I'm asking for advice of grown adults who have minds
Q. I need your advice... I bet you all get sick of teenagers like me. I'm telling you this and asking for your advice because most of you are grown adults who have minds, and have been through it before and know what to do, or know what advice to g...
A. 8 October 2006: What youve had is a teenage romance and we all have them and we all would like them to last forever but they dont all last unfortuantely. When i read the part about your girlfriend ignoring you on MSN and speaking to other lads i straight away knew ... (read in full...)
How can I last longer during sex?
Q. how can i last longer when i have sex. please help me because its really embarrasing...
A. 8 October 2006: Have sex but keep stopping before you ejaculate. Take more time over fore play and give her pleasure and her you. Buy a book on sexual positions and have fun practising them and when you concentrate on having fun you should relax and find that sex ... (read in full...)
Should I just let her be hard nosed?
Q. Our friends recently got married outside of the country and their parents are having a wedding celebration party for all the folks stateside who couldn't go to the wedding. The wedding "party" is also fairly far away, 11 hours by car, and since ...
A. 8 October 2006: Explain that you were just thinking of the cheapest best option and that if she wishes to fly how she thinks would be the best way to come up with the money to do so. Tell her you want to all go as a family and were just trying your best to come up ... (read in full...)
I feel as if im walking on broken egg shells
Q. Hi i am 29 years old,and have been in a relationship for the past 5 years,it hasnt been the best but i truly love my partner with every thing i am,but no matter what i do or say it seems not be any good i feel as if im walking on broken egg shells ...
A. 8 October 2006: I cant believe he puts you down a lot and is controlling you like this! I know you love him but please dont put upwith him putting you down hes doing this to make hius self esteem which is obviously very low, better. This guy is insecure for some ... (read in full...)
I had a one night stand and am now smitten with him. It breaks my heart because now he ignores me. Help!!
Q. Has anyone got any advice for a heart broken girl? i had a one night stand with a work colleague about 5 weeks ago. It came out of the blue and now i am absolutely smitten with him. He is looking for another job and will be leaving the company ...
A. 8 October 2006: I too am also involved with a guy from work and i am also confused about whats going on. I would love thier to be more but i cant see it happening basically as he has a gf!
This is a tricky situation as unlike me youve told him how you feel with... (read in full...)
She is now in Australia with her mum and dad
Q. Hi I have abig problem in my life. Im a 32 year old male. Thats not the problem by the way. I met this wonderful women about 16 months ago. She was with someone at the time and I was single, we were from different parts of the country. Shes from Auc...
A. 8 October 2006: I suggest you speak to her mum and dad on the phone seen as they are the source of this problem. You need to be brave and tell them how much you love thier daughter and you want the very best for her and you know you can make her happy. Then speak ... (read in full...)
I just found out that my bf is going to shipped in 2 days!! It's tearing me apart.
Q. ok here is the problem my boyfriend got out of Basic 4 months ago where he promised me that he had signed up for the reserves so he would not be shipped out well I just found out that he is going to shipped in 2 days!! and I dont know how to handle ...
A. 8 October 2006: Awww bless your heart! Its bound to hurt being away from your beloved but your going to have to be brave and tell him you love him constanly before he goes. Keep in contact by writing to him and tell him you'll wait for him till he comes back to ... (read in full...)
8 days late and stomach seems to be getting bigger. Can somebody please explain?
Q. I am now about 8 days late with my monthlys (me im usually on time or only 2-3 days late if anything), and have had constantly on my mind that i could be pregnant,after having unprotected sex with my bf. And another thing i've also noticed is that ...
A. 8 October 2006: Your stomach wouldn't be getting bigger after 8 days of missed periods thats just in your mind trust me ive been through the exact same thing.Your mind plays tricks on you when you worry. or your probably bloated which causes the stomach to swell. ... (read in full...)
I am very confused and don't want to lose her.
Q. i been in a 4 year on and off relationship and now we are trying to work on being together again. my lover since then has become friends with her ex and now wants me to be ok ay with it . she has told me that i have nothing to worry about and that ...
A. 8 October 2006: Relationships are based on a lot of things but the main one is trust as if you dont have this you dont have much ground to work on. You obviously see this ex as a threat and you wish he would leave the picture completely but he never will as hes ... (read in full...)
How can I make sure my next relationship is not based around sex?
Q. ive had so much on my mind recently and just dont know hwo to get it out. ive recently broken up with my bf, cus i felt it had all changed and simply wasnt in love with him anymore. i feel my last 2 relationships have ended up all being sexually ...
A. 8 October 2006: I know exactly how you feel i had a boyfriend and then it felt like sex was all i was getting from other guys when i just wanted companionship! The best thing that you can do is to not rush into anything with another guy in fact stay single for the ... (read in full...)
Bf wants to clear up the misunderstandings with his ex before tying the knot to me, is this a good idea?
Q. I need help and i need it badly. i love my bf and he loves me too but our love story has taken a filmy twist.he had an affair for four years before he met me an intense affair they broke up due to some misunderstandings.we have been together for a ...
