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I'm obsessed with my teacher and feel I am in love with her!
Q. Well, I know this is a very redundant topic on here, and I've read a bunch of questions and answers. But the thing is that most that I would like to reply to have been closed. So I finally decided to post my own, as no one question/story is quite ...
A. 22 March 2008: I don't think she knows. I mean, I know if a female friend started talking to me about my personal life, or said she knew where I lived, I wouldn't think she had romantic feelings for me. Heterosexual people tend to assume everyone is ... (read in full...)
Does this mean my teacher like me? My friends threaten to tell another teacher of our supposedly inappropriate relation.
Q. I know it's another teacher situation but help would be much appreciated … I’ve had a pretty rough year – the loss of my Nan triggered a huge bout of depression which hasn’t really left me but through it all I’ve had my teacher helped me through....
A. 14 March 2008: He's not 'taking advantage of you' or anything like some of the previous posts have mentioned. He's trying to be a nice guy, and you are in need. All he's doing is trying to help, and through your interactions, he's become attatched to you--but I ... (read in full...)
How should my friend handle her teacher's remarks, perhaps improper?
Q. my bestmate has been feeling really uncomfortable in one of her lessons lately. the teacher said she was really pretty and if he were the same age he would have probably asked her out. just yesterday he said that he had a girlfriend when ...
A. 28 February 2008: Oh my god, the hello1 person needs to stop telling everyone to report everything.
Okay, you've said very vauge things that could be viewed as inappropriate. Sometimes teachers are just trying to make conversation. The CONTEXT of his comments... (read in full...)
Should I turn my teacher in after the suggestions he made?????
Q. Hello all School ended for me for the end of the year in December (we have our summer holidays in Dec-Jan) and I gave a letter to a teacher I had a little bit of a crush on, because he was leaving. The thing was, I wasn't actually in his class and...
A. 28 February 2008: In answer to your question, your school won't throw you out. All records of minors are kept strictly confidental--you and your parents can't even access them, let alone a school or law institution.
I would STRONGLY suggest not going through ... (read in full...)
Should I turn my teacher in after the suggestions he made?????
Q. Hello all School ended for me for the end of the year in December (we have our summer holidays in Dec-Jan) and I gave a letter to a teacher I had a little bit of a crush on, because he was leaving. The thing was, I wasn't actually in his class and...
A. 28 February 2008: Hello.
As someone who has reported an ex-teacher (with whom I flirted, despite his wife and children) for inappropriate behavior, I'm telling you DO NOT REPORT HIM. You will regret it everyday for the rest of your life, because it will ruin his... (read in full...)
How do you show somebody you love them??
Q. How do you show somebody you love them??...
A. 25 February 2008: Through small gestures. The little things in life can express the largest emotions.... (read in full...)
I feel like my teacher is seducing me...what should I do??
Q. Hello! I went up a year at school and acquired a new teacher, not being arrogant I'm traditional with true morals old fashioned yes, however this seamed/seems to attract such teacher unintentionally. She is single and a genuine nice (young) lad...
A. 20 February 2008: If you must go, go to her house after you graduate.
And even then, make sure that you want whatever could or could not happen because if you turn around later and say that she took advantage on account of your age, you'd trash both of your rep... (read in full...)
I feel like my teacher is seducing me...what should I do??
Q. Hello! I went up a year at school and acquired a new teacher, not being arrogant I'm traditional with true morals old fashioned yes, however this seamed/seems to attract such teacher unintentionally. She is single and a genuine nice (young) lad...
A. 19 February 2008: To help you out, I'll do a point by point reply:
'You impressed me': This doesn't sound suggestive at all. You should be happy about her comment instead of questioning it.
'Smooth talker': Yes, you are one. She probably was teasing you more... (read in full...)
Liked this girl for a few years, how do I tell her without getting freaked out??
Q. Im 13, currently in school (obviously) and i really like a friend of mine (same age), although i dont know if she likes me as much as i like her. She smiles when she greets me, she helps me alot, but she also yells at me and gets angry at me for no ...
A. 10 February 2008: Tell her that you're happy you met her because she's this great person and you're so lucky to have her as a friend. You could also mention how her laugh and smile always cheer you up, so you're excited to see her everyday.... I don't know. I'm... (read in full...)
Liked this girl for a few years, how do I tell her without getting freaked out??
Q. Im 13, currently in school (obviously) and i really like a friend of mine (same age), although i dont know if she likes me as much as i like her. She smiles when she greets me, she helps me alot, but she also yells at me and gets angry at me for no ...
