After a great night with him, he hasn't called me!
Q. This guy I met on a thursday texted called asked to hang friday we finally did saturday and had an amazing time. he acted like he was really into me and went had fun laughed etc. nothing I can think went wrong. We went back to him place at the end ...
A. 6 August 2008: Chalk it up to experience: guys rarely call girls who have sex/oral sex/hook up with them two days after meeting them. Or the first date. Even the second date is questionable. However, dont be surprised if one of these weekends you get a drunken ... (read in full...)
Nice guys always finish last?
Q. Hi all, This question has been tearing me apart time and time again. Please bear with me, as this will be a long post. Is it true that, no women will ever want to be with a nice guy? I don't consider myself 100% nice, I am not overly r...
A. 4 August 2008: I've heard this from many guys and I've always given them the same answer. Its not that nice guys finish last or that girls like jerks. It has more to do with human psychology and the way that nice guys act that turns women off.
Being nice is ... (read in full...)
Do guys like short girls?
Q. do guys like short girls? im only 5ft but the guy i like is about 6ft, do you think he would like me even though im small?...
A. 4 August 2008: From my experience, most guys love cute short girls. ... (read in full...)
We are young and long distance... can it work?
Q. I am 16 and i have been dating this guy for almost 2 yr. but then this summer he moved away. we are still together and have promise rings. He always says that its me or nobody,he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, i feel the same way. But ...
A. 4 August 2008: I was in a long distance relationship with someone that I loved very much. We couldnt make it work past a year... and we're in our mid 20s! Im sorry to disappointed you, but its hard. Its very hard. Especially at your age. You should be out learning ... (read in full...)
Are women put off by skinny guys?
Q. Are women put off dating skinny guys? Is the build and muscles of a man overly important for a woman?...
A. 4 August 2008: Different strokes for different folks! BUT at the same time, from my personal experience, I've realized that more women are into somewhat muscular guys (you can see that they have some muscle but not terminator by any means) than other body types. ... (read in full...)
My bf told me he still has strong feelings for his ex, so I worry he will go back to her, please advise!
Q. Hi guys i now you are all going to say im stupid but my boyfreind of 6 months told me last night that he still has really strong feelings for his ex the mother of his daughter he says he always has done since school and will always have strong ...
A. 4 August 2008: I know that I have very strong feelings for my ex. The guy that I am dating does not compare to my ex at all... but its not because I dont like the guy, it is because there are certain aspects of the relationship with my ex that I enjoyed a lot that ... (read in full...)
He said he doesn't know what he wants and he distanced himself from me. I don't know why.
Q. Hi everyone, After being single from a guy I really loved for over 6 months I finally met a really nice guy. His names andrew, hes 22 and Im 27. He works as a care worker and I am a teacher, we have lots in common and get on very well. We have me...
A. 30 July 2008: In my experience, whenever a guy told me he doesn't know what he wants, its always means that its me that he doesn't want. Especially at that age.
Just let him be, playing cool could stir up his interests again. I know it sucks though :(... (read in full...)
We are more like friends than a couple now. Is it time to move on?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and in the past 6 months our sex life has gone completly, even kisses and cuddles have gone. I have tried more or less everything. We are more like friends now as we have nothing in common like we use ...
A. 29 July 2008: Look up the stages of love. Maybe you've just reached a different stage.... (read in full...)
My husband and I had the exact same dream one night... What's happening?
Q. I had a very strange experience. Me and my husband had the same dream one night. And when we woke up at morning and shared it, we couldn't believe it. No ,we didn't have any indication, like watching a movie, or talking about something like this. ...
A. 29 July 2008: How long have you guys been together and how close are you to each other?
It is not that uncommon at all.. my parents who have been married for 25 years experience this all the time.. its not uncommon at all for one of them to start thinking... (read in full...)
She told me she doesn't know how she feels any more. What do I do?
Q. What to do when your Gf says she doesnt love you? It hurts so much!!!, My girlfriend and i have been going out for almost 4 years now. A couple of months ago she told me she didnt know how she felt anymore? I was pretty shocked but we agreed...
A. 28 July 2008: Hey, You guys started dating when you were either in late teens or early 20s, I gather from your age. This is a huge time to change - its when we grow up, learn about life and responsibilities, and realize that the things we thought were a p... (read in full...)
I really like calling her, but I don't want to annoy her
Q. We are together for almost a year. We seldom meet. I miss her a lot. Whenever I feel I want to talk to her, I will call her. I know I have been calling too much, 2-3 times everyday. She did tell me she get annoyed by that. I have tried not to cal...
