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writes:hey, i need help! im a 16 yr old girl. i was in love with a guy, proper in love, we had soo many gd times together bt now all ive got is a broken heart. he used to tell me he loved me and that i was 'the one'. and i believed him and fell for him. we broke up nearly a month ago, he said he wanted to just b friends because it wasnt the same anymore, but he had replaced me within days of us breaking up. i still love him soo much and im rli hurting, an someone tell me the best and the quickest way to get over a boy? thank you xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): Hi(:
I think the only way to really get over a guy, is to find another. Its the only way really. Loves just a never ending spiral of days when you feel amazing, and ones when your heartbroken. This is until you find that 'one'.
So i say all you can do is continue, and find someone else(:
..It may take a while to get over this person.. even once youve found another. But you cant help that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): hun i had the same thing happen 2 me i still love n wat u shud do is just dnt think bout him n get someoneelse
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): im am goin throgh the same thang and its hard to get over a boy.cause im trying right not bt its not working.try nt 2 think bout him or talk to him an if still cant get over him den tell him how u feel maybe things will work out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): Hiyaa i just read your story and i think its ver sad =[.But you should try your best to get over him.If hes fine without you then you should be fine without him.Dont let him get to you.You only live once.Theres plenty more boys out there and yor still very young, so go out and start getting to know other boys, you will start to find it easier.Remember times a healer,it will get better. =].
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reader, supergrove +, writes (30 May 2008):
i know how you feel i went out with this guy for 4 months we were both head over hill about each other. he also used to tell me that i was the one and he wanted to marry and me and spend the rest of his life with me. he was so lovely he used tell me he loved me so much and he never ever wanted to lose me or let me go. but over the chirstmas hoilday i saw him we had a huge fight over that fact i couldn't see him as much cuz i was going away this chirstmas hoilday. so i went away and i hadn't spoken to him while i was away but wen i came back i found and email on my bebo saying from him that he couldn't do it no more and that he wanted to break up. he still wanted to be friends but i just couldn't do it. but then a week down the line i found out while i was on hoilday he was seeing my best friend in college. i was so mad i couldn't believe it my own best friendbut to get over a guy is to forget and live life their loads of guys out their. you've got to find him i never give up even tho i was in love wiv him i always have hope that some one will come a long and he would be just as g8 as the last guy i had .so get over a guy go out with you m8s have fun live life to the full. go partying meet new guys chat flirt and just for get about him to be honesty if he loved you that much he wouldn't had found a new girl in weeks after you've broken up so he aint worth crying over or even thinking bout. cuz i tell you wot he aint thinking bout you. i know it sound hash but it true you need to get one with you life and find some one better then him. wish you the best of luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Oh my god! Same. I went away for a week and before that i met up with my boyfriend (well ex boyfriend) and he was like 'i love sooo much, your the only one for me' ect and i let myself fall in love with him. I loved him alo, more then i've loved anyone for a while, i though it was perfect.... and he said that he would text me and everything. But like when i went he was like going to town and stuff with these girls from another school who have a reputation of being majorly flirty, and him and one of them got along really well. So when i came back, he was acting soooooooo differently! It was like we didn't connect like we used to. And i was getting really upset about it, becuase he didn't really talk to me anymore, not the way we used to be. So had to say something (becuase he kinda did the same thing with his ex girlfriend - the one before me, and that did not end well at all!) So i said something, but he was like 'oh, i don't think theres anything wrong between us, i still love you like loads and loads' so i believed him and i said sorry to him, and he didn't even say sorry back even though he knew that i had found out that him and that girl were gettin quite close.
The next day i was still really upset, and he was still acting really weirdly. Later that evening, i recieved a text from him, the text that was going to ruin my life ... He said something like 'i've been thinking about what you have said, and i think we should break up. Hope we can still be friends X' I WAS LIKE SOOO SHOCKED! I COULD NOT STOP CRYING AT ALL! And i still can't, i think about what we had every single day and i still cry about it even though it was like over a month ago! It still really upsets me as i thought he was actually perfect :'(. So i asked him when he started to realise that things wern't 'the same'. He texted me back saying.... 'since you went away for the week'. I WAS SOOOOO ANGRY at the point. He changed him view of me, his feelings about me in over a WEEK! I cried to my friend and it was such a sad day. And like a few days later, he's telling this other girl that he liked her, no, that he LOVED her! Even though she had a boyfriend.
