I'm concernd about the size of my penis?
Q. My current girlfriend, who had sex with one person before told me that he had a small penis, but she later told me that it was 6 inches, which I certainly don't consider small. She also told me that having sex didn't feel good at all with him. She ...
A. 20 March 2010: no everyone has different sizes whether it is to do with length or girth.it all depends on how you use it i guess... (read in full...)
I guess this means he doesn't want me at all?
Q. I think i know the answer to this but i;d just like your outlook. I have a mate(i hope)who ive always been in love with. Seriously im not joking its got to much now and its killing me each and every day :'( Its just stuff has happened in the p...
A. 18 March 2010: maybe he only sees you as a friend i wouldnt be hurt atleast he let you know he couldnt make it id say for now dont ask him out again let him do the chasing if his interested hel ask you out... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant and want to keep the baby
Q. hi my name is desiree and i stress every day its so much drama that go on in my life i been through alot and im having a baby and i no im kinda young but i think i can handle it because i carry myself as a young ladie dont get into no more drama and ...
A. 18 March 2010: does your boyfriend want the baby?you need to tell your mother that you are having second thoughts about abortion however i think your too young to be able to stick to your own decision because you are not yet classed as an adult as such i think ... (read in full...)
Three months later and she still won't introduce me to her family.
Q. My girlfriend is 19 I'm 30! That has been going for 3 months. Her family knows me, 3 close friends of her know about her and me but she won't tell her family about her and me, she won't let me meet her other friends! She says she don't want to be ...
A. 18 March 2010: you have every right to be slightly upset because it must almost feel like she is keeping you as a dirty little secret and is embarassed by the relationship but you have to understand you are 30 she is 19 that is quite a bit of an age difference ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to talk, I don't. How do I gently tell him no?
Q. Hi, My exboyfriend contacted me last week (through email) and asked me to get together personally so we can talk. We broke up three years ago. Then I would've been very interested in talking to him, not now. There were things about the past I...
A. 18 March 2010: if you beat around the bush then hel keep asking that you talk which is going to make the situation harder for you i suggest you just be blunt and say the past is the past and your not interested in meeting up and talking you have moved on and you ... (read in full...)
Should I stay in a sour relationship with a much older man for the sake of my son?
Q. my boyfriend is 53 and I 21 have been together for 2 years and we have a son together he is a very mean person, he never shows me any affection and and when i try to confont him about it he says wait and see. which is funny because its been this ...
A. 18 March 2010: just because you have a child with someone doesnt mean it will last in a relationship if you are not happy in the relationship then you should get out of it for the sake of your son.its not good for your son to see you unhappy itl affect his ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants nothing to do with me because I kissed his mate.
Q. Hi, i have been in a relationship for nearly two years now and even though im only young know he is the one for me. I am totally in love with him and no one else could make me happier. Recently, i went out to a club and had far too much to drink and ...
A. 17 March 2010: you shouldnt get so drunk that you dont no what you are doing to be honest although it does happen.you had to suffer the consequences he might come round but in his eyes he sees it as you being unfaithful and if you can do that once then you can do ... (read in full...)
How would you take this compliment?
Q. OK I gave this lady I like a compliment in a round about way here is the way it happened. I feel this lady is attracted to me but I was walking with her co-worker and she was communicating with her back and forth while we were walking together...
A. 17 March 2010: i think she probably got the hint why dont u just ask her out... (read in full...)
How do I stop myself getting back with my cheating boyfriend?
Q. my boyfriend cheated...how do i keep myself from geting back together with him?...
A. 17 March 2010: dont listen to his excuses and his apologises if he loved you he wouldnt have cheated in the first place you deserve someone who is going to treat you with respect if he has done it once he could do it again and yourl be back in the same situation ... (read in full...)
Can someone offer some more perspective on my situation? My husband blames me for his problems
Q. I have been married for 10years and with my husband a total of 20years. Because of financial problems our family (3kids) had to move in with his parents 2 years ago. He started staying out all times of the night and sometimes not returning at all. ...
A. 17 March 2010: seems to me like this guy is using you not considering your feelings and taking you for granted if i was you i wouldnt even consider giving him another chance he has cheated on you is even having a relationship with this other women but still ... (read in full...)
I'm a mess (gay, straight, virgin, everything)
Q. I am a total mess and at this point I'm question all my feelings, goals and sexuality. I am 30, very handsome, a virgin. I am physically attracted to very good looking guys and for the last few years I had excepted that I'm gay. The problem is, I ...
A. 16 March 2010: maybe you are bisexual i mean how can you really know what you prefer when you havent been with either sex i think you should keep your options open and date both men and women and see which you prefer if you have trouble finding men then maybe go ... (read in full...)
