Should I be making an exit strategy?
Q. So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and we have a lot of problems. It seemed to start out good and then she confessed to a major lie. She told me that her brother's wife died and he is unable to take care of his kids so she ...
A. 28 February 2009: Well... That's gunna be a hard road if she isn't agreeing. But, have you thought of getting guardianship of the kids or something like that so you could get rights, like visitation?
I would go speak with a family court judge/lawyer and see what... (read in full...)
Should I be making an exit strategy?
Q. So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and we have a lot of problems. It seemed to start out good and then she confessed to a major lie. She told me that her brother's wife died and he is unable to take care of his kids so she ...
A. 28 February 2009: Well... That's gunna be a hard road if she isn't agreeing. But, have you thought of getting guardianship of the kids or something like that so you could get rights, like visitation?
I would go speak with a family court judge/lawyer and see what... (read in full...)
Should I be making an exit strategy?
Q. So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and we have a lot of problems. It seemed to start out good and then she confessed to a major lie. She told me that her brother's wife died and he is unable to take care of his kids so she ...
A. 28 February 2009: Well... That's gunna be a hard road if she isn't agreeing. But, have you thought of getting guardianship of the kids or something like that so you could get rights, like visitation?
I would go speak with a family court judge/lawyer and see what... (read in full...)
My wife & mother are constantly fighting! What can I do?
Q. my mother and wife keep arguing. my wife and i are 21 and my mom is 47 and i think they are both to old to be fighting the way that they do. they scream and yell at each other all the time. sometimes my mother brings my wife to tears when they ...
A. 20 January 2009: Support your wife. Most people forget to support their spouse when this happens...
I would tell your mom that she needs to knock it off. She is your wife. Your family now. Explain to her that you understand that for her, its hard for her to see h... (read in full...)
Is it always left for a guy to pay while you're dating?
Q. Ok, question for ya...! Is it always left for a guy to pay while you're dating? Or even afterwards when you make it official?!? I ask this because a few of my guy friends joke around and say..."Nah, I'd rather stay single. It costs a lot to h...
A. 20 January 2009: I actually think it should be the other way around. I believe that in the early dating, a man should be a MAN and reach into his pockets and pay for the date. After a few years, if the woman wants to treat her man with paying, that's ok. But, not ... (read in full...)
I think I might be falling for my co worker.
Q. This is long, and I'm sorry. I really don't know what to do, but i figure asking will help me get it off my chest. I'm 16 years old (17 in a week) I think I might be falling for my co worker. He's 22, and an assistant manager. Our work envi...
A. 20 January 2009: When I was your age, I dated a few co workers. One being an assistant manager.(At the very beginning of the relationship, I was 17, he was 21) Its a bad idea. Really bad to date your co worker. Even if the higher ups don't mind, it just causes an ... (read in full...)
Herpes???
Q. Well I was having sex with my girlfriend and I did something stupid, I kissed her when I had a coldsore and then I asked her to give me oral and she did it then we had sex. She bit me while giving me oral and the next day I found a red spot along ...
A. 19 January 2009: I have heard that is a possible way of passing herpes.
Both of you should see a doctor...soon.... (read in full...)
He's masturbating more than I can count!
Q. Recently for past 5 months my husband masturbates more than i can count. Our love life had been really awsome and try to play out fantasys! I accidentally caught him one morning with my underware before getting in shower. Tried to over look it but ...
A. 19 January 2009: All men masturbate. No matter how pleasing their sex life is, no matter how much they love their wives, no matter how attracted they are to their wives...
Don't worry about it. And please don't spaz on him about doing it. All men do this...a... (read in full...)
Ex really hurt in accident-should I go see him? Or not go?
Q. My situations is this: theirs this guy which I'm intrested in and vise versa, but my ex boyfriend of 3 years has recently had a very bad car accident.. My ex boyfriends sister came to my house telling me that her brother wants to talk to me, he ...
A. 19 January 2009: That was very big of you to go. At least he can't say you didn't even hear him out.
Good job.... (read in full...)
I rarely get head but she REALLY doesn't want it herself either...
