My crush on my teacher who doesn't see my good qualities, is keeping me from dating guys that do...how do I get over this crush?
Q. I have had a crush on my teacher for a year or so, and every day I look for an excuse to stay in his classroom. It's odd because some days we seem to have interesting discussions, and other days we just do our own work. From time to time I see him ...
A. 12 March 2010: a crush takes time to pass but it does help if you try and focus your attention on other guys even if you dont like them you may grow to like them and it will help you get over your crush.your teacher may look at you but not in a crush way teaching ... (read in full...)
How do you know if a boy likes you?
Q. How do you know if a boy likes you. For example is it realistic to assume that a boy likes you when he touches/strokes you and gets jealous when you talk about other guys?...
A. 12 March 2010: yes.you know if a boy likes you because they give you alot of eye contact show you alot of attention and even ask you out also the jealousy thing when you talk about other guys or even to other guys and he sees you doing this.however theres the ... (read in full...)
How to deal with a forced break up?
Q. Dear agony aunt, me and my girlfriend of eight months have recently decided to send sexually explicit pictures of each other. Before she could her mom saw the text messages saying what i wanted. So she threatened to call the school so we can't sit ...
A. 12 March 2010: she obviously has an overprotective mother who is trying to look out for her.Her mother probably thinks your just a guy who is trying to get into her knickers and thinks your disrespectful for asking this of her daughter.you have to think she sees ... (read in full...)
Is a good girl fiction or reality?
Q. It all started back in high school. My girlfriend left me for a rich man. I was very upset. Next my girlfriend left me when I went to the cadet corps. She just did not want to even try to wait for me. I understand it, wait for two years is not ...
A. 12 March 2010: You just need to find the right girl, you have had bad luck in the past there are plenty of women out there that want the same as you... (read in full...)
My nineteen year old lover wants me to leave my husband for him! I'm so confused on what to do...
Q. I've done something really bad, but it happens every Saturday night, I'm a fifty year old lady and I'm married. I've had sex with an nineteen year old and he loves it and wants me to leave my husband and live with him, I do enjoy his sex but I have ...
A. 12 March 2010: i think you need to be honest with your husband if he loves you hel stick by you and realise you have made a mistake i no its exciting when someone younger shows interest in you and makes you feel like your on top of the world but you got married to ... (read in full...)
I sometimes believe I am over him, but then I think about him and know I'm not...will he ever come back?
Q. This guy and I have been together for a while and I really love him. We weren't exactly "together" but he was always saying we'd be in a relationship and he treated me right. I don't know how to deal with my emotions now, I'm trying so hard to just ...
A. 12 March 2010: seems to me like he has moved on with his life having a new girlfriend his not going to be thinking about you.getting over someone takes alot of time and occasionally you will sit there and think about him and miss him but that goes away in time.you ... (read in full...)
We're back together now, but I'm finding it difficult to trust. How can I let things go?
Q. Ever since my boyfriend broke up with me the first time I've been having trust issues with him but were back together. Any advice on how to let things go? ...
A. 12 March 2010: getting back with him after him breaking up with you is obviously something you have to try and forget about i no trust is a hard thing to regain but give it some time and dont let yourself get to comfortable in a relationship again so soon just ... (read in full...)
I'm infatuated with this girl but she is bi. How do I deal with this?
Q. Ok i'm in a real bind here. The girl i love is bi. How do i deal with this exactly? I mean i'm completely infatuated with her, not in a bad way. Honestly, how am i supposed to deal with this? I just don't know how this will work if our relationship ...
A. 12 March 2010: to be honest if your in a relationship with her and she is open minded about the fact that she is bi you need to find out how she truely feels for you.it shouldnt be a real issue if she loves you because then she wont look else where.my friend is bi ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is mean to me in public! I don't know what to do
Q. My boyfriends really nice to me when were alone but in public he tends to argue and be mean to me a lot , like at school. I don't know what to do.. A asshole in public is embarasing ...
A. 12 March 2010: when your alone ask him why he is being horrible towards you and tell him that you dont like it.... (read in full...)
He's too lazy to get up and feed our son!!!
Q. hey i need some advice, my fiance wont get outta bed to feed our 2 month old son! we both do a night feed each as i do all the child care, he only does one feed in 24 hours and thats one of the night feed. since iv had my son iv had to do nearly ...
A. 12 March 2010: a relationship should be about balance and if he isnt helping you then itl make your relationship weaken.you need to tell him that if he doesnt put in some more effort with you and your son then there is no point you both being in a relationship as ... (read in full...)
When is close, TOO CLOSE?
Q. I'm coming here, because I have no where else to turn and I'm in serious need of advice. I found this site and am hoping I can get some insight here. I am married, have been for over 10 years. My husband and I got married under less than perfect ...
