Should I wipe the street with his ass?
Q. I need advice. Here is the background. My wife is a teacher and has been at the same school for 3 years now. Well, she told me a little after the beginning of this school year (last October) that this guy, who is an ex-boyfriend started teaching at ...
A. 6 February 2009: I don't think there is anything to worry about here. Like the other aunts said, she's being honest with everything that’s going on. He hasn't crossed any line that would warrant you demanding she not go... Until that happens, just don't let it get ... (read in full...)
Infections in having anal sex???
Q. Today I lost my anal virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months but what I didn't actually know [until today] was that you can't use the same condom/finger/whatever in the anus and vagina.. Is there a chance I could get some sort of infection??? and if ...
A. 1 February 2009: A yeast infection is just the tip of the iceberg. There are far worse infections. Just watch yourself, and make note of any changes.
I feel horrible telling you this, but it may give you peace of mind... This happened to me on acciedent one nigh... (read in full...)
Am I hallucinating or is there a possibility of me being pregnant?
Q. I am 16 years old,I just recently lost my virginity about 4 weeks ago.I have a few questions. While me and my bf were having intercourse the condom came off. It is my fault for not stopping him, we kept on having intercourse without the condom for ...
A. 1 February 2009: You said you had your period after this happened? Have you had sex since you had your last period, then, probably not.
I would go to a free clinic in your area and ask for a blood test. If your not, consider yourself lucky, and when your there, a... (read in full...)
Trying to get pregnant and having symptoms not sure what they mean?
Q. I have been trying to get pregnant, I don't know if I am and i just got off of my monthly over a week now. My stomache is getting a little bigger I have been eating a little more then I used to. I just started bleeding again what can that mean?...
A. 30 January 2009: Sweetheart, I am not "dissing" on young moms. But in no way should she be getting pregnant at her age. If it was an accident, that is one thing. But she is actively trying to conceive. That's a whole nother ball game. She can't even form a complete ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is being manipulated by another man. How do I get her to let him go?
Q. I'll start by giving a little bit of detail about my girlfriend and I. We're both 22 years old, we have been dating very seriously for four years, and we are pretty much best friends. We have never had any big fights or rough spots in the ...
A. 30 January 2009: I feel for you here. Most people wouldn't have stayed through this. But, I understand that you love her. You HAVE to put your foot down and say, you will not do this to me. If you don't, and you let her carry on with this bullsh*t, once s... (read in full...)
Trying to get pregnant and having symptoms not sure what they mean?
Q. I have been trying to get pregnant, I don't know if I am and i just got off of my monthly over a week now. My stomache is getting a little bigger I have been eating a little more then I used to. I just started bleeding again what can that mean?...
A. 30 January 2009: For one, you wouldn't be showing ANY signs this early. If you just had your period, you wouldn't be having any signs.
Secondly, why the hell are you trying to get pregnant?! Your 16-17 years old! Are you kidding me?! Your a child! Why are you TRYI... (read in full...)
How can I please my boyfriend without having sex.
Q. How can I please my boyfriend without having sex. He at least wants oral, but I have braces! The wiring is all over my teeth. Plus, my back molers are all strapped on tight with the wiring and pretty sharp. I mean I can feel it with my tongue. I'm ...
A. 29 January 2009: I had braces put on a little later than other. I was almost 18 when I had them put on, and 20 when they were removed. I have all kinds of wires, anchors, everything you could imagine. (my teeth were in bad shape before the dental work) I was able to ... (read in full...)
Sex for the first time.... but I've taken my period!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have never had sex before, and this Saturday was going to be our first time. The only problem is today I have started my period (this morning) and we were planning to have sex either late saturday night or the early hours of...
A. 29 January 2009: I have to agree with Lkw810, my boyfriend says the same thing. And I have heard from countless women, myself included, that sex during her period feels better sometimes. Your more sensitive down there due to increased blood flow to aid in menstrual. ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant and don't know who the dad is? One is white, one is black
Q. I am 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend who thinks he is the dad and is in prison. My midwife worked out my due dates and the baby could have a different father, who is black called W. I slept with them both within a day of each other (as I...
A. 29 January 2009: If you used a condom with W, the chance that it is his is so small, I wouldn't bother telling your now boyfriend. Unless the condom broke or slipped off. Some people would say go on and tell him. I can see that point. But, in my opinion, it woul... (read in full...)
A baby coming soon and a dog who's afraid of loud noises! What should I do?
Q. so many of you know i am pregnant... well the baby is getting closer to its due date and i was talking to my doctor and we came across a problem. I have a rotwiler shepard mix dog. She is an older dog about 11 years but still... she is a rescue ...
