Men: would you be turned on or freaked out or something else by this?
Q. Hello lovely men of DearCupid :D How are we today? So, picture this... You wake up in the morning with a hard on only to find your girlfriend/mrs was already 'attending' to it... Reaction please? Would you be turned on? Freaked out? ...
A. 12 March 2011: I'd like to try it. Sounds really interesting.... (read in full...)
How can I tell if the pill is working?
Q. i have just started taking the pill, today is my 3rd day, should i b noticing anything different with my body so i can be sure it is working? or are there no signs? thanks x...
A. 21 February 2011: You're not really supposed to see any signs after such a short time, maybe later you might see a change in your period pattern...
It is recommended that you wait for at least 7days after you have started taking the pill before you start having u... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is having an affair, and I don't know what to do!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together over a year now but lately our relationship is falling apart as we have begain to row about 3 months ago he told me he could meet up for a while as wanted to sort our his career etc but i later found out he has ...
A. 25 January 2011: End the relationship.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is a sex addict!
Q. I never thought this would be an issue, but my girlfriends is sex addict. She wants to have sex at least two times a day or as much as possible. I mean our record is 8 times a night. So to my problem. I really enjoyed this in the first few moths of...
A. 25 January 2011: Does she orgasm every time you have sex? Because lack of orgasms can make a girl crave sex more. And i agree with AuntAmy that she needs to work out more, and when you're having sex she should be more on top so that she can use up her energy.... (read in full...)
New to sex and want to make it better
Q. How can i make sex with my boyfriend better for him? I feel pretty useless.. i mean.. i dont exactly just lay there but like he kisses my neck.. plays with my boobs and bum and stuff.. and i just dont know what exactly to do. hes rather ...
A. 25 December 2010: Its all a matter of time. You'll feel more comfortable with sex and will be willing to try new things. You dont have to push yourself, it will come naturally.... (read in full...)
We're planning to marry, but she's so poor in bed
Q. Pls i need to share this with you, i have dated a girl for 5years and i'm planning to marry her but she is too poor on bed, so i'm confused b/cos i want a very active person. Pls reply it's urgent...
A. 25 December 2010: Teach her how you would like her to perform in bed.... (read in full...)
Is getting an AIDS test scary, how is it done?
Q. So in health class weve been talking about STDS and aids and how it is transmitted through any kind of sex. Two years ago i used to give my now ex blowjobs, but i usually didnt swallow the cum except for once or twice.But my health teacher told us ...
A. 24 December 2010: Go get tested. They say you're HIV positive until you know your status...lol. It is quite scary, especially when you're waiting for your results. But dont be afraid, chances are very slim of contracting HIV through blowjobs, you should be ok. Its ... (read in full...)
I have vaginismus and thick hymen. I am ashamed and lonely.
Q. ~ASHAMED and LONELY~ I have vaginismus and thick hymen, which is the primary reason, while not the only, that has presented me with minimal relationship and sexual experience. I have never experience complete penal penetration, due to the ex...
A. 13 December 2010: You are between 41 and 50 yet you are still insisting on the natural way? Havent you been failing all these years? The way you have described it seems you go through so much pain, and is it necessary to continue going through it? Sorry if you dont ... (read in full...)
Sex with a big guy, will it hurt?
Q. ive had sex with my ex boyfriend almost everyday and he did not have a big package down there and i have been dating my current boyfriend and we did not have sex yet but his package down there is quite LARGE and i am afraid if i will feel the same ...
A. 13 December 2010: It might hurt a little but not like your first time. Just be very turned on so that you are very wet, or use lube. And it wont take you long to get used to your new bf.... (read in full...)
Pleasure without penetration
Q. how can my boyfriend and l pleasure ourselves without sexual penentration?...
A. 11 December 2010: You can give him blowjobs, handjobs till he orgasms. He can finger you, or give you oral until you orgasm. I personally find oral more pleasurable than penetration. You can also do dry humping which others call 'outercourse'. You can rub your ... (read in full...)
I had my period, took the pill and now having my period again?
Q. i want to know the i had sex 2 days after my perieod passed and i took i pill in 72 hours and then i had sex again when i took i pill after tht and now i hav period again is anything wrong with me?...
A. 11 December 2010: Nothing wrong with you. The pill can make your periods irregular sometimes. One time i had sex with my bf three days after my period, then took the morning after pill. Two weeks later my period was back and i was scared sth was wrong, maybe even ... (read in full...)
