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writes:We are together for almost a year. We seldom meet. I miss her a lot. Whenever I feel I want to talk to her, I will call her. I know I have been calling too much, 2-3 times everyday. She did tell me she get annoyed by that.I have tried not to call because if the missed call is not called back, then I know she choose not to pick up and that hurt me. But then she will ask, why I am not calling? I really want to tell her that I don't want to annoy her.I am concerned the annoyance will cause future problem. Reply to this Question
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reader, lena1 +, writes (13 August 2008):
 i don"t understand why that annoy her because if she loved you she could notw aitto have a call from you and hear your voice!!!
i lov my fiance and when he call ohh my god it's like i am in heaven and the day i don"t get sms from him i feel like i am lost!!!
i think this girl doent apreciate or knwo your value!!
or may be she is just careless!!!
god help you!!!you beter search for ur real love!!because i see yyou just wasting time with this one!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): Thank you for all the responses.
In my life, les is the first one saying I am rare and special kind of guy. I couldn't help myself but laughing and breaking my sadness for awhile.
In the beginning of the relationship, she is happy with the frequent call. I don't know how she treats others but she rarely call back when she missed my call.
I don't care she is not calling me but I can't get myself a reason she isn't calling back for the whole day.
I hope it is like domino21 said, she is keeping a wall which is better than about other guy.
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reader, domino21 +, writes (28 July 2008):
 I agree with the guy below me. Its obvious that you are very interested in her. But it seems like she likes the attention. But I cant say how much she is really into the relationship. Most girls would love to hear from their boyfriends especially when you dont get to see them much.
Also, has she always been this way?... Its possible its her way of keeping up a wall from getting hurt in the long run. But if its something new, she may be trying to push you away.. possibly intentional though she may not realize shes doing it.
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reader, les +, writes (28 July 2008):
Hi, two-three times a day after a year of dating is not that often. After 6 month, my ex-boyfriend was calling me 5 times a day.
You are a very rare and special guy. I wish that the guys I'm seeing now would want to talk to me more often, especially ever day, instead of just calling me to set up a time when I'm going to see them. If you talk to girls, most of them will say the same thing, that they wished they knew guys like you. So if she gets annoyed by that.. like the poster said below, she's just toying with your feelings and doesnt appreciate you.
I would re-evaluate the entire situation, because I'm sure it wouldnt be hard to find someone who DOES appreciate you. Seriously, take it from a girl, girls would kill for affection like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): From my own experience this is a classic case of a woman toying with your emotions. She knows the hold she has on you and enjoys playing the game. Although you have strong feelings for this girl it is obvious that it is one way. Never believe that a little love or hope of love is better than none at all. You dont have to play second best and the sooner you move onto someone who cares the better it will be. Good luck and hope it all works out
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