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Married, but developing feelings for another man. What do I do?

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Question - (8 October 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Advice and help needed!!!

I have been in an unhappy marriage for several years.

My husband and i get on really well but have no sex life (and haven't had for several years)

recenty I met someone who made advances towards me but at first I turned him down.

He continues to email me every day and tells me I did the right thing and that we should just be friends, however,we have met again recently, just for a drink.

I made a pass at him and he rejected me but then emailed me again first thing the next morning.

This has continued ever since (over a week ago). At first it was just emails but now it is texts and one phone call. We only talk about "friendly" stuff but I'm really confused. Does he actually want more than friendship?? He is a single man and I cannot believe that he can be bothered wasting his time with all this attention on someone he's not interested in??

I am now developing really strong feelings for him!...

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A female reader, Katylouise +, writes (8 October 2006):

I dont think you should see this man whilst you are still married! You willfeel guilt and imagine if it was your husband who had someone behind your back youd be devastated. You need to decide who you want and fast before either one of these men and yourself get hurt. Threeway relationships never last. Take some time to sort your head out and decide who and what you want. Do you want a happy marriage with your husband, is he not giving you something that this other man is? This other man could just be giving you the attention you crave from your husband and if thats thr case then maybe you should liven things up with your hubby. I hope you make the best decision for you.

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