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*ayday20
writes:My current girlfriend, who had sex with one person before told me that he had a small penis, but she later told me that it was 6 inches, which I certainly don't consider small. She also told me that having sex didn't feel good at all with him. She hasn't seen my penis yet, but I'm concerned because mine is 6 inches too. The only other thing I know is that his was about 1.3 inches wide, and mine is closer to 2 inches wide. (across not around) is width more important? Should I be concerned about my penis size?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): what's up with all the timing and measurements? I am beginning to think you walk into someone's room and the nightstands are flooded with stop watches and rulers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): OP, Sweetheart, just relax there is nothing wrong with the size or width of your penis, don't even let it enter your head again. A good lover is so much more than the tool he has to use, a woman is more interested in how you treat her in and out of bed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): sex is not just penetration and bang bang . its to explore the body of your partner and feeling of skin to skin smooth touch . size or width of penis is not countable while the art of love making and your feelings are as they play main role in satisfying the lady . so guys dnt worry at all . just relax and enjoy goodsex .
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): of course she told you that he had a smaller penis than you and that the sex wasn't that good. She likes you and she can tell it bothers you. Penis size is not that important to women.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (20 March 2010):
 PS
think about your penis like a cylinder.
the VOLUME is what you would go by.
assuming it is cylindrical, which they aren't, but for simpllicity's sake lets say it is, then you are 1.5 times his size.
She means his penis was thin.
Six inches is above average in length and you have him beat by a long shot in girth.
stop worrying and focus on learning how to use it.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (20 March 2010):
Dude, you have nothing to worry about. 2 inches in diameter is definitely big enough thickness wise. You totally have the better end of the deal. Width is WAY more important than length. i have had women that have been with 9 inch men and one woman INSISTED she had been with a 10 incher. I managed to give all of them more orgasms for one reason, and that is that I am 7 inches around and 2.2 inches in diameter on a good day. Point being, girth and knowing what angles to use it at relative to positioning is how you do it.PS I am not lying and its about girth, if something physical, and knowledge.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (20 March 2010):
 You both have average sized penises, yours is thicker. Size and how good the sex is are 2 different issues. You worry too much about numbers. The vibrational frequency between the two sexes makes the sex feel good (paraphrased from another DP uncle, Bharat Mehta). You are exchanging energies, not just bodily fluids. I don't know if your girlfriend has other intentions of telling you about his small penis. She doesn't sound very nice to me. Ideally you should have sex with the whole person and not focus only on the genitals. Like you have to admire the person inside and out. Don't let her look at your penis before you are certain she likes you as a person. It's a privilege to be revealed that kind of secret and you should only do it with someone you trust well. A penis wants to be worshipped, not judged.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): Sometimes the shape and width makes a huge difference in pleasure. Also, it's how you use it that makes a tremendous difference as well. You can have one guy with a 12 incher and not know what to do with it, and another with half the size and twice the skill, so don't worry..between that extra width and your determination to make her happy, she'll know the difference.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): If your gf loves you, then she will accept you for who you are and love you (and your penis). 6 inches is average, and I think she's exaggerating and just putting down her ex bf with all the comments she's making about his penis. Plus, size hardly matters if you don't know what you're doing or how to please a girl. The penis is mostly for the guy's pleasure, so..just make sure you know other "tricks" to please your gf.
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reader, ElectricSheep +, writes (20 March 2010):
 No, don't be concerned. A guy that knows how to use it is what makes the sex good/bad. I see the girth as being more important as that's what makes it feel more "full."
Every guy is different. Six inches on one guy isn't going to be the same on another guy.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (20 March 2010):
 Dear Rayday: No you should not be concerned with the size of your penis. BTW when erect most penises are around the same size. I will tell you this though - there is a lot to be said in the old adage "What is important is not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean." Take your time and relax.
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reader, lovergirlxx  +, writes (20 March 2010):
 i know im younger but tbh from what ive heard if she loves you it wont matter :) x if its really that much of a problem that she says anything about it then you can preform oral on here after sex or just before to get her to either climax or orgasum? x well i hope my inexperience makes some sence XD x
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (20 March 2010):
 no everyone has different sizes whether it is to do with length or girth.it all depends on how you use it i guess
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reader, santesmeralda +, writes (20 March 2010):
Dear Rayday
as a woman who has had lots of men...I can tell you it is not the size of the penis that counts but how you use it...meaning do not seek pleasure for yourself but give pleasure to your woman as well...sometimes girls are shy to tell a man what gives them pleasure...for example touching the clitoris while penetration occurs to climax. Hence the man erroneously thinks that a woman's pleasure is only due to the size of his penis.
I have had sex with huge guys and felt nothing at all and smaller than yours and climaxed at least six times in one day!
So....sex and especially sex coming from true love is a true art...remember that
also you are young...you have a lot to learn...
But keep in mind that to receive pleasure you got to give pleasure...let it come naturally and go with the flow...learn together it is an art which comes through the years not at 17! Sex is not like most men think bang ram razamatam!
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