still controls you .
My advice would be to tell that no you wasnt and that you wish for him to leave you alone.
No one should put up woth been in an abusive relationship and congradulations for having the strength to get out.
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