I know how you feel, its the world's WORST feeling ever to get dumped, espically if you really love/d this person .. like i did. I think the best thing to do is o get all the crying out of the way then start to move on with you like. Im saying this... but i can't even seem to do it myself :S
Hope this helps, knowing your not alone AT ALL
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): For me, its the same...Kinda. I broke up with my boyfriend because i felt better as friends but then he started flirting with other girls and it really hurt. There was nothing i could do because we broke up. He told everyone that he really loved me and i was soo special to him but he just moved on too fast. What im doing may not be the best way to get over him but its working for me. I'm flirting with guys right in front of him and telling myself i can do better, after a couple weeks i started to blieve. I hope it works for you, but thats how i did it so...could luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): For me, its the same...Kinda. I broke up with my boyfriend because i felt better as friends but then he started flirting with other girls and it really hurt. There was nothing i could do because we broke up. He told everyone that he really loved me and i was soo special to him but he just moved on to fast. What im doing may not be the best way to get over him but its working for me. I'm flirting with guys right infront of him and telling myself i can do better, after a couple weeks i started to blieve. I hope it works for you, but thats how i did it so...could luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): yea that kinda happened to me... i was going out with some one for like 4 months and we broke up like 2 and half months ago and i still havent gotten over him :[ no one knows how i still feel about him because i know the only advice they could give me is the same thing everyone says, just not to talk to him or think about him. i liked this kid so much i did everything i could for him , and he cheated on my three times but i forgave him because i really liked him, but my jealous side came out when he would hang out with other girls and everything and i had no trust for him. when we fought i just didnt know what to do and he never realized how much it hurt me having him dump me..but now it seems like everything that happens reminds me of him. and worst of all my friend of 10 years is going out with him.. we're not friends anymore and i feel really backstabbed... if anyone has any advicee or somthingg it would be really helpful .. thanks:]
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): exactly the same thing happened to me. hang out with your mates, gets your mind off the bastard. try not to dwell on it like i was and still am cos its not helping. i refer to him as ****. that helps with my anger! haha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): try to stop thinkin about him .....do somthing that intrests yew the most and spand more times with your frends dnt be sad that itz over be happy dat it happened..........ask ur frendz for more advise.
hope i helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): heyy i no how you feel im a 'break' with my bf and im having the same problem
one way to get over him show him your happy and you dont need him
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): i know exactly what you are talking about. i went out with this boy for 4 months, not that long, but i was in love. All my friends said "you don't know what love is your only 15. but when you know, you know. trust me. we fought alot but nothing big. we broke up just over 2 months ago. i cry every single night, i don't do anything the same. i miss him so much, i wait for him to call every night but he doesn't. no ones advice helps, but i hope mine will. i am still in love with him, and my life has changed so much since we broke up. i even hooked up with another guy to get over him but it just made me miss him more. don't write 10 things down about how he isn't worth it cause then you'll feel guilty. don't try and forget about him, because you shouldn't ignore people that were put in your path, because they were put there for a reason.
you don't need to get over him, theres no rule. take all the time in the world. im still friends with him, and most people would think thats bad, but its better than not talking to him at all. so best way to get over him? not to. you will on your own don't force it, it will take a LOOONG time but it will eventually happen, don't go looking for another boy, concentrate on what matters: school friends ect, he will come to you. trust me:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): yea me and my boyfriend broke up like 2 months ago and we were going out for like 8 months .. once we broke up i thought it would be better since we fought all the time but it wasnt. i went out with someone else to try and get ver him nd it didnt really work ... i broke up up with the other kid because i didnt have any feelings for him anymore and all i could think about was my other ex . i dont know why i cant get over him because this hasnt happened before. and seeing him with other girls in the halls and him and my friend since i have known since i was bron were hooking up for like a month and it made me so depressed i couldnt even deal with it anymore, but now everyone tells me im acting different ecause i cant get over him and im not really happy anymore nd i have no idea what to do :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): Just do what he did find somebody else like he did cause i was in a same situation but the boy we were really close friends and he asked me to go wit him and i did not anwser so to him that was a yes and a no.But after that we became closer but one day i was out of school sick and he asked my best friend/sister to go wit him after she had broke up with his best friend /brother and she said yes so now they go together.And me and his best friend/brother are off and on going together. But the way i got over it was just go your separte ways and now i am about to leave to go to live in california and he calls me and tells me he is going to miss me and i asked he why now why miss me now you did not before when you asked my best friend/sister to go wit you and he explained why so i said ok and i was thinking he still has feelings for me and i askd him did he still have feelings for me and he told the truth and said yes i do he told me he can't stop thinking about me and girl he is going wit is nothing better than me. Last we went to a movie and he tried to kiss me isn't that something after all that he tried to kiss me. SHAME! But the best way is to go your separte ways!