Q. I have a question regarding variety of sex dropping off in general, and cunnilingus in particular. My wife and I have been married nine years, been together for fifteen. No kids. When we were first got together we were quite open to most "stan...
A. 19 January 2009: I must say that DoubleM has hit the nail on the head. That was a perfect answer!!!
Never push and push when a girl says she doesn't like something sexual. It will just make matters worse.
Follow DoubleM's answer. Your out come, more that likely... (read in full...)
Was I an asshole?
Q. One night came home after work and was horny as hell. I ended making love to my girlfriend. She's extremely self-conscious about her breasts because of a birthmark and won't take off her bra for me no matter how I beg. Anyway I couldn't take it ...
A. 19 January 2009: Oh my god. That was so wrong of you.
Brace yourself. I wouldn't be surprised if she packed her stuff and left your butt.
Why in the world would you do something like that?!
That was a horrible thing to do! The best thing you can do is get ... (read in full...)
Why does my mum keep hitting me?
Q. I love my mum, but she has been really stressed at work and my dad has been ill. She has started hitting me almost every night really hard. I'm covered in bruises and don't know what to do. She never hits my twin brother or my sister and I don't ...
A. 18 January 2009: I was horribly abused by my mother. From 7-14. It was everyday. Beatings would last for hours sometimes. At 14, I moved away from her to live with me dad, and have lost all contact with her...its been over 10 years.
Back then, I wish I had gone... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slapped me
Q. Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...
A. 18 January 2009: Abusers ALWAYS start with a shove, a slap. And before you know it, it spirals out of control, and your trying to hide a black eye. How long have you been with him. It usually take about 18 months to fully see someones true colors, and chances are he ... (read in full...)
When I go pee goop comes out
Q. Alright so on September 25th, 2008 i had sex with one of my friends. He had a girlfriend and we still had sex anyway. ( i now dumb move, dont tell me about it.) he wanted to have sex with me because he was a virgin and so was i and he didnt want to ...
A. 18 January 2009: I believe she said her clit burned when she was eaten out or was intimate...
I don't know. To me, sounds normal. Thrush is just a yeast infection. You can buy things at the store to clear it up, like the other poster said.
Why don't you sit do... (read in full...)
Ex really hurt in accident-should I go see him? Or not go?
Q. My situations is this: theirs this guy which I'm intrested in and vise versa, but my ex boyfriend of 3 years has recently had a very bad car accident.. My ex boyfriends sister came to my house telling me that her brother wants to talk to me, he ...
A. 18 January 2009: It depends on WHAT he did during your relationship.
I have an ex who was extremely abusive. Absolutely horrible man (and I use that term loosely.) If he was in a wreck, and wanted to talk to me, it would depend on how badly he was hurt. If he wa... (read in full...)
Should I be making an exit strategy?
Q. So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and we have a lot of problems. It seemed to start out good and then she confessed to a major lie. She told me that her brother's wife died and he is unable to take care of his kids so she ...
A. 16 January 2009: Oh wow. This is pretty huge.
Before I can say anything, what do you mean by exit strategy? To plan your escape? I can see how it would be hard to believe her. She obviously has problems with telling the truth. The lie she is telling is just obs... (read in full...)
I want to call her, but I also think if she really cared she would have called by now...
Q. Hello Everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read this as I am completely lost right now and could really use some advice from an outside party other than my friends and family. I know this is a long post but please, if you have the time, read this ...
A. 16 January 2009: Wow. Everything in your situation is JUST like what is going on in my relationship. ( We are still together, but I moved home in november.)
I am going to cut to the point, and not sugar coat this with 1000 words of condolences before getting ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and have just broken up. The main problem in our relationship was that we never had time for eachother because of our demanding jobs. He got a relationship with someone at work, and that was when we broke up. We didn´t exactly part ways ...
A. 16 January 2009: Pinksky32002-
I have looked up abortion pictures online. From all stages. First trimester abortions. Second trimester abortions. Late term abortions. I DO NOT agree with abortions as a form of birth control. I believe that you should take ... (read in full...)
When I go pee goop comes out
Q. Alright so on September 25th, 2008 i had sex with one of my friends. He had a girlfriend and we still had sex anyway. ( i now dumb move, dont tell me about it.) he wanted to have sex with me because he was a virgin and so was i and he didnt want to ...
