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My girlfriends mum tried it on with me! Should I tell my girlfriend?

Q.   I'm in a rather uncomfortable situation and I don't have a clue how to handle it at all! It concerns my girlfriend's mother. She's what I can only describe as a "sex pest". I don't know any other way of describing her behaviour. When I first started ...

A.   27 July 2009: i think the best thing to do is sit your gf down and explain to her that u feel uncomfortable being left alone with her mother as you feel like she is trying it on with you.i think you should tell her exactly what her mother had said to you aswel as ... (read in full...)

Is it just a case of nerves? Why does it hurt so much?

Q.   Hi everyone, When my boyfriend fingers me it hurts. I am a virgin and i feel its such a tight space as he goes in - i get so uncomfortable. I have never done it with my own fingers. And when he does it, he goes in slowly, with one finger and o...

A.   27 July 2009: well because your a very anxious and worried person the fact of you being a virgin scares you so when he fingers you, you tense up which causes pain.to be honest you could try some lubrication on his fingers when he does this but u could still ... (read in full...)

Have I lost my 'physical' virginity?

Q.   I am 15 years old, and though sex is not intended between my boyfriend and I we are... sexually active. If that is the right way to describe it. Well recently, ever since he returned from his trip to Orlando he has been more and more attracted to me ...

A.   27 July 2009: i wouldnt say you have lost your physical virginity but to be honest i dont understand why youd do something like that in which he had asked until a certain time if u felt uncomfortable you should have stopped it straight away... (read in full...)

He said there was something sexy about me but now hasn't been in touch for a month!

Q.   ok well my cousins friend was at his house while i was there. lets call him billy. ok billy teased me and we started texting like crazy. he said that there was something really sexy about me and that we have to go to great america some time. but its ...

A.   27 July 2009: guys always say things to sweeten up a girl sometimes it can be genuin sometimes not but in your case i dont think yourl find that out.there are so many reasons for him not replying he could have lost his phone for example, he might just say that to ... (read in full...)

He whispered another woman's name during sex

Q.   My husband had been sleeping soundly for several hours when I came to bed late. He initiated sex and during the course of having sex he whispered another woman's name. I think he was having an erotic dream. I didn't recognize the name, when I a...

A.   27 July 2009: if you have no reason to suspect him of cheating i think you should let it drop.has he done anything out of the ordinary lately that could suggest he is cheating? men dream about different women all the time maybe the name he called out was j... (read in full...)

My wife is cheating but I love her and don't want to lose her!

Q.   Hey .. my name is iyad I be married for over 3 years ... I am 26 .. my wife kerri she is 22 years .. she work 2 jobs and hard jobs she is a manger for store and scond job is delivery news pepars .. so from frist of july she change her life with me ...

A.   27 July 2009: do you not think it is abit disrespectful that this lady is supposed to be committed to you yet is in the arms as another man.do you really want to be second best?do you want to share her?i know if i was in ur situation i wouldnt.you cant make your ... (read in full...)

I think this guy might be trying it on with my girlfriend...or am I looking too deeply into this?

Q.   i have a question for you...i had a thing happen aweek ago and it still bothers me.. my girl of 2 years has a friend who is terminally ill and isnt doing to hot these days.. well two days before my girl goes to visit this sick friend at home..her...

A.   27 July 2009: i understand your concern ofcourse but whether his after your gf for a bit on the side or not you should trust your gf not to do anything.im sure your gf wouldnt do anything to hurt her girlfriend.obviously keep an eye out for whether your gf is ... (read in full...)

Relationship ruined because of a picture of his parts??

Q.   Okay. Here is my situation. My girlfriend and I have been friends for almost 3 years now. In those 3 years we have been the type of friends who talk about their relationships with one another. This is my situation. Before we started dating I...

A.   27 July 2009: hey well you said she showed you that picture before you started dating well how in all honesty did she know you was going to start dating soon after?also you said u spoke to her about relationships youve both had so really what she done wasnt t... (read in full...)

We're on a break and I want to fix this relationship. What should I do?

Q.   okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now and it hasn't been easy at all. recently we decided that we are forcing the relationship and we need tew change or its not going to work. so we decide to take a break for a while so we can get ...

A.   27 July 2009: seems to me that your not clicking for one reason or another and if that is the case and your both not happy within the relationship then maybe you should call it a day.the best way to make an relationship work isnt to go on a break, a break usually ... (read in full...)

She's distanced herself from me and I'm not sure why

Q.   well,i am a girl..and i have this friend who is also a girl..we've been friends for a while now(close friends)she said i could tell her anything..in january i told that i thought i was bi,and she said it is just a phase.and then in march i said ...

A.   26 July 2009: you need to confront her find out why she has distanced herself from you.also if ur a lesbian why do u have a bf is it for cover up?u cant change who u r and if ur not happy in ur relationship u should end it and accept the way u r being a lesbian ... (read in full...)

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