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reader, jenxleigh  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 hey , like alot of poeple say. it takes time, yes it will be hard in the beginning but you have too move on. Your going to have to go out with your freinds and hang with other boys. Try as hard as you can not to think about him. I would remove all the pictures or anything else you have with him , too try and forget about it all. Everything happens for a reason, so clearly it was not supposed to be. in a few months if you still find your self stuck on him i think you should tell him how you feel, give him a call.
- there are some good songs, quotes that are helpful also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): hi i havent long turned 17 like a week ago lolz.. enyway i had a bf we was going out 2 years and a half and out of the blue he dumped me!!
i was soo heart broken i didnt know what to do.. i cryed 4 days.
but bout 2 months after he gota gf i was like omg what the hell.. soo i thaught to myself y am i sittin here crying when hes got another girl??
so i piked my self up and looked 4 a boy..i found one amazing boy he treats me right and everything you could want from a boy..:D
n now the boy i was with 4 nearly 3 yrs has dumped his gf and is saying his heads all messed up and he loves me still haha..
sooo i guess the answer is get a new bf.. but saying that i still have feelings 4 that boy they dont go easy
hope this has helped love jodiee xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): hey...=]
am 16 year old and i have had a few boyfriends but none of them were really anythin specail.
but i started tokin to this boy that i used to really like again, we were just txtin n he phned me sumtimes, but he asked me up to his house i went, and he was always hugging me n kissing me,that was about a week ago and i havent heard from him since and i know a week isnt a long time but we used to text each other all the time, and its reeli hard coz i reeli like him and he told me he reeli liked me, and i guesse a was just stupid enough to believe him...i have told my best friend whats goin on and hes reeli helpin me, teling me i can do better, i suppose all we can do is let time fix it, and listen to our friends. but i dont think its a good idea to go into another realation ship just to get over him because that boy you use to do that might end up just as hurt as you are now...good luck chick xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): I no how you feel completely, the best thing to do is to,go out with the girls you love(best mates ) or family, who ever you feel very happy with do something you'd never do before, when you were with him,like jump out of a helicopter (lol suggestion), if you do it it will be a way of letting him go, and not needing him,write down 10 things why he isn't worth it before you go out, have fun!The worst thing you can do is act like your bothered and hurt, just act asif he is totally not worth the hassle, and think that to yourself, lots of luve .x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): hello x
i feel really sorry for you, the best way i find, is have a group of your best mates over with some chickflicks, PJ day, ice cream, popcorn ect ect, Makeovers, that sort of thing usually helps me
i am just trying to get over a heartbreak issue too xx
good lucck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): I know its hard and people will say oh just stop thinking about him but you cant because you genuinely loved him. But he can break up and move on so quickly , why cant you? Be friends with him and you know what, show him what he is missing !