A. 16 January 2009: To me, it sounds like vaginal discharge. Not an std. If it was an std, you would have other symptoms. A foul odor. It wouldn't be clear, it would be a strange color like green or yellow. It would burn when you pee. Your vagina may itch.
I think th... (read in full...)
If I'm supposed to get pregnant it will happen no matter what
Q. Im not sure if it is just 17 year old logic or what, but my mom is putting me on birth control, because she doesnt want me to get pregnant before I am ready. I have had a pregnancy scare before, but the test said I wasnt pregnant and life went on. ...
A. 16 January 2009: Wow. Your logic is amazing. It would startle me if these words were coming out of a womans mouth who was my age, in her mid 20's. But, sweetheart... You are young, naive and dumb to the world and just can not properly see consequences for your ... (read in full...)
My ex-boyfriend/teacher is mad I hooked up with another guy in my class
Q. well... i have a really stressful situation.... ive been going out with my boyfriend for 1.5 years now.. hes 23 and im 18.... im in my last year of school, and he's an english teacher... a few weeks ago, he got a permanant posting at my school!! ...
A. 16 January 2009: "Breaks" can be tricky. First thing that came to mind when I read this was, "But...I thought they were on a break?" Then, I remembered why some breaks end in disaster. Did you two set up rules for this break? As in, you can see other people, just no ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and have just broken up. The main problem in our relationship was that we never had time for eachother because of our demanding jobs. He got a relationship with someone at work, and that was when we broke up. We didn´t exactly part ways ...
A. 16 January 2009: I wouldn't tell him if you don't keep it. All that will do is cause extra drama between you two. Do you want that?
If you DO keep it, telling him or not will no doubt be a tough choice.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and have just broken up. The main problem in our relationship was that we never had time for eachother because of our demanding jobs. He got a relationship with someone at work, and that was when we broke up. We didn´t exactly part ways ...
A. 15 January 2009: Oh lord. There goes flin24 again, a man, trying to tell a woman what is right for her womb. Flin, you have no idea how hard it would be to carry a human being within your very own body, labor and then deliver it, just to hand it over. That is ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and have just broken up. The main problem in our relationship was that we never had time for eachother because of our demanding jobs. He got a relationship with someone at work, and that was when we broke up. We didn´t exactly part ways ...
A. 14 January 2009: I wouldn't tell him until you are sure that you ARE keeping the baby. Now, let me tell you, I am very pro-choice. I believe in the womans right to choose and become greatly annoyed with poster like the second one on here, where they do not know your ... (read in full...)
I wonder if it's possible to be pregnant and still kind of get your period?
Q. I wonder if it's possible to be pregnant and still kind of get your period. I had sex with my ex boyfriend on Dec 15th. The very next day I felt nauseated, the day after that I felt nauseated and had sore breasts, then I got a cold so the symptoms ...
A. 14 January 2009: Bleeding during pregnancy is NOT normal and should NOT be taken lightly.
That said, take a pregnancy test. That will answer your question.... (read in full...)
Anyone had sex on a first date that turned into a relationship?
Q. I just wanted to know if anyone has ever had sex with a guy on a first date and it turned into a relationship? Men and Women please both answer. Thank you....
A. 14 January 2009: Yes. I have had first date sex that turned into a relationship. But, I always felt that it started on the wrong foot and things were missing. We skipped that usual dating, and jumped right into a sexual relationship. We didn't go through the normal ... (read in full...)
When I go pee goop comes out
Q. Alright so on September 25th, 2008 i had sex with one of my friends. He had a girlfriend and we still had sex anyway. ( i now dumb move, dont tell me about it.) he wanted to have sex with me because he was a virgin and so was i and he didnt want to ...
A. 14 January 2009: Hunny, its vaginal discharge. I wouldn't listen to the MALE responder. I don't think he has a clue about vaginas, saying he isn't a proud owner of one...
And that small little bump is your clit. Now, is there intense inching? Is there a smell? I... (read in full...)
