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writes: Do some bad-boys become "good" once they find a woman they really love? Here's my dilema: my b/f has always been a bit of a bad boy, he drinks, he smokes, he likes rowdy sex and porn. In the past, he has dated strippers and girls with tattoos. Which is one of the things that has always made him sexy to me -- He's a bad-boy but not leathally bad. I'm not a stripper or a gal with tattoos, but I'm no saint either!! I can keep up with his drinking, I don't mind porn, and I love rowdy sex! However, now that we have become involved, he's more into watching Disney movies (and I don't have kids). It's like he's completely unplugged his naughty side. Even his bedroom performances are toned down now. What happened?....Does it take a raunchy, tattooed woman to bring that side in him out?....Cuz' I miss my bad boy!! What do you think is going on here?...
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (7 October 2006):
 well the bad boy side was just an act by the sounds of it and now his comftorble with you he can become himself. he may also just want to settel down now. i think its sweet my feller his 40 im 19 his like a big kid who loves cartoons and stuff like that but i know that if anybody hurt me or messed with him he could still be a visous bad boy! same with you he just wants to show you his soft side and thats what his doing, but maybe explaining to him that you want your bad boy back and explaining why and what he does to not be a bad boy! or maybe telling him to mix with his bad boy freinds more or you could ring them up and tell them to come round and hang out with your boyfreind that way hell pick up his old tricks again.
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (7 October 2006):
well the bad boy side was just an act by the sounds of it and now his comftorble with you he can become himself. he may also just want to settel down now. i think its sweet my feller his 40 im 19 his like a big kid who loves cartoons and stuff like that but i know that if anybody hurt me or messed with him he could still be a visous bad boy! same with you he just wants to show you his soft side and thats what his doing, but maybe explaining to him that you want your bad boy back and explaining why and what he does to not be a bad boy! or maybe telling him to mix with his bad boy freinds more or you could ring them up and tell them to come round and hang out with your boyfreind that way hell pick up his old tricks again.
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (7 October 2006):
well the bad boy side was just an act by the sounds of it and now his comftorble with you he can become himself. he may also just want to settel down now. i think its sweet my feller his 40 im 19 his like a big kid who loves cartoons and stuff like that but i know that if anybody hurt me or messed with him he could still be a visous bad boy! same with you he just wants to show you his soft side and thats what his doing, but maybe explaining to him that you want your bad boy back and explaining why and what he does to not be a bad boy! or maybe telling him to mix with his bad boy freinds more or you could ring them up and tell them to come round and hang out with your boyfreind that way hell pick up his old tricks again.
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reader, CherryVanilli  +, writes (7 October 2006):
 Am having the opposite situation!! my boy frnd is a "bad-boy" & I just wish he'd become grown up & more mature! cos I feel like am going in a circle with no improvement!!
so I think u should be glad that ur boy frnd has become devoted to u & only u! but I just think u need to spice things a little bit yet in a unique way, don't try n remind him of the old ways just make up new things to attract him!
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reader, CherryVanilli +, writes (7 October 2006):
Am having the opposite situation!! my boy frnd is a "bad-boy" & I just wish he'd become grown up & more mature! cos I feel like am going in a circle with no improvement!!
so I think u should be glad that ur boy frnd has become devoted to u & only u! but I just think u need to spice things a little bit yet in a unique way, don't try n remind him of the old ways just make up new things to attract him!
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (7 October 2006):
I agree with the other writer hes just grown up and dosent need the things he had before you. You probably feel that he could be hiding something but i doubt very much he his.Embrace the fact that he has changed and make the most of the guy he now is. If you want him bad in the bedroom just initiate it and im sure you'll be pleasantly surprised.
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reader, ali1987 +, writes (7 October 2006):
 I think your going to find hunny it called growing up. Me and my partner have gone through the same thing. He used to drink and watch porn regulary with his mates. But now all he wants to do is cook me a nice meal, sit and watch a film with a bottle of wine, and make sweet love to me after. I ask him if he misses his old ways but he says he didnt have me then. He says they were filling in the gap in his life, i now fill that gap so he doesnt need the drinking nights and porn. As for the sex why dont you go and buy some sexy underwear and stand infront of the tv, im sure he will pick you over disney.
People do grown up and people do change, the trick is to grow together not apart.
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