A. 10 February 2008: Pick her a flower on your way to see her. That's the best present idea I can give you. You probably shouldn't spend any money, and if you do, don't spend a lot. Maybe some of her friends like some of your friends more than they like you? In th... (read in full...)
Is he leading me on here?
Q. Hello, I'm 15 years old and I've met this guy in my Italian class, I really love him, I've never felt this way for anyone. So when I finally decided to talk to him, to my surprise he talked to me first. The next day he talked to me again, something ...
A. 9 February 2008: He might think you're attractive, but he probably thinks of you as more of a friend. How many people in the class are his age? If most of them are closer to your age, you probably are just his friend in the class. I think you may be ... (read in full...)
Looks V Personality, which do girls prefer??
Q. What do girls mostly like personality of the lad or the looks ?...
A. 9 February 2008: I'm attracted initially to looks, but if there's no personality, there's no way I'd date him. I think if there's a strong personality, looks don't matter so much, but it's difficult to tell about the personality since you have to put so much effort ... (read in full...)
Is my teacher's behaviour really unprofessional?
Q. Is my teacher's behaviour really unprofessional? I like him he is a really sweet guy but my mate has recently said that he fancies me? which i dont believe to be true, but is what he doing suspicous and prehaps the reason why my mate thinks this? H...
A. 9 February 2008: It sounds like he's just a nice guy. I mean, if he had a friend who was a teacher and did the same things with him/her, would you think he was flirting or just being friendly? It sounds like he thinks you're nice... he could think of you in a ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance my teacher might like me as well?...
Q. Hey my name's Lana and I am in love with my highschool teacher. Now please don't say it's infatuation, a stage, a crush or any of that. You can't really tell me what I feel i'm sorry but I've heard that to many times before and I just don't like it ...
A. 9 February 2008: He might like you too. Is he dating anyone? I know with one of my teachers, whenever his wife is away he gets kind of lonely and will want to talk to me for awhile about more personal stuff, like his kids or his other job. I've stayed after ... (read in full...)
I have a huge crush on my teacher, and I think he likes me too. What should I do?
Q. I really like a teacher at my school and he dosent actually teach me but we talk and we get on really well. I also think he likes me too. What should i do? Do i tell him or just keep talking to him and act as if i don't? ...
A. 3 February 2008: Woah, yeah it does say that. Sorry, I do that type of thing sometimes.
30 is still young, though. He's at that point in his life when he wants to settle down if he hasn't already. You should get to know him on a more personal level. Find out... (read in full...)
What did my teacher mean when he said "I'm not playing favourites now"?
Q. ok first off me and my bff's were walking down the hall way to get my sweatshirt so we could go outside and 2 of our teacher both menwre standing by the lockers and and to go outside and i said i need my sweatshirt so then the teacher that always ...
A. 3 February 2008: He was probably referring to him favoring you. Lots of times older men can come off as flirty, even if they just mean it in a joking way. I don't really know why he'd make your friend leave.... He was probably just messing with your head. When ... (read in full...)
I have a huge crush on my teacher, and I think he likes me too. What should I do?
Q. I really like a teacher at my school and he dosent actually teach me but we talk and we get on really well. I also think he likes me too. What should i do? Do i tell him or just keep talking to him and act as if i don't? ...
A. 3 February 2008: If the age gap is that small, and you've almost graduated, I would advise you to keep things at a friend level and then once you're 18, start moving things in a romantic direction. Plenty of students and ex-teachers have had successful, healthy ... (read in full...)
Could he have said something bad about me or am I reading too much into it??
Q. There is this boy that i like and i heard a few weeks back he may like me? He is friends with one of my friends. She asked me the otherday (she knows i fancy him) what is the most you have done over a boy? (she meant like cried over one). I sai...
A. 3 February 2008: You're looking too much into it. If you like him, you should hang around him to see if he likes you or not. Don't rely on gossip. And she probably was 'just wondering'... I don't see how that could mean he said something bad about you. Like I ... (read in full...)
How do you know someone is in love with you?
Q. How do you know someone is in love with you?...
A. 3 February 2008: If you really love someone, you wouldn't ask the question 'how do I know it's love?'.... You just know. Being around the other person highlights your day. You can't stop smiling even if you've just had the worst day ever. Your significant other ... (read in full...)
Should I go through with this marriage?
Q. I need help! I have been living with my fiance the past 2 years and engaged for 1 year. We are supposed to get married in 4 months! I just found out from a friend he cheated on me the first year and a half we were together. He has now admitted to ...
