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writes:I have been speaking to this guy online, on the phone and via text for the past 4 months, things became very strong and I went to meet him last week. We had two dates which lasted for four hours each time, we laughed had fun, flirted, hugged and kissed. But since returning back home he rarely even speaks to me. It took him two days after getting home for him to talk to me. He said he ran out of credit and wanted to know if I got home safely. So in turn I have decided to play it cool, but everytime I do he texts me saying things like "do you even care about me", and when I do text him nice things he doesnt reply. No more nighttime phone calls, no more loving texts or wakeup texts. I sent him a lovely text yesterday to say I hope he was having a nice day and then last night I just sent one saying hello, both of which were ignored. How can something that was going so well end up like this? any ideas?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 March 2010):
 He could have been slighted by something you said or did not do.He felt the coldness from you and withdrawn back into his shell.
Maybe , you should ask him what have you done wrong ?
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reader, hmae89  +, writes (14 March 2010):
I think he is just playing games but that is only my opinion. He seems like he only wants to be bothered when you're not giving him any attention. If I were you, I would move on now before I got any more attached. Good Luck! :)
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (11 March 2010):
 id move on the guy clearly is a fantasist who wants you when its good for him have you not thought that maybe he is with someone so he cant get in contact with you when his with another person
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