My b/f can't say I love you
Q. Dear readers, I have a question but first let me clarify, I am happy and love my boyfriend. I have no intentions of leaving him. That said, here we go! My boyfriend and I have been dating for a bit over a year and the only problem (in my head...
A. 8 January 2009: For some reason, when you mentioned that his career was an issue, my relationship popped right in my head! My relationship with my current boyfriend is harder than any other I have been in. Because he has been trained to behave a certain way in ... (read in full...)
My period was a week late, is there a possibility I could still be pregnant?
Q. I just wanted to know.... I slept with a guy and I was a week late on my period but I started it today. is there any way possible that I can still be pregnant even though I started? I'm never late ever have been in 4 years so I thought it was very ...
A. 8 January 2009: No. You're not pregnant. Wait a week and take a pregnancy test if you want a little reassurance. But, my best guess is your not pregnant. Sometimes our bodies mess up just a tad.... (read in full...)
Embarrassing noises after sex!
Q. ok.. this is a little embarrassing, but it's to do with when i have sex. Sex in every position is really good and fine.. what i am asking about is when i have sex doggy style.. i enjoy this style the most and so its my favorite to do. the thing...
A. 7 January 2009: This happens to me in this position. And let me tell you, it is sooo embarrassing! This happens because air gets in your vagina. My boyfriend laughs when this happens and he couldn't care less, but me on the other hand...want to DIE! You can help ... (read in full...)
My b/f can't say I love you
Q. Dear readers, I have a question but first let me clarify, I am happy and love my boyfriend. I have no intentions of leaving him. That said, here we go! My boyfriend and I have been dating for a bit over a year and the only problem (in my head...
A. 7 January 2009: I totally understand what you mean by hes hiding behind he career. My boyfriend is a police officer, and one of the things he does most often, which annoys me more than anything else he does, how he is mister tough guy and isn't that great at ... (read in full...)
How do talk to your partner about something you found out by snooping?
Q. question: how do you handle a situation in which you learn information about a partner that upsets you, but can't approach them about it because of the way in which you learned the info? for instance, reading a girlfriend's journal and find...
A. 7 January 2009: I completely agree with Too Sensitive...to a point. I don't know how I would personally approach this situation. I am strongly against snooping. I find it very disrespectful of your relationship and to your partner. Let me use your situation a... (read in full...)
Not sure if I can go through with the abortion
Q. hi there i have just recently found out im 10 weeks pregnant and not too sure what to do. im booked in for an abortion on monday but dont think i can go through with it. im 20 and have only been with my boyfriend for 4months, hes 25 and has a good ...
A. 7 January 2009: Yes. Be sure before you walk into that doctors office. My best advice for you, is to sit down and talk with the father. Let him know that you are unsure about the abortion and need to hear what he says and also put what you want on the table as ... (read in full...)
Is she having a text message affair with this guy or is it all innocent like she says?
Q. hey guys iam new to this site and want your advice. I have a girlfriend i have been seeing for quite some few months and things have really been going well with us until recently when i went through her phone and found text msgs from a guy i had ...
A. 3 January 2009: maybe your blowing this out of proportion...
I get forwards, and they can get pretty dirty, enough to make me blush.
Trust is the number one key in a relationship. If you don't have trust, then you have nothing. If you can't trust her, then ... (read in full...)
Is she having a text message affair with this guy or is it all innocent like she says?
Q. hey guys iam new to this site and want your advice. I have a girlfriend i have been seeing for quite some few months and things have really been going well with us until recently when i went through her phone and found text msgs from a guy i had ...
A. 2 January 2009: Personally, I don't think anyone should snoop on thier boyfriend/girlfriend. That's a big respect thing. You have no respect for your girlfriends privacy.
I really don't think anything is going on between them. Maybe Im nieve. Who knows. I have a... (read in full...)
First date gone wrong - forget him or give him a second chance?
Q. Ok, so I met this guy for the first time..yeah our first date! I noticed a few things about him that I thought were rude, weird, hmmm I dunno you tell me. I go out of my way to cook a nice dinner since everything is closed late NYE. I figured it was ...
A. 2 January 2009: Oh my goodness.
I wouldn't go out with this guy again. Unless you do it for a good laugh at the end of the date or another good story to tell people. But, I wouldn't. Nope. No way...... (read in full...)
Any way to prevent discharge during sex?
Q. My question is a bit of an embarassing one but its something I don't really have the guts to discuss with anyone I know! lol Well..I dont really get much vaginal discharge in day-to-day life but when it comes to having sex, my boyfriends dick ...
A. 31 December 2008: I think you are talking about the white discharge, and not the clear, right?
I have this happen every now and then with my boyfriend. Its normal, and there is noting you can do to keep it from happening. I think its just our natural lubrican... (read in full...)
