How do I get my parents to back off?
Q. I need some serious help on how to get my parents off my back about my boyfriend. I am 18 almost 19, he is 24. We have been seeing each other since january. We met online (when i met him in person i had my mom come with me in case he was a creeper, ...
A. 14 October 2010: Its not as if your parents wish you bad. They want the best for you. They might be concerned about several things. Firstly, he's a little older therefore theyre afraid he might influence you into some things you might not be ready for, or he might ... (read in full...)
S it right to have it end like this... Or should we try at it?
Q. First off, thanks to everyone who takes the time to read this, I really appreciate the help. Anywho, I'm pretty upset right now because my girlfriend and I just got out of yet another argument about an hour ago and I don't know what to do. W...
A. 14 October 2010: Dont fight back. She'll hopefully realise fighting is bad.... (read in full...)
Cheating hb treating ME badly!!!
Q. I caught my hb of 6 years cheating on me for the 2nd time... The 1st time was last year in November.. When I caught him he literally begged me to give him a 2nd chance.. And I did for our kids sake....everything was great until about august this ...
A. 14 October 2010: He's a jerk. Why would he come to your office crying and then after he comes home starts treating you coldly? He deserves to leave. Don't worry about the kids, they'll be fine-he can still keep a relationship with them wherever he is. Do you support ... (read in full...)
I think my b/f is just waiting for me to dump him
Q. Hi everyone! I checked my bf on facebook, his status says "i am separated and i am looking for dating" and the other one says " if your gf slap you what can you do?tell me then i wil tell you what i did", since we have been together(3 yrs) i never ...
A. 14 October 2010: He sounds tired of the relationship. Maybe ask him point blank if he's still for the relationship or he wants to move on. But seriously, he just sounds like he wants out. Leave him and find someone who cares.... (read in full...)
He said that if we break up, it will be because of me.
Q. My boyfriend of more than one year told me that he loves me and that he'll never break up with me. He said that if we break up, it will be because of me. My brain went blank for a few moments when he told me this, so I don't want to re-open this ...
A. 14 October 2010: Its not serious really. I think what he means is that he loves you so much and he's dedicated to you therefore there's no way the relationship can end because of him ie cheating, or being a jerk. It doesnt mean that he's expecting you to mess up, ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm having orgasms.
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend a year now. Im not sure if i have experianced a orgasm? When his played with my clit ive had a amazing sensation that i feel i cant handle and the feeling of needing to wee? But i feel like it could go further, have i ...
A. 14 October 2010: An orgasm is that point you reach that feels soooo sweet for some seconds and then it goes down; and usually after that point you dont want to continue coz the clit is too sensitive. Thats known as the refractory period. Have you experienced that?... (read in full...)
I can't believe that my ex fell out of love with me so easily!
Q. I was in my last relationship for almost 8 years. I had a child with him within the 7th year we were together, of and on. When my child was 3 month, I moved out because I was stressed with all the problems we were having. I moved out with the ...
A. 13 October 2010: I cant tell what he's thinking but he'll remember you one day.... (read in full...)
We had sex, he came in me, and I tried to wash it out. Will that work?
Q. hey i need help well my boyfriend cum in me and i dnt know what to do, im really scard . it happen today and i when in bath and whased it out, well i tryed, so wat i do. xx...
A. 13 October 2010: You're saying it happened today.Get morning after pill (emergency contraception) as quickly as you can-its valid for 72hrs.Next time,use a condom,or go to the clinic to advise you on the best contraceptive method you can use.... (read in full...)
I need help to know if I'm ready for sex!
Q. Hey me and my Boyfriend have been together for about 7months and I don't know if we are ready for 'it'. We have been discussing sex for the past few days and I'm scared. I think I am ready but he really wants to do it because he loves me so much and ...
A. 7 October 2010: I just think your bf thinks youve been together for a long time and wants things to get to another level.Youve said he wants to do it because he loves you so much,but really,he doesnt need to have sex with you to prove that he loves you.To get to ... (read in full...)
My female friend calls me late at night and talks for hours, does this mean she is gay?
Q. ok, am a female and i have a ladyfriend that was married,now she's not. and she calls me late at night and we talk for hours about everything.do this mean she is gay or what..i been thinking!!...
A. 5 October 2010: Calling you at night to talk about everything makes her gay?Doesnt make sense to me.Does she flirt with you?Does she tell sexually arousing stories?As the first poster said,she might just want a friend to talk to.Find out some more then get concrete ... (read in full...)
Could I have HIV?
Q. hi i am 38 years old female and had two sexual encounters 9years ago, i am really scared i might be hiv, generally i have been in good health, odd cold/flu generally accompanied by a cough(im a smoker), chest infection x2 in that time, but over the ...