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008): stop thinking about him,
if it didnt work the firt time why would it work the second?
dont stress yourself over ir
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): Of course breaking up with someone is going to be hard there is no way of getting over someone quickly but there are some things to help it hurt less, I just recently broke up with my fiancee, I was and still am madly in love with him but things just weren't working out. Yes I cried my eyes out for days, stayed in my pyjamas for basically a week and felt sorry for myself, thats the worst part over what to do next is to meet your friends in town get your hair done, get a new outfit get a new look, hit the town flirt with all the guys you see and soon you'll be wondering what have I been doing for the past however long? because when you do this you'll see there are just as many guys waiting out there just wanting to talk to you and get to know you. It really does help to find someone new just to text and take your mind off things and then you'll realise your not waiting by the phone for your ex to call anymore, your waiting for your new guy to call,thats when you know things are gettin better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): i am 15 and i was soo in love wid this boy i was going out wid him in october last yr and he dumped me the day before it would have been a month and i suppose i never really showed him enough love which still gets me sad but i suppose you never realise what you had untill it has gone and i really do no wot its all about i have cried so many times over this boy and i just cant take it anymore really it hurts me having to see him every single day i see him and it makes me hurt deep down inside and hearing his voice louder above a crowded class room but he does not want to no me anymore i am just a blurred vision for that boy the thing that annyos me most is that most adults do not remember how hard it is to be in love at this age and they just tell us to move on but what if we are really stuck what do we do i am stuck in this situatuon and i realy do not no what to do anymore it brings me down to feel this way and i just cant handle this any longer
my friends tell me to go for this outher boy that likes me but i do not think i am ready i do not no wot to do eny longer all i remember was all the good tyms but i am scared and i need some good advice please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008): I know exactly how your felling.
I had a boyfried, but he dumped me twice!
I was heart-broken.
He always told me that he loved me, and that i wasn't like any of his other gf.
My freinds helped me throught it.
i got over him, and i feel great!
you just have to tell yourself, that you dont need him.
i know it hard, but you will eventaully get over him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): I'm 20 i was with my boyfriend for two years and ten months we broke up two months before our three years. He was my first boyfriend, my first love, my first everything. i loved him so much. But he constantly brought me down. Honestly getting over someone is not easy. It takes time. It takes a long time. I wanted to be with him so bad i went to him and begged for him to come back. He told me he had been with two other girls already and such. My heart felt like it was being torn out. I cried and cried. You tell yourself you don't need him. You tell yourself he wasn't worth it. But guess what in the end it doesn't work. You have to get them out of your lives entirely. Don't pick up if he calls. don't go to places that he might be at. Don't talk to his friends. You have to ignore everything a 100 percent if you don't you will be constantly reminded constantly going back. Yes even doing this; you will think about him once in a while but as the weeks go by. It'll slowly fade away with new memories.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): ok to get ova a boy is quite hard especially if uve bin with him 4 a while but u have to follow the cliches of how to get ova him. you are obviously guna hurt n everything but i feel to get over him you firstly need to block him out of your mind. then you need to get a really soppy movie or a rerun like friends or the vicar of dibly summin like dat n just have a good cry eat chocolatte or ice cream and chill give ya self a makeover. when u have got over the crying bit you need to go out on a girly day out go shopping or something and have fun even flirt with other boys if you feel up to it then go to someones house for a sleepover and do the reruns and everything again have a makeover n do hobbys and things you enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): Im 16 I have been with my boyfriend 2 years well it would be today, he broke up with me 2days ago. He said if he did it now then it wouldn't hurt me as much. I asked him why he wanted to and he just said he is getting bored of me because all we do it stay at his house. I said i often ask you if you wanna go for a walk and he did once down the beach at sunset thats were we first kissed.. I was 14 then. After he dumped me the day it would of been 2years he got a girlfriend and said hes going to start a new life the same day he started one with me. After a few days he told me he had dumped her and wanted to get back together. I said ok and we did. Later on tho I heard his phone go off he told me not to get it but i was just going to say who it was off. I soon found out it was off his so called Ex girlfriend who he was with when we first broke up. I read it wonderin what it said... it said " hey baby, cant wait for tonight i have brought a new outfit and i have got a few more toys..." I asked him what it was about. I Soon found out not only was he cheating on us both but he was still sleeping with her when he asked me out.
I dunno what to do... do i get revenge or do i ust leave it. My heart hurts so much. An i still love him so much i just dont think he realises!