A. 12 March 2010: if your not happy in your marriage isnt it in your best interest to end the relationship and stay close friends for the childrens sake rather than them growing up and you being unhappy???that way your children still have balanced lives and ... (read in full...)
He is letting his mother control his life, and I don't know what to do. can anyone offer any advice?
Q. My bf and I have issues going on. we are together for 3 yrs now. the problem i have with him is he cannot sleep by me at all. He owns a Vehicle so his excuse is he has to take his brother (age 17) to school. but when school give holidays he don't ...
A. 12 March 2010: his mum sounds abit controlling maybe overprotective.she probably know that if he is sleeping out or you are staying round yourl get up to sexual stuff and she doesnt like that as she probably feels like your too young to be doing that i mean he is ... (read in full...)
Young Male With Huge Sex Addiction Problem, Please Help It's Ruining My Life!
Q. Hi Everyone, ok well i need some help here i am an 18 year old male, and i have an extremely high sex drive, possible sex addiction problem, i just cannot get enough! most of the time i use pornography to satisfy the urges but it's still not e...
A. 12 March 2010: your young so your sex drive will be high most girls around your age have a high sex drive too but not as much as boys your age.girls dont want to feel used by a guy who always wants to have sex with her so i can understand your problem but maybe ... (read in full...)
Did I scare him? A long story very short.
Q. I met a man a few weeks ago and we really hit it off. It started with him having a crush on me, when I was into someone else, but after bumping into him one night and him giving me his phone number I began to like him too. He was really attentive, ...
A. 12 March 2010: he might just be really nervous id say text him again asking if he is still interested in going out for a drink as your free on (what ever day you are free) a certain day this week and then leave it at that if he doesnt reply again id say leave the ... (read in full...)
Sexually addicted??
Q. Dear Cupid: My fiance has cut back on viewing porn (well, as far as I know). Now every night, all he wants is me to tell him of my past sexual experiences. He says he'd rather jack off to that instead of viewing porn. Does this sound like somebody...
A. 12 March 2010: maybe he is still viewing porn to say something like i prefer jacking off rather than watching porn just suggests that he is trying to put you off the scent he obviously has issues with sex addiction as men dont usually want to know about there ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about her symptoms, guidance anyone?
Q. Okay i am really Worried about my girlfriend. This week is the week she usually has her period. She has had tender boobs (she does sometimes when she is on her period) She had some pretty bad stomach cramps witch caused her to throw up (she doe...
A. 12 March 2010: as you know condoms are not 100% affective is there any chance she could be pregnant id say leave it for a week or so if she doesnt get a period tell her to take a pregnancy test.im pregnant at the moment with my second child and both times i was ... (read in full...)
We talk all the time but she makes excuses not to see me.
Q. I started a relationship with a girl going through divorce back in November. Things were going great, she was coming over every night, we had sex for a week straight, she said I turned her on. After 3 months she suddenly stopped coming over, still ...
A. 12 March 2010: if your in a relationship with some that you love you want to be with them all the time so making excuses is just a way out i think id say move on... (read in full...)
Do I leave my new life behind for her?
Q. Hey guys, I moved to Australia from England 2 years ago. My (now) partner was my best friend in the UK. She came to visit me, and we decided to take the relationship to the next level and we started dating. We had a long distance relationship...
A. 12 March 2010: you need to let her know you have rebuilt your life in australia and there are better opportunities for you there rather than in england e.g job and family i understand its a hard decision but you could drop everything go to england and may not end ... (read in full...)
Why should I have to choose between my girlfriend and my mum?
Q. Please help. My girlfriend and i have a young baby, my girlfriend thinks my mum hasn't made enough effort in coming to see us and the baby (which maybe she hasn't but my gf hasn't made her feel welcome lately). Also my mum is depressed at the ...
A. 11 March 2010: give it time its not fair what your girlfriend or your mum is doing your mum will come round in time shes your mum at the end of the day but your girlfriend shouldnt be stopping your mum from seeing your child its both your child and im sure she ... (read in full...)
Breaking up with my girlfriend is leaving me confused and guilty
Q. Hello, This is a very complicated story but I will try to make it as clear as possible. I am 23 years old and I am in the world of theater and entertainment, a great but also very difficult, risky business. I come from a very broken family an...
A. 11 March 2010: sounds to me like she is abit unstable and has probably been let down and hurt alot by men and she just craves attention and affection shes not looking at it from your point of view she just sees it like she hasnt got long to find someone and settle ... (read in full...)
I get sooooo down when I don't see him...
Q. This may sound odd but I don't really know what I think I'm feeling, for the last year I've been with a boy that I've been crazy about and when ever I see him I'm always smiling. Since I was young I've had problems sleeping and can have days, weeks ...