A. 29 January 2009: No. Do not keep the dog locked away. That will peak her curiosity and make her anxious to get to the baby to see what it is. The only time you should keep the dog away is if it shows signs of aggression towards the baby AFTER you get home. But, you ... (read in full...)
A baby coming soon and a dog who's afraid of loud noises! What should I do?
Q. so many of you know i am pregnant... well the baby is getting closer to its due date and i was talking to my doctor and we came across a problem. I have a rotwiler shepard mix dog. She is an older dog about 11 years but still... she is a rescue ...
A. 29 January 2009: Our dog is the same way. Maxx knew it was a baby, and dealt with it fine. Maxx was a stray that we found years before my daughter was born, and has deep psychological trama from his "street" days. I actually had to figure out how I was going to keep ... (read in full...)
Is she being immature about this?
Q. My wife and me had our first daughter (she's 6 weeks). I usually like to party after work with some friends so I can wind down (7 times a week) and won't be until 10:00 pm (my wife will be mad at me if I stay any longer). Anyway when I got home one ...
A. 29 January 2009: A newborn is a lot to handle. Poor woman is probably working on very little sleep and needs your help. Why did you have a child with her, and then not take any responsibilities?! Going out EVERY SINGLE NIGHT is absolutely ridiculous. Cut it down to ... (read in full...)
Should I make her or let her go?
Q. This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are ...
A. 27 January 2009: Oh now way, 2old4this! Girls gets crazy at bars all the time, have fun, dance with one another, etc. Maybe she has been a mommy for a few years and is itching to have a little fun again? Maybe she is pushing to show her husband that she would like ... (read in full...)
Should I make her or let her go?
Q. This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are ...
A. 27 January 2009: I really don't see the big deal here. Ok, ok, the boob sucking was a little over board. But everything else, doesn't seem like that big of a deal. I think you still have issues from when she had the affair. I don't think you should try to stop her ... (read in full...)
Afraid to get my hopes up but are these possibly signs that I'm pregnant?
Q. I have been trying for a child with my husband for the past 10 months. We havent had any luck at all. I have had sore breasts for the past two weeks and my period is due on tomorrow. The last period i had, was very light and was slight for one day ...
A. 26 January 2009: OMG! Congrats! I'm so happy for you!... (read in full...)
Sexless in soldier heaven
Q. my brother in law just came home from iraq and will do anything to get out of having sex with my sister. i don't know what to tell her.. can some one help. he was there for 15 months. all he does is invite friends to spend the night and tries to get ...
A. 26 January 2009: Any other way, he's dealing with a lot. When he was home for two weeks, he probably never shut off "war mode" because he knew he was going back. He's in a different mind set now. He probably doesn't want to be alone at night, and he's use to being ... (read in full...)
Sexless in soldier heaven
Q. my brother in law just came home from iraq and will do anything to get out of having sex with my sister. i don't know what to tell her.. can some one help. he was there for 15 months. all he does is invite friends to spend the night and tries to get ...
A. 25 January 2009: Smeedle has hit the nail on the head. He has been through hell. Its not her. In all honesty, its him. Give him time and space. You can't go from a war mind set for 15 months, and then in the blink of an eye snap right back to being a civilian. She ... (read in full...)
Could this sexual practice be very risky?
Q. Hello dearcupid users, Me and my girlfriend have been sexually active for about 4 years now. Lately we been talking about deepthroat, and, although we would like to try it, i feel like i might put her at risk. I dunno, tearing some tissues, ma...
A. 25 January 2009: Some girls can deep throat. Myself being one of them. Now, if your girlfriend is interested in trying this, there is a rule. Never shove her head down on your dick. I have had two guys do this to me, and they ended up with a gentle bite on their ... (read in full...)
My fiance really wants a baby, but I don't want to see her in pain!
Q. Hey um I'm 20 years old my fiance is 17. I was her first + vice versa. We are very much in love, getting married next year, but our (ok, my) problem is that she REALLY wants a baby. I want one too and now is not a bad time, but I hear its very pai...
A. 24 January 2009: First of all, wait a little while? Why are you in such a rush?... (read in full...)
Love from past contacted me after 12 years..we're both married!
Q. What does she want from me? I recently opened a facebook account and not one week after posting my picture a woman from my past that I had asked to marry me sent me a message. She said, after a wee bit of small talk, that she had somethi...
A. 24 January 2009: Wow. That last female poster gave you amazing advice. You really should take that to heart...
I have been keeping up with this thread because it has peaked my interests. And I have had a question in mind for you. Are you bored with your romantic... (read in full...)
How long to have an orgasm?