When I go pee goop comes out
Q. Alright so on September 25th, 2008 i had sex with one of my friends. He had a girlfriend and we still had sex anyway. ( i now dumb move, dont tell me about it.) he wanted to have sex with me because he was a virgin and so was i and he didnt want to ...
A. 14 January 2009: Its just vaginal discharge. Completely normal. It usually starts around your age. Don't worry. Its normal. Every woman has vaginal discharge. You will begin to notice that at different times of the month, it will take on different textures and ... (read in full...)
He lost it during oral
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for about three months now. We haven't had sex yet but we've fooled around and stuff. He's given me oral and i do him, every time i've given him head he has always ejaculated. So anyway the other night, we were fooling ...
A. 14 January 2009: This happens to guys sometimes. Girls can take it pretty hard, figuring they didn't do something right, or their boyfriend isn't turned on by them. But, when this happens to THEM, they tend to be effected by it more than the girls... Let it go. ... (read in full...)
Period 9 days late!
Q. Hi any advice would really help me I slept with boyfriend a few times without using any contraceptive. I know this was stupid so please do not point that out. But i am now 9 days late, but i have taken 3 seperate pregnancy test which all say ne...
A. 13 January 2009: If you are getting negative results 9 days after you were supposed to start, I would wait another week, and if you haven't started, test again. Your worries may be causing a delay in your cycle.
Those tests are very accurate. I'm leaning more tow... (read in full...)
He is about to become a Dad, and has only just told me. What do I do now??
Q. I have just found out that my boyfriends ex-girlfriend is 8 and a half months pregnant with his child. My boyfriend and I have just got back together after being separated for just under a year and although I knew that during that time he had slep...
A. 13 January 2009: I don't know if I agree with the other posters. This shows character! This shows A LOT about the person he is. Plain and simple... Its a little disgusting.
My daughters father was with his current girlfriend for almost a year before confessi... (read in full...)
I would really really really like for her to stay skinny as she is!
Q. Hi there. This is my first post, but really there is only one question that has ever been on my mind about my marriage for the last six months. How do I tell my wife that she is developing a gut and that she needs to workout/run? She is smart en...
A. 13 January 2009: How would you feel if she told you your dick was small and wasn't pleasing her? Telling her that you want her to loose weight will be the same slap in the face.
Grow up.... (read in full...)
His confession is haunting me!
Q. I'm not sure why I'm so upset and whether or not I should be. Little background info: I've been married for 3 years (we've been together for 6). We share common interests (the same profession, passion for diving, love for animals, we have two cats ...
A. 13 January 2009: Abused children tend to act out. I have heard of abused children abusing animals. Sometimes that is a stepping stone for bigger abuses in the future. But, obviously not the case with your husband. A very small part of me wants to say this is normal. ... (read in full...)
Married young, no kids, divorce dilemma!
Q. Hi I'm in a love triangle and I need your help and advice.... I'm 19 years old and I'm married so I guess that would make this not just cheating but have an affair... I've been married a little over a year now and we dated 2 years before we got ...
A. 12 January 2009: Wow. I feel for you. This is the perfect example of two things: marrying to young, AND marrying for the wrong reasons.
Sit down and figure out what you want. And don't be in haste. Take your time. If in time, you still can't choose, I would se... (read in full...)
She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant... could it be possible she is?
Q. Ok so my gf and I are really scared. A few days ago I rubbed my penis against her vagina. I am 99% sure there wasn't any pre cum on my penis because there has never been before. She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant like feeling sick ...
A. 11 January 2009: She wouldn't be having pregnancy symptoms a couple days after the act was done. Now, if you two have had unprotected sex before, then it could be possible.
Sounds to me she is about to start her period and is experiencing PMS.... (read in full...)
Choked during sex...was it wrong of him??
Q. I've been with my overly passionate, subtle and lovely boyfriend for some time now. He's not very spontanous, everything seems like a walk in the park... and almost routine. Last night we had sex. And he started choking me towards the end out of the ...
A. 11 January 2009: I had an ex boyfriend choke me during sex once. He warned me before hand and told me to touch his shoulder if I wanted him to stop (kind of like tapping out, so to say.) Its supposed to be done while your having an orgasm, as its supposed to ... (read in full...)