My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual.
Q. My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual. Here are the reasons: 1. He confessed to me that when he was in middle school he gaved a kiss to a guy because he was curious, confused etc but nothing else happened and he ...
A. 31 December 2008: Yes. The male G Spot is located in the butt. He probably had a girl stimulate it, had an amazing orgasm, and wants to do that with you, too. Iv tried to get my boyfriend to let me try this on him, and like MOST men, he is unwilling. You man is ... (read in full...)
Problems conceiving...
Q. My husband and I have been trying to conceive since July, and so far nothing. I'm starting to worry there may be a problem. Should we go to the doctor or keep trying another few months? Also I noticed when my husband ejaculates most of the time...
A. 30 December 2008: well, first of all were you on birth control before you started trying to have a baby. If you were, it could take up to 12 months for your cycle to regulate. And for you to start ovulating on a cycle.
Monitor your cycles. On a calendar each mon... (read in full...)
Obsessed with wife's ex-lover/experience
Q. This sounds ridiculous but I need some perspective. I've been married 10 years. Good enough marriage. My wife isn't great in bed, and isn't enthusiastic about love-making, even though I sometimes make her howl with delight. However, I've been ...
A. 30 December 2008: Wow.
I have to agree with katatonik and the first anonymous poster. Im a little put off by how you are talking about your wife and in what fashion. Obviously, there is so much more going on here.
Go bad and read the posts by katatonik and th... (read in full...)
Genital Warts present During Pregnancy in Last Trimester
Q. I am currently 36 1/2 weeks pregnant with visiable warts present.I was reading someone else's questions about the same topic and agree that I am always getting a different answer from various people, including mid wives and doctors. I am worried ...
A. 30 December 2008: Never been through this, as I don't have this virus. But, I believe you have to have a c-section. A vaginal birth would pass the virus to the baby. I have read that the baby's immune system isn't strong enough to handle it and may end up in nicu, or ... (read in full...)
Problems with my son's anger
Q. Im a single mum with 2 kids (a 2 year son and 9 month daughter). Since my ex husband and me got a divorce last year he hasnt seen our kids in a whole year. I keep making plans with him to see our son (our daughter is quite a handful) but then he ...
A. 29 December 2008: Wow. My daughters biological father is a flake. He was not in her life until she was about 16 months old, he was around for a few months, and pretty much hasn't seen her since April of this year. She is 2 as well. I know this is going to sound ... (read in full...)
I got an abortion, should I tell my ex?
Q. This October I got drunk and had sex with my ex and I ended up going to the hosptial for an absess on thanksgiving, I found out at the hospital that I was pregnant.. to make a long story short when I got out the hospital the day after thanksgiving I ...
A. 29 December 2008: Flynn 24 is very unknowing in this situation. Ignore him.
You did the right thing. Keep it to yourself.... (read in full...)
I'd like to do oral sex but my g/f has bad smell
Q. i've been with my partner a while now, we are very close and have a great relationship. however i have been wanting to perform oral sex on her for a long time but have always been put off from the smell. i understand it's natural and i would prob...
A. 24 December 2008: Don't ask her to douche!
I have never had a "smell" issue, but douching (?) can actually make it worse. Yes, it would fix the problems for a short time, but in the end, it could make the problem worse. Douche's can cause infections. And if she a... (read in full...)
I got an abortion, should I tell my ex?
Q. This October I got drunk and had sex with my ex and I ended up going to the hosptial for an absess on thanksgiving, I found out at the hospital that I was pregnant.. to make a long story short when I got out the hospital the day after thanksgiving I ...
A. 24 December 2008: You made the right choice. That was very strong of you, and very mature. I agree with what other poster said. There are to many children growing up without fathers...
Honestly, I wouldn't bother telling him. It wasn't his choice. You made the choi... (read in full...)
Newly pregnant, please help!
Q. I have just found out I'm pregnant and it's pretty early on in the first trimester. What are the consequences of me not taking care of myself during pregnancy? I would love it if you could state the really bad and even the small bad things that ...
A. 23 December 2008: Nothing bad with happen to you, my dear. But you will hurt your child. Who did not ask to be mistreated.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I thought I was pregnant just to upset him
Q. I found out this guy was totally using me. He said all the right things. i believed him. He was my FIRST. he knew this. yet he did it anyway. He only wanted sex - even tho he told me he didn't. I also know that he is chatting with other girls - wi...
A. 22 December 2008: I've done that before when I was about 15.
Bad choice.
Don't do it.
I promise, its not worth it.
Just cut ties with him. Let him go. Stop ALL contact. THAT will be a kick in the balls. The fact that you just walked away.... (read in full...)