Q. How long does it take for you to achieve an orgasm? (specifically for girls, but guys can answer too)...
A. 24 January 2009: During masturbation? Oh, about 30 seconds to 2 minutes. LOL
I feel so wrong telling that!... (read in full...)
Love from past contacted me after 12 years..we're both married!
Q. What does she want from me? I recently opened a facebook account and not one week after posting my picture a woman from my past that I had asked to marry me sent me a message. She said, after a wee bit of small talk, that she had somethi...
A. 24 January 2009: Both of you need closure and to get everything said, put it all on the table, then cut all ties. This is an emotional affair on your wife, and her husband. I just don't understand how two married people could really allow these types of ... (read in full...)
Can I be fined for my first offence?
Q. This has nothing to do with relationships or anything like that... I just had a serious question. I got a ticket today for the first time. This was my first offence. The officer who gave me the ticket didn't tell me it was a warning or anything. He ...
A. 23 January 2009: Going against the officer in court is pointless. Its a loosing battle. Don't even bother with it.... (read in full...)
Afraid to get my hopes up but are these possibly signs that I'm pregnant?
Q. I have been trying for a child with my husband for the past 10 months. We havent had any luck at all. I have had sore breasts for the past two weeks and my period is due on tomorrow. The last period i had, was very light and was slight for one day ...
A. 23 January 2009: I remember my breasts hurting SO bad with my first pregnancy. More than usual. It really picked up after the pregnancy test though.
Its either pms or your pregnant. Why don't you go on and test? You can get a good result the day your due for your... (read in full...)
I thought she was the one but now I don't think she's the one
Q. i have been dating her for over two years. we lived together for 1 and a half of those. she has a beautiful daughter i love to death. i have three boys also whom live with their mom most of the time. all young. ranging from 6-13 years old. i moved ...
A. 23 January 2009: Your going to butt heads about parenting. You have only good intentions with her daughter, but when its your boyfriend telling you what to do with your child, any woman is going to get defensive. Mothers are like lions. You just don't cross them ... (read in full...)
We want to have a baby but he had a vasectomy
Q. I need some answers I just got married in Dec and we are wantin to have a baby but he has had a vasectomy so what are the chances of that happening or will he have to get that reversed before we can have a baby?? please help me with this thank you...
A. 23 January 2009: Your chance of having a baby without reversing his vasectomy is 0%. That's the whole point in having it done. To prevent pregnancies...
It will have to be reversed. Some can't be reversed, I do believe. How long has it been since he had it done?... (read in full...)
This is the woman who had the ring question...
Q. (This is the woman who had the ring question) And don't even get me started on his spending. We had a joint account and he claimed that someone came and stole our money. He had spent half of my bond that I got from my grandpa of about six hundred ...
A. 23 January 2009: Well that's not healthy.
Both of you need to strongly consider marriage counseling. Not just him.... (read in full...)
Can I be fined for my first offence?
Q. This has nothing to do with relationships or anything like that... I just had a serious question. I got a ticket today for the first time. This was my first offence. The officer who gave me the ticket didn't tell me it was a warning or anything. He ...
A. 23 January 2009: Yes. What you got was a ticket. You can either pay it, or go to court and pay court costs and then either go to driving school and pay for that as well, or hope you get a nice judge who will give you community service. Like picking up trash on the ... (read in full...)
This is the woman who had the ring question...
Q. (This is the woman who had the ring question) And don't even get me started on his spending. We had a joint account and he claimed that someone came and stole our money. He had spent half of my bond that I got from my grandpa of about six hundred ...
A. 23 January 2009: If you hate him so much, why are you with him???... (read in full...)
I think she deserves a bit of her own medicine
Q. Here is my situation, first the background information: I've been talking to this girl for about 3 months now, shes 20 and I'm 27. She lives with her parents about an hour and a half away from me so I've only went out with her twice. The first time ...
A. 23 January 2009: If you stay...don't be a jerk and throw this in her face every single time she rubs you the wrong way. That’s very childish. Very immature way of thinking that you have...
If you can't get over the fact that you didn't claim her, and she was stil... (read in full...)
I think she deserves a bit of her own medicine
Q. Here is my situation, first the background information: I've been talking to this girl for about 3 months now, shes 20 and I'm 27. She lives with her parents about an hour and a half away from me so I've only went out with her twice. The first time ...
A. 22 January 2009: I do see something wrong in leading men on. Very wrong. I wouldn't want that to happen to me. But I think you missed something that we women didn’t...
1. They were only talking for three months.
2. It was carried on, only on the phone. (You ... (read in full...)
This is the woman who had the ring question...
Q. (This is the woman who had the ring question) And don't even get me started on his spending. We had a joint account and he claimed that someone came and stole our money. He had spent half of my bond that I got from my grandpa of about six hundred ...