How do I remove a hicky???
Q. How can I remove a hickey fast!??? It's between my neck and shoulder! I need an answer quicklyyy! please. ...
A. 11 December 2010: Wear clothes that will hide it. I think a hicky is sexy though, shows you were having fun...... (read in full...)
Sex - what do women prefer? And why do some women like to swallow when others dont?
Q. [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Here is a question that I always wanted answered by someone other than my wife.....Why do some girls like to swallow seamen and some don't? What do most woman prefer, oral sex...
A. 10 November 2010: Mmhm. If every woman was to answer, you would get different answers indeed. I dont like the taste of semen, but i swallow it anyway because i love my bf, he treats me like a queen, and he gives me oral without hesitation and makes me cum. My ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with me?? Am I weird?
Q. I've been going out with this guy.. hes soo sweet.. he thinks I am the girl for him, he says he loves me and i know he does:) we've had sex twice now and it was amazing.. i seem to be always horny and seem to be missing him all the time:( th...
A. 3 November 2010: What are you worried about? Whats wrong with having strong feelings for someone, esp if that person loves you back? Isnt it a wonderful feeling to realise someone has such a great effect on you? Unless there's sth else you're worried about, just ... (read in full...)
Am I asking too much? He barely touches me and wont consider oral because of a bad experience with his ex!
Q. Hello, Well I'm 20 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for little under a year, i love him so much and i know he dose me but he never goes down on me and hardly touches me down their. It has gotten to the point that i like being on my peri...
A. 3 November 2010: Mmhm. I was interested your post coz im 20 as well, and ive also been with my bf almost a year, so i felt we have sth in common you see. But what is happening in the sexual side of your relationship is not on. Him being your first lover, he's ... (read in full...)
I know I am not gay and would never even kiss a guy, but why do I get turned on by gay porn?
Q. i'm straight and in a relationship, i've been with many girls, i'm really attracted to them and lesbians, i often find im turned on by girls i shouldnt been like my ex's sisters and stuff. anyway my question is, i like to watch gay porn and get ...
A. 3 November 2010: You're straight. Porn can turn you on, and you like watching other men have sex but it doesnt mean you want to try it. I get turned on by same sex porn but i dont see myself ever having sex with another girl, or watch my bf have sex with another ... (read in full...)
Questions about emergency contraception
Q. My partner and I have been using condoms for a long time as the primary means of contraception. I've tried the pill (5 of them actually) and have had really awful reactions to all of them. Oddly enough I don't have a negative reaction to plan b. My ...
A. 3 November 2010: As the name suggests, Plan B is a second option, for emergencies only. Yes, when condom is your primary contraception you tend to use Plan B more often because of some accidents like breaking or whatever; and sometimes, for whatever reason you can ... (read in full...)
Had a one night stand and now freaking out about STD's, how should I approach this situation?
Q. Hi! I would really appreciate if I could get some answers! Anyway, I went to a party and got drunk to the point I don't remember most of it. The thing is I had a one night stand with a guy I never met before and since I can't recollect anything...
A. 2 November 2010: Ask him.... (read in full...)
Soap as a lubricant?
Q. is it ok to use soap as a lubricant to masturbate?...
A. 1 November 2010: What?? Soap hurts like hell down there! And you could attract a yeast infection. Glycerine can substitute real lube that you can buy from an adult store.... (read in full...)
He's jealous because of the sexual things I did with my ex!
Q. i have a question... my boyfriend of 3 years is jealous of the fact that i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex and he ejaculated in my mouth, and ive been with him for 3 years and he has not done it 2 me. first of all my ex boyfriend treated me like a ...
A. 31 October 2010: "...my boyfriend is a asshole, he treats me like shit, he doesnt have a job, he is possessive, jealous, he is a liar, doesnt do nothing for my kids and keeps me from going to school cause he thinks im cheating on him..." WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH ... (read in full...)
Indian guys don't do oral?
Q. why don't indian guys give there women oral sex??...
A. 31 October 2010: Have you done your research and found out all Indian men dont give oral, or you're involved with an Indian man who doesnt give oral?... (read in full...)
Mistress is threating to tell my wife about us
Q. I feel like I'm about to lose the best thing that ever happened for me behind ignorance. I know everyone's probably going to say I deserve it and I probably due but no one's perfect. I told my mistress that we needed to sto and she's threatening to ...
