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My mother-in-law hinted she wanted to sleep with me, I always had this phantasy so what should I do?

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Question - (7 February 2008) 21 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Me and my wife have been married for two months. Well her mom and dad just got a divorce. My wife has always told her mom her sex stories. I brought my baby over to her moms house and she was hinting around that she wanted to sleep with me. She said she would never tell my wife. I always wanted to sleep with my mother in law. What should i do

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A male reader, lovetokissyou Canada +, writes (26 April 2010):

I think Korculan Queen , said it best, she is just trying to ruin her daughters life. I think you need to think things over. I understand having a fantasay but to think of maybe carriing it out and with a memmber of your family thats way wrong. If your wife is not enough for you , If your not getting what you need in that relationship , then maybe you should not have gotten married .I was married once a long time ago, to the wrong woman , but never did I cheat even though she did. I could not bring myself to that, yes I have feelings and needs but to cheat myself was harder thent to act on any of my desires I may have had.If your not in love with you wife and you think your mother inlaw is your answer then talk to your wife about it. be a man and tell her how you feel . Or leave your wife and start anew, she maybe better off without you... being a husband and a father is a wonderful thing but you could think of throwing it all away for a fuck . you need help . good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010):

i can tell all you ppl one thing,that not all wives will be hurt from this kind of behavior.

some wives find it hot to see there husbands having sex with their mothers.

my wife is one of these ppl.

she keeps wanting me to go have sex with her mom.

and i also believe her mom wants to have sex with me.

cause her mom will shove her tongue down my throat while kissing me goodbye everytime we leave her home to go home.

i have not acted on this but i am getting mixed signals on whether her mom is kissing me that way out of habit or is she trying to hint to me that she wants to have sex with me.

keep in mind her mom is still married.

her husband had two heart attacks and it makes me wonder if he can't have sex no more,and maybe the reason my wifes mom is trying get in my pants for sex.

women in their 50's must be going through another sexual peak increasing their sex drive.

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A male reader, jaks India +, writes (1 October 2009):

Well, the idea is great, but be very careful..not to spoil your family life.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

after a family get together, after everyone had gone to bed, my mil and myself were finishing a glass of wine crashed out on my couch. she lay her head beside my legs and i began rubbing her hair talking about something that had happened earlier. she put her head on my lap saying the rubbing was nice, it didnt take long but i found myself getting hard, it didnt take long for her to realise what was happening in my pants. to my great surprise she turned her head, unzipped my pants and proceeded to give me a beautiful blowjob. as she was tending to my penis i began to take her dress off and started playing with her perfect breasts. soon i got to pull her panties down and play with her gorgeous (and very hairy) pussy. soon after she looked up at me and told me she needed sex. with that she jumped up and sat on me, her whole body was shaking, as she went up and down on me, her moaning made it even hotter for me, i enjoyed holding her shapely buttocks as she continued going up and down, occassionaly slipping my middle finger into her arsehole. soon after we changed position, she lay on the couch and put her legs over my shoulders and demanded that i fuck her, i obeyed with glee, riding her very hard for a good 15 minutes, at this stage we were both panting quite hard and getting very sweaty, but i just wanted to keep going and felt she was the same enjoying the whole thing, again we changed position where i was sitting on the couch and she sat on me with her bum sitting on my cock, this gave me a chance to cup her breasts. at this time i got to rub her stomach, i found this very sensual, at the time she was 50 to my 31 and her tummy was soft yet firm. judging by her various breathing i reckoned she came 7or8 times (she told me later something similar) and now it was my turn, i whispered that i had to shoot but i wasnt wearing a condom, she said it was ok and let me cum inside her, it was an incredible experience, i seemed to shoot for a long time, she kept riding me at a slow pace for another 5 minutes when she finally stood off me and quickly got dressed. she went upstairs to the guest room and i cleaned up. a few minutes later she came back down asking if id seen her knickers, (id grabbed them earlier and stuffed them into my pocket) i told her no and she dissappered again, to this day i have 5/6 pairs of her used panties, they still smell great and are always useful for a quick hand shandy.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

I would suggest an alternative. Ask your MIL to talk to your wife and ask your wife if she will let you sleep with your MIL. She can explain to your wife that she (MIL) just needs some regular sex to tide her over until she can find a boyfriend. Tell your MIL that you will only have sex with her if her daughter says it's OK. Also, tell your MIL you want to have sex with her as part of a threesome with your wife.

You need to get your wife to buy into this because if you have sex with your MIL and don't tell your wife about it, I think she will suspect something you are having sex with her mom. Women have very strong intuition, so if you do this, you need to get your wife involved as part of the process.

But tell your MIL not to tell her daughter that you said you'll have sex with MIL if your wife says its OK. You want your wife to think that it was her and her mother's idea when they approach you about it. If she finds out that you agreed to have sex with her mom without her knowing about it, she will be very angry and hurt.

Also, to the last poster named Jennifer, did you ever tell your husband that you saw him having sex with your mother? Did you feel OK about that? And did you ever tell your mother that you knew that she and your husband had sex?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008):

Wel I saw my husband with my mother a couple years ago and I didn't know how to react so I let it go because I knew that my mother was struggling with my father not being around. So I think go for it and make your mother in law happy because she needs you. Oke succes...jennifer

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008):

Go for it. You would be crazy if you did not. I did and it is 20 years later and still going strong. You only live once.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

Hey ... I say you go for it. If I had enough nerve I would be having sex with my MIL and have NO regrets

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008):

I wouldn't really know how to advise approaching this, but it sounds like you've got a great situation going. Go for it. The funny thing is I actually started sleeping with my own MIL a little over three months ago. Our relationship has always been a great one - we have a lot of similar interests (more than I think I have with my wife), and have always talked for lengths at a time.