A. 11 March 2010: maybe you should talk to your doctor about feeling depressed they can help alot.you might feel like this guy doesnt deserve having to put up with the way you are feeling but he obviously cares as he hasnt left you has he it might just be the ... (read in full...)
Is he leading me on and taking advantage of the fact I like him?
Q. I've got a problem with this boy i REALLY like. It might sound like one of those pathetic middle school crushes but i'm definitely not in middle school and this is not a crush. I like this guy and so does my best friend. But he told his best f...
A. 11 March 2010: no one likes to be ignored dont make the effort to contact him distance yourself slightly itl push him to wanting to ask you out he might be shy which is why you have to start the conversations so it might take him a while to ask you out but it ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but our relationship was too turbulent to ever get back together. What should I do?
Q. hi readers...i need yor advice.. i broke up with the love of my life 9 months ago... since then we have remained best buddies or i can say more than that....specially for the past 5 months. he behaves exactly like we used to when we were in ...
A. 11 March 2010: if things are the same as they were when you were in a relationship then arent you still in the relationship kind of maybe he wants to make you think its unofficial incase someone else comes along he can just say to you that you both arent in a ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend forced me to swallow.... what to do?
Q. I love my boyfriend very much; however, he did something very mean last night. He knows I do not swallow, I HATE it! Makes me want to gag, not really the taste, but the feel alone. Anyhow, I let him do other stuff to me, facials, pearl n...
A. 11 March 2010: has he given you an explanation about why he did this in a way thats kind of abuse as he knew u didnt want to do it.if you stay with him id refuse to do it ever again and id have the right to say its because i dont trust him i think thats what you ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex playing games?
Q. My ex dumped me about a month ago, I'm still not really sure why, and I immediately started no contact. After 2 weeks of silence he text me 'hey. just thought I'd drop you a text to see how you're doing x'... I replied to be civil and polite and w...
A. 11 March 2010: he expected you to be the first to get in contact, chase him in a way but because you didnt he wanted to know how youd be with him that is why he texted you.but because you texted him asking about the results he might be thinking "i contacted once ... (read in full...)
Now that our children are adults they have serious problems. Why?
Q. Hello,I have a question about child raising. We are emigrated form Europe,and raised our children here, when they were very young.We dont have any special religion,or tradition we kept. Also,we didn't keep our first language,we always spoke English ...
A. 11 March 2010: alot of people try drugs usually kids try drugs when they are told not to as if you tell someone not to do something they do the opposite.i dont think the fact that you are emigrants has anything to do with these issues kids go through stages in ... (read in full...)
He had an affair with me but now is putting the blame on me that they are getting divorced.
Q. I've been trying to find ways to get over the hurt I've just experienced. I found this website and read one woman's question and her experience sounded exactly like mine. I recently was invovled with a married man for 4 months. Last night our ...
A. 11 March 2010: dont have any contact with this man he is obviously a complete rat that just wanted something exciting without taking into consideration anyone elses feelings.to be honest you shouldnt have got involved at all knowing that he was married but i know ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with my husband looking at bondage and transexual pornography?
Q. I have been married for only two years monday. My husband and I have a 7 month old son. A few days ago I got on my computer and was really bored so I just started checking the history on the internet. I found pornography websites that contained ...
A. 11 March 2010: alot of men watch pornography on the internet to learn new things but transexual pornography are you sure his not confused about his sexuality maybe he is confused id talk to him about it rather than bottle it up if you dont talk about why he felt ... (read in full...)
It was going so well but now I am being ignored.
Q. I have been speaking to this guy online, on the phone and via text for the past 4 months, things became very strong and I went to meet him last week. We had two dates which lasted for four hours each time, we laughed had fun, flirted, hugged and ...
A. 11 March 2010: id move on the guy clearly is a fantasist who wants you when its good for him have you not thought that maybe he is with someone so he cant get in contact with you when his with another person... (read in full...)
He basically wants to be FWB but I care too much about him to even be just friends.
Q. I had to let a guy I was seeing go a couple of days ago because he was having sex with other women. I had an idea that he was seeing other girls as he told me a couple times that he wasn't ready to commit right now. I have been seeing in for over a ...
A. 11 March 2010: his the type of guy that wants the best of both worlds and i think you done the right thing because if you stayed friends you wouldnt have been able to resist his charm you have to think your not the only girl he is or has done this too so his quite ... (read in full...)
He constantly degrades me in front of our son!
Q. Hi I really need some help regarding my husband's behviour towards me in front of our son. I met him when I was 18 and we got married when I was 19 and he was 24 and we've been married for nearly 11 years and we have a two year old son. It took me ...
A. 11 March 2010: seems like he has some trust issues but following you why would someone do that unless they thought there partner was cheating on them if he has the idea you are cheating he could be following you but then they say when you have a suspicious mind ... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting or is he a bit odd??