Dealing with my boyfriend's Hepatitis C.....
Q. My b/f of 5 years was recently diagnosed with Hepatitis C and will begin treatment shortly for the virus. Then today when we obtained copies of his medical file I realized he was diagnosed in May 2005 which was 2 months before we had sex for the ...
A. 16 March 2010: you just need to be there for him no matter what it will be hard but hel fight the disease alot harder if he knows people are supporting him however there is nothing you can really do apart from be positive and stand by him... (read in full...)
I know he is interested in me but why is he still on the dating site?
Q. I met a guy through a dating website and we have been talking for almost two months. We have seen each other several times and have kissed. He calls me at least twice a day and text. When we are together we plan our next meeting. The problem: I am ...
A. 16 March 2010: maybe he wants to keep his options open incase things dont work out between the both of you or maybe he doesnt want to be commited... (read in full...)
Should I keep doing what I'm doing or make myself less available?
Q. My question is simple. Although my "getting back with ex is a little better along then most I have read, I am still not out the woods yet. My ex broke up with me 1 month ago, I did all the wrong things in the first week but then manned up and did ...
A. 16 March 2010: if she isnt willing to commit 100% and you are id say make yourself less available because your going to put strain on yourself are you sure she wasnt just with you for money?... (read in full...)
We have an open relationship, yet I think he is hiding an attraction to another person.
Q. I have an open relationship with a guy. We both have an understanding that we can date other people and that we have no need to lie to one another because...well its an open relationship. I wouldn't even call it a relationship because we are not ...
A. 16 March 2010: if your in an open relationship and he is making excuses not to meet up with you are you sure he wants to continue this with you?there might be someone else your right but your not in a relationship and although you agreed to be honest with ... (read in full...)
The guy I like is ignoring me and I don't know what I have done!
Q. I don't know what I done for him to keep ignoring me. I don't see him at school a lot but he send me a message on facebook saying "your so beautiful" and I replyed saying thank you. Then we started flirting...Then I check on his facebook and he says ...
A. 16 March 2010: try and move on he obviously didnt love you otherwise he wouldnt have done something hurtful like that maybe he is a player all guys do the sweet talk to get a girl where they want them.ignore him and dont try and contact him his not worth your time... (read in full...)
When I slept with him I had no idea he had a pregnant girlfriend! Why is this my fault?
Q. Ok so about two months ago i had sex with this guy who already had a girlfriend and she's pregnant. I was the one who asked him to have sex with me but i had no idea he had a girlfriend especially a pregnant one. but anyways when we did it we got ...
A. 16 March 2010: id take a pregnancy test and decide from there how you are going to deal with this situation.his probably not talking to you and blaming you because he has realised he has made a huge mistake and is suffering the consequences from his girlfriend ... (read in full...)
I realize it's early but shouldn't he be texting me more often? I'm not sure if he is serious about me
Q. So, I'm a little confused about a guy I have been dating. We've only been on 3 dates and I know it's still VERY early in the dating stages but I can't help but wonder what his intentions are. For instance--he is a great guy, VERY gentlemanly and ...
A. 16 March 2010: maybe if you text him or call him he might text or call you abit more i think he likes you i mean he keeps seeing you maybe he isnt a texty person maybe he is taking things slowly also... (read in full...)
Past or present?
Q. My first love and i decided to break up when he went off to college (seeing as i am a senior in highschool). We stayed single throughout this year apart. And we had made a plan to get back together when i go up to the same state school as he is at ...
A. 16 March 2010: you and your college guy decided to go your seperate ways that happens in life and things change between people you have been apart from this guy for quite some time now im assuming his feelings towards you could have changed and he might have moved ... (read in full...)
Why does it hurt so much to be in a relationship with a man I truly love?
Q. What is wrong with me? I'm scared of this person that I have become and I want to say that I'm suffering from depression. However, I'm not sure if it's that or just me...being so "in love" with my boyfriend. Does it seem like an obession? ...
A. 16 March 2010: its out of sight out of mind his enjoying his life at school and hasnt got alot of time to think about you, you on the other hand obviously have too much time on your hands to sit there and think of him i think you need to get out there and enjoy ... (read in full...)
My paranoia is getting to be too much
Q. Hi there, So here's my situation, I'm somewhat of a worrier, I don't exactly know why or where this has come from. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now and things are wonderful, he treats me amazing, he tells me daily how much...
A. 16 March 2010: sounds pretty normal to me yourve fallen for him and dont want to loose him and this is what you are scared of that his feelings may change towards you.id suggest you be honest with him tell him how you are feeling... (read in full...)
How long after you conceieve does it normally take for your period to stop?