A. 27 September 2010: The anxiety is gonna kill you.Why dont you go get tested?You might be negative after all.And even if you're positive,they'll give you counselling on how to live positively.You might be indulging in unhealthy habits right now,but when you get your ... (read in full...)
Am I lesbian? Does thinking sexually about a woman make me a lesbian?
Q. Hey everyone. I'm 17 almost 18. I have some big doubt about my sexuality, it's something that's killing me. Ok, I currently have a boyfriend and all my life I've had relationships only with men. I'm both emotionally and sexually attracted to men, ...
A. 27 September 2010: I dont think youre a lesbian.Im straight but i get turned on by lesbian porn too,and a lot of women would testify to this.... (read in full...)
Anyone had any results from Kegel exercises?
Q. Hey,has anyone had great results from kegel exercises?...
A. 27 September 2010: Totally.I was away from my bf for 3wks and was doing kegel the whole time i was away.When we had sex im telling you ive never had awesome sex like that in my entire life!He lasted for two hours but the whole time was amazing!The experience is ... (read in full...)
Isn't that what college is for? To experiment and have fun?
Q. I'm 19 and this is my second year in college but my first year AWAY at school. I'm really starting to enjoy it, but I'm kind of worried of how I'm putting myself out there. I've been here for about 5 weeks now and have had sex with two guys already. ...
A. 27 September 2010: Looks like you didnt need our advice anyway,your mind's already made up.If anything,maybe you wanted us to think along the lines you're thinking and encourage you to "have fun".... (read in full...)
Sex fiend blues..
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have become a F-R-E-A-K and it does me no good. Like a lioness I bait and prey my on man constantly. He wants to nap and me, I go down on him until he has to give in to me. He's watching a show, I climb all over him. He ...
A. 26 September 2010: You said you have little or no foreplay at all because you are usually ready to go.But foreplay is where most women get their orgasms because they cant cum with vaginal sex.Your boyfriend should eat you till you cum before you have sex then you will ... (read in full...)
Does having a low IQ affect people's ability to have sex?
Q. I've got to be honest...I scored below average on an IQ test, and I have made a lot of bad decisions with my life. But the question is...Does having a low IQ affect people's ability to have sex? I mean, it would obviously cloud their judgement. ...
A. 26 September 2010: It doesnt affect your sex.My present bf has a low iq,he repeated 5times to get his high school certificate but he's great in bed!He's the best lover i've ever had.My ex on the other hand will finish his law degree this year but he's so horrible in ... (read in full...)
Isn't that what college is for? To experiment and have fun?
Q. I'm 19 and this is my second year in college but my first year AWAY at school. I'm really starting to enjoy it, but I'm kind of worried of how I'm putting myself out there. I've been here for about 5 weeks now and have had sex with two guys already. ...
A. 22 September 2010: Oh yeah sure girl!Do whatever you want and sleep with as many guys as you can!Then you will be called a slut,people will have no respect for you.A bad reputation isnt nice to live with in college,believe me.Live responsibly,dont let the freedom ... (read in full...)
If I stay over with him more often will it eventually lead to sex? He promised we would not have sex until marriage but I'm worried he wont be able to control himself!
Q. I have been staying over at my boyfriend's hostel room like every once a week. And each time he will rub his penis on my vagina although i am still wearing my panties. I would like to stay over with him more often but I am afraid if that continue...
A. 22 September 2010: The way you're doing things now,you'll come back a month later and tell us you did it.If you're serious about keeping your virginity until your wedding then you need to have social distance from him.Sleeping on the same bed with him will slowly ... (read in full...)
Question for the ladies
Q. How many years after becoming sexually active did it take you to achieve an unassisted orgasm, i.e. an orgasm where the only stimulation is an erect penis, nobody's hands are being used.... I'm trying to find out how normal I am to have taken me 6.5 ...
A. 17 September 2010: I've been having sex for almost one year,it hasnt happened yet.... (read in full...)
Why does it feel different every time?
Q. My husband accuses me of cheating all the time. His reason is one day we will have sex and my vagina is tight and abd the next time he says its loose. He tells me a man can tell when another guy has been in his stuff. I'm not cheating on him. Can ...
A. 16 September 2010: Kegel,kegel and kegel some more.Stop your pee midway.Even when you're not peeing you can contract the muscles you use when stopping your pee.This will help tighten your vagina,and you will even feel the sensations more when having sex.Im a witness ... (read in full...)
Period is late -- could I be pregnant?