A. 31 October 2010: Confess to your wife and hope she'll forgive you. Its better that way anyway than hearing it from your mistress; gather your guts and do it, and you better be quick. All the best!... (read in full...)
Can a girl simply have weak orgasms?
Q. I've always been kind of disappointed with the results when I masturbate. I watch or think about something to put me in the mood and can get to what I think is an orgasm through manual clitoral stimulation only (because I'm not comfortable fing...
A. 30 October 2010: Straightalker, you just think g-spot orgasms are better coz you've never had one. They're the same.... (read in full...)
Can you have an orgasm just by doing this?
Q. My bf and I were fooling around in my basement the other night and I was on top of him and we were basically rubbing against each other, by thrusting our 'parts'. I was wondering if it was possible to get an orgasm that way or do you need to be ...
A. 30 October 2010: Its possible. Ive had several of those. One time i was even on my period and wore a pad but i still got off.... (read in full...)
For the ladies - how long does it take for you to orgasm?
Q. i was wondering, this is for the ladies. How long does it take for you to orgasm?. I know everyone if different but surly there must be some connection. This is either Oral or vaginal i guess anal too. Or better how long (time wise) do you prefer ...
A. 28 October 2010: Wow! Gabrielle i envy you! 5mins vaginal sex?! I never cum from vaginal sex. When my bf does oral on me, it takes about 20mins. Fingering myself can take 2-20mins. Depends on how turned on i am. Natalie talked of clitoral stimulation after ... (read in full...)
I cannot orgasm through sex alone... Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I cannot orgasm through sex, I have never done it. Is there something wrong with me or have I not met the right person yet?...
A. 25 October 2010: Nothing wrong with you, its normal. I dont, and about 75% dont either.... (read in full...)
How do I know if I smell normal "down there"?
Q. Hi all, you must get this question all the time... sorry... Ok here goes... how do I know if I smell normal down below?! After a day not showering it smells like... scampi fries... sorry... also a bit tangy. Now is this normal? It's not hugely o...
A. 24 October 2010: Just be clean and confident.... (read in full...)
Biggest age gap you've ever seen?!
Q. Hi, ok. are u sitting down people? I seriously need a word of advice..i've fallen in love. madly, deeply inlove. And this man is in love with me, but we have to keep our relationship secret because we are afraid of what people might think. We ...
A. 24 October 2010: He is how old??? My goodness! Umm well, how serious is the relationship? Do you intend to get married? If you did get married, how long would the marriage last before you're a widow? Would you want him to father your kids when he's old enough to be ... (read in full...)
Is he only interested in me for the sex?
Q. hi everyone at dear cupid Im very lost and confused at the moment i really really like this guy have done for many months even when he got a gf i liked him,(which he has since split with) Anyway yes i have slept with him a few times but nothing...
A. 24 October 2010: He's using for sex and looking after his dog,and maybe a little bit of company but nothing more basically. He has no intentions of anything more, i can guarantee you from what you've written. Get away from him and move on with your life. You deserve ... (read in full...)
Am I throwing away 13 years of marriage for no good reason/
Q. this is probably a strange thing to be dealing with but i dont know what to do it all started about 2 years ago me and my husband was in bed going to sleep when he recieved a text message from his friends girlfriend (whom he doesnt know and has ...
A. 22 October 2010: Maybe you didnt overreact throwing him out but he says he's sorry for hurting you, so i think you should give him a 2nd chance, also considering that he's never cheated on you the past 13years you've been married. I think everyone deserves a 2nd ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend like his ex's butt better?
Q. Ok i am totally aware as to how ridiculous this is but omg help!! So im in a long distance relationship, been with him now for 2 years (both our longest relationships so far)and we see each other not often but atleast take 3 holidays per yea...
A. 21 October 2010: A lot has been said already but i thought i should still say a little something. I dont blame you for asking him that question, and i dont blame him for giving that answer either. Were you expecting to have a perfect body? Even if he lied youd be ... (read in full...)
29 years old, should I get circumcised?
Q. Hi, I am 29 male living in Cairo, Egypt. I am new to this place. I want to go for circumcision surgery since it is paining me when i penetrate into my wife. It is not heavy but whenever i do, its paining. Its making both of us uncomfortable. Now my ...
