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writes:Hi I am looking for tips to get through one of the worst types of Break ups...especially as i am going through my Final Year Uni in a very very tough course. I feel like I am in a nightmare and I dont know how I am going to get through this year at university..any tips from other students that know what I am going through would be great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all the help. I will really try and work hard at uni, its very hard- Im really feeling awful all the time but I am going to fight through this pain.I am very strong
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): My freshman year of university, my first love broke my heart. It was by far the hardest year of my life. That along with stress from school and family problems and roommate issues made me so depressed I almost dropped out of school. By the end of my first year I saw how bad my grades were and realized I had to get it together. Im in my third year now and still working really hard to keep bringing up my grades. I've worked so hard and done so well, but two years later and I still have to work that much harder to bounce back. Trust me, no guy is worth your education. My honest advice to you hun, is to try your best to keep it together and focus on school. Spend as much time as possible studying and with your family and friends. In the end, your degree is all you have to get you through this world. So keep your chin up, things will get easier. Your heart will heal little by little, and before you know it you will feel whole again. But until then, keep focusing on your studies and just know that you are not alone.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (17 October 2010):
 Best thing you can do right now, is to focus on your studies.
Men come and go, but with Uni courses, this is your future, the key to success. If you let your studies slip, then you risk losing your chance to get the best job/future you can have.
I've gone through a break up, and i am doing a part time college course. I've thrown myself into my college work and i'm getting on very well in my course, and the pain of my break up has eased aswell.
Trust me, no man is worth you failing your uni course...
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (17 October 2010):
Had a nasty breakup too in my second year, now im in my final year too. It was hard, i'd burst into tears anywhere, i felt hopeless, unattractive, undesired and i felt like no guy on this entire earth is better than him, and i'll never love another. Anyway, you might not be feeling that bad- i dont know. First of all, i prayed all the time. I'd cry to God and i'd read His Word, the Bible and it would speak to me in amazing ways i assure you. It would really comfort me. Really helps to be religious coz God is there all the time and everywhere. Secondly, my best friend, also my roommate, was there for me 24/7. It wasnt easy for her coz she had a new boyfriend and she was excited she wanted to be around him or talk about him all the time, but she controlled herself coz of me. She always told me how beautiful i am, we'd do lots of fun stuff together, etc. Thirdly, i made sure i didnt isolate myself coz that would get me very depressed. That period is not easy but being a final year student i'd recommend lots of studying, if possible with friends so that you can distract your thoughts from him. You'll have time for worrying later-as for now, you have to concentrate on your degree. I wish you a quick recovery!
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