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writes:Hello everyone.. :) Well, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years over. Our relationship are great. He is caring, lovely and responsible. But lately I realise that we have less physic contact, he sure hug and kiss me a lot, but he seldom go further anymore. Before in our beginning of relationship, everytime we meet he always kiss me and go further as giving each other oral sex.I've ever talked about this with him and ask why he changed. He said that nothing changed with his feeling. He's just don't have chance to do it. He says that he still loves me so much. I think maybe he is too tired because now he's working, before he's college student.I don't mind if he's really busy or tired after all day activities, but in the other hand I miss the time when we're having intimate romance like before. How can I encourage and make him have desire to have that feeling? Please help me with your comments guys........ Thanks before :)
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (29 February 2012):
 YOU can't do a darn thing to change HIM..... REMEMBER THAT... as you are going to be tempted to "change" guys for the rest of your life....
As for THIS "relationship"... it has run its course, and you'll be wise to get out of it now, and look forward to meeting a real guy, who you really like... and who likes you.... and the two of you will be compatible in MANY, MANY ways.... and life together will be good....
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reader, Deagan +, writes (29 February 2012):
 It kind of happens. The intensity fizzles out, but just as long as the romance and attraction continues, you have nothing to fear.
Spice things up a little. Surprise him. Just as the male poster below said, it was getting old so she tried something new and it worked, it's like his gf fullfilled a fantasy and the desire and intensity came back.
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reader, landomando +, writes (28 February 2012):
This happened to me in my relationship. I was like your bf. And my gf was pretty much exactly like you lol. well my gf talked to her friend about this and they went out and got the sexiest lingerie! I didnt say too or knew about it she surprised me! and it was like a fantasy coming true for me! I think it was after a movie we came back cuddled then she said i had a surprise for you. changed and I was blown away!! For me personally It just made me so much more attracted to her!! Its just like we kinda did stuff and it was always the same thing and it got old. So she tried something new and it worked! Desire was not just back! I could not keep my hands off of her and idk that moment just stuck in my mind. Maybe full fill a reasonable fantasy... or get him some lingerie... what guy wouldnt love that lolGood luck
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