A. 8 October 2006: Did your bf ever tell you these misunderstandings? I think that although you are not really at ease with your bf talking to your ex theres not really much you can do to stop him. Yourn going to have to just trust him to get rid of his unfinished ... (read in full...)
Married, but developing feelings for another man. What do I do?
Q. Advice and help needed!!! I have been in an unhappy marriage for several years. My husband and i get on really well but have no sex life (and haven't had for several years) recenty I met someone who made advances towards me but at first I turned...
A. 8 October 2006: I dont think you should see this man whilst you are still married! You willfeel guilt and imagine if it was your husband who had someone behind your back youd be devastated. You need to decide who you want and fast before either one of these men and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lasts too long in bed, but I am always so tired. Any advice?
Q. Hey I have a problem, my boyfriend lasts way too long in bed! Hes a great boyfriend and everything it's just we don't have sex until the night and even when I'm not really tired he lasts an hour and by the end I'm getting sick of it because I'm just ...
A. 8 October 2006: Wow a guy thats long in a bed thats quite rare in my opinion! Do you climax quickly is that why you feel bored and tired after 1 hour? Your boyfriend obviously loves making love to you and wants the expierience to last as long as possible. The only ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance I could be pregnant?
Q. well im 17 and my bf is 16, it was a bout 2 weeks ago now but me and my bf were just messing around wen we found our selfs gettin undressed he didnt hav a condom so i said k we cant hav sex and he agreed but we were still undressed and he got on top ...
A. 8 October 2006: The tiniest amount of semen can get a girl pregnant and thats a fact! Why did you let him on top of you naked when you told him that you didnt have any protection? Are you sure you didnt agree to do it with no protection because if you were a virgin ... (read in full...)
My best friend broke up with her boyfriend, now she is flirting with MY boyfriend!! What should I do?
Q. My Bestest Best friend recently broke up with her steady 6 month bf after he told her "things just aren't working out" Obviously, she moped and droped fro a bit but eventually got over it and now they are reasonably civil friends (reasonably, they ...
A. 8 October 2006: You need to stop this now before its too late, i know you trust your bf but whatever you do dont leave the 2 of them together for two long! Speak to your friend first and tell her that although she has split up with her bf that her behaviour is ... (read in full...)
Love for my boyfriend is fading fast, please help!!
Q. I have been in a relationship for 6 years now. I never had a boyfriend before starting a relationship with this particular man. Although I was happy to marry him within the first few months of dating, now I am petrified of that thought, scared to ...
A. 8 October 2006: Wow girl you have a real issue here! I think you might be slightly insecure about yourself and maybe your not entirely sure in your head let alone your heart. I dont think this is a right time in your life for a relationship as its not fair to ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy at work, he likes me too, but he has a girlfriend.
Q. I have worked with a guy called carl for 4 years and ive always really liked him but ive dated other people as he as a girlfriend. When i went on my 1st works do his best friend told me that carl loves me but he cant and wont do anything as he has a ...
A. 8 October 2006: Im just a very shy person and i dont really feel comfortable talking openly about my feelings im more used to helping other people with thiers! Im just going to have to realise that if this was meant to be it would be happening i think the people ... (read in full...)
I am 21, but my 54 year old partner can't have sex with me. Is there anything that can help?
Q. hi i am 21 i have been with my partner 1 and a half years now the only trouble is he is a lot older than me he is 54 i lost his wife before we got together. my problem is he cant have sex with me is there anything that could possibly help....
A. 7 October 2006: Youve not said why he cant have sex with you? Is he unable to get an erection? If that is the case if could be age or stress related id advise you to discuss this with him and if he is unable to get an erection viagra might be the answer.... (read in full...)
I really like this guy at work, he likes me too, but he has a girlfriend.
Q. I have worked with a guy called carl for 4 years and ive always really liked him but ive dated other people as he as a girlfriend. When i went on my 1st works do his best friend told me that carl loves me but he cant and wont do anything as he has a ...
A. 7 October 2006: I still feel confused and im even thinking about it in my sleep i dont see how I can say anything to him after all i work with him and one wrong move could make things really bad! Can anyone suggest anything?... (read in full...)
It's been 2 months since we spoke, should I call her?
Q. DEAR CUPID I AM 19 year old man i have been in this relationship with my girl of 16 for about a year now.things cahnged when i left for varsity (no calls nothing) she thought i was cheating(what should i do)its been 2months now should i cal...
A. 7 October 2006: All you can do is call her, take the chance and if its too late and she dosent want you back then at least youve tried. If you dont call at all then you will always ask yourself what if and thats not a good thing to do. Its always better to take ... (read in full...)
I did things on webcam at the age of 12, now I regret it. How can I forget it?
Q. since i was 12 ive done bad things i used to show boys on cam myself naked, now i really regret it. how can i forget about it? was it illegal? i used to do it cos i was ashamed with my body and they used to say they loved it even tho i was flat c...
A. 7 October 2006: Dont be ashamed never regret anything you do in life!
See what you did as part of you past part of you growing up and learning to accept yourself. Everyone goes through stages in thier life and that was one of yours. You'll never forget what you ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am making love to a dead body, but my GF thinks it is a mans duty to please. Help!!