Q. If I had sex a week before my period started and hypothetically got pregnant, would I still have my period the nest week? I'm not sure that I'm actually pregnant I just wondered how long it normally takes after you have sex for your period to stop ...
A. 16 March 2010: you need to wait and see if your period comes when it is next due if it doesnt come then take a test it takes about 4 weeks from the date of your last period to show up with the right result... (read in full...)
How can his feelings for me just disappear so quickly? Did I mean nothing to him?
Q. [PLEASE HELP ME,I'VE GOT ISSUES] Does he still love me, and is just trying to get me jealous? Or did his feelings for me cease? At the beginning, I didn't know him, and had no feelings for him whatsoever. But then realized I fell for him ins...
A. 16 March 2010: sounds to me like he is trying to mess with your emotions and his so called ex is trying to get to you.id ignore any contact with him and try and move on as his obviously in a relationship with his ex to get her name tattooed on him.... (read in full...)
How do I control my emotions?
Q. Ok im very very depressed and stressed. all i do is cry all the time and lash out on my man. how do i control my emotions? im going through a rough time and i really only have one person in my life and thats who i seem to be lashing out on all the ...
A. 16 March 2010: you have to challenge each problem you have one at a time and try and talk about your problems with your partner whether they concern him or not you need to be honest and then he can understand how your feeling and help you deal with your problems ... (read in full...)
True love or just an infatuation?
Q. Is it possible to fall in love with a person you've never met? I've met this man online a year ago, we corresponded through email for 3 months, with 2 - 3 emails a day. Then we starting calling each other once a day or each other day and it always ...
A. 16 March 2010: do you know the reason why he has stopped speaking to you?maybe he has a partner?its normal to have feelings towards someone you have never met but it isnt love yourve never met the guy if you did it might be different.you need to find something ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he likes me! Help please?
Q. I really really like this boy, and I think he likes me too. I don't know if he does, so thats why I am getting advice. Like we do talk, we go to the same church. But he never comes to me and says hi. I mainly think he doesn't cause he is always with ...
A. 16 March 2010: if he liked you he's show you alot of attention by eye contact,talking to you even asking you out flirting with you stuff like that if he is talking a bout a lock doesnt really show much interest or not even saying hi he might just be being polite... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to last longer during sex?
Q. so my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and we have sex once or twice a day since we moved in together 9 monthes ago. he doesn't last longer than 10 minutes we have tried almost everything we even took a few days off and it lasted like a ...
A. 16 March 2010: your not doing anything wrong maybe he is just so turned on he cant last as long as youd like.maybe do some oral to make him cum first and then get him hard again and then have sex because he would already have cum it might last longer the second ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that if we have a threesome it might ruin what we have
Q. Hello, recently my boyfriend of 2 years told me that he was thinking about a threesome, but only for special occasions like my birthdays. He says he loves the thought of me being pleasured.He wants another man instead of a woman. He wants someone he ...
A. 16 March 2010: you need to think about the stability of your relationship before going ahead with this it might be what your partner wants at the moment but he could completely change his mind half way through having a threesome and blame you for it which could ... (read in full...)
My best friend is in love with me, but I fancy his mate.
Q. My best friend has just told me that he's been in love with me for the past 4 years. I don't feel the same way, which I've told him and he seems to have taken it okay. Problem is though, I like one of his friends (and have done for over the past ...
A. 16 March 2010: id say dont tell him straight away that you like his friend his just been rejected itl only hurt him more.theres no point telling anyone that you like his friend unless theres a chance that something will happen with his friend... (read in full...)
He said he was falling in love with me but now he is back with his ex!
Q. Hi everybody I really need your opinion on this situation. I met a guy in November and things moved pretty quickly. He came round to mine nearly every night and we both (well at least i thought) had quite strong feelings. He said that he was real...
A. 16 March 2010: ok you left him for your ex obviously he didnt really have a choice but to move on too instead he went back to his ex. you cant really say anything about how could he love you if he is staying with his ex and didnt jump at the chance of getting back ... (read in full...)
Am I being cruel by refusing to have anything to do with my brother until he sorts himself out?
Q. Me and my brother have gone through a lot. Over the course of 4-5 years i've had to defend my mother from him hitting her, myself from him stabbing me etc. He was on drugs (Meth/Ecstasy etc.) for over 3 years and it basically sucked all my parents ...
A. 16 March 2010: his bahaviour is completely unacceptable and he has obviously got into the wrong habits and wrong crowd who may be influencing him.i think you are deffinately doing the right thing and i think your parents should do the exact same thing as yourself ... (read in full...)
Are my husband's lies a cause for alarm?