Help ='[
Scarlet
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): WELL IM IN THE EXACT SITUATION AS YOU AND TO BE HONEST IM NOT TO SURE WHAT TO DO I THINK YOU NEED TO BE BUSY ALL THE TIME GO OUT HAVE A GOOD TIME AND TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT IT AND MAYBE TO MOVE ON FROM HIM YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE NEW BECAUSE FOR ME WHEN I THINK IVE MOVED ON SOMETHING ALWAYS HAPPENS TO MAKE ME MISS THE BOY BUT YOU JUST NED TO HAVE FUN YOUR YOUNG AND WE SHOULDNT BE STRESSED OUT ITS ABOUT HAVING A GOOD TIME(please use lower case next time)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): hiya...im 14 and i might seem young but believe me when i say i no how you feel!during the summer i went to irish colage and well i really liked this guy and he liked me too...less then a week into it he started texting me nd stuff and after the ceili one night i met him and that night he asked me to go with him but i didn't get the message till the next day becouse they used to take our fones off us at night...that next day i didn't talk to him much and i guess he thought i didn't like him!anyway it turned out he liked this other girl too and for the next week he went out with her...it was the most deppressing week of my life,turned out he got sick of her becouse she wouldn't meet him and he was telling the girls in my house that he really liked me again... then when that girl finaly met him he broke up with her it was kind of unfair but i was delighted!he asked me to meet him again but i wasn't sure... well i said i would nd i did and that last week was the best iv ever had he kept asking me to go out with him but i didn't trust him so i kept making up excuses...on the last night there was a disco haha,it was unreal! that night when we were walking home the he was kind of hinting towards asking me out one last time and he did and i thought to myself...well if hes asking me out now and its the end of i.colage then hes not just useing me and he didn't just want someone while he was there so i said ya...i couldn't have been happier either!.......we left for home early the next morning i think it was wednesday and we had an irish colage re-union that friday anyway between that day and the end of july i only saw him 3 times becouse i wasn't in cork all summer and then we broke up cos we said there was no point cos i wasn't in cork for any of august but we were going to get back together after the summer anyway he text me that night but it was for another girl asking to go out with him i got really pissed of and i said i wasn't geting back with him...when i got back to cork after the summer he asked me if he had a chance and i kept saying mabye i dont no and then he stoped...im still in love,the days i spent with him were the best im still not over it and im far from it i just wanted to tell you my story so that you no your not the only one out there...and dont worry it will pass in time even i can say that and believe me it really helps jus to have good friends that will be there for you when your down and cheer you up and jus to get ur mind of him think about other guys that u'd like and remember everything happens 4 a reason like,as much as you don't want to hear this you're probably noy ment to be together after all and u'll accept that over time...dont worry about it your going to find someone better!remember at the end of the day hes not worth your tears or your miserie...u'll be grand,hope i helped xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2007): Sometimes fallin in love is faster than fallin out of love, but trust me no man is worth crying over. I was going out with this guy that meant the world to me we broke up 6 months ago and im more in love now than ever and he also loves me too but he did things that really hurt me so i have to give my self respect as well as you .
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): This is what everyone forgets to do........... STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM............... when you get those thoughts in your head about all of the good times you two shared change subjects.......... its hard but if you pratice it you'll get used to not thinking about him ne more......... theres no such thing as quickly getting over someone if you want me to be honest with you.... im sorry its just not......... unless magically someone else more loveable then him comes into the picture......... do things that you wish you could do that you couldnt when u two were together.. whats wrong with a little flirting.... but have some self control.... go treat yourself to something nice, take a nice aromic bath with some nice soap or bath salts...... make sure its hot so you can relieve some of that tension...... even if when you get out he's still on your mind you'll feel alot better...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): Me and my boyfriend broke up two weeks ago..we wer like best friends and it was such a shock..now all he does is go out with his mates.. thats what you should do.. we was together 15 months. and now i feel like we shudnt break up.. but its life and u learn from experiences. If hes with another girl already is he reali worth it?? i dont think so.. download pussy cat girls song i dont need a man.. and leanne rhyms song life goes on! it helps!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): that must b so horrible. Something like that happened to me the boy i was really in love with a boy and one day i looked out my form romm window and saw him walking along wit another gal and his back was to the window and the girl was in front of him and i saw him bend over so of course i thought they were snogging and then when i saw them walkin bac then she went up against a wall and their heads were really close. Im not the stalkin type but im glad i saw what i did in a way. But when he got on the bus he looked straight past and i still havnt said anythin and this happened on the 2nd of november!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): Sounds like a real problem, but you just should go out and have the most fun you can! Hang out with big groups of girls and guys, and just don't spend time alone at home doing nothing, thinking about it!!
