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writes:What really impresses a guy? What will grab his attention (in a good way) and make him return that attention to you?I'm asking this to use on my boyfriend for a spark, and for future reference should I ever need it.Thanks =]
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reader, Odds  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 Loyalty. Go out somewhere public, and no matter how many people are around or how interesting things are, pay 90% of your attention to him. If some better-looking guy hits on you, even better - introduce your boyfriend, and then pay zero attention to the other guy. Hang on his arm. If your friends show up, brush them off to be with your guy.
Don't worry if it makes you seem dependent or shy, the idea is that he knows you aren't just going to leave when something better or more exciting comes along. Besides sex, the number one thing guys seek is loyalty.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (26 October 2010):
 Heels do make a man go gaga..Now the ones with straps going all the way up to your thighs?? I'm thinking the only place you're going to find those is in a sex shop. You can do thigh high boots with a heel..Channel Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): How about some excitement and enthusiasm? Lol!
Honestly, are you doing things 'for yourself' - stuff you're really interested in, either taking a course or bellydancing or whatever you might be interested in...?
Exercise/walking/jogging and good nutrition can replenish your energy and give you that glow too!!
Fresh happy new energy can be one of the most exciting things for a guy!
(Regardless how you dress!:)
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reader, mrvhappy +, writes (26 October 2010):
Anything that makes a woman look elegant/Sopisticated & classy...without trying
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (26 October 2010):
How about in what you don't wear? I'm talking going commando under that little cocktail dress.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (26 October 2010):
 I'm tempted to say something facetious like "a little cleavage goes a long way" or "show just enough to keep them guessing what you're hiding" but I won't. Keep a good posture though.
And the truth of the matter is, confidence is the sexist thing you can wear. (Oh, and a kick-ass red lipstick helps!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): Flash her tits
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 Ok i know am not a man but ive had a lot of insight in how a man's head works.If you are wanting to put a spark in to your relationship with your boyfriend then organise a romantic night in. Wear a nice fitted black dress and do your hair and make up. Treat yourself to a tan or a wax and go and buy some sexy underwear and suspenders and do a strip tease for him, his eyes will be fixed on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): Hi,
If it isnr broken dont try to fix it
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): A nice dress...if you are going out for lunch/picnic.
something sexy like a red/black cocktail dress if its for dinner.
Lingerie if its in bed ;)
and if its for a day to day basis - just pick something that looks good on you...show off your best assets...i mean if you have nice legs...wear skirts. If you have nice hair..leave it open once in a while and so on..
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): Something skimpy but not like street walkerish... like tube top with a push up and skirt always looks good and has always turned BOTH my heads ;)... when a girl dresses sexy I get motivated to look good. Like when I used to go clubbing...Id wear all white suits and a splash of armani black code.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (26 October 2010):
 Confidence, confidence, confidence!! For example, walking down the street with your head held high. Men will take notice of that, and if your with your boyfriend at the time, he'll notice the attention your getting and realise that you come home to him every night, will give him a massive ego boost!!!
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (26 October 2010):
Well it would totally depend on the guy. If he is romantic at heart then do something romantic for him, like plan a surprise of some kind for him. Or you could do something more sexual and out of the blue, like send him a really unexpected sexual text message like "hey I have no underwear on and I can't stop thinking of you" he will be totally blown away by whatever you do, all you need to know is what kind of things he would like. If you don't know then perhaps you could get to know him better and find out!
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