I miss my Dad and my sibs, but don't want to hurt my Mom by getting back in touch
Q. I know this has nothing to do with being boyfriend and girlfriend but I dnt knw what to do as I stopped seeing my biological father when I was 11 and am now 15 and I really do miss him. He has also got 2 of my brothers an one of my sisters living ...
A. 22 December 2008: I don't know your situation, but, this sounds somewhat like my story when I was around your age.
My parents split when I was 7, and between ages 7-14, my mother would seem hurt when I saw my father. Almost like I should be on her side, and on h... (read in full...)
My boyfriend gets an erection every time we hug
Q. My boyfriend is 18. I'm the same age. Whenever we hug, I feel his erection. And when I look at him he says 'Sorry'. (It's cute. Lol) I know that it's not his fault.. But I was just thinking that perhaps there's a way to get rid of this? It's really ...
A. 22 December 2008: This is COMPLETELY normal. Boys at this age, are nothing but raging hormones. It won't happen that easily in a few years. Come 25, a single hug won't cause an erection. LOL And trust me, this isn't something you want him to get rid of...
I cou... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves sleep more than me!!!!
Q. Hello all, I'm in such a deliemma with my boyfriend, I always feel like he cares more about himself that he des me. When we have sex, we dont really do much foreplay, well thats to say its not returned. I do things to him but he wont do anything ...
A. 20 December 2008: You two are young...
Keep in mind, you can not change someone.
If talking to him fails, try being boyfriend and girlfriend while not living together. That gives him time to grow up.... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 19 December 2008: Tasteofindia is right. Very Sexy, from Victoria's Secret is a fave of mine, and was recomended by an ex. Every guy since him, LOVES that fragrance. The red Very Sexy. They have a few other colors, its the red one. It is an amazing scent...
Sorry... (read in full...)
It will be a lonely Christmas if my sisters BF has to come to dinner.
Q. I have been really looking forward to xmas but now im feeling depressed. The plan was to go to my mums for lunch like i do most years, the only difference being this year my sister has moved out and now lives with my mum and she has invited her boyf...
A. 19 December 2008: Be mature about the situation, and go to xmas, even if she brings her boyfriend.
Just be an adult about it. Your going to come across MANY people you don't like in this life, and you won't be able to always run from it. Don't let a silly little s... (read in full...)
Could there be other guys she has done this too and lied about that also?
Q. I have an issue in my marriage that I am seeking advice. My wife and I have been married almost 3 years, no kids yet, but we have started talking about it possibly this coming year to start trying. My wife told me she was very inexperienced in...
A. 18 December 2008: I agree with Jim, the first poster. His entire post...
I started reading this, and thought to myself, "He's mad over THIS?" Look, giving head does not count as her no longer being a virgin. I understand she didn't tell you, but was that REALLY n... (read in full...)
How can I stand out to his mother
Q. My boyfriend had introduced many of his previous girlfriends to his mother. These were all relationships that ended up badly with a lot of drama, and he told me his mother didn't like them when she met them anyway. His mother is a single working ...
A. 15 December 2008: Mothers are strange about thier son's. Especially a single mother. They are HARD to win over. Almost impossible. BUT, if she's going to like you, getting her presents isn't going to make a difference. Either she will like you, or she won't. Gifts ... (read in full...)
Parents married 36 years, caught dad in bed with another woman!
Q. I caught my dad in bed with another women, he is 60 and been married to my mum for 36 years, should I tell my mum?...
A. 15 December 2008: NO! DO NOT tell your mother. Speak with you dad and tell him he needs to come clean to your mom. It may hurt your mom more if she hears it from you and not your dad.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher I love him
Q. I am in love with a teacher at my school! and I really like him but he isnt good lookin well not really anyway! but he has some kind of sense to him that makes me love him. he is my wallpaper on my fone and i think of him all the time before i go to ...
A. 15 December 2008: No. Don't say anything. It could cause a lot of problems for you AND the teacher...... (read in full...)
We don't want this baby!
Q. hie.. my gf is 1 month pregnant.. we dont want to have this baby .. can u suggest me whether she has to go for an abortion or whether by taking some medicines or pills we can get rid of this baby????/ please reply at the earliest..thanx...
A. 14 December 2008: Yes. Between 4-8 weeks, she can have get the medication abortion. The abortion pill. She will get a shot in the doctors office, and be given a pill to take within 3 days of receiving the shot. Its an induced miscarriage. After 8 weeks, she will have ... (read in full...)
Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner?
Q. This a rather silly question but maybe the answer will resolve a dispute between my bf and I. Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner? I've been with my bf for over 2 years. I never refuse him sex. I don't make him wear a ...
A. 12 December 2008: My boyfriend says its more intense... BUT, i do not have a penis, so I can only go on what I have been told.... (read in full...)
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