Q. Alright. I am 19 and My fiance and I just started having sex. It was my first time with him. I am 4 days late on my period could I be pregnant? He used a condom the first time, but he did not use one the second. But he did pull out before anything ...
A. 14 September 2010: Pregnancy test from a pharmacy.... (read in full...)
Afraid of driving alone!
Q. I passed my driving test 2 weeks ago and my parents bought me a car but here's the problem... I'm scared of driving . I was keen to get my licence to have freedom and it took me several attempts to pass but now I have it I feel like I can't dri...
A. 10 September 2010: Lucky they bought you a car! Im 19 and i got my licence in february but they wont even let me drive without their supervision! Im totaly bored with it and cant wait to go out on my own! Anyhow,just relax and go practice in roads that arent busy;do ... (read in full...)
He's trying to get me pregnant without telling me about it!!!!
Q. About 2 weeks ago my hubby and I had unprotected sex, and he came in me (w/o permission) for the first time ever while I wasn't on BC. I am now a week and a half late, but 4 preg tests in the last 5 days have said I'm not pregnant. Today during s...
A. 9 September 2010: So,you're saying he came in you without permission and you're not on the pill...Do you guys usually use the withdrawal method?Coz its not safe anyway,you can still get a child.Get on the pill and stick to it,if you arent pregnant already anyway.All ... (read in full...)
Scared to let him go down on me
Q. Why am I so scared to let him go down on me? I don't know if I'm just scared of him not liking it or nervous or just think its gross.... What is some good advise am I being paranoid, an just go ahead an get it over with... ...
A. 5 September 2010: "Get it over with"? No way girl,its actually a pleasurable experience! Just relax girl,do it when you're ready.... (read in full...)
He doesn't tell me that he loves me.
Q. Ive been dating this guy for awhile now, and he seems too realli like me, cause he wants too see me everyday, n he as already presented me too all his closes friends,,, n we have already had sex. Now the problem is that he still hasnt told me he ...
A. 3 September 2010: Give him time,he'll come around.Have you ever told him you love him?What did he say?... (read in full...)
How does a single sexually inexperienced 20 year old lesbian start dating?
Q. How does a single sexually inexperienced 20 y/o lesbian female meet other lesbian females? I know it sounds silly, but I honestly do not know how to start dating. I am a 20 y/o female with no sexual experience (virgin) with males or females. ...
A. 2 September 2010: Are you sure you're a lesbian?After all,you're a virgin-you havent differentiated between male and female sex.When i was a virgin i used to think that maybe im a lesbian,after all lesbian sex looks less painful in porn,and more spontaneous....But ... (read in full...)
Do girls like public hair?
Q. Do girls like pubic hair?...
A. 2 September 2010: I dont like pubic hair.... (read in full...)
I haven't had sex in over a year and am getting worried
Q. I am 25 and I haven't had sex in over a year. I also have never really had a relationship (unless u count my first one of a few months with a guy who turned out to be gay or a few month long distance thing). I am overweight nd always have been...
A. 30 August 2010: Wow!You're 25 and you're doing your phd?I envy you! Being overweight isnt an issue:fat people are having good sex,and there are lots of guys who'd like to have sex with you.But if you're looking for a relationship then you have to spot someone,and ... (read in full...)
Desperately need an opinion, things seem to be getting out of hand
Q. [Mod Note - OP's own title] I have been with my second boyfriend for a year and 8 months, we have never had the perfect relationship but i have found a level of comfort in him that makes me feel like it could be worth while. He was the first pers...
A. 16 August 2010: Do you want him to harm you before you realise its time to leave?Girl,just leave.He's just a bf,not a husband and no kids either im sure.You aint got nothing to lose if you leave,but you've got everything to lose if you stay.You'll realise your life ... (read in full...)
How can I overcome painful sex?
Q. Hi, I am a 22 year old female. I lost my virginity at a late age compared to others that I know. I was 20. I lost it to someone who I was falling in love with. The first time was very painful, I was cringing and he had to stop before he could even ...
A. 10 August 2010: Let him eat you till you reach your orgasm then he can penetrate-slowly.... (read in full...)
Questions about the pullout method and pregnancy. All advice is welcome!
Q. I just wanted to hear your own experiences and opinions regarding the following questions, feel free to say anything, i would really like to hear your answers. 1. Have you ever used the pullout method? (esp, how often?) 2. Have you or your...
A. 8 August 2010: Ive used the pullout method twice,but every time i was psychologically tortured.Once,i had to get the morning after pill just so i could put my mind to rest.I wouldnt recommend this method because a guy can miscalculate the time to pullout,and ... (read in full...)
Has too much sex with a big penis made my vagina loose?