Q. Why does my husband lie to me so much? Sometimes it is about important things, in which case he usually tells the truth after words. Sometimes, though, I lies about other general less important things. IE: Once he made the comment that, “Oh, well ...
A. 16 March 2010: he sounds to me like a compulsive liar so when he lies he actually believes the lies he is telling and also when he doesnt remember saying something he denies it because he actually believes he hasnt said it.he seems like a fantasist to me i dont ... (read in full...)
When a man winks at you, does it mean anything?
Q. When a man winks at you does it actually mean anything. There is a guy I know of who I gave positive feedback to. He has looked at me a few times and he always asks me how I am. Twice he has touched my arm the second one he physically had t...
A. 16 March 2010: it sounds to me like he may be flirting with you if you retaliate to this by flirting also then he might gain the confidence to ask you out... (read in full...)
I can only reach orgasm with my boyfriend during intercourse. Is this normal?
Q. is this normal, i can only reach orgasm during intercourse, but no matter how hard i try i can never reach orgasm when my boyfriend gives me oral and with his hands, but if im alone and i masturbate myself i can reach it easily. why is this?...
A. 16 March 2010: maybe your boyfriend isnt doing what you need to help you climax you know what spot you have to hit to reach an orgasm maybe its just harder for him to reach that spot but it is normal to only be able to climax during intercourse i cant reach an ... (read in full...)
My ex called me up after many months, and now I don't know what to do
Q. Well...my ex called me up after i sent her a text saying i just wanted to say hi...but before she never really answered my calls then she just stopped..but now she called out of many months...and i am still deeply in love with her..but i don't want ...
A. 16 March 2010: shes probably wants to be friends maybe see if you can build a friendship and see how it goes from there... (read in full...)
If she didn't want to talk to me, why did she give me her number?
Q. ...so this girl at my school i like somewhat gives me her number..so i wait about 3 to 4 days..and i send her a text saying is she there....she reply who is this..i say it was me...after about 9 min i get no reply so i send her another asking did ...
A. 16 March 2010: shes either not interested or shes really shy and doesnt no how to react to the situation but if that was me id be thinking the same thing as you.just leave it now and see if she talks to you in school if not ask her if she didnt want to talk then ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test came back negative, but do these symptoms suggest I am actually pregnant?
Q. Hi im 22yrs married housewife, im confused please help me, i missed period and it was to be on 1st march last it was on 1st feb and sometimes im having pain near my utreus, and i feel like sometime unconciousness and stomach become hard and on 8...
A. 16 March 2010: give it a week if still no period take another test sometimes it takes time to show up but it is a possibility that you could be pregnant.i have a two yr old and when i took my first pregnancy test after missing my period it came back negative but a ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend lying?
Q. Is my boyfriend lying? i told my bf from day 1 if you look at porn its ok, just tell me? ad he said the whole time NO he kept this up for 2 years, then he was on his iphone, history came up of a pornstar and he said "no way it wasnt me, it was...
A. 16 March 2010: alot of guys watch porn and he probably wont ever admit to looking at it because he thinks yourl take it badly and because his been lying for so long about looking at it.you need to tell him that your not stupid and know he is lying to you and if ... (read in full...)
How can I make her 'want' to have sex with me, instead of only doing it because I want it?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 1 year, and things have been going really well. The only thing that we fight about is sex. She is not a sexual person, she told me this. We started off dating having sex frequently, but then stopped for 5 months, ...
A. 16 March 2010: i have the same situation with my boyfriend had alot of sex at the beginning of the relationship and now it has slowed down but i put it down to me being pregnant but i feel the same way your girlfriend seems to feel.with me i feel like im expecting ... (read in full...)
I want to be more than friends with him, but my parents would not approve because of his age
Q. im in sixth grade and im in a good relationship....but there is another guy in 9th who i feel is more mature and better to talk to my parents dont approve and it would have to be secret. he had feelings towards me but when i said no he lost interest ...
A. 16 March 2010: developing feelings for someone who is older than you is perfectly normal but im guessing your parents just want to protect you whatever happens i wouldnt keep this from your parents how ever much they dont like it atleast theyl no your being honest ... (read in full...)
I have developed feelings for my 14 year old student, how do I forget about this and get over him?
Q. I am a teacher. First of all, I would like to state that I am 27 and have *never* had a crush on anyone younger than me! I also know that what I'm about to write makes me a pedophile, so I am asking you not to call me names; I deserve them all. Tha...
A. 16 March 2010: you need to try and focus to attraction towards someone of your own age maybe another teacher.if something happens here you could be in a lot of trouble and can kiss goodbye to your career.id say stay as far away from this child as possible and dont ... (read in full...)
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