A. 28 July 2008: Hi, two-three times a day after a year of dating is not that often. After 6 month, my ex-boyfriend was calling me 5 times a day.
You are a very rare and special guy. I wish that the guys I'm seeing now would want to talk to me more often, e... (read in full...)
Girls just don't seem to like me...
Q. ok first time asking something like this, but I dont know where else to go (not paying for a shrink lol). Im 23 now, and basically it seems like no matter what i've done my whole life women just arent interested in me in the slightest bit, a...
A. 18 July 2008: Like I said before, attitude plays a lot. If you don't think that there aren't any decent women your age, you are not going to find any. There are plenty of decent women - but its not their job to change your perspective or make you happy. When... (read in full...)
I'm trying to better myself for him, do you think he will come back to me?
Q. Hi everyone, Im in need of some advice... My boyfriend of about 6 months recently broke up with me... I think. We had been fighting, mostly on my behalf, and when we broke up he told me that he "didnt know" that he "just thought this wasnt worki...
A. 16 July 2008: Hey,
Dont worry about him. If he is the motivating factor that you needed to get yourself into therapy, thats great. But once you're in it, do it for yourself. You will come out a better, stronger and a different person. And once you become t... (read in full...)
Girls just don't seem to like me...
Q. ok first time asking something like this, but I dont know where else to go (not paying for a shrink lol). Im 23 now, and basically it seems like no matter what i've done my whole life women just arent interested in me in the slightest bit, a...
A. 15 July 2008: You're not getting girls not because there is anything inherently wrong with you, you just need to change your attitude. A lot. First, you need to change your attitude about yourself. As much as you "try to be yourself" whatever that means, as l... (read in full...)
I don't hear from her now we've broken up, and it's bothering me.
Q. I know this may seem like a weird thing to say but...I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago...and about a week ago...I haven't heard anything from her (by that I mean she hasn't been on my messenger) I don't want to sound worried but it's ...
A. 27 June 2008: She probably blocked you. When my boyfriend broke up with him, blocked him on facebook, aim, gmail, anything that will let him know what im doing that doesnt involve directly speaking to me. ... (read in full...)
He dumped me via email! How can I move on and regain trust in men?
Q. I just got dumped today by my boyfriend (now ex, I suppose) of 4 months by email today. He sent it to me in response to my calls yesterday when I had a horrible feeling that he was avoiding my calls. In the email he said that he will still st...
A. 27 June 2008: Hi,
My boyfriend recently broke up with me too for absolutely no good reason and with no apology. Cold-turkey after 9 months.
You shouldnt let this experience turn you into a bitter person nor should this effect your future relationships at... (read in full...)
Is there really love at first sight?
Q. Is there realy such thing as love at first sight or is it just lust? Do men say they love you after a couple of dates just so they can sleep with you? Come on guys be honest have you ever done this?...
A. 12 June 2008: Yes, it def is true but you have to be very very careful because lust at first sight is more than not confused as love at first sight. And although they feel very similar, the two are very very different.
So if you think you or someone else fel... (read in full...)
Question for people who have broken up and then gotten back together with their significant others...
Q. Question for those that have broken up and gotten back together with their significant others: How long after the breakup did either you or your partner try to get back together with you? Or even if you didnt get back together, but either one o...
A. 12 June 2008: Thanks for your responses.
Thanks for your responses. Similar to the last poster, we (I initiated) because he was basically scared. Even after I tried very hard to reassure him of my affection but to no avail so I've decided to let him go and s... (read in full...)
Has anyone got engaged young, and if so, did it last or not?
Q. My boyfreind asked me to marry him and i said yes. I just wonder if anyone else has been engaged so young? Im so happy;-) ...
A. 19 May 2008: Dont get married so young. Stay together, but dont get married. Right now it seems so simple.. we love each other, what else could there be? Wait until you go to college and he's stressed and you're stressed and you cant spend time with eac... (read in full...)
Our arguements are getting out of control is this a sign that the end is near?
Q. I have been with my partner for two years. We love each other very much. Throughout our relationship we always seem to get into arguments that sometimes just get out of control, it always seems to start because of something he says and the fact that ...
A. 19 May 2008: http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Alchemy-Mind-Heal-Heart/dp/0609809032/... (read in full...)
He's not spending enough time with me, how do I confront him?
Q. I feel that the guy I'm currently dating doesn't spend enough time with me. I only see him once a week for about four hours and I feel that this little time isn't enough. He's a full time student who is about to graduate, and I understand he's ...