Q. Hi, I met this guy via the local community (he is a community beat policeman) when I was having some problems and he asked me out for a drink so I went. He seems quite nice in some ways if a little 'weak'. However apparently he has quite a temper ...
A. 11 March 2010: sounds to me like he has a few physcological problems.you know he has a temper,he only likes watching murder films,what he said about his ex is odd too but the fact that you have only been seeing him for a couple of weeks and he is insulting you ... (read in full...)
Had sex with my step brother then he got mad when he found out I was a virgin!
Q. Ok I am not here so people can say rude things I am just need a little advice form OPEN MINDED people. My step brother is 10 yrs older then me. (We have the same dad). I am 18 and he is 28. He recently moved back home because him and his gf broke up...
A. 11 March 2010: he prob saw it as a way to make himself feel better for loosing his girlfriend when you split with someone best way to get over it sometimes is to go and sleep with the next girl you see however after having sex with you he probably realised that he ... (read in full...)
I took him back but now I'm not sure if that was a good idea.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 4 months we have a 6 month old baby. He cheated on me and got that girl pregnant. When I found out he cried and told me he was sorry that he messed up. I took him back but now I'm not sure if that was a ...
A. 11 March 2010: trust is a hard thing to regain you need to work out in your head whether or not you can work past thing and not bring it up if you agree to forgive someone you cant bring it up when your arguing.see how things go and if your not happy and feel you ... (read in full...)
What can I do to prove to her that I won't hurt her if she gives me a second chance?
Q. So me and my girlfriend have been broken up for about 2 months now. We've gotten closer within the last couple weeks. We started to hold hands and kiss again. Some days she's very "lovey" with me. Some days she doesn't show any sign of affection ...
A. 11 March 2010: trust is a hard thing to regain you have to be patient with her and not rush her into a relationship take things slowly... (read in full...)
He's too lazy to get up and feed our son!!!
Q. hey i need some advice, my fiance wont get outta bed to feed our 2 month old son! we both do a night feed each as i do all the child care, he only does one feed in 24 hours and thats one of the night feed. since iv had my son iv had to do nearly ...
A. 11 March 2010: tell him he has responsibilities and if he doesnt start being a dad then hel be leaving because your not prepared to be a single mum struggling while he stays in bed he has to pull his weight and help you out he made the child too and its tiring ... (read in full...)
He tricked me!!!!!!!
Q. I like my guy friend, he is nice about my crush, but today he tricked me into kissing his cheek and then he made fun of my blushing!!! so I punched him, and he got a little angry. He did not hit me back, he left. Why would he do that? We are always ...
A. 11 March 2010: well his not going to hit you back your a girl but he has the right to get angry at you punching him you shouldnt have done that really.ok so you no your not his type but he obviously knows you like him which is why he is teasing you and embarassing ... (read in full...)
Horrible love triangle and I just don't know who to choose!
Q. Hello Everyone, I desperately need some help Ok so here it goes, I have two guys who I love and both love me back. I do not know what to do. It all began about 5 yrs ago. I married my high school sweetheart (#1). I thought it would be forever...
A. 11 March 2010: you need to choose the man you love the most however if i was in your boat id prob go back to the ex husband like you said you both were too young to commit as you got married too soon but your older now and should give it another go i mean you ex ... (read in full...)
His no sex attitude is tearing me apart...
Q. I'm living with my boyfreind and I'm not happy. I love him and I'm trying to deal with the no sex thing he thinks a relationship is better as a companion. Don't get me wrong, we do it every day, like 3 months and I'm not happy with that at all. I ...
A. 11 March 2010: if the no sex thing is both of your ideas then it was a mutual agreement which is fine although you dont seem so pleased with the idea if you want to have sex and he doesnt why not ask him why he doesnt want sex also you need to explain to him that ... (read in full...)
Would most guys pull any girl that’s interested? Or are they more particular than that?
Q. Hey. When it comes to girls, I’d like to know where guys draw the line. Would most guys pull any girl that’s interested? Or are they more particular than that? The guy I fancy reluctantly said that he’d pull me and I keep on catching his eye at s...
A. 11 March 2010: it depends theres guys that want a relationship therefore if that was the case hed probably only focus his attention on the person he wanted to get into a relationship with and then eventually ask them out.there are other guys that are out for what ... (read in full...)
He wants us to take a break but I want to work things out...
Q. So i have been with my boyfriend for about 11 months a year next week. He has done some things to me that i have not quite forgiven him for, i am happy to be with him but the thing is we fight a lot, mostly every day mostly on my part on little ...
A. 11 March 2010: well it all depends on what he did to you to be honest because if you cant forgive and forget then yourl never move forward and keep throwing what ever it is back in his face.you both need to have a talk about how you both are feeling and see if ... (read in full...)
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