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Success With Squirting

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Article - (25 March 2010) 5 Comments - (Newest, 15 April 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, bootydoctors writes:

Lila here~ If you’ve been listening to our radio show you may remember that I’ve been on a mission for a couple of months now. I’ve been trying to squirt, with little success… until this morning.

Pinkee reviewed a DVD in January called “Nina Heartley’s Guide to Female Ejaculation” that gave a thorough and vivid explanation of how the process of female ejaculation, aka squirting, occurs. Pinkee has been squirting for years, and she gave the DVD a great review.

Then I borrowed the DVD from her and followed the instructions like a good girl. OK, maybe I got distracted a few times, but I got the general idea. In order to squirt, you need g spot and clitoral stimulation until just prior to climax. Just before climax, you have to remove whatever is creating the g spot stimulation and just focus on the clitoris. The combo stimulation causes the Skenes glands on either side of the urethra to create a clear, slippery fluid called amrita. When a woman orgasms, the spasms of the orgasm cause the amrita to squirt out of the urethra.

My problem had been I was trying to hard. I knew this, but I’d heard such yummy things about this type of orgasm I really, really, really wanted one. I had felt the amrita build up, but it had never come out. I guess it backed up instead.

Then this morning my partner woke me up for a little morning glory. I was mostly still asleep when he entered me… I thought I was having a dream about a weird party where I ended up having sex with a stranger in one of the bedrooms. But anyways, after about 20 minutes of pleasure, he was done and I was still sleepy.

Then about 20 minutes after that, I realized I was more aroused than sleepy, so I decided to take matters into my own hands (he was on his way to work by now or he would have surely pleasured me). I think I subconsciously began giving myself a vulva massage, using some of the techniques recommended by our friend Hercules, the Pleasure Coach. I ended up massaging the sides of my clitoris and had a powerful, intense orgasm. With ejaculation. It wasn’t a big squirt, but it was most definitely amrita.

Just when I wasn’t trying. Lesson learned.

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A male reader, lovetokissyou Canada +, writes (15 April 2011):

good for you. I had a lady friend that I was able to teach how to squirt. she loves the fact that she can. it is a little messy . but she feels good and I allmost drowned a few times ..

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A female reader, bootydoctors United States +, writes (5 April 2010):

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bootydoctors agony auntDear Anonymous,

Yes it's true that some guys don't know about squirting and some people (men and women) think that squirting is pee. But that's where you can come in and educate your future boyfriends. Most guys think squirting is awesome, once they know what it is. I hear, though, that you don't think it's awesome. Hmmm, my squirting orgasms are usually incredible, which just goes to show how each woman's body is different!

Love,

Pinkee

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010):

Why would any woman want to squirt is beyond me. I don't like the fact that I sometimes squirt when I reach an orgasm, because I'm worried that when I start having sex, my boyfriend will think I peed. Not every man uses internet to learn about sex and women. Many are quite uninformed when it comes to female ejaculation. Also, I've noticed that squirting orgasms last shorter and are less intense than non-squirting ones.

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A female reader, bootydoctors United States +, writes (30 March 2010):

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bootydoctors agony auntWow, that's pretty unusual to squirt without g-spot stimulation, good for you!

As for waking up to sex, he knows I love morning sex. He didn't just 'stick it in', he made sure I was ready first. :-)

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A male reader, soul83 Australia +, writes (28 March 2010):

Congrats!

I've been able to get my partner to gush every now and then using oral sex - just using the tongue to stimulate the clitoris can be enough to make it occur. Thanks for the info about stimulating the sides.

You let your partner enter you when you are sleeping? Hmm if I try to wake my partner she'll bite my head off...jk. Usually she'll just roll over and keep sleeping.

Btw, don't you get a bit too dry for your partner to enter you?

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