A. 22 January 2009: Well, it seems like you have a slacker and user on your hands.
I understand he can't work. But he also can't be spending money like it grows on trees.
Maybe you should wait on the ring and wedding. Everything may not happen NOW. Patience, g... (read in full...)
I think she deserves a bit of her own medicine
Q. Here is my situation, first the background information: I've been talking to this girl for about 3 months now, shes 20 and I'm 27. She lives with her parents about an hour and a half away from me so I've only went out with her twice. The first time ...
A. 22 January 2009: Ryhthmnblues2 has hit the nail on the head. You two were not exclusive. You didn't claim her as your girlfriend. I can see how you see this as lying by omission. But, unless you two have claimed each other, she isn't committed to you. She can see ... (read in full...)
Should I just buy my own engagement ring instead of listening to hubby's sarccy comments?
Q. I've been married for six months, and I've been wanting an engagement ring. I want one carat diamond, but my husband is always making jokes about it like oh that's a car payment, or bump that that's a whole car! Then he made a sarcastic comment ...
A. 22 January 2009: One carrot is not THAT expensive. Its a nice size, but is NOT over the top, like my dream ring! (3 carrot princess cut) I don't think you are asking for to much. And I don't think you should buy your own ring. I think he is being cheap and he's ... (read in full...)
Most of his pleasure is knowing I'm happy??
Q. So I stayed at this boys house last night but i was on my period. Anyway I refused to sleep with him because of this but then we decided to try anyway. He was on top of me and kinda decided just to stop after a few minutes. he had a condom on and ...
A. 22 January 2009: Do you guys normally not use condoms? If you two usually don't, then he would notice a difference. But, I'm leaning more towards the fact that you said it hurt and that may be why he stopped. A normal man will be bothered by his girl hurting during ... (read in full...)
Ready to live with my boyfriend and become estranged to my parents... HELP!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm so desperate I've resorted to asking over the internet. My parents told me they are never going to accept my boyfriend. He is 36 and I am 20. We've been dating for 2 years. He is a nightclub promoter and has been having money pro...
A. 22 January 2009: Never, ever cut ties with your parents. Never do that...
What if, by chance, this doesn't work out? Then where will you go? You see, he fell on hard, hard times. And where did he go for support and help during those hard times? His parents.... (read in full...)
Struggling between my b/f and an older man
Q. I'm in love with my boyfriend whom I've been with about a year and a half or so, and it's perfect together. but recently i've acquired this gradual adoration for an older man that i work with. im 17, and this man is 37- but we click! all day we talk ...
A. 22 January 2009: Don't get involved with a married man... He's more than likely just being nice to you because your sweet. He probably wouldn't leave his wife for you. He is in a committed marriage...that means he's off limits.... (read in full...)
Any way I can have this baby without going to a hospital?
Q. hi everyone, again.... no i dont know how many of you read my questions, but i know mommyofone, responds to every single one.. anyway!!!!! if you guys didnt already know, i am completely FREAKED out of hospitals, the scent makes me want to pass out ...
A. 21 January 2009: How was the hospital? Was it worse than staying home?... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have sex & orgasm when pregnant?
Q. Well you see i am 20 and i just got marries and i am having my first baby i am 13 weeks pregnant and i am as horny as hell. I want to have sex more than ever but my partner says he doesnt want to hurt the baby. is it safe to have sex and an orgasm ...
A. 21 January 2009: Not only is it ok, its good for the baby...in a sense. When mommy is happy, baby is happy. Your doctor will tell you if you should wait on sex. If your dr hasn't said anything, then your fine.... (read in full...)
Any way I can have this baby without going to a hospital?
Q. hi everyone, again.... no i dont know how many of you read my questions, but i know mommyofone, responds to every single one.. anyway!!!!! if you guys didnt already know, i am completely FREAKED out of hospitals, the scent makes me want to pass out ...
A. 20 January 2009: Hey girl!
I understand you really don't like your doctor. But, you only have a few weeks left. If you truly don't like him, over the next week call any doctor you can to find one that may see after your birth. If you want a midwife (who may do a... (read in full...)
My wife & mother are constantly fighting! What can I do?
Q. my mother and wife keep arguing. my wife and i are 21 and my mom is 47 and i think they are both to old to be fighting the way that they do. they scream and yell at each other all the time. sometimes my mother brings my wife to tears when they ...
A. 20 January 2009: Support your wife. Most people forget to support their spouse when this happens...
I would tell your mom that she needs to knock it off. She is your wife. Your family now. Explain to her that you understand that for her, its hard for her to see h... (read in full...)
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