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Why don't I feel pregnant??

Q.   hI i'M 19 and 11 weeks pregnant with my fiance of 2 years and we've decided to keep it but my question is why don't I feel pregnant? I mean I'm not showing much and I havent had my first scan yet because we only decided to keep it recently and my d...

A.   12 November 2007: well done i think this is just a one off you should be glad you dont have morning sickness best wishesxxx... (read in full...)

I'm 16 and my brother is 17, what should I do?

Q.   i m 16 years old. my 17 years old brother wants to suck my boobs and wants me to give him a blow job. Please tel me what i should do....

A.   4 November 2007: he is your older brother i would just ignore him are you sure he was not joking? even if he was thats still sick and its incest.try and ignore him and blank him.if he asks in future.... (read in full...)

Big is not bad, but I still don't like being fat.

Q.   Hi, I am a 14 year old female and I know I am obese!! I weigh around 14 stone and, Im 5Foot"3Inches Tall. I try to stop myself from eating and do exercise but It only works for as long as two days then I give up because I don't see a di...

A.   28 October 2007: well there are plenty of diets you can do but you must work on them.find a diet that suits you.remember you dont have to model thin just aim to lose so much each month.... (read in full...)

I want a baby - how can I get pregnant?

Q.   I'm trying for a baby and i have been trying almost 6 months now and im still not pregnant has anyone got any advice on what can help me get pregnant because i dont want to give up and i dont want ivf so if any one has any advice please help me....

A.   21 October 2007: if you are conserned visit your doctor but it does take a while for someone to get pregnate be pateint.good luck... (read in full...)

How do I get over these self esteem issues?

Q.   I don't really know where else to go with my little problem so I am coming here and mostly I just want to know what you guys would do in my situation. I've been with this man for 3.5 years, after about a four month courtship. Our relation...

A.   21 October 2007: i have low self esteem to i judt look at other people and there bad pints and reflect it on my self.if you want to have sex with him again i suggest new sexy under garments which you can bye from any good clothes store.shw him how sexy you are that ... (read in full...)

I'm 13, is it OK for me to loose my virginity?

Q.   im 13 is it okay to loose my virginity im not sure can anybody help ?...

A.   14 October 2007: anything under 16/15 is slutty i adivise you to wait and think of what your class mates will say please re think this... (read in full...)

Is my teacher flirting with me?

Q.   Hello this may seem like a pointless question but i am just wanting to know what little treasure means? coz my teacher always calls me his little treasure and today he walked in the class when i was alone and said hello Becky hows my little treasure...

A.   11 October 2007: hmmmmmmmmm i dont really know much about the teacher how old is he and he does sound flirty.... (read in full...)

My brother-in-law is in prison for child molestation! Could he have been molested? Does this mean my husband was molested, too?

Q.   Hi, I have been married 3 months. My husband's brother was just convicted of molesting boys ages 12-14. He started doing this when he was 20. I am really struggling w/this. I am glad he is in prison even though my husband and his family are grieving...

A.   26 September 2007: well i am no expert but he might not like people tuching him a lot that is a sign or he might not like it or change the tv programe if the subject is mentioned in any way.... (read in full...)

I'm overweight and have no confidence left

Q.   well im really big for my age im 15 im a size 18 and thats gettin too small for me and i dont have a clue bout how to lose weight.i used to be really vain when i was size 12/14 i had loads of confidence and a bf and everything but as ive got bigger ...

A.   23 June 2007: well if you want to lose weight you can do the smoothie fruit diet which you only have smoothies and fruit .or you can just pick up a magazine or book and read about diets and the right one for you. hope all goes well xxx... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is sending emails that sound like she's sleeping with other blokes! She tells me it's nothing to worry about. What can I do?

Q.   Hi, I'm 20 years old and have been seeing my girlfriend of the same age for about 9 months now. We met each other at our 'home' town but we study at different universities so it is effectively a 'long-distance relationship' most of the time. Over ...

A.   16 June 2007: no offence but your girlfriend should really sort herself out if she is doing this i dont like cheats and i think you should give her a call i know it sounds bad to talk about somthing like this on the phone but look what she has done it is not ... (read in full...)

I had sex with a boy twice before and I'm worried if bleeding is a normal thing???

Q.   ok I'm 14 going 15 this December 2, I had sex with a boy twice before and I'm worried if bleeding is a normal thing???...

A.   12 June 2007: well if you just lost your virginty this is totally normal and you are young as well ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend thinks I'm "pure"... How can I tell him I've been raped???

Q.   im 14 my boyfriend lives far away so when we meet up we are usually soo happy we get...erm...close He wants me to lose my virginity to him, its not i dont want to but first im no where near ready, second im starting to like this other guy at my ...

A.   10 June 2007: if he loves you like you say he wouldnt be annoyed and perfectly understand... (read in full...)

How often is too often? (Sex wise?)

Q.   How often is too often? I recently lost my virginity with my boyfriend, we have sex every night if we are together and things are great..should we be slowing down? I am in Europe for a few months ( havent seen him in over a month, so obviously no ...

A.   10 June 2007: well if that makes you happpy then do have sex every night if you enjoy it.make the most of the time you have with each other and always use a condom xxx... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant??