Q. my girlfriend thinks that its a mans duty to please a woman and that all she has to do is lay back and enjoy. for the one year we have been together i do everything oral sex and romance. she just lay there, do nothing and let me do what ever i want. ...
A. 7 October 2006: Your not in the wrong darl! sex or making love should always be two ways if someone wont give as much as they take then whats the point. I sometimes feel like more of a giver and dont recieve as much as id like which sort of makes it a turn off dont ... (read in full...)
I had sex with a chav, now people want to beat me up.
Q. the other week i was at a party and got really drunk. i ended up having sex with this chav, which was a really big mistake. i went back to school and all these other chavs now want to beat me up because he has a girlfriend (which i didnt know ...
A. 7 October 2006: I know you dont want anyone to harm you but unfortunately you done something you must face the consequences to. If anyone else from school confronts you about it dont lose your temper as that shows people that you are guilty calmly say that you ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend proposed, then retracted. How can I handle this?
Q. Hi. My boyfriend recently proposed and then took it back two weeks later. He said he couldn't follow through with it. I don't know how to handle this or trust him in the future. I feel he is unsure that he even loves me anymore. He seems very ...
A. 7 October 2006: You have to ask him! You cant keep a situation like this in your head otherwise itll tear you apart. Im not a big speaker myself when it comes to someone i like hense me question posted on here but if someone had proposed and the took it back i ... (read in full...)
Do some bad-boys become "good" once they find a woman they really love?
Q. Do some bad-boys become "good" once they find a woman they really love? Here's my dilema: my b/f has always been a bit of a bad boy, he drinks, he smokes, he likes rowdy sex and porn. In the past, he has dated strippers and girls with tattoos. ...
A. 7 October 2006: I agree with the other writer hes just grown up and dosent need the things he had before you. You probably feel that he could be hiding something but i doubt very much he his.Embrace the fact that he has changed and make the most of the guy he now ... (read in full...)
I am a female who enjoys porn. Why do so many women have hang ups?
Q. Is it me thats just broad minded or why is it that so many women have so many hang ups over porn sites videos or sex in general and they thinks its dirty.?? please answer cos is it me thats strange cos i am female and i enjoy porn Lol...
A. 6 October 2006: I dont think your strange i myself dont see anything wrong with watching porn as a female, it wasnt just labelled as something for men! Your getting in touch with your sexuality and theres nothing wrong with that.People who think what your doing is ... (read in full...)
Am I being overly picky?
Q. Am I being overly picky? I am 16. I have had my heart broke by some really hot guys that end up dumping me (and I only kiss them, nothing else) I've met this kid in one of my classes. He is kinda cute, and he is really nice. He definately seems ...
A. 6 October 2006: What would you rather have? The fittest guy youve ever seen that treats you like rubbish or a average looking guy that treats you like a princess? Now dont get me wrong i like guys that are easy on the eyes but half of them have an attitude and love ... (read in full...)
What is the quickest way to get over a boy?
Q. hey, i need help! im a 16 yr old girl. i was in love with a guy, proper in love, we had soo many gd times together bt now all ive got is a broken heart. he used to tell me he loved me and that i was 'the one'. and i believed him and fell for him. we ...
A. 6 October 2006: The exact same thing has happened to me but it happened four years ago. I was 16 when i got with my bf and 18 when we broke up and yeah i felt like my heart was ripping into shreds but i tell you what girl you get over it eventually now i know thats ... (read in full...)
I met the love of my life before finding out my wife had cancer. She is now clear and I want to leave her. Do I go or stay?
Q. I have a wife who has had cancer but it is now clear. She has a 40 to 60% chance of the cancer reappearing. I met the love of my life 1 month before the diagnosis. If I go I will feel very guilty, if I stay I will loose my dream relationship. Do ...
A. 6 October 2006: I think you should do what you feel but in my opinion you should stay and show this woman that a man with a heart full of caring love exists, if she dosent survive she will die happy with the man she loves by her side. Wouldnt you prefer to be known ... (read in full...)
My ex was asking me to do things with him, ever since he was with someone else. What do I do?
Q. A long weekend's ahead and part of me is happy, but part of me is dreading it. My sort-of-ex boyfriend had been asking me to do things with him more than ever since he divulged his interest in someone else. I don't even know when he has time...
A. 6 October 2006: Girl dont get involved with your ex! I myself know only too well the trouble getting involved with an ex can bring. When you love your ex you think that by sleeping with him or being around him still will make him want you back it wont, trust me. ... (read in full...)
I regret breaking up with my boyfriend, but he has moved on. How do I win him back? Please help!!
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up beacsue I thought it would be awkward with me going to a college far away and I thought i wouldnt see him anymore so we decided to break up I no its crazy because I still really love him but hes moved on and is ...
A. 6 October 2006: Im sorry to hear whats happened but dont blame yourself, You made a very grown up mature decision to set him free and you did that because you loved him and he might not be able to see that at the moment but some day he will. No matter what anyone ... (read in full...)
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