She knew that the sex-life with my wife hasn't really been where it should be, things just ended up happening, and to be honest, it's the best sex I've ever had. You can say it's cheating, but at the same time it may not be. We both see it has fulfilling something we haven't been getting in our own relationships, and I'm glad it's happening. Hell - she's even giving me advice on spicing up my sex life with her daughter!

I had actually fantasized about her in the past and it's become a dream come true. I personally don't see us ending what we have if we can keep it as discreet as we have.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008):

I'm very liberal in matters such as this. I had a similar experience with my Mother in Law many years ago. My wife and I were on a short visit to her home. My wife and Sister in Law took off to see an old School friend of theirs who lived about 20 miles away. I was asked if I wanted to go along, but begged off claiming a headache. Actually it was my penis that was aching for my Mother-in laws pussy. She had been flirting with me throughout out visit, and me being a low life Bastard was reciprocating.

As soon as they were gone Mom and I wen't after each other like animals. It was good and dammit it was right.In a couple of hours we had sex three times and we both loved it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008):

Ok. This is wrong!! You don't cheat on your wife, and you don't do it with her mother. You have got to be completely insane if you want to sleep with your mother-in-law. Get real.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2008):

love-him agony auntDon't betray your wife like this, especially with her mother.. dont go there at all!!

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2008):

Fairy_Lu agony auntYou are aware your wife would find out you would lose her and her relationship with her mother would be ruined and that her entire family would hunt you down like a dog right? Yeah you must do is another fantasy of yours tearing familys apart and having 7 bails of s*** kicked out of you? Have some morals she is your wife your meant to LOVE her not try and get into her mums undies! But this could be a test of your marriage in which case you would FAIL misserably!

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A female reader, sister of mercy United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2008):

I have absolutely no idea why people are being so nice when responding to this question! The sanctity of marriage means nothing to you and neither does your wife! If you truly loved your wife you would not be thinking these things at all! Unfortunately your wife deserves much better from you and her mother! The fact that your tempted to cheat on your wife after 2months speaks volumes, how do you expect this marriage to last and do you even want it too?

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A female reader, shelleyanne United States +, writes (7 February 2008):

shelleyanne agony auntYou are very young to be married. I question whether you understand what a marriage truly entails. However, you got yourself into it, so now you have a responsibility. It sounds like these desires for your wife's mom stem from a pretty selfish place. Being a husband means sacrifice. That very obviously includes sacrificing the opportunity to have sex with your mother-in-law. You have a much better opportunity if you don't: the opportunity to build a life with your wife. Please try to put these thoughts from your mind. If all else fails, there are at the very least less harmful ways to get your thrills.

Get it together family man.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008):

Hi Hunny,

PLEASE COME ON! With all the respect in the world love get real, You have been married 2months and you are considering sleeping with someone, Not just someone but your mother in law, How devistated do you think your wife would be seriously, Shame on her mother for even putting the idea in your head hunny you need to read your question again and realise the hurt this could cause it could rip your wifes heart out and who do you think would be there for you, and were would that leave her relationship with her mother, Not that I think her mother is thinking straight at the moment with the divorce.... She wants sex and she picked you as you seem available TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (7 February 2008):

Danielepew agony auntI'm with eyeswideopen, again. Do you really need to ask the question?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008):

Get a grip. We all have inappropriate thoughts from time to time but we don't have to act on them. Your mother in law is either setting you up or she hates her daughter enough to lure you into cheating on her. Both are fundamentally wrong in every way. Plus.... are you that disloyal to your wife???? I cannot imagine being married to you - other than in my very worst nightmares. Move away and do NOT expose your child to a woman who thinks it is normal to have sex with members of the 'family'. Act on your sick fantasies and you will wreck everyones life in one go. She says she won't tell your wife? One false move from you and she will get rid of you and tell the whole world you forced yourself on her.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (7 February 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntJeeze louise man, I certainly hope you really already know the answer to this question.

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (7 February 2008):

Welcome to a crazy family my bro? Hw in da world does a mother try to replace her own mother in law,sexually? Do you really wana give in? If i were you,i'd avoid her.Don't tell your wife coz you'll create problems between her and da mum and your inlaw will be your enemy.Aaaaah,i see da problem.I's thinking this is something you'd hv sorted on your own before seeing that you've also secretly had a crash on her.Well if it makes your ego any better,GO AHEAD! But seriously isn't your wife enough that you should go for her mother? How would you feel if you found out that your father's been sleeping with your wife? Don't play with people's emotions.Marraige is serious business.How old are you? Maybe you rushed into marraige and are paying the price of wanting to explore other "things".

Take care.

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A female reader, korculan queen Australia +, writes (7 February 2008):

First of all I would need to question the mother daughter relationship and why a mother would want to hurt her daughter in this way. To me it seems like she wants to payback her daughter for her marriage breaking down. There are so many many many many men in this world, so why has she chosen her own daughter's husband.If you want to sleep with a grandmother then honey that is your choice but a grandmother who looks at her son in law as a sex partner needs to hire a male hooker and leave her daughter's husband alone. Tell your wife that your baby's grandmother wants to sleep with you and you may find a little secret about your wife's childhood that you never knew about. This woman isn't lonely she is jealous of her daughter and wants to ruin her happiness. It's up to you mate but if I had the choice of a grandmother or a young woman at your age I know what I would chose.

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