A. 19 May 2008: I know what you're going through, I've just been/still am in the same situation.
First, wait for his classes to be over. He's prob stressed and hanging out with friends b/c there's no emotions involved with them as opposed to you. After I kept bad... (read in full...)
That disappointed look on her beautiful face when she is not satisfied in bed... discourages me even more!? Help!
Q. i have been with my girlfriend for almost two years now, and i plan to marry her soon. everything seems to be going well except for one thing. our sex life. we are both 17 and have been tring everything to make sex work but something always goes ...
A. 19 May 2008: The poster below is right. Oral sex. No matter how long it takes for her to go (sometimes, it takes me 30 min). GEt a book on it. ... (read in full...)
We broke up due to it being a long distance relationship, but I'm seeing her in the summer, any chance of a real relationship then...?
Q. Hello aunts and uncles well you see me and my GF broke up today but i took it alot easier today but it might be the fact that the relationship was long distant.Well anyways she said she was sorry and all i said it was ok and i respect her decision ...
A. 19 May 2008: What reasons did she give you for breaking up and how has your relationship been up to this point?
My wonderful long-distance boyfriend became so involved with school work, he ignored me for three weeks. No matter what I said or did, he'd just say... (read in full...)
I feel marginalised and treated like dirt by this group of girls. I don't know what to do!
Q. hi i started college this year and met some great people however some of these people turned out to be not so great. they started treating me like dirt to be honest, a group of girls i made friends with from the begininning gradually started ...
A. 19 May 2008: At my last job, I became really good friends with a coworker, lets call her Z. She had a thing on and off with another coworker, who wasnt that into her and thought that I was cute, even though I was not into him in any way at all. When she realized ... (read in full...)
Is it unusual to still be a virgin at 21?
Q. Hi, I'm just wondering if this is unusual to still be a virgin at 21. I am quite shy and haven't had yet any boyfriend or girlfriend whatsoever. I planned an appointment to the GYN since they say you should go once you reach the age of 21 but...
A. 18 May 2008: Hey,
Dont worry, I lost my virginity when I was 21. I never told the guy that I lost it too that I was a virgin, and I dont think he really knew either.
If you're concerned that guy wont be interested in you b/c you're not sexually experie... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that I want him to be my first?
Q. Hi. I've been bestfriends with a guy for a year now. He'd always liked me and I wasn't sure. We just started dating a few months ago and I was in love with him before I even went out with him. He is just an amazing guy. I could never picture my...
A. 16 May 2008: If its his first time too, dont be suprised if it lasts about one or two minutes and its not all that great. In fact, after the first time I had sex, I called up my girlfriends and I said.. are you kidding? THATS what all the fuss is about? (of ... (read in full...)
We have two relationships: drunk and sober. How can I sort it out?
Q. I have been seeing a guy since last July...he is going to be 40 this summer, and I am turning 21. When we met up, he was going through a divorce, and I had just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. We started seeing eachother a few nights a ...
A. 16 May 2008: My friend had a similar experience with a 40 year old guy that's way too much into partying and drugs. She's 24. After she dumped him, he started dating a 20 year old porn star. My conclusion is that a 40 year old guy that still parties 6 nights... (read in full...)
It was sex and nothing else, but now?
Q. Me and a male friend, whom i have known for a couple of years, both have been single, both want someone special but havent been able to find someone. So, we decided to have mutual sex, and on a regular basis. This is a agreed on sex relationship, ...
A. 16 May 2008: I'm sorry, as a woman, you can't have sex as a man.
World history and years after years of countless psychological and biological research has shown that women naturally become emotionall attached to those they have sex with. Men dont get the same... (read in full...)
We are ready for sex. Recommendations?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about different methods of contraception and are thinking about a condom since they're easy to get. I'm just wondering though if intercourse feels better without one-especially semen pouring ...
A. 16 May 2008: Condoms are the best to use. They're easy to get and there's no hassle around them.
You should make sure to still be careful though. My boyfriend right now for wahtever reason cant keep them on. They come off like 70% of the time. I had to go on... (read in full...)
We're both too shy to ask the other out!
Q. I like this boy and I'm pretty sure he likes me. However we're both to shy to ask the other out. What should I do?...
A. 16 May 2008: Keep hanging out with him and being really nice. Some guys take a while.
A note on shy guys to make you feel better: My bf and I met in highschool. I sat next to him for a year. I liked him and he liked me and it was OBVIOUS, but both of us were ... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: Also, to comment on what you said about her not liking you going down on her... maybe you're just not doing that good of a job and need to brush up on your skills?
The first couple of guys who went down on me didnt really know what they were doi... (read in full...)
