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My ex was asking me to do things with him, ever since he was with someone else. What do I do?

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Question - (6 October 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2006)
A female United States, anonymous writes:

A long weekend's ahead and part of me is happy, but

part of me is dreading it. My sort-of-ex boyfriend

had been asking me to do things with him more than

ever since he divulged his interest in someone else.

I don't even know when he has time to see her!

So does he think he can see me 'coz I've been

alerted to his confusion? I feel like a fool.

I should go away, but also feel I should stay

in the competition! HELP!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006):

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Maybe I just can't see myself, or maybe I ask the question wrong.

I want to say that it IS possible to win back your man, like

in the movie High Fidelity. But my emotions are a roller coaster,

I can't even look at another guy. I feel like his heart is in my chest.

Maybe it's like a husband cheating on his wife having to do with

his manhood and libertine cuteness.

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A female reader, Helen1986 United Kingdom +, writes (6 October 2006):

Helen1986 agony auntTo be honest he is using you! Tell him where to go. He is being selfish and is loving the fact that he has two women. Just blow him off. He needs to be taken down a peg or two.

Honestly hunny you are worth more than this, find a man who will treat you with some respect and who will only want you.

Take care hunny

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A female reader, Katylouise +, writes (6 October 2006):

Girl dont get involved with your ex! I myself know only too well the trouble getting involved with an ex can bring. When you love your ex you think that by sleeping with him or being around him still will make him want you back it wont, trust me. The best thing you can do is act like your not interested act like your busy and you havent got time for him that was he'llbe taken aback and be suddenly want to know whats more interesting than him! Trust me it has good effects.

Good luck

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