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Is my teacher flirting with me?

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Question - (11 October 2007) 11 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hello this may seem like a pointless question but i am just wanting to know what little treasure means?

coz my teacher always calls me his little treasure and today he walked in the class when i was alone and said hello Becky hows my little treasure?

is it a childish term coz its not like im 13-14 im 17?

please respond bk as i dont know what it means! lol

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2007):

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I know he wasnt flirting with me, i only wrote "what does little treasures mean"

so yes thank you DANIELLE for pointing out the obvious.

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A female reader, danielle rudolph United States +, writes (23 December 2007):

danielle rudolph agony auntSweetie he is not flirting with you it is just a nick name.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007):

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Hey everyone first of all the title of my prob- is my teacher flirting with me - is totally wrong i typed in for it to say what does little treaure mean? and it came up as that, so no, i know he isnt flirting or whtever i jsut wntd to know what it meant... its okay chill i dont fancy him he is my teacher! lol i was jsut wondering lol it was a pointless question but thanks for telling me!

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A female reader, Titania70 United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2007):

He might be flirty but he is your teacher and there are codes of conducts that should not be trespassed. In other situations, for ex. patient and doctor, client and lawyer, record label manager and band members etc. It's more about him than it is about you. We adults should know how to behave professionally and not cross the boundaries. Favouritism at school is also a sign of unprofessionalism but again, restrain should come from his side. However, should he be single and fancy free, he should wait until you're done with your school education before anything should happen. We're all human and sometimes attraction happens when one does not expect it but neither of you should start anything until you're done with your course and are no longer a student. Good luck.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (12 October 2007):

Collaroy agony auntSorry to say, but as an ex high school teacher I can say this is totally inappropriate. Apart from an obvious sign of favouritism it is making you question his intentions.

He might think it entirely innocent , but what the other posters dont realise is that teachers have a code of behaviour they need to follow especially with female students. This goes beyond that and is inexcusable. If he continues and it makes you feel uncomfortable tell your Class teacher.

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A male reader, Uncle Trev United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2007):

He is not flirting - I think you may well be reading more into this than is there. I no doubt your teacher likes you, you may be one of his better performing students and although teachers are not supposed to have their favourites they inevitably do. Most of them though do not let on to anybody usually. If you are one of his favourites it doesn't mean that any other desires are there.

It is possibly to like somebody without anything else being attached to the liking.

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A male reader, CLHLCRS United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2007):

a lot depends on body language when he says it but chances are, he isn't flirting. he's probably just saying it trying to be funny or he might just be in a bad habit of using 'pet names' to people. i work with teenagers and i'll say sweetheart or darling to them ocassionally, not because i'm the slightest bit attracted to them but just because it's a bad habit i've gotten into with people in general.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (11 October 2007):

kenny agony auntI guess it depends on the way he says it. For instance if he said it while leaning over you and looking into your eyes then i would call this flirting. But if just walked into the room plonked a pile of books on the table and said " hows my little treasure " then continued doing something else, i would not call this flirting.

Good luck x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007):

Quick answer? NO HE'S NOT!

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A female reader, jtaunton5410 United States +, writes (11 October 2007):

jtaunton5410 agony auntWell, he could be saying that in an innapropriate way, and yes that is wrong so you would need to speak to someone about tha, or he could be just sayin because maybe you are teachers pet. In this matter there is really no way to tell what he is getting at. Why dont you try ignoring him for a while. bcause maybe if you 2 talk alot and are really nice and sweet to eachother, the closenes may be getting out of hand. I think since you are old enough you should no what is innappropriate and what isnt. Just use your best judgement.

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A female reader, keely-h United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2007):

keely-h agony aunthmmmmmmmmm i dont really know much about the teacher how old is he and he does sound flirty.

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