A. 18 October 2010: Good idea to get circumcised. Go to a hospital/clinic. Takes about 6weeks to heal. Circumcision reduces risk of infections, and it does reduce pain during sex, and you'll be more free to explore different kinds of positions without pain.... (read in full...)
Is Lovemaking Needed for a Relationship to Survive?
Q. Is it necessary for a couple to be physically intimate for the relationship to survive?...
A. 18 October 2010: Depends. Is it dating, or marriage? In dating, some dont have sex for religious reasons and their relationships can last for years before they get married and start having sex. But if you're married and no sex...I dont know. Maybe my vote is yes, a ... (read in full...)
Was I good enough for him?
Q. I really need ur help Ive liked this guy for ages hes single and yes i have slept with him a few times and saturday nite was about the 5th time and that was me staying at his house anyway when he got home late saturday nite he came into my be...
A. 18 October 2010: Its not easy having sex with someone who's not your bf coz questions on whether you're good enough always arise. Its different with your bf coz there's an emotional attachment, and they always tell you you're great and the learning experience of ... (read in full...)
Why didn't boyfriend cum?
Q. I gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time last night, and he didn't cum/finish. i was doing it for about 10-15 minutes and i didn't really feel like i was getting anywhere so i stopped. except i did a lot of like "research" online before we...
A. 17 October 2010: Did he cum not long before the bj? That's one factor. If not, then its because he wasnt relaxed-being first time and all.... (read in full...)
Tips from students for break up pain?
Q. Hi I am looking for tips to get through one of the worst types of Break ups...especially as i am going through my Final Year Uni in a very very tough course. I feel like I am in a nightmare and I dont know how I am going to get through this year at ...
A. 17 October 2010: Had a nasty breakup too in my second year, now im in my final year too. It was hard, i'd burst into tears anywhere, i felt hopeless, unattractive, undesired and i felt like no guy on this entire earth is better than him, and i'll never love another. ... (read in full...)
Insecurities about my dick!
Q. My penis is just shy of 6 inches long and 4.75 inches around - my girlfriend had a larger than average pussy - I can get 4 fingers in her when wet easily and she says she has had larger dicks than mine before - she reckons 7/7.5 inches long and ...
A. 17 October 2010: Listen to person12345. We dont really care about big dicks. I personally dont cum from vaginal sex- its only through oral and fingering. If you're able to make your girl reach orgasm before you do her, then she'll appreciate you and she wont care ... (read in full...)
Lost virginity?
Q. My boyfriend fingered me hard by inserting 3 fingers into my vagina. Then the very next day I found brown stains on my panties. Have I lost my virginity already?...
A. 17 October 2010: Three fingers? Thats a lot! Im not a virgin but i still feel uncomfortable if my bf uses 3fingers....Anyhow, if you take losing your hymen as losing your virginity then you're not a virgin anymore; but if you think losing your virginity is having a ... (read in full...)
I fell in love and then found she works as an escort
Q. Hi all, I just want to write something what is going on in my life and hope to have some feedback from you readers. I'm a 32 year old Dutch guy who is single for a few years now, i have been dating in these years, but i just cant find a gi...
A. 15 October 2010: She wants to control you, but doesnt want to be controlled by you. Not fair. She doesnt even seem to know what she wants from you. Just friends but you cant see someone else? Please, this is messed up just get out of the relationship she doesnt seem ... (read in full...)
Married and no sexual chemistry anymore
Q. My husband was very sexual with me in the beginning. He had to have sex at every meeting. After we moved in together his interest dissipated a bit. I'd say we had sex 4 to 5 times a week. After living together for 1 year we were having sex maybe 3 ...
A. 14 October 2010: I agree with the first two posters: you should put an effort if you want more sex. It seems communication is the problem here. You talked of a religious dilemma; maybe your husband is afraid of offending you in one way or another. It seems both of ... (read in full...)
How do I get my parents to back off?
Q. I need some serious help on how to get my parents off my back about my boyfriend. I am 18 almost 19, he is 24. We have been seeing each other since january. We met online (when i met him in person i had my mom come with me in case he was a creeper, ...
A. 14 October 2010: Its not as if your parents wish you bad. They want the best for you. They might be concerned about several things. Firstly, he's a little older therefore theyre afraid he might influence you into some things you might not be ready for, or he might ... (read in full...)
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