Afraid to tell my mom I want birth control
Q. hi, so i have a boyfriend. we lost our virginity to each other a while ago. i know we're young and it's illegal blah blah but we were ready.. we're in love and we have sex quite a lot.. well every time we spend the night with each other at least. ...
A. 11 January 2009: At your age, I would go for a form of birth control that is hard to mess up. I wouldn't recommend the pill. There are far to many way things can go wrong with the pill. I wouldn't trust MYSELF with the pill... Try the depo shot. You get it every ... (read in full...)
Is she faking it or not?
Q. Hey, I had only had sex a few times before I met my current girlfriend, and these times I have been drunk. Now i've started sleeping with her regularly, I'm noticing I can't last as long when sober. She says she really enjoys it, and orgasms quit...
A. 11 January 2009: My boyfriend doesn't last very long... Its really annoying. We've been together for about a year, and I'm hoping that in time, this will fix itself. A few minutes isn't long enough for a girl to get into it, let alone enjoy herself. I have never, ... (read in full...)
Should I go?
Q. My situation: I am in my late 20's and have been seeing my man for a year. I am pregnant and despite not being planned we are both happy about it as are madly in love and want to marry and will soon be living together. My outlook: I am no...
A. 11 January 2009: I'm sure she is aware that alcohol is off limits. There are plenty of "virgin" drinks she could have, and I'm sure that's what she meant.
That said, I would invite your bf to come along. Tell him what you said here... This is going to be the last... (read in full...)
What to do for easier labor
Q. hey everyone, again... im just chilling out in my room and i cant sleep! everytime i get settled down the bby kickes, or moves or idk, i just cant seem to fall asleep. and it really got me thinking about birth and labor. i know its going to hurt, ...
A. 10 January 2009: Hey girl! I know we've been talking through messages, but breathing through contractions do help. Trust me. It does sound stupid, but it works. You have to breath through contractions. So the baby can get oxygen.
Don't be to set in the natural ... (read in full...)
Problems with sex.
Q. I had sex with my girlfriend the other day, there was white stuff all over the top of the condom. Is it possible that the girl can still have white come even if she didn't have an orgasm?...
A. 10 January 2009: Yes. This is normal. Personally, mine can be anywhere from completely clear, to a white that is not transparent. Honestly, it just depends on where she is in her monthly cycle.... (read in full...)
Help!!!! What to do for the best...?
Q. I am currently now 6 months pregnant and 21 yrs old. During the first 3 months of my pregnancy i felt completely alone. When my partner and i found out i was pregnant he thought i would "take care of the problem" but when he approached me about it, ...
A. 10 January 2009: Three years ago, I went through something very similar... My then boyfriend said he wanted children, and when it actually happened, he began signing a different tune. He asked me on multiple occasions to abort the pregnancy and when I didn't, ... (read in full...)
My wife wants a sex change
Q. Yesterday my wife told me she wants a sex change. I was completely shocked by the revelation. I asked her to repeat what she had just said, and she said that she'd suppressed it ever since she was a girl. She said she'd known she wanted to be a b...
A. 9 January 2009: She’s going to HAVE to see a therapist for years in order to have the sex change. Also, live as a man, every day for at least a year before she is eligible. Ask if you can go with her to these therapy sessions...?... (read in full...)
My b/f can't say I love you
Q. Dear readers, I have a question but first let me clarify, I am happy and love my boyfriend. I have no intentions of leaving him. That said, here we go! My boyfriend and I have been dating for a bit over a year and the only problem (in my head...
A. 8 January 2009: For some reason, when you mentioned that his career was an issue, my relationship popped right in my head! My relationship with my current boyfriend is harder than any other I have been in. Because he has been trained to behave a certain way in ... (read in full...)
My b/f can't say I love you
Q. Dear readers, I have a question but first let me clarify, I am happy and love my boyfriend. I have no intentions of leaving him. That said, here we go! My boyfriend and I have been dating for a bit over a year and the only problem (in my head...
A. 7 January 2009: I totally understand what you mean by hes hiding behind he career. My boyfriend is a police officer, and one of the things he does most often, which annoys me more than anything else he does, how he is mister tough guy and isn't that great at ... (read in full...)
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