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How come when I do sexy stuff he doesn't get an erection?

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Question - (27 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *uccigabb22 writes:

I love my boyfriend very much , and he loves me. So when I try to do sexy things for him , or sit on his , lap or kiss him , he doesn't get a boner , or anything. Is this normal ? Does he still find me attractive ? What to do ??? =(

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A male reader, lovetokissyou Canada +, writes (9 March 2010):

being sexy haveing a hardon comes from the brain not from below, first u have to think sex then you will get a hardon, so her is what u do . talk to him ask him things sexy things and see what happends get him thinking sex .

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (28 February 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntHis mind have to be in the mood or feel horny to have a hard on. Or he is the type that needs more physical and mental stimulation's. Sit longer, kiss longer and stroke more .

It could perhaps be other reasons like , he is tired , too much masturbation or worries and problems.

His failure to get an erection has nothing to do with whether you are attractive or not.

Another place, another time may get different results.

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A female reader, cry United States +, writes (28 February 2010):

cry agony auntspice up your relationship something fresh new supriseing give him a bj you got to please your man and dont just do the same old stuff all the time...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010):

Well that could be a problem. My suggestion to you is to sit down and talk to him about it. It may not be the easiest thing to do, but it might solve your problem. You never know. Good Luck.

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