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I feel like I am making love to a dead body, but my GF thinks it is a mans duty to please. Help!!

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Question - (6 October 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2010)
A male , *ctivebouy writes:

my girlfriend thinks that its a mans duty to please a woman and that all she has to do is lay back and enjoy. for the one year we have been together i do everything oral sex and romance. she just lay there, do nothing and let me do what ever i want. it was fine with me in the beggining but lately i am beggining to think that i am making love to a dead body. do you guys think i am asking too much? or that this woman got to fix up? help!!!

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A male reader, Dear Kevin Canada +, writes (30 June 2010):

I know how you feel and sex is hard to talk about, but in the moment try different positions such as stopping, and laying on your back, if she doesn't climb on top, roll over on her and try again, this may take a couple of times but I think she will get it after a while. Be persistent once she gets it try other moves

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A female reader, snowbird Canada +, writes (10 October 2006):

snowbird agony auntIs she selfish in other ways? Relationships are a 2-way thing, and EVERYTHING should be shared! Give AND take.. Any other way, resentment will build up over time and the rocky road lies ahead!

Ariel is right - communicate!

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A female reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (8 October 2006):

Ivanna22 agony auntoh gosh that's me right there. I always just lay there and I have actually thought about the same thing, that my boyfriend feels left out, but I don't know what to do to him besides oral sex. I feel selfish.

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A female reader, Katylouise +, writes (7 October 2006):

Your not in the wrong darl! sex or making love should always be two ways if someone wont give as much as they take then whats the point. I sometimes feel like more of a giver and dont recieve as much as id like which sort of makes it a turn off dont you think. Head to ann summers with your girlfriend next time you go shopping together and sugggest buying some edible goodies for you both dont be afraid just ask!

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A female reader, ali1987 +, writes (7 October 2006):

ali1987 agony aunti think you need to talk to her, after all it takes two to tango, your not asking too much at all. Sex is about pleasing one another not just her. try talking to her, get some advise from sex books on how to spice things up. maybe she will get the hint, try buying her some sexy underwear. if all this fails then maybe she isnt the right girl for you hunny.

all the best

xxx

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