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writes:I'm 18 and coming up to my last fews months studing my A levels at 6th form, the problem is i can't stand the thought of leaving and more so a teacher of ours who has grown to be a really good friend is leaving to go back to Australia (where he comes from) he leaves when we do and i can't stand it, i worry everyday how i will say goodbye. The thing is he's 27 so 9 year age gap but slowly without even relizing i feel so in love with him, i no there are loads of these stories but i can't help but think when he leaves i'll never see him again and i will be in pieces, i can't even tell him but the thing is i would follow him to the end of the earth if i had to. Is this really wrong if he's leaving the country and i'm 18 and in a few months he wont be my teacher at all x
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reader, nicole5178  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 If you all are friends, tell him you want to keep in contact b/c you value his friendship. Give him your email address, and then maybe he'll reciprocate.
You could also just tell him how you feel, but it would be better if you waited until you all emailing back and forth. Then maybe bring it up. Is there any reason why he would like you, too? I mean, if it's obvious he's in love with you, or some other bizarre extreme, then you could just tell him--it'd probably be what he wants to hear in that case. But even if that wasn't the situation, it typically is flattering that someone has feelings for you, so he won't be angry. To keep him safe and to keep the school administration out of it, though, I recommend saving your romantic outburst until after you graduate--I strongly strongly strongly recommend waiting.
...Hope that helps you. Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): I see no reason you can't tell him how you feel.But you must understand that he cannot reciprocate those feelings legally until he is no longer your teacher.Flynn 24
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