I want to give her a good romantic time but I can't get it up!
Q. hi im 22 i can get any girl i want i've been with more than 8 girls i did every thing with them but sex, i just get so nervous when it comes to sex most of the time i get orgasm during the oral sex and it last for a minute, or some times i cant just ...
A. 16 May 2008: Your putting too much pressure on yourself. When my bf and I started having sex (he's not experience at all, I think he just had one or two awkward one night stands before me), he was so shy and nervous, I, as the girl, kind of had to pressure him. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that I want him to be my first?
Q. Hi. I've been bestfriends with a guy for a year now. He'd always liked me and I wasn't sure. We just started dating a few months ago and I was in love with him before I even went out with him. He is just an amazing guy. I could never picture my...
A. 16 May 2008: Does he know you're a virgin?
I dont think you should state directly that you want him to be your first. Thats going to put a lot of pressure on him already, and honestly, the first time you have sex, it kinda sucks (it hurts, your confused... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: I dont have an answer to your question, but maybe I experience can offer you some insight.
For the longest time I was very much anti-blow jobs, hand-jobs, basically anything that didnt involve straight up intercourse. In fact, I was sexually... (read in full...)
Why has he become distant and cold? Is this relationship over?
Q. For the men: Can you please explain to me this male mentality of, if one part of my life sucks, everything sucks? My bf of 7 months all of a sudden started acting very distant and cold when he became incredibly busy at work. One day he'd want me...
A. 15 May 2008: You guys dont understand what I'm saying.
Its not a question of him pulling away for a couple of weeks and me giving him some slack.
Its a question of whether he wants to be with me at all. Ever. Is what he's confused about.
... (read in full...)
Why has he become distant and cold? Is this relationship over?
Q. For the men: Can you please explain to me this male mentality of, if one part of my life sucks, everything sucks? My bf of 7 months all of a sudden started acting very distant and cold when he became incredibly busy at work. One day he'd want me...
A. 15 May 2008: Thanks for your answer. I demanded answers because I was not sure of what was going on, if he just didnt want to be with me and was waiting for me to get the hint.
I tried to be as supportive as I could. He kept rejecting it.
When a man sa... (read in full...)
He's asked me to have sex with him and I don't know what to say!
Q. I recently just turned 16 and I really like this boy in my year. He is not the nicest looking but he is very nice to me and always complimenting me. I have liked him for a while and now he has asked me to have sex with him. I don't know what to say ...
A. 14 May 2008: Let me understand you properly? This boy has been complimenting you, and to return the favor, you feel like need to have, or owe him, sex?
Dear, boys will say anything and everything humanly imaginable to have sex with you. Your job is to decid... (read in full...)
Can I delay my period?
Q. Hi I am going on holiday this summer and I don't want to be on my period as I will be in a bikini alot, maybe even skinny dipping, and will be having fun with guys. I have heard that I can postpone my period using the pill so I don't have i...
A. 14 May 2008: Its not that simple. Your body may react to the horomones and you may start spotting when you just started the pill. During my first two months on the pill, I got my period when I was still on the active pills.
So you cant just start taking i... (read in full...)
Help my bf is going too fast, how do I slow him down!!!! DESPERATE FOR ANSWER
Q. i am 12 and am dating a 14 year old he is really cool and i like him but he is moving to fast for me weve been together for about 1 week and he already wants to kiss and makeout and maybe even see me naked but says he doesnt want to "ball" me until ...
A. 14 May 2008: If he's going way too fast for you, tell him. If he doesnt listen to you, dump him, b/c it sounds like he might be the type that will dump you after he gets what he wants.
I'm 24, and guys have to wait a lot longer than a week to make out with... (read in full...)
What are the chances that I'm pregnant?
Q. Okay, just a quick question. I understand none of you are going to be able to give a definite yes or no answer, I'd just like your opinions. So, last night just before I went to bed, I went to the toilet and noticed that there was a little circle ...
A. 14 May 2008: I had the same thing happen to me and it turned out that I have a horomonal imbalance that was causing it. I was also having unprotected sex at the time.
Go buy a pregnancy test. Then go see a doctor.... (read in full...)
All I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this?
Q. Ok, I am going to summarize everything and all I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this. My GF before she met me: Slept with 18 people, involved in group sex, cheated, had an abortion, stripped for coke, lots of one nigh...
A. 14 May 2008: Think about the statement that you're falling in love with her.
True love is loving a person for who they are and what they are. However, often are often fooled into thinking that feeling on wanting to hold onto something is a feeling of love, wh... (read in full...)
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