Q.   Hi everyone. My boyfriend and i had sex just over a month ago. We used a condom and he did not cum. I got my period a week later but now my period is very late. Like 2 weeks. Is there a chance i'm pregnant? Please write back ...

A.   10 June 2007: hardley he used the condom and did not cum but i would buy a pregnancey test from the pharmacy just to be on the safe side. hope you are not pregnante xxx... (read in full...)

Is he bored of me??

Q.   Hi, Is he getting bored of me and is just staying with me for the sake of it? I'm 16 years old and have been with by boyfriend nearly 8 months now, although he is a year younger. When we first got together everything seemed absolutely perfe...

A.   10 June 2007: sit down have a class of wine and talk to him about it and try and work on things.give it a while but if things dont change i think you should end the relationship. have you every herd of the seven month itch .(sammantha jones says it in season ... (read in full...)

He told me it would be ok but I didnt want to do it and now I feel dirty!!!

Q.   I have gotten my self into a real pickle and dont know what to do next!! I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and although i havnt slept with him, i love him. I was 15 in may and he was 16 in january and we have like i said been together for ...

A.   9 June 2007: well i didnt know it hurt that much when you did it for the first time !! at least you got it over and done with a lot of girls have sex a lot younger some when they are 10/12 at the youngest i understand how you feel dont feel ashamed of what you ... (read in full...)

What products can I use for my greasy hair? And how do I make my chest appear bigger?

Q.   Im a teenager and my hair goes greasy after 1/2 days after washing it. Really annoying, does anyone know anything to help prevent this products to help. Theres head and sholders (for greasy hair)?. Also I think my breasts are rather small does ...

A.   4 June 2007: well change your shampoo to somthing a bit more expensive and exsperment with diffrent ones.and if you want your chest bigger by a water bra you can get them from all good bra stores like marks and spencers or if you want a padded bra go to marks ... (read in full...)

Is my weight normal for my age and height?

Q.   Hi I'm 14 and 5 foot 5 and weigh about between 9 and 10 stone throughout the day and 10 stone when ive just weighed myself now is this normal? but thats probably because its the end of the day and ive eaten more. I would like to loose weight i have ...

A.   29 May 2007: well if you you want to diet dont starve yourself ! and the best diet is fruit salad and smoothies .... (read in full...)

Update: She's never been kissed before so how do I tell her I have feelings

Q.   Hey, this isn't really a question im just writing to thank everyone for the advice they gave me and to let you know how it went. Well my question title was "She's never been kissed before so how do I tell her I have feelings??" Well i went back to ...

A.   28 May 2007: give her the first kiss she will never forget if you get a good first experience you will want to do it again ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and have completely lost my appetite. When do you think it will come back? Is this normal?

Q.   Hi, I was amazed at the wonderful answers I got with the last question I posted so i'd really apprecciate any answers this time around as well. I've recently found out i'm roughly 7 weeks pregnant, I haven't been to the doctors yet but i've got an ...

A.   28 May 2007: hi there i am no expert but when you are pregnante you have morning sickness and smell things that are not there like hot iron maybe that is off puting your food or it could just be a bug going round if you are very worried go to your gp hope it ... (read in full...)

He always hangs out with the popular girls but I want him to spend time with me. What can I do?

Q.   i have a crush on this boy at my school he is really hot i have always wanted to ask him to skate but he always skates with the popular girls i dont know what to do i am 11 years old is it to young to like someone so much if no what do i do?...

A.   3 March 2007: i am thirteen and i no there is only two years in it but i think you are too young for a boyfriend if you like him the way you say you do ignor those so called (popular girls)the truth is you might think they are popular but the truth is they are ... (read in full...)

I'm 12 and just lost my virginity, now I'm really regreting it!

Q.   omg....I am 12 and I lost my virginity this year. I love my bf...i do but, now I'm regreting wat i did. I feel like a slut now! I promised i would "save" myself until I got married! But i have just been wanting to do "it". I just wanted to see wat ...

A.   2 March 2007: look you are much too young for this i am thirteen and there are just loads of problems for starters you could have s.t.d and you might get called slag or slut at school girls can be like that girls who are reading this savethink before you act ... (read in full...)

My mum and dad argue all the time, should I move out?

Q.   dear agony aunts i am currently having trouble at home. i do not know what to do as this is a long story and i will try to make it short. my mum and dad do not get along, because of me and my dad gets angry easily and says stuff to my mum like, ...

A.   2 March 2007: dont blame yourself it is your dad you and your mom deserve better this must be hard for you ask your how she feels about or try your best to forget your mom and dad could work try locking them in a closet see if anything changes they might just ... (read in full...)

Have I got enough best friends and is it normal ?

Q.   I have to ask if the type of friendship I have is ideal. I have 5 best friends who I would go on holiday with. Apart from one of them who is a girl. After that, I have several friends who I'm good friends with and would go to their parties, but not ...

A.   28 February 2007: well i have two realy good best friends we are in a group of four the other girl is mean and horribe we dont like her you should be happy with what you have the question is would you want 20 friends who are mean and bitchy or 5 realy good best ... (read in full...)

Do I need my parent's consent?

Q.   hi i am 15 currently going to be 16 in a few days i live in the united kingdom and wanted to know.. if i can stay at my boyfriends house without concent of my mum....

A.   28 February 2007: try and keep it a secret if not you can go out with who you want you like him he likes you it is your life... (read in full...)

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