A. 3 February 2008: Talk to him about it, and tell him that you don't entirely trust him anymore. Going to a marriage counsler could work. If nothing else, you should talk to your mother or a sibling and express your feelings. Lots of times talking these things out ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's sister is accusing him of sexually abusing her!
Q. I have been dating a guy for a year and a half and about 4 months ago he had an argument with one of his sisters over the father's will and she accused him of sexually abusing her while they were growing up. This took place over the phone but I was ...
A. 3 February 2008: This could be true or it could not be. Even if it was, though, you don't know if she means when he was 7 or when he was 17. If it was when he was age 10 or under, he was just a kid, and he's a different person now. Small kids make ... (read in full...)
Liked this girl for a few years, how do I tell her without getting freaked out??
Q. Im 13, currently in school (obviously) and i really like a friend of mine (same age), although i dont know if she likes me as much as i like her. She smiles when she greets me, she helps me alot, but she also yells at me and gets angry at me for no ...
A. 3 February 2008: I would advise not to ask her out yet. You should start with small gestures, like holding doors for her, asking if she needs help carrying something heavy, or complimenting her outfit/hair/shoes/necklace/smile/anything.
For her birthday, make her... (read in full...)
When we are close, my teacher gets physically hesitant and somewhat nervous. Is it a sign he likes me?
Q. I go to a private coed boarding school. Teachers and students are encouraged to become close, and we will often visit each other at each other's homes to say hi and whatnot. I'm close with a lot of my teachers, but I find myself attracted to one...
A. 31 January 2008: Hi.
He sounds like he's at least good friends with you. He probably won't make a move past that, especially since he's hesitant whenever he gets close to you.... I think you should talk to him. Decide first if you want something more than a t... (read in full...)
Does my teacher have feelings for me?
Q. I've fancied this teacher at my school for 3 years, i've recently realised that I think i'm in love with him. Lately he's been making innuendo's that he may have feelings for me too. When i'm around him he constantly stares at me, and when I look a...
A. 30 January 2008: To me, it sounds like he's your friend but maybe he's having romantic feelings for you that he's embarrassed about.
My teacher and I had the same type of thing going on. We'd always make each other laugh, and there were some really good deep con... (read in full...)
If a guy asks for a hug does this mean he is interested in me?
Q. There is a man at work (different departments, we don't see each other every day) that I have been friendly with the past few months and I believe there has been a spark going on (for sure it has for me, not completely sure about his side). ...
A. 29 January 2008: It could or it could not. Different people have different personal space limits. For example, if I hug someone, that means that I love them romantically--I don't hug friends or family (I'm part of an extreme, I guess). There are also people who ... (read in full...)
I love my married soulmate, but he is married and not to me!
Q. Well....I met my soulmate backin 1994. He was determined to get my attention, and when he did, we were instantly in love. We were both young, I was 17 and he was 19. Of course, at the time, I had no clue he was my soulmate, but did know that I ...
A. 28 January 2008: I think you already were the demise of his marriage. It seems as if it was pretty much over anyway, but now with you in the picture.... It's just a matter of time. It could be a very long time, though, depending on how old his children were. A ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is going downhill and I have always liked his cousin and I know he likes me.
Q. Dear Cupid I have been in my current relationship for 9 years. We have 2 kids together but apart from that the relationship has been going downhill for a long time. The whole time we have been together i have had feelings for his cousin. We both...
A. 25 January 2008: I would say, if you do anything, put your children's interests first. If you do get a divorce, make it a gradual change and stay in good relations with the kids' father. You shouldn't have been unfaithful to your husband, with his family member, ... (read in full...)
How do I handle competition?
Q. I love someone. He loves someone else. She's beautiful. And I've just found out that she has an an amazing voice too. How am i meant to take his attention away from her? She's just using him. I don't want to see him hurt, not again....
A. 24 January 2008: Competiton should be played with honor and dignity.
That being said, you probably shouldn't view this as competing. If you really like him, he's more than just a game to you. Take his feelings and place them before your own. Show him that you... (read in full...)
I made a terrible mistake! how can I prove I didn't mean this?, I am only 12
Q. my problem is my older sister will not talk to me at all because me and her 11 year old girl did some touching (you know) the thing is my older sister ha something similar to her happen when she was my age (11) she wont talk to me or my mom at all ...
A. 21 January 2008: Even though it was a mistake, you've inappropriately touched your niece... which is fairly disturbing. You are still young, so over time this will pass, but you need to stop interacting with your sister's daughter like that. If you knew your ... (read in full...)
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