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I am 21, but my 54 year old partner can't have sex with me. Is there anything that can help?

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Question - (7 October 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2006)
A female , *lue_nose1 writes:

hi i am 21 i have been with my partner 1 and a half years now the only trouble is he is a lot older than me he is 54 i lost his wife before we got together. my problem is he cant have sex with me is there anything that could possibly help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006):

one word VIAGRA!

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A female reader, sleepysly +, writes (7 October 2006):

sleepysly agony auntlisten you should have realised that something like this would have happened, you decided to have a relationship with this older man and now your problem is sex, find someone your own age and have all the sex you want. why at your age did you choose him? you have not had any experience yet in life. if you love him youwill have to satisfy with touching or get some sexual aides, you will be surprised to find that you can become aroused by this, sex is not everything, love is better. good luck

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A female reader, Manya United States +, writes (7 October 2006):

I agree with previous answers. Is the problem physiological or

psychological? (or both, to think holistically) It must be embarrassing for him, but it

could get better -- I would advise he consult a physician.

But be low-key, because if you pay too much attention, it will add

more stress!

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A female reader, Katylouise +, writes (7 October 2006):

Youve not said why he cant have sex with you? Is he unable to get an erection? If that is the case if could be age or stress related id advise you to discuss this with him and if he is unable to get an erection viagra might be the answer.

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