Just remember, HAVE FUN!!
Best of luck!!! :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): well i know how u fell.. the same thing happend to me...
what helped me is i told him.. he said that he is sorry but dont he dont fill that way anymore... it hurts realy bad but it will get better some....
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): I was with my boyfriend for 2 years and i split up with him 5 weeks ago i still love him so much and we have still been talkin but i made sure i didnt meet him because he has treated me like shit the hole time i was with him, for 2 years, lyeing , beat me up and he does loads of drugs. Even though i split up with him, i am so upset now he is seeing a 14 year old he is still texting me telling me he loves me even though he is with someone else. It is killing me but i no i dont wont to get back with him but i just cant forget him because he has been there for me through everything! Please help i dont no what to. I just need to get over him because i no he hasent worth it but i love him!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): Hey! I'm so sorry about what happened! It's a lot to go through i know! I'm going through something like that right now! except in my case it was all my fault. So i have to live with the guilt as well. Even though I am truly sorry. The only advice I can give would be to give it time. If you want to get back together with him, give him time to miss you. Don't keep trying to talk to him. Just give it time. I know it's painful, but that is the only thing you can do. Life is hard at times, but your not alone. Try not to think about it. I wish you the best! xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): I can tell you the best way to get over him. Have lots of friends.D the same things you were doing before you met him so he would not cross your mind. Be a very outgoing person and trust me you will find someone better. Look at it this way the lord must've didn't want ya'll together because it didn't work. I lord has someone for everyone he is not the only one you will find someone better believe me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2007): i'm going through the same stage as you now, i have strong friends around me who hate him for what he did to me. Mine was abusive and totally knocked my confidence, at 14 you wouldn't expect this, but it happened to me. i deleted his number and cut myself off from him as much as i could. however 2 months on now i still can't get him out of my head, nor forget how much i love him despite what he did.
love is a tricky feeling to cope with, but my advise would be you can't "just be friends" you'll always feel more, so delete his number, msn, myspace, facebook + any other way of contacting. put pictures and memories and whatever else you may have that remind you of him in a box and give it to a close friend. this way they aren't lost forever hower you wont be able to get them out and look at them and remind you of him, but have them back in the future when you may want to look back on things.
then just go out with your friends on girly nights out and do whatever you can to have fun
make sure you talk about it with someone too, that helps so you aren't all bottled up
and what i found helped was making a list of his negative points (trust me the list is long) and just look at them when i start to think he is a nice guy.
i'm still not there but i'm hoping soon i will be able to move on
i hope everything goes okay
and that my advice helped you
remember though, you are never alone
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): what you need to do is: if you know for a fact you can't get over him, make him jealous. If he doesn't get jealous then try to get him out of your head and go out to meet guys. Don't try to look for a realationship, jus have fun. Every girl falls in love and gets the heart broken, so just show what u r made of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): i think the best way to get over a boy is by doing the things that interest you most. this way its taking your mind off of him. or you could even start up something new.either way its going to take a while for your heart to heal. just let it do it by itself, and if crying helps, just do it. ^^hope this helpedlittle miss carnagex
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): this is really silly but i went on holiday with my friend and i met a lad there in a bar that he works in and he just had the charms and we shared kisses but i know that was all he wanted he gav eme his e mail and hasnt replyed to any of my emails and im really falling for him i know its impossible because he lives in a different country but al ive got to tell my self is you learn from different people you've been with i try laugh it of and say yeah it was fun at the time he was nice and i will meet some1 else jus now im young im 16 andi will look back and think it was a fuin holiday and thats it so you girls shud nt stress out on those boys you think you can trust , you trust yourself what come around goes around it wil bite them on the arse 1 way your here for a reason in this world not for the reason for some nob to walk al over u
think about what i sed i hope i helped x x x x x x
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