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Is my boyfriend lying?

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Question - (16 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2011)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Is my boyfriend lying? i told my bf from day 1 if you look at porn its ok, just tell me? ad he said the whole time NO

he kept this up for 2 years, then he was on his iphone, history came up of a pornstar and he said "no way it wasnt me, it was a guy from school"

so i belived that,now his google history came up when i clicked the cursor down. there was 50 porn stars searched, and things like "miranda kerr naked"

i was so angry when i saw this, not because it had been looked up but because for 2 years he was lying so i confronted him, i said is there anything you want to tell me? he said no. i showed him the history and he said " THAT WASNT ME! it must be my brother"

now im finding this hard to belive as he and his brother have their own computers, and his brother is pretty good with one (wouldnt he delete history?)

he is constantly accusing me of looking up guys on my computer with no proof, now im thinking is it because he was doing it?

i cant tell if he is lying.. he has lied in the past and only come clean when caught out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

so i found out last week that he was indeed lying. kept it up for 3 years!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2010):

Well he is lying. Most men look at porn. He is no different,

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A male reader, Kenj United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2010):

Kenj agony auntYes he is lying about not looking at porn. Its normal for some guys to look at porn even while in relationships.

Thing is if hes lying about trivial things like this then your trust in him is knocked down.

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A female reader, kayla20 United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2010):

kayla20 agony auntalot of guys watch porn and he probably wont ever admit to looking at it because he thinks yourl take it badly and because his been lying for so long about looking at it.you need to tell him that your not stupid and know he is lying to you and if you havent got honesty then you havent got much in this relationship

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