Q. I always used to consider my vagina quite tight and pretty, I have been sexually active since i was 15 and had sex with 13 men. recently I have been noticing that it is far looser than it used to be, the majority of the guys i was with for a long ...
A. 6 August 2010: Have you tried kegel exercises?Hold your pee when you're midway for about 10seconds.You can do it anytime even when you're not peeing.Just contract your muscles like you're preventing yourself from farting,or like you're holding your pee ... (read in full...)
How do you get better at sex?
Q. well me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time and it was okay but he is kinda taller than me and kinda bigger than me and he is a good guy but my question is How do u make sex better the second time because i get horny around him and its hard ...
A. 21 June 2010: COMMUNICATION!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is still talking to his ex... increasingly. Should I be worried?
Q. Hello dear cupid. :) I've been a member for a while and never really posted, but reading all the good advice you've given I thought I'd give it a shot with a problem of mine. xD So, I have a boyfriend whom I love and who says he loves me. We've ...
A. 2 June 2010: It looks like old friends catching up.Nevertheless,id say keep your eyes open lest she snatches your man right under your nose!... (read in full...)
My abandonment issues are ruining my new relastionship for me
Q. Hi Guys and Girls. I have recently started dating a really lovely, nice, handsome thoughgtful man who is treating me like a princess,and going out of his way to make me feel wanted and special, and doing eveything he can to make me feel good. He...
A. 2 June 2010: Relax.You're beautiful,you're special.Dont give him more credit than he deserves,he's only a man.You're a wonderful person,so dont have any paranoia,you need to feel secure about yourself.If you feel good about yourself,you will not keep worrying ... (read in full...)
How can I make him stop hating me?
Q. I've posted things similar things to this so i would really appreciate any advice and sorry for the length. My ex and i seperated about 2 mths ago and im due with our baby in 5 wks. Our relationship wasnt the best we argued a lot and broke ...
A. 2 June 2010: Things might not be ok between you guys but the baby coming is his as well and he has to be responsible.He should take his duty as the baby's dad.This is something you dont have to beg him for;if he's intelligent enough he'll know that its his duty ... (read in full...)
Why is sex painful?
Q. why does it hurt when he does deep inside of me ( my leg on his shoulders) but it does not hurt when it is not hitting the end ( my legs open at th side of his arms while he is on top of me ). is thr somethng wrong? ...
A. 26 May 2010: Omg! Too early for sex,take it or leave it.You have a higher chance of catching cervical cancer coz of having sex too early.... (read in full...)
I haven't had a period for five months
Q. i am 13, i am not sexually active, i am not pregnant, i am stressed, i am underweight, i have been on a diet recently, i excercise daily for about 1 hour, i am low in iron, i am weak, and i missed my period for about 5 months now... my friends are ...
A. 26 May 2010: You're underweight and you were on a diet?What do you wanna look like?Anyway,you've only started your periods so they're quite irregular at first.I started my period 2wks after my 13th bday and that was in october.I didnt do in november,i had them ... (read in full...)
Should I stop being friends with him after all that has happened?
Q. I am 14 , and really in love with this guy , he is 16 . I added him on facebook , he was a friend of a friend , and she said he was really sweet and i should get to know him. So i did , but eventually all my friends got involved with him and they ...
A. 13 May 2010: He's not worth it.Like totally! Have nothing to do with him.Remove him from your friends list.He's not in love with you.He's enjoying the attention he's getting from a lot of girls.You're just gonna be one of his conquests if you give in to do ... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant from this?
Q. is there is a chance of pregnancy if my partner does not penetrate in to my vagina and if we are without clothes on a bed...
A. 12 May 2010: There is a possibility.Sperms can swim inside.Even if he doesnt cum,pre-cum can contain sperms,so be careful.... (read in full...)
I know the relationship is wrong but I don't want to let go of him
Q. I dont really know where to start...I have been best friends with a guy for the last three or four years who has helped me through a previouse relationship with his friend..He has always been there for me and listened to me endlessly speak of my ...
A. 8 May 2010: You already know the answer girlfriend.Leave sb else's husband.Where's charlie?Dont entertain this adulterous thing you call love.Stop hanging out with sam.The more you hang out,the stronger the feelings will grow.Stop communicating in any way.... (read in full...)
I know the relationship is wrong but I don't want to let go of him
Q. I dont really know where to start...I have been best friends with a guy for the last three or four years who has helped me through a previouse relationship with his friend..He has always been there for me and listened to me endlessly speak of my ...
A. 8 May 2010: You already know the answer girlfriend.Leave sb else's husband.Where's charlie?Dont entertain this adulterous thing you call love.... (read in full...)
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