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writes: Hi all,I'm in a really awkward situation at the moment.I've known this girl for 4 years. We were close friends for 3 of them, but I've been getting attracted to her more and more over the past year.I'm a virgin, and she's already had sex with about 6 guys at least, or so she says. There's no way she's going to be interested in a girl like me, but I love absolutely everything about her. I've never felt this way about anybody before in my life. She's the only girl i've ever even thought of liking, but am I gay?I'm so confused, and she's been distant with me recently, but we've started to become close again. I want to tell her how I feel about her, but I'm scared she'll hate me for it.It sounds stupid, but It's the little things like the last time I slept over at her house, we were topless and we were tickling eachother all over. We slept in the same bed, and so many thoughts were running through my mind while she was asleep next to me, it's untrue. She sends out so many mixed messages. She says things like "love youuuu" but I'm not sure if she means as friends or what. How do I know if she's into me?Please help,x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the help, I really appreciate it.
I'm gonna stop hers again soon, and I'll just see how things turn out.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 She might be bi. I've never tickled one of my friends while we were both topless. All you can do is ask. Otherwise you will just keep wondering "What if?" And if after that she rejects you even as a friend, it's her loss.
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Its a difficult one really. I could givethe advise that you wouldnt know until you try. However depending on how strong your friendship is it could ruin it and it could go completely the oppisite way.
Maybe make a game of it, this may sound strange i know.
Play the good old game of truth or dare.
Truth, Have you ever kissed another girl or had feelings in any way for a girl??
Dare, now thats a little harder really.
If you dont ant to do it like that maybe each write some stuff on paper and place them in a comtainer and then you each pick one at a time and complete.
Dont make it all on whether she has feelings or kissed girls etc put some of the normal ones in like running round the street naked or something like that.
Also if you are of age then make a girly night of it get maybe a few round and a couple of bottles of wine.
Peaches
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (13 March 2008):
 You two have been close friends for a long time; however, it is obvious that she is interested in the opposite sex, or so you think. I would suggest talking to her about your feelings and not make any moves on her that could damage the relationship. If she's a good friend, she'll listen and discuss it openly.You know her better than anyone right now. It's as good a time as any. Just be prepared for any answers she may give-one way or the other.Gena
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