All I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this?
Q. Ok, I am going to summarize everything and all I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this. My GF before she met me: Slept with 18 people, involved in group sex, cheated, had an abortion, stripped for coke, lots of one nigh...
A. 14 May 2008: Think about the statement that you're falling in love with her.
True love is loving a person for who they are and what they are. However, often are often fooled into thinking that feeling on wanting to hold onto something is a feeling of love, wh... (read in full...)
I think about girls when I masturbate. Is this normal?
Q. Heya, Im a young adult who has had a couple of boyfriends, and im very sure im comfortable with my sexuality. However, sometimes when I masturbate I like to think about girls. However out of that situation, in my day to day life, I really do not f...
A. 14 May 2008: What thoughts do you have about girls?
I think its perfectly normal to be turned on by any sexual act, wether between boy and girl, girl and girl, or boy/girl by themselves. If you were watchin girl on girl porn and became turned on by that, I'... (read in full...)
Can you care about someone so much and it makes you so afraid of losing them, that you'd rather not be with them?
Q. A question to the guys: Can you care about someone so much and it makes you so afraid of losing them, that you'd rather not be with them? This is the line that my boyfriend pulled on me and bailed, after HE implied that we're in the relati...
A. 13 May 2008: Thanks for your response.
Unfortunatly, I was not the one that pulled away, nor did I put the brakes on anything. Maybe initially in the first couple of weeks yes, but then when he talked to me about it, I realized he was a trustworthy person a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend makes me do things I don't want to do
Q. my bf always wana let me do stuff i dont wanna do like sex and smoke i told him i dont wanna do these things but then we together again and he says he wont do it again but he just does and i realy love him what should i do cause we realy love each ...
A. 12 May 2008: You dont love him. He doesnt love you. It already sounds like you have low-selfesteem, which is why you're clinging on to him.
You need to break up with him. You need to develop self-confidence (read some books on developing self-esteem, they wor... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex?
Q. How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex? I always have to do it and if I dont initiate the sex then we never have sex! I know he likes having sex with me but I always have to actually start it. When I try to talk to him about it, he gets...
A. 12 May 2008: How long have you guys been together and where do you normally do it?
I had the same issue with my boyfriend during the first couple of months. Since we both have our own apartments, I just started taking baths with him. Or I'd say.. I want to ... (read in full...)
Is this really over because I think he still has feelings for me? It beaks my heart to think it is!
Q. Me and my Boyfriend broke up a few days ago, he said he wasn't ready to be in a relationship and we moved too fast and we've been together for 8 months, but it wasn't a horrible break up,and we talk on the phone like friends, and hung out for a ...
A. 12 May 2008: Hi, I'm so sorry for you. The same thing happened to me, and I'm about five years older.
If I were you, I wouldnt wait around for him, I'd move on. Does he have feelings for you? Maybe.. But if he knows that its making you suffer for him to break... (read in full...)
I'm heartbroken and frustrated, will I ever find love again?
Q. Will I ever find love again? I thought that I had finally found my soul mate and after almost 2.5 years together she decided that she wanted to be friends. I know she got frustrated that we weren't engaged yet and I wanted to and told her this but i ...
A. 12 May 2008: Go before its not too late. The feeling that the person you love doesn't want to committ to you is a tough one. This is especially true for girls, since we're conditioned to believe that guys are not interested in long term relationships, a... (read in full...)
I don't even know if I can trust guys anymore..
Q. Why do guys change their minds so quickly???? I had a very serious 7 month relationship (albeit long distance but incredibly intense) with the most wonderful and reliable guy. Even though we had been together for such a short period of time, ...
A. 9 May 2008: Thank you for that wonderful response. To update the situation, I've already been feeling very neglected and unloved for the past two weeks, and although I tried to talk to him about it many many many times, he'd just brush me off as busy.
And w... (read in full...)
What sort of women do men really like? Real? Or fake dolls with fake breasts, fake nails, fake hair...
Q. Ok, I know this topic gets old fast, and that I'll probably hear the same answers that are usually given, but let's have a try and I truly do expect honesty... PLEASE... It's always said men prefer natural beauty, natural looking women. But if th...
A. 8 May 2008: A real woman is the one. A fake one is the one right now.
Depends on where you are and what he's looking for. If you wanna attract the most guys at a bar, look as fake as possible. If you want to attract guys looking for future mothers of their... (read in full...)
He wants to be free. I don't understand what I did or how to move on
Q. Hi, im 19 been with this guy since i was 17 and he is my 1st love, my heart is breaking at the moment as he has decided randomly that we fight too much and he is better off without me. He just wants to be the happy care free person he was before he m...
A. 8 May 2008: Hey,
I know what you're going through. I've just kind of been in a recent situation myself, and I know its tough when you really care about someone and they just lose interest all of a sudden.
When you are